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Friends requests.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys. How many of you actually think you'll get added by only sending a friend request (and having bugger all on your profile)?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

About 99.999%

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

awwww. Chancers all of them.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A lot, evidently.

Yes, I'll totally add anyone who only sends me a friends request. It's as welcome as "show us your face you faker" or "bet you can't show me a great time".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say 100 % of the guys that send them because obviously they are the fuck of your lifetime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also like to have at least spoken to them too.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’d say 100 % of the guys that send them because obviously they are the fuck of your lifetime "

Citation needed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say 100 % of the guys that send them because obviously they are the fuck of your lifetime "

Obvs. NOT. hoping I haven't had that yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say 100 % of the guys that send them because obviously they are the fuck of your lifetime

Obvs. NOT. hoping I haven't had that yet!!"

You haven’t accepted one that’s why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon they think it's like Facebook and people won't communicate if they're not 'friends'. I think for many it's a genuine mistake/ thought, and not sinister at all.

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Not just men, couples and single fems send us requests all the time from nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I friend request and presume they will check my profile, delete or block. It's what I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had a lot of friend requests by couples and women that I haven't spoke to.

I wait till they're offline, have a look through the friend pictures then unfriend them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had a lot of friend requests by couples and women that I haven't spoke to.

I wait till they're offline, have a look through the friend pictures then unfriend them again"

Don't we all? it's a great filter

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Guys. How many of you actually think you'll get added by only sending a friend request (and having bugger all on your profile)?"

Couples do this too (or singles pretending to be a couple anyway!)

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Any friend requests from people I haven’t spoken to are automatically deleted... if it is persistent then the block button has to be used

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Not certain but I think if you leave the friends request unaccepted, they can't send another...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I reckon they think it's like Facebook and people won't communicate if they're not 'friends'. I think for many it's a genuine mistake/ thought, and not sinister at all. "

I don't use Facebook and never thought of it like that hmmmm

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Not certain but I think if you leave the friends request unaccepted, they can't send another..."

Good tip

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By *oliathMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I suppose random friend requests are better than the alternative.....billy no mates. People must want to see more of you!

I only have face pics in my private gallery so feel free to add me (so I can perv at your friends only pics!!)

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I never accept friend requests from someone I've not chatted to or met, nor do I send one to others without at least chatting for some time.

A lot of requests are from chancers trying to get a peek at the "Friends Only" photos

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Not certain but I think if you leave the friends request unaccepted, they can't send another...

Good tip "

They can after a while, I think the request expires after a few months

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Some do accept random requests. I know a few hotpic regulars who freely admit that they accept any and all friend requests as it gets them more exposure and fabs.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Not certain but I think if you leave the friends request unaccepted, they can't send another...

Good tip

They can after a while, I think the request expires after a few months "

It does. I always leave random ones unaccepted, but every 3 months like clockwork the same ones come through. I've started blocking them completely now.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"Not certain but I think if you leave the friends request unaccepted, they can't send another...

Good tip

They can after a while, I think the request expires after a few months

It does. I always leave random ones unaccepted, but every 3 months like clockwork the same ones come through. I've started blocking them completely now. "

Ah ok, my mistake then. Kind of like winks, you have a certain "wait" time between them.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t so I don’t send them unless I’ve checked first. Do find it amusing that as a single bloke it’s assumed I’ll accept unsolicited requests myself, more often than not from a profile without any friends pics of their own!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We also like to have at least spoken to them too."

Sometimes they send a one liner and an add. I only add people Ive met anyway.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Any friend requests from people I haven’t spoken to are automatically deleted... if it is persistent then the block button has to be used "

noooooooooo!!!! leave them sitting there that way the daft sods cannot send you another friend request lol

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

One liners, friends requests and profiles that say bugger all.. so don't get my vote of approval

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just ignore random friend requests

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Any friend requests from people I haven’t spoken to are automatically deleted... if it is persistent then the block button has to be used

noooooooooo!!!! leave them sitting there that way the daft sods cannot send you another friend request lol "

Duly noted and lesson learnt. Thanks

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Any friend requests from people I haven’t spoken to are automatically deleted... if it is persistent then the block button has to be used

noooooooooo!!!! leave them sitting there that way the daft sods cannot send you another friend request lol

Duly noted and lesson learnt. Thanks "

Or....

Wait till they’re offline, accept, check out their pics then unfriend before they get back online

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I only send a request after consent to do so

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I had a random friend request, I accepted and been having quite a good conversation

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Any friend requests from people I haven’t spoken to are automatically deleted... if it is persistent then the block button has to be used

noooooooooo!!!! leave them sitting there that way the daft sods cannot send you another friend request lol

Duly noted and lesson learnt. Thanks

Or....

Wait till they’re offline, accept, check out their pics then unfriend before they get back online "

Haha sneaky

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