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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's people thoughts on only been able to send pictures and not videos on here or is there a option and I've missed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Video would be a nightmare for so, so many reasons. Hard pass.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks "

I personally only mean the occasional one if it's something u both agreed with having to sswap numbers or personal information straight away just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Video would be a nightmare for so, so many reasons. Hard pass. "

Looks like a hard sell this one lol

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Yeah I lack the self confidence for photos, let alone videos.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks

I personally only mean the occasional one if it's something u both agreed with having to sswap numbers or personal information straight away just a thought"

Other systems exist for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the ‘consensual’ videos being sent of people fucking, when in reality they have no idea they’re being sent to random folk....

So many things could go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks

I personally only mean the occasional one if it's something u both agreed with having to sswap numbers or personal information straight away just a thought"

Then use other forms of messaging

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Video would be a nightmare for so, so many reasons. Hard pass.

Looks like a hard sell this one lol "

Moderating to prevent illegal content so the site doesn't get sued.

"epic" wanking and cum shot videos

Revenge porn

Probably other creepy/ illegal shit I don't want to think about

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks

I personally only mean the occasional one if it's something u both agreed with having to sswap numbers or personal information straight away just a thought"

If it's someone you're chatting to already. Use kik. No number swapping required.

The thought of opening my mail on here to random unsolicited wank videos.

No thanks, manky cock pics are bad enough

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire. "

Random ‘tributes’

No ta

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can't secure a meet with a well thought out profile, tastefully taken pictures and a considered and polite message, how do you think a vid of you bashing your bishop or hanging out the back of another bird is going to help?

There are cam rooms, or take it off site if you want to video...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire. "

It's honestly like people don't read comments properly at times I don't send a cock pic to people until I have spoken to them properly so the chance of anyone opening a cock video is a no go the thought just popped into my head whilst I was laid here lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire.

It's honestly like people don't read comments properly at times I don't send a cock pic to people until I have spoken to them properly so the chance of anyone opening a cock video is a no go the thought just popped into my head whilst I was laid here lol "

I didn't say you would do it. A lot of men on Fab would. And I'm 10000% not here for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can't secure a meet with a well thought out profile, tastefully taken pictures and a considered and polite message, how do you think a vid of you bashing your bishop or hanging out the back of another bird is going to help?

Have you taken the time to actually look at my profile lay out and groomed pictures before coming out with a meaningless comment I've been on 3 weeks and had two genuine meets verified thanks

There are cam rooms, or take it off site if you want to video...

"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire.

It's honestly like people don't read comments properly at times I don't send a cock pic to people until I have spoken to them properly so

the chance of anyone opening a cock video is a no go the thought just popped into my head whilst I was laid here lol

I didn't say you would do it. A lot of men on Fab would. And I'm 10000% not here for it. "

Try and see it from genuine guys points of view sometime I know it's hard because most guys these days are epic scumbag pervs but we ain't all straight in for the kill and to fuck them and fuck them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you can't secure a meet with a well thought out profile, tastefully taken pictures and a considered and polite message, how do you think a vid of you bashing your bishop or hanging out the back of another bird is going to help?

Have you taken the time to actually look at my profile lay out and groomed pictures before coming out with a meaningless comment I've been on 3 weeks and had two genuine meets verified thanks

There are cam rooms, or take it off site if you want to video...

"

Yes I have. If you articulated the benefit of having a video feature rather than saying its a good idea and/or other sites have it, I wouldn't have needed to assume you wanted to send wanking vids to people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can't secure a meet with a well thought out profile, tastefully taken pictures and a considered and polite message, how do you think a vid of you bashing your bishop or hanging out the back of another bird is going to help?

Have you taken the time to actually look at my profile lay out and groomed pictures before coming out with a meaningless comment I've been on 3 weeks and had two genuine meets verified thanks

There are cam rooms, or take it off site if you want to video...

