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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.

We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.

When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.

As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?

Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st mistake asking the girls only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re addressing a couple address both of them, otherwise that sounds ok to us!

Nothing worse than a multitude of dick pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1st mistake asking the girls only"

Yeah I like dick pics!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi so I can't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.

Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.

Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off"

I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading!

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks

To be honest I only ever contact straight single women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned above, women will generally read the profile before looking at the message - and you don't have one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.

Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off

I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading!"

You've been here a year! How do you not know this yet

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not a single woman but do so hate a toilet pic......J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I only ever contact straight single women."

And what are you contacting them for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women tend to look for a face they fancy. A profile that shows similar tastes and a polite message that introduces themselves and shows interest to a particular part of their profile.

Ultimately, if they're not attracted the conversation goes no further..

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"People will look at your message then your profile, maybe even the other way around.

Your profile is blank, no matter how good your message is, that will turn people off

I mean, come on! There isn't even a profile heading!

You've been here a year! How do you not know this yet "

Maybe I’m not as regular a user as others... not exactly crime. But your thoughts are appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The blank profile is a massive turn off....

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"To be honest I only ever contact straight single women.

And what are you contacting them for?"

To see what they are interested in and if we might be on the same page. Don’t want to make assumptions.

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By *istress CockneyWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

I agree with all comments above.

Also you don't look very happy in your face pic?

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"The blank profile is a massive turn off.... "

Thank you... I used to have text there, but figured no-one read it. Plus, was in two minds of why I was on here for a while. So figure it would be better to chat.

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"I agree with all comments above.

Also you don't look very happy in your face pic?"

Fair point!!! New mugshots it is too then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, that is preferred.

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks


"Women tend to look for a face they fancy. A profile that shows similar tastes and a polite message that introduces themselves and shows interest to a particular part of their profile.

Ultimately, if they're not attracted the conversation goes no further.. "

That’s fair... I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.

We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.

When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.

As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?

Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"

No title, no text to give an idea of who you are and what you want/offer. I would pass on by.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Your profile looks lazy

Perhaps it's a reflection of you ? Not many will give you Thier time I'm afraid

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm bi so I can't help "

I was expecting something different with the straight bit I must admit.

Yes op from a straight woman that's fine. Bi women may think differently,they're much more rude!

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"As mentioned above, women will generally read the profile before looking at the message - and you don't have one! "
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This! When I was on here as a single straight lady I would have deleted message after viewing your profile and finding it blank!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"To be honest I only ever contact straight single women."

Oh you did mean that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally have a look at the profile before replying, the fact that yours has no text would probably stop me from writing a response tbh.

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By *heFuzz OP   Man
over a year ago

Bucks

Most feedback taken on board (need to trim the beard before a better mugshot!)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

All you really need has been said above OP, particularly about your profile and pics which will always be key - however a couple of things to consider...

You say in your OP that you are only looking for feedback from straight ladies - just a thought but other guys, may actually have some valuable feedback based on their experience, especially the ones who find the site meets their expectations.

Sending messages is but one way of approaching the site OP, and while it may work for some, it's not for everyone, and not without it's drawbacks if it's the only approach you use. Consider getting along to group socials or clubs as well, or getting more involved in the forums and/or chat rooms, which are all good ways of not only getting to know people, but of getting yourself known too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.

We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.

When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.

As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?

Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"

Looks fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi - sorry to restrict this, but figure you’re who I am most interested in listening to on this.

We all know that fab can be frustrating for single guys, so rather than throw my toys out of the pram, I’d like to learn from it.

When I send out messages, I generally look to find out if I’m the type of guy that they are interested in, and and attach a non-dick pic.

As a quick show of hands, is this preferred?

Or does it make me look too polite when truth be told I’m much more of a perv at heart!"

To me that’s the right way to do things

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