FabSwingers.com forum: Mail too boring...????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was just wondering if my first mail to someone new is too boring.

Like to play safe and say something like "How are you this evening??" - as I don't wish to be rude or spend ages writing loads which may just get deleted.

Only asking because just send two mails and both deleted without response....mind you could be me!!!! lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Was just wondering if my first mail to someone new is too boring.

Like to play safe and say something like "How are you this evening??" - as I don't wish to be rude or spend ages writing loads which may just get deleted.

Only asking because just send two mails and both deleted without response....mind you could be me!!!! lol

My apologies, my finger slipped onto the delete button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was just wondering if my first mail to someone new is too boring.

Like to play safe and say something like "How are you this evening??" - as I don't wish to be rude or spend ages writing loads which may just get deleted.

Only asking because just send two mails and both deleted without response....mind you could be me!!!! lol

Do you not send individual messages based on reading someone's profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'we're fine thanks'

where do you go after that?

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By *YLINDERCouple
over a year ago

CARDIFF

read your profile very interesting like an original one ...shame you are sooo far away xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete that message too...in fact I do daily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'we're fine thanks'

where do you go after that?"

straight down to it! of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would delete that message too...in fact I do daily

and i'm only being friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"'we're fine thanks'

where do you go after that?"

First of all I jump up in the air.....a reply!!!! lol

After that I usually start with small talk, trying to find out about the person I've mailed

Think it's called communicating, which hopefully is not a one-way street!!

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

hi how are you delete

fancy a fuck delete

im in a hotel nr you tonight delete

wow delete

i know im out of your age range but delete

got repetative stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was just wondering if my first mail to someone new is too boring.

Like to play safe and say something like "How are you this evening??" - as I don't wish to be rude or spend ages writing loads which may just get deleted.

Only asking because just send two mails and both deleted without response....mind you could be me!!!! lol

Some single fems get literally hundreds of messages. Do you think that that stands out? Or that it looks like a bland line you are cuut and pasting to dozens of profiles?

You say you donlt want to put the effort in in case it gets deleted and therein lies the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'we're fine thanks'

where do you go after that?"

Exactly why I also delete unless it's someone I've chatted with before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi how are you delete

fancy a fuck delete

im in a hotel nr you tonight delete

wow delete

i know im out of your age range but delete

got repetative stress"

You forgot "x" - delete

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Was just wondering if my first mail to someone new is too boring.

Like to play safe and say something like "How are you this evening??" - as I don't wish to be rude or spend ages writing loads which may just get deleted.

Only asking because just send two mails and both deleted without response....mind you could be me!!!! lol

how are u doesnt get a reply from me...what am i meant to say, i dont know you, can i really believe you care?

If you cant think of anything to say, maybe you are mailing the wrong people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guess I must be the only person on here who has had phone call, letters & E-mails from people who start with the phrase 'how are you???'

Maybe I should rephrase my mails and use 'how you doing??' - seemed to work for Joey in Friends!!! lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"hi how are you delete

fancy a fuck delete

im in a hotel nr you tonight delete

wow delete

i know im out of your age range but delete

got repetative stress"

"Hi, i'm on here to relieve repetitive strains

i cum in seconds lol"

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Given that part of a message, so i'm reliably told, is visible before opening it, i find a "Fuck you" is just as effective as a "Hello, who are you" message. Same success rate.

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"hi how are you delete

fancy a fuck delete

im in a hotel nr you tonight delete

wow delete

i know im out of your age range but delete

got repetative stress

"Hi, i'm on here to relieve repetitive strains

i cum in seconds lol"

"
delete

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