Yes I have. If you articulated the benefit of having a video feature rather than saying its a good idea and/or other sites have it, I wouldn't have needed to assume you wanted to send wanking vids to people.

"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire.

It's honestly like people don't read comments properly at times I don't send a cock pic to people until I have spoken to them properly so

the chance of anyone opening a cock video is a no go the thought just popped into my head whilst I was laid here lol

I didn't say you would do it. A lot of men on Fab would. And I'm 10000% not here for it.

Try and see it from genuine guys points of view sometime I know it's hard because most guys these days are epic scumbag pervs but we ain't all straight in for the kill and to fuck them and fuck them off "

How about you see it from mine?

Some fine gentlemen might send me wonderful videos which I might very much appreciate. (although other platforms exist)

Many others would send me things that I never wanted to see.

Some others might send me things that might get Fab into legal trouble.

On the whole, with apologies to fine genuine real men who've had meets, I still say absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can't secure a meet with a well thought out profile, tastefully taken pictures and a considered and polite message, how do you think a vid of you bashing your bishop or hanging out the back of another bird is going to help?

Have you taken the time to actually look at my profile lay out and groomed pictures before coming out with a meaningless comment I've been on 3 weeks and had two genuine meets verified thanks

There are cam rooms, or take it off site if you want to video...

Yes I have. If you articulated the benefit of having a video feature rather than saying its a good idea and/or other sites have it, I wouldn't have needed to assume you wanted to send wanking vids to people.

"

Well I can safely say that your ?? mistaken my friend my no old pervy guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The Fab videos section as I picture it in my head is grunting, wanking and cum spurt in a dirty bathroom set to Chariots of Fire.

It's honestly like people don't read comments properly at times I don't send a cock pic to people until I have spoken to them properly so

the chance of anyone opening a cock video is a no go the thought just popped into my head whilst I was laid here lol

I didn't say you would do it. A lot of men on Fab would. And I'm 10000% not here for it.

Try and see it from genuine guys points of view sometime I know it's hard because most guys these days are epic scumbag pervs but we ain't all straight in for the kill and to fuck them and fuck them off

How about you see it from mine?

Some fine gentlemen might send me wonderful videos which I might very much appreciate. (although other platforms exist)

Many others would send me things that I never wanted to see.

Some others might send me things that might get Fab into legal trouble.

On the whole, with apologies to fine genuine real men who've had meets, I still say absolutely not. "

To be fair there is no need for everyone of us jumping down one and others throats

I apologize for not thinking about my fread properly before posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?"

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself "

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself "

As you haven't given it much thought perhaps you shouldn't be surprised that many think it's a bad idea. They've clearly given it more thought than you. Disagreeing isn't the same as "jumping on" someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself "

Did you expect everyone to agree with you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart. "

I just find some comments could be worded better without sounding like they do and if you all pay attention to this next comment

AFTER LISTENING CLEARLY TO ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS I CAN QUITE CLEARLY SEE THE DISADVANTAGES FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES IF THIS OPTION WAS AVAILABLE

I apologize x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart.

I just find some comments could be worded better without sounding like they do and if you all pay attention to this next comment

AFTER LISTENING CLEARLY TO ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS I CAN QUITE CLEARLY SEE THE DISADVANTAGES FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES IF THIS OPTION WAS AVAILABLE

I apologize x"

Well I disagree. No one was attacking you, peoples replies were worded fine

And cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks

I personally only mean the occasional one if it's something u both agreed with having to sswap numbers or personal information straight away just a thought"

Patience innit....

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

Did you expect everyone to agree with you?"

I

No actually I never but I personally would choose my wording better but thats just me I'm fairly new to dating and especially a site like this and finding my feet its quite clear why people act towards people the way they do because of all the vile people that came first

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

If they introduced vids on here it would be a nightmare.

More expensive, open to abuse, and not to mention the pestering from guys and "couples" about sending vid clips.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart.

