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No regrets???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally do regret things and don’t find it unhealthy to do so, what are people’s thoughts?

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

i think we learn most from our mistakes so i think regret is a sign of it and is healthy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think it's useful to regret things you've done so you don't do them again. I don't think it's useful to hold on to regret and keep going over it.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Boy, do I dislike Robbie Williams

and Dappy come to think of it...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I never believe anyone who says they have no regrets.

There's always going to be something you regret doing or not doing, but as long as you learn from it it's not a wasted experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regret things I've done and things i haven't....think its only normal to have regrets

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Everyone regrets something they've said or done at some point.

Whoever says they never have regrets is either a liar or a true sociopath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone regrets something they've said or done at some point.

Whoever says they never have regrets is either a liar or a true sociopath."
nicely put

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think we learn most from our mistakes so i think regret is a sign of it and is healthy"

Refreshing to hear!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Everyone regrets something they've said or done at some point.

Whoever says they never have regrets is either a liar or a true sociopath."

Or Edith Piaf ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never believe anyone who says they have no regrets.

There's always going to be something you regret doing or not doing, but as long as you learn from it it's not a wasted experience.

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Exactly, it’s a good thing to regret, it means you can learn from your mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No regrets... just mistakes i learn from.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Everyone regrets something they've said or done at some point.

Whoever says they never have regrets is either a liar or a true sociopath.

Or Edith Piaf ... "

Remarkable woman. Shame her alcohol abuse

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mixed bag. Sometimes necessary, sometimes lingers too long and becomes corrosive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So would it be fair to say ‘regrets’ and ‘mistakes’ are almost the same thing? I feel like without regretting something, you can’t acknowledge having made a mistake, surely a mistake is a direct acknowledgment of having realised you regret doing something??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So would it be fair to say ‘regrets’ and ‘mistakes’ are almost the same thing? I feel like without regretting something, you can’t acknowledge having made a mistake, surely a mistake is a direct acknowledgment of having realised you regret doing something??"

No. They probably should go together, but some people regret where there's no need, and others make mistakes that they should regret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So would it be fair to say ‘regrets’ and ‘mistakes’ are almost the same thing? I feel like without regretting something, you can’t acknowledge having made a mistake, surely a mistake is a direct acknowledgment of having realised you regret doing something??

No. They probably should go together, but some people regret where there's no need, and others make mistakes that they should regret. "

The personal feeling of regret I think is different from the feeling of making a mistake.

Regret can stay with you for a long time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So would it be fair to say ‘regrets’ and ‘mistakes’ are almost the same thing? I feel like without regretting something, you can’t acknowledge having made a mistake, surely a mistake is a direct acknowledgment of having realised you regret doing something??

No. They probably should go together, but some people regret where there's no need, and others make mistakes that they should regret. "

Good point!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So would it be fair to say ‘regrets’ and ‘mistakes’ are almost the same thing? I feel like without regretting something, you can’t acknowledge having made a mistake, surely a mistake is a direct acknowledgment of having realised you regret doing something??

No. They probably should go together, but some people regret where there's no need, and others make mistakes that they should regret.

The personal feeling of regret I think is different from the feeling of making a mistake.

Regret can stay with you for a long time"

I find it hard to tell the difference

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