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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

There isnt really a set limit

600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"There isnt really a set limit

600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it "

See you at around 10am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No limit think I would travel 600miles if I really fancied them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Depends on who it was, and what was offered. But if it's just me without my wife, not very far to be honest.

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

600 miles??? For a one off meet, Christ we wouldn’t do that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done a 600 mile round trip before now. I used to regularly drive 2 hours when my ex, who I met on here, was still an fb. I really don't mind the driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time meets there are limits, I've driven to Bournemouth from home, so 50 miles, but not sure if to any further. Drive to Swindon once, same distance, only for the woman to say changed her mind when texted to say I'd arrived.

If it was someone is already met or knew there'd be no limit to distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done a 600 mile round trip before now. I used to regularly drive 2 hours when my ex, who I met on here, was still an fb. I really don't mind the driving."

Snap! Plus I love getting to know new people

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis? "

25 miles i reckon.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"600 miles??? For a one off meet, Christ we wouldn’t do that lol "

Yeah but from that I've now met them several times over the last 3 years so it worked out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve travelled 1000 miles to get fucked

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis?

25 miles i reckon. "

So someone would be shit outta luck if 27 miles away?

What I don't get it putting a mileage to it.

I've guys live 10-15 miles from me who complain it's a trek and too much to drive half an hour yet others who will drive 3 hours. 90+ miles

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"There isnt really a set limit

600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it

See you at around 10am... "

Am I road tripping again??

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"600 miles??? For a one off meet, Christ we wouldn’t do that lol

Yeah but from that I've now met them several times over the last 3 years so it worked out "

Glad it worked out, but still think 600 miles is a long way to travel to meet someone for the first time, unless you happen to be travelling there for a secondary reason like holiday or work?

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Depends on who but no limit really

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I’ve travelled 1000 miles to get fucked "

Keene, how desperate were you lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily drive to Dublin for a meet, for a one off though with someone I really fancied I wouldn't mind getting on a plane

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Yes, it is first time meets we are asking about, not people or couples meeting on a regular or ongoing basis?

25 miles i reckon.

So someone would be shit outta luck if 27 miles away?

What I don't get it putting a mileage to it.

I've guys live 10-15 miles from me who complain it's a trek and too much to drive half an hour yet others who will drive 3 hours. 90+ miles"

I was just thinking that 2 major towns are about that distance away, so i might end up travelling about that distance. Southampton and basingstoke. It was just a ball park figure.

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By *nsatiable_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere down south


"There isnt really a set limit

600 miles has been my longest so far. Def worth it and met more than once. Used to do a 90 mile round trip almost daily at one point. Currently I'd say 2-3 hrs travel but only if worth it "

If I'm travelling 2-3 hours I prefer an overnighter TBH and that's only if I've met them socially first

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

But if you’ve met them socially then it isn’t a first meet lol

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I would happily drive to Dublin for a meet, for a one off though with someone I really fancied I wouldn't mind getting on a plane "

What if you got a plane and then when you got there the other fab member decided there was no chemistry??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the state of the woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 minutes

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I would happily drive to Dublin for a meet, for a one off though with someone I really fancied I wouldn't mind getting on a plane

What if you got a plane and then when you got there the other fab member decided there was no chemistry??"

Then you make best of and have a social then part ways. Go explore where you are and have a good time.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Not far.

Probably go further if I didn’t have children to get back for.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I'd say an hour or so one way so maybe 50 miles for a first meet. Of course if met before it could maybe be overnight so no real problem with distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done 200 round trip for a waste of time. Would be more selective and careful next time.

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By *igboobstCouple
over a year ago

barrow

100 mile if it was a sure thing or a club meet with an overnight stop 50 mile of there wasn’t a hotel involved

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"10 minutes "

Do you live next door lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

120 miles.... and then when I messaged to say I'm sat in the pub... they went unlos!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d travel to Scotland for a certain hot lady

You know who you are

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Depends on how the mood takes all parties involved.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

1 hour max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my couch to the front door

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"From my couch to the front door "

Knock knock

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

A one off meet and I'm not there for work or anything? Depends on how much I like them. 90 miles? I don't know. I quite like driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my couch to the front door

Knock knock "

It’s open couldn’t be bothered moving

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It's going to depend on personal circumstances. If you're single (let's face it, most of you are) then you'll be inclined to travel further. As a couple, we have travelled 2 or 3 hours to go to clubs together. But would i do that on my own? No.

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"From my couch to the front door

Knock knock

It’s open couldn’t be bothered moving "

charming......I was at the wrong house....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From my couch to the front door

Knock knock

It’s open couldn’t be bothered moving

charming......I was at the wrong house.... "

Damn, need to stop being lazy

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't, I'm not interested in one offs.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

It all depends on the connection really, I'd be willing to do some travelling and more than once too for same person/couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a first time, where there is significant verification that we aren't wasting our time, 100 miles would probably be the limit.