I just find some comments could be worded better without sounding like they do and if you all pay attention to this next comment

AFTER LISTENING CLEARLY TO ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS I CAN QUITE CLEARLY SEE THE DISADVANTAGES FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES IF THIS OPTION WAS AVAILABLE

I apologize x

Well I disagree. No one was attacking you, peoples replies were worded fine

And cool "

Where did I say that they was attacking me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Or, there's a dynamic here which people have figured out by watching, observing, and experiencing, and there are certain inevitabilities about this kind of place that you figure out over time. You aren't there yet. That's fine.

Tone can be misconstrued, and trust me if my knickers were in a twist you'd know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart.

I just find some comments could be worded better without sounding like they do and if you all pay attention to this next comment

AFTER LISTENING CLEARLY TO ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS I CAN QUITE CLEARLY SEE THE DISADVANTAGES FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES IF THIS OPTION WAS AVAILABLE

I apologize x

Well I disagree. No one was attacking you, peoples replies were worded fine

And cool

Where did I say that they was attacking me"

Sorry - you said people were jumping on other people

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

Nope. The idea has been raised before and not taken up. I imagine it would be a nightmare to moderate. This is mainly a free site. It kinda works well. To add features like this alot of staff would need to be employed.

Personally if I wanna see men wank I'd go in the chatrooms or watch porn, but it's not for me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'll like to see videos,not of men just wanking though.

On second thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can I just ask OP what you think the benefits would be?

It was just a general thought wasn't thinking about benifits to be honest just was a general observation that the feature wasn't there for if such a occasion but I've noticed a few times today that people jump on people for no apparent reason and it's actually quite sad because they don't even listen to when u explain yourself

You’ve explained yourself.

And we are explaining ourselves; we don’t think it would be a good idea.

You do think it would be a good idea.

It’s okay for people to disagree about things. Learn not to take it to heart.

I just find some comments could be worded better without sounding like they do and if you all pay attention to this next comment

AFTER LISTENING CLEARLY TO ALL OF YOUR COMMENTS I CAN QUITE CLEARLY SEE THE DISADVANTAGES FOR BOTH MALES AND FEMALES IF THIS OPTION WAS AVAILABLE

I apologize x

Well I disagree. No one was attacking you, peoples replies were worded fine

And cool

Where did I say that they was attacking me

Sorry - you said people were jumping on other people "

I never meant attacking that's a strong statement to make I just meant like they just automatically think I'm just some other wierdo joined up it was a genuine thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or, there's a dynamic here which people have figured out by watching, observing, and experiencing, and there are certain inevitabilities about this kind of place that you figure out over time. You aren't there yet. That's fine.

Tone can be misconstrued, and trust me if my knickers were in a twist you'd know it. "

I'm sure I will take all the feedback on board

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I’m so glad you can’t send videos.

Get enough photos of cocks, imagine the videos. No thanks "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. The idea has been raised before and not taken up. I imagine it would be a nightmare to moderate. This is mainly a free site. It kinda works well. To add features like this alot of staff would need to be employed.

Personally if I wanna see men wank I'd go in the chatrooms or watch porn, but it's not for me."

I get that now and I will definitely be choosing more wisely what I post

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Nope. The idea has been raised before and not taken up. I imagine it would be a nightmare to moderate. This is mainly a free site. It kinda works well. To add features like this alot of staff would need to be employed.

Personally if I wanna see men wank I'd go in the chatrooms or watch porn, but it's not for me.

I get that now and I will definitely be choosing more wisely what I post"

The best place to put these kind of suggestions is in the feedback forum. Fab do sometimes take ideas on board, but think this one is a none starter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. The idea has been raised before and not taken up. I imagine it would be a nightmare to moderate. This is mainly a free site. It kinda works well. To add features like this alot of staff would need to be employed.

Personally if I wanna see men wank I'd go in the chatrooms or watch porn, but it's not for me.

I get that now and I will definitely be choosing more wisely what I post

The best place to put these kind of suggestions is in the feedback forum. Fab do sometimes take ideas on board, but think this one is a none starter."

I gathered lol

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