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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It turns me on when I’m fucking a guy and he calls me a good girl

Buuuuut random men calling me it? Nope. Makes ma fanny dry

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Why do so many guys on here think calling a grown woman a ‘good girl’ will do them a favour? I don’t call anyone a ‘good boy’ when I really want to be nice, only when being highly sarcastic. Opinions?

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But I am a good boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I am a good boy

Damn it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really does it for me - in bed.

In the real world. Looks would kill.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I can't stand 'good girl' it's an instant turn off and results in me no longer speaking to them

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By *ltcouple666Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

"It really does it for me - in bed.

In the real world. Looks would kill. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my OH calling me a "good girl"

Random bloke? No ta

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’m not alone. Gentlemen take heed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when D says it in bed but as an everyday term I’d probably vomit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t imagine me saying it. Even in a D/s situation

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

But I am a good boy

Damn it! "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It doesn’t bother me if from someone I know already

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I think I’m a good girl

My husband has another opinion!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

I love being called a good girl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't stand 'good girl' it's an instant turn off and results in me no longer speaking to them "

Same here. Somehow it’s so condescending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

When I'm good but when I'm bad I'm better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love being called a good girl

Lol. If it rocks your boat then fine. Shall I redirect all the messages to you then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it

Not in my case though. I mean in messages???

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm 62 years old. Being called a girl makes me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension.

Should have been clearer. I mean by random guys who don’t know me in their messages and not by lover/s...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think I’ve ever called a woman ‘girl’, it’s just as creepy as a younger woman calling me daddy. Instant turn off I expect.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Only by certain people in certain circumstances

Not by random men, especially in a first, unsolicited message...that makes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I detest being called a good girl.im nearly 51 and a women grr

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

With the right woman, under the right circumstances, it can have one hell of an effect

So a friend told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that calling her a good girl under the right circumstances has a magical effect : she’s turns truly wild and the fun takes another dimension.

Should have been clearer. I mean by random guys who don’t know me in their messages and not by lover/s..."

Gotcha! And yes if it comes from a random stranger, if there is no history behind it, it’s a bit weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re sub, it’s a turn on x only in a role play situation tho

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I was adamant I loathed it (patronising, made me squick a bit) but I've discovered recently context can be everything - it does the right man, in the right situation, a lot of favours.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Should have read the whole thread.

It shows you're incompatible from the get go so that's a blessing in disguise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!"

Same for cupcake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!"

Ha ha nah that's pet names!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!"

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

God knows! My soft center maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno but it works

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

How about ‘honeybum’ ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

God knows! My soft center maybe "

But cupcake?????????!!!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

It’s so hard being good said the good girl. It’s got to be hard to be good said the bad girl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

How about ‘honeybum’ ?"

Petal?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

How about ‘honeybum’ ?"

Well seeing my profile pic this one isn’t too bad I suppose..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

How about ‘honeybum’ ?

Petal?"

Northern.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It depends who's saying it and under what circumstance I suppose,I think I have used the good boy once or twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In messages from a stranger definately not.. in person hell yes!

Same for cupcake!

Cupcake? Cupcake??? In a message from a stranger? I would have to answer just to find out why

How about ‘honeybum’ ?

Petal?

Northern."

Nah dunno wat u mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Duck

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

In a random message, nah.

In the right situation, in the right context and with the right person it can work for both parties.

There are more “good girls” than you might realise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In certain situations I rather like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Duck"

Better than chicken I suppose

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"With the right woman, under the right circumstances, it can have one hell of an effect

So a friend told me

Informative friend

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I can't imagine using any term of endearment (babe, hun, good girl, sweety etc etc) with anyone I don't know, or barely know - would just feel a little presumptuous and awkward to me, and more than a touch creepy in some instances

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't imagine using any term of endearment (babe, hun, good girl, sweety etc etc) with anyone I don't know, or barely know - would just feel a little presumptuous and awkward to me, and more than a touch creepy in some instances "

Yes, I’m trying to see it differently but I totally agree. Hate Hun too.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Some times I pat My Girl on the head, she hates it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love my OH calling me a "good girl"

Random bloke? No ta

This!