If it was someone we knew, we'd go further and probably stay over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey??? "

Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Wexford to Manchester via Dublin.... And yes... It was worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like 10/15 miles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milan to Finchley was my longest detour

It started with an early morning message from me

'Why are you bored?'

(It wasn't from here, so I can say (I hope I can anyway) that his username was 'bored')

Same night I was sat in his lounge and later in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have travelled up to 50 miles. But prefer local hotwives so I can take care of them on a regular basis

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???

Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count? "

No. It wasn't a one off.

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Impressed - there are some serious sex commuters here lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey???

Years ago I got friendly with an American and often met her when I was in the states. Didnt specifically go to meet her but always met her while I was there for some filthy fun. Does that count?

Oh dear - dead right. Lazy reading and I missed the whole point

No. It wasn't a one off."

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd."

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

I driven 200 miles for a meet not from fab though

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x "

Maybe people drive to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only travelled long distant for socials. For meets 50 miles tops. I mostly meet at mine these days as don't like hotels.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"I've only travelled long distant for socials. For meets 50 miles tops. I mostly meet at mine these days as don't like hotels."

I would drive 200 miles for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 minutes

Do you live next door lol "

10 minutes driving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Milan to Finchley was my longest detour

It started with an early morning message from me

'Why are you bored?'

(It wasn't from here, so I can say (I hope I can anyway) that his username was 'bored')

Same night I was sat in his lounge and later in bed "

Was he boring?

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends how long I'd been wanting to get with them,always up for a road trip

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

So how long equals 600 miles lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He drove an 8 hour round trip to meet me for coffee x

Saff

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

How far is london to glasgow and a little bit further...

And back?

However far that is...

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

100 miles, or just over, round trip I've done x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

So how long equals 600 miles lol x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

3,000 miles Cyprus ... back for 4th time in a week ... worked out more than a one off

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x "

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I flew to the Chanel islands!

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

"

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons???? "

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't do first full meets. But I also rarely go beyond an hour's travel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour for a first meet but after that who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 mile limit for me, anything further is just toooooooooooo much!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Not too far...the andromeda galaxy probably. I'd have to stop for a tea break after 1 million light years though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a young man travelled two hours to me for a fuck. Then two hours home again. It was an outdoor meet.

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Surely ALL meetings start as a one off, so where's the difference. I've done an hours' drive to sit and twiddle my thumbs and find a message at home that she didn't think I looked like my photos. I was pi****d at that I must admit.

I've also done two plus hours' drive for a lunch that became an overnight, followed by three weekends. And have more than once done an hour plus for first meets that have been great. So, "yer pays yer money and yer takes yer choice"

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally "

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 hour drive has been my furthest. I meet an, American. woman in, Sheffield. And ended up spending the weekend with her.

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By *on a MangerMan
over a year ago

somerset/Bristol


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before."

Game set and match

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Not averse to travelling.... tempt me !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naughty play

I’d travel ... I’ve no qualms about doing it

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By *actilemale4uMan
over a year ago

London

All the way

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Spain for 10 days and yes he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over an hour one way. Must of been worth it as then they travel over here.??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20 miles MAX and, even that is pushing it to be honest.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

3400 miles. It was the best holiday I've had in a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do a 'one off meet' but the ex fwb was a 280 mile 5hour round trip.

The current fwb is 90 mile 2ish hour round trip.

I'm happy to travel for the right guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of hours, maybe more...

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"A couple of hours, maybe more..."

How about just down the road?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a 180 mile trip for a lunchtime social with a woman for her birthday. Furthest horizontal meet was 90 mile round trip.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the distance, its the person....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm reasonably open minded but usually don't travel. An hours travel is nothing, for example and can be part of a short trip out. Some used to travel for miles, camp out at a store overnight, just to get an iPhone, so I consider equivalent effort for someone who is going to be better than a little phone, to be realistic. Not that I ever bought one, mind.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

London. And yes it was.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I'm open minded to travelling for the right person. The furthest I have gone so far is 500 mile round trip and was definitely worth it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"20 miles MAX and, even that is pushing it to be honest."

Yeah it’s a fair way to cycle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 doors down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve driven 3 hours before and was well worth it x. Happily do it again

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

No limit for me especially if I turns into a full weekend of rampant sex

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before."

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"a young man travelled two hours to me for a fuck. Then two hours home again. It was an outdoor meet."

Good gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???"

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?"

Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Depends on who but no limit really "

This.

Find it strange that some won't even travel 30 miles, but nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know someone who won't even get out of bed to answer the door

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, we find that strange too, we spend about twenty hours a week travelling for work, so a couple of hours drive for sexy fun is no problem at all x

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Yes, we find that strange too, we spend about twenty hours a week travelling for work, so a couple of hours drive for sexy fun is no problem at all x "

I drive a truck, so adding on a few hours of my life in a car isn't really much!

