FabSwingers.com forum: Diva

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for years, but since rejoining all I seem to get is abuse, does my profile make me sound like a diva?

I thought it just made it clear what I was looking for, please correct me if I'm wrong and advise.

No I can't have public pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't sound very friendly

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Might be an idea to share your type. Otherwise how will they know.

An avatar of something would be better, even if it's a shoe....

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

"Might be an idea to share your type. Otherwise how will they know.

An avatar of something would be better, even if it's a shoe...."

Exactly this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might be an idea to share your type. Otherwise how will they know.

An avatar of something would be better, even if it's a shoe...."

Ahhhh but what colour?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's abrupt and to the point but comes across as at best unapproachable.

I wouldn't message you and if this was a man asking they'd be torn to shreds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet."

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't message that profile

It's not the lack of pics, it's the tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very unfriendly and negative if I'm honest. An avitar picture is a must, iv had one with just my wolly socked feet showing.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

The bit about you being picky does make you sound like you're up your own arse... Sorry to be blunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative"

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative.. "

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative.. "

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can only speak for myself. There's a line in there that'd stop me sending you a message.

Otherwise it's the same as a lot of women's profiles on here. At least you wrote something, most don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

Look at mine, you are wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only way to beat negativity is to be positive or walk away.....

.....telling ppl they're negative is, you guessed it.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As someone has already said, how would anybody know what your type is? It would put most blokes off from messaging I would imagine, including myself.

Best of luck anyway OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it. "

Once again I agree

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

To be fair I never look at other women's profiles.. I just assume they're clear with the amount of moaning about rubbish messages.. mine was very informative.. before I deleted it for Taylor swift..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

To be fair I never look at other women's profiles.. I just assume they're clear with the amount of moaning about rubbish messages.. mine was very informative.. before I deleted it for Taylor swift.. "

Sign your work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

Taylor swift? Wtf has..... Forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts. "

Who me?

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"I can only speak for myself. There's a line in there that'd stop me sending you a message.

Otherwise it's the same as a lot of women's profiles on here. At least you wrote something, most don't bother.

Which line?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negative bio, negative status update, humourless, what’s not to love.

How about saying what your type is, then men know if they fit the bill or not and will save wasting their time.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts.

Who me? "

Oh no

This post authors profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh I probably messaged you out of chance, I cant remember that far back #shorttermmemory but it is quite blunt, and although I respect that us guys who like making a message and fuss out of you need something g to work with, creative messages dont just come like that, they're based on opinions and comon I terests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

I agree,you choose 3 random women's profile now,and tell me I'm wrong

Wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts.

Who me?

Oh no

This post authors profile. "

Oh good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it. "

This profile is fun and engaging, good pictures and telling us what she wants! I know shes now having relatively committed fun and only hate for forums and friends, easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way your profile looks now my first thoughts are you’re possibly a fake, a man posing as a women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it.

This profile is fun and engaging, good pictures and telling us what she wants! I know shes now having relatively committed fun and only hate for forums and friends, easy

What does this

emoji mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts. "

Please explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it.

This profile is fun and engaging, good pictures and telling us what she wants! I know shes now having relatively committed fun and only hate for forums and friends, easy

What does this

emoji mean? "

I'm so glad someone asked that as I thought I was just being thick!

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I blocked your profile few days ago because of your insensitive posts.

Who me?

Oh no

This post authors profile.

Oh good

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it.

This profile is fun and engaging, good pictures and telling us what she wants! I know shes now having relatively committed fun and only hate for forums and friends, easy

What does this

emoji mean?

I'm so glad someone asked that as I thought I was just being thick!

It’s a little light bulb so it might mean bright idea etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only speak for myself. There's a line in there that'd stop me sending you a message.

Otherwise it's the same as a lot of women's profiles on here. At least you wrote something, most don't bother.

Which line?"

She removed it. OP.. There is no right or wrong way to write a profile. Just think about the kind of person you want to meet and write something that'd attract them.

Or do what I'd do if I were a woman. Block EVERYONE and just search for the type of men who grab my attention. I've not got the time or inclination to filter through a bunch of Bullshit creepy messages. I get enough of that as a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very don't want as opposed to do want.. not the most approachable profile if you're looking to meet.

Most womens profiles iv Read have'dont want this and don't want that' some are very very negative

There's ways of being clear on stuff without coming across as really negative..

Yes absolutely, a list of wants and don't wants is fine but there are more appealing ways of doing it.

This profile is fun and engaging, good pictures and telling us what she wants! I know shes now having relatively committed fun and only hate for forums and friends, easy

What does this

emoji mean?

I'm so glad someone asked that as I thought I was just being thick!

It’s a little light bulb so it might mean bright idea etc"

Is that what it is a fuckin light bulb!

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Might be an idea to share your type. Otherwise how will they know.

An avatar of something would be better, even if it's a shoe....

Ahhhh but what colour? "

Black n white filter, seamed stocking.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Might be an idea to share your type. Otherwise how will they know.

An avatar of something would be better, even if it's a shoe....

Ahhhh but what colour?

Black n white filter, seamed stocking."
From behind, lower calf to floor. One heel off centre (a la Dorothy)

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As you have been here before, consider what may be different this time, other than new people around.

Run your profile and site use your way, potentially blocking those you don't match with and always reporting inappropriate behaviour including abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for pointing out the error of my ways, not sure my new profile is any better, but so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for pointing out the error of my ways, not sure my new profile is any better, but so be it"

Its a bit better but might be worth saying what you are looking for. A bit about you, let your personality shine through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm being biased angel, but you are an absolute treasure and shouldn't even be on here, but you know that.

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