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it

Not in my case though. I mean in messages???"

I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.

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By *c1989Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it

Not in my case though. I mean in messages???

I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.

Also good girl is something I hear parents saying when a child clears it's plate or makes it to the loo before having an accident... Or it's what I used to say to my family's Labrador when she returned a tennis ball after I'd thrown it.

As those are the associations I make. My immediate reaction is I'm not a child or a dog...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's just harmless role play fun in a lot of cases OP. There's two grown women on this thread I'd be tempted to call girl now I know they like it

Not in my case though. I mean in messages???

I agree. In messages its just cringe inducing.

As those are the associations I make. My immediate reaction is I'm not a child or a dog...

OMG. So true.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Don’t like being called good girl or naughty girl by random strangers. I don’t know how they think they would know either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who and when lol

in the right circumstances and the right person it really does get me going. But also depends on my mood as sometimes it will just make me want to be naughty too lol

The wrong person and wrong situation will likely get a left hook

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I use "good boy" in scenes. It's a power play if a guy you don't know uses it towards you imo.

To use language that reduces the others status (adult to child) is common in BDSM ageplay.

Use of "baby" names like girl, babe, doll etc usually irritate me if it's an initial conversation it'll often end in a block.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I'm a woman. Enough said.

Anyone who calls another 'good girl' wants to dominate anyone who likes being called a 'good girl' wants to be dominated and not take responsibility.

If that's what they like then more power to their elbow.

I'm an adult in all situations in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only expect my Dominant to call me a " good girl"..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a woman. Enough said.

Anyone who calls another 'good girl' wants to dominate anyone who likes being called a 'good girl' wants to be dominated and not take responsibility.

If that's what they like then more power to their elbow.

I'm an adult in all situations in my life. "

Well you certainly have a way with words. With you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women, finding new shit to moan about on here since 2009.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I don’t really give it much thought. I may have called someone a good by at some point though. I didn’t read anything into it though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not my favourite piece of feedback from a guy

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Women, finding new shit to moan about on here since 2009. "

But....but..what about teh menz??

Do they not moan?

"Oooh I'm so horny and nobody will meet me"

"You keep calling 45 yr old women baby and you're 20 years old and living at home still getting your mum to iron your underpants"

"But I'm horny and need to empty my balls"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women, finding new shit to moan about on here since 2009.

But....but..what about teh menz??

Do they not moan?

"Oooh I'm so horny and nobody will meet me"

"You keep calling 45 yr old women baby and you're 20 years old and living at home still getting your mum to iron your underpants"

"But I'm horny and need to empty my balls"

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love Holly calling me a good boy, especially if she is tickling my stomach at the same time!!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

"I love being called a good girl

Lol. If it rocks your boat then fine. Shall I redirect all the messages to you then?

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only if u need to , I get enough of my own lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revising my opinion a bit.

Random stranger in first message - weird and creepy. You're right.

In bed - still oh yes please.

In messages with established flirty tone, hell yeah.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Revising my opinion a bit.

Random stranger in first message - weird and creepy. You're right.

In bed - still oh yes please.

In messages with established flirty tone, hell yeah.

Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

It’s what we say it to our dog.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username

Thank you!!!! So many blokes have earnestly told me I've made a terrible faux pas using my own name.... Face palm! Tbh it was very relevant when I joined (trying to get over someone and never one of life's heroines) but strangely not of late! It acts as a good filter tho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really give it much thought. I may have called someone a good by at some point though. I didn’t read anything into it though. "

That's my favourite thing. Call me that and I will absolutely melt

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username

Ya, there's those that get it and it's probably a good conversation starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interrupting this thread to appreciate your username

Ya, there's those that get it and it's probably a good conversation starter

I tried to friend you - but I'm too old!!

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Who wants to be a good girl anyway I wanna be frickin baaaaaad !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Who wants to be a good girl anyway I wanna be frickin baaaaaad !!! "

Bad assed woman

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

Right moment by the right person? Fuckin hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all about the context, in some situations, you can call me whatever you like!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Right moment by the right person? Fuckin hot! "

Oh yes! Has to be the right person though

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