But at same time, if local would probably walk as having driven all day, stretching legs is good!

So if walking 1 mile

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Now not far lol in the early days whatever it took HaHa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?

Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion. "

So what is a swinger?

There are many different descriptions. What is yours?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"How far would you go for a one off meet if there was potential for nawty play, and we are talking distance, or, what’s the furthest you’ve travelled for a meet and was it worth the journey??? "

So far, about 200 miles. Was worth it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to meet at mine, so not very far!

Would definitely travel to Wales to meet F&B though

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Probably about an hour and a half.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I don’t set a limit, if it feels right, I do it

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

If you want to meet then you can sort it. You both have to want to do it though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t set a limit, if it feels right, I do it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to meet then you can sort it. You both have to want to do it though "

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By *ungscotsman26Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

1 hour drive for me.

See too many stories on here about people getting let down last minute. Imagine going hundreds of miles to be let down.

Also just too busy to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance doesn't really matter if you plan it in advance.

But would have to be someone I have chatted to for a while if it's was more than a hours drive away.

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By *earded GentlemanMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Yea I drove 200 miles to a meet then back again after hours of naughtiness, would happly travel again for meets as for what I would do , always play safe and the rest depends on the persons interests and desires x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

About 3 steps to the left....

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Living in the midlands no where is too far however I would have to be really sure they were worth travelling for

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"Now not far lol in the early days whatever it took HaHa "

Ok then, we’ll drive to you if we must (ha ha)

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We'll be doing a round trip of 240 mile next week to go to a club so we are hoping there is some fun waiting lol

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?

Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.

So what is a swinger?

There are many different descriptions. What is yours?"

An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is.....

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"If you want to meet then you can sort it. You both have to want to do it though "

Spot on

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By *noops123Man
over a year ago

yeo

I would walk 500 miles .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?

Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.

So what is a swinger?

There are many different descriptions. What is yours?

An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is..... "

Do a thread.

Fuck buddies and fwb are different, I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk 500 miles

....and I would walk 500 more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having previiusly travelled 150 miles (each way) to a meet, only to be told by text when I got there and was waiting that they "had to go to their mothers", not very far. Wouldnt do that again unless I happened to be heading that way anyway (my work takes me all over the country).

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"I wouldn't for a one-off drive up the rd.

Maybe why you only have one verification and that was in 2017 pmsl x

Ever so slightly arrogant and superior!

I think the crux here is one off... the point being some people dont want a one off.

Maybe not, but that’s the question that was asked, simples x

Ps. Also not sure that one meet in four years can be classed as swinging, especially if it’s too singletons????

Why do you think it's only one meet in four years? It could be that it's the only one displayed

I wouldn't travel far personally

Firstly I've not been here for 4 years and what I do isn't anyone else's business if I hide them. I'm not a swinger thats for sure your right about that. I'm not interested in one-offs so I wouldn't travel up the rd as I said before.

Interesting, can we ask them why you have joined a swingers site? And yes, it is a swingers site, the clue is in the name? Our default position is to assume anyone here is a swinger - if not shouldn’t you just be in a standard dating site, or tinder, or POF or something???

What is a swinger? What is the difference between this site and a "standard dating site"?

Anyone that doesn’t know what a swinger is shouldn’t really join a swingers site on our opinion.... probably get stated for that, but that’s the truth in our honest opinion.

So what is a swinger?

There are many different descriptions. What is yours?

An official description of swinging is as follows. Swinging can take place in a number of contexts, ranging from spontaneous sexual activity involving partner swapping or adding a third or more participants at an informal gathering of friends to planned regular social meetings to "hooking up" with like-minded people at a sex club.what swinging isn’t is just having a one on one friend with benefits. That’s just called having a fuck buddy. Starting to think we should start a separate threat on people’s different interpretation of what swinging is.....

Do a thread.

Fuck buddies and fwb are different, I agree. "

Thank you x

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"Having previiusly travelled 150 miles (each way) to a meet, only to be told by text when I got there and was waiting that they "had to go to their mothers", not very far. Wouldnt do that again unless I happened to be heading that way anyway (my work takes me all over the country)."

And this is the exact crux of the question and why we wondered how far people would travel for a one off or first meet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never go outside the city I live in for a meet. If I'm getting a holiday out of it then yes I might travel afar but not for a sex meet that's just insane.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Living in the midlands no where is too far however I would have to be really sure they were worth travelling for "

True! Being in the Midlands means everything is closer. It's all local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I used to live in London I drove to Scotland. Approx 600 miles. An exciting road trip and well worth it. That was the start for the return visit to the magical Highlands

That has been my longest road trip. There is no limit on miles/distance for me because I enjoy travelling. Looking forward to months ahead...

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

When I was single I drove from Preston to Newbury for an overnight stay.

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By *awty_twosome OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"When I was single I drove from Preston to Newbury for an overnight stay. "

If we drove to penwrotham would we get a bed for the night lol

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