FabSwingers.com forum: Can men and women ever be just friends?

By *r Moriarty OP Man
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Not in my experience but then women very rarely seem to want to be my friend anyway so it's not been a problem as such.

faf ladies?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, my best friend is a woman and she’s absolutely awesome - we just don’t fancy each other and never have done

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely!

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Yes they can just be friends, but it helps if they don’t want to fuck each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can, but there's always a risk of fuckerage at any given time if they're reasonably well suited....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes. One of my closest friends is on here and male and I don't even get a glimmer of a clit twitch from him. Which is rare as it doesn't take much for me and he's okay looking and kind of intelligent.

I think that sometimes if you try and be friends with a man it can get misconstrued; you're interested in them or they think they are in with a chance. Sometimes I enjoy waffling to men folk with no desire for more.

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By *r Moriarty OP Man
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Yes. One of my closest friends is on here and male and I don't even get a glimmer of a clit twitch from him. Which is rare as it doesn't take much for me and he's okay looking and kind of intelligent.

Bet he wants to bone you really

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We believe so

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Bet he wants to bone you really"

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes..I have women friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Yes they can.

But I boned her first.

I’m that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

And

Yes

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Yes.

Yes they can.

But I boned her first.

I’m that good

That's my modus operandi...fuck them first and then be friends

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

In all seriousness though men and women can definitely just be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my best friends is a man.

We definitely don't want to shag each other Eeeeewwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they can

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Bet he wants to bone you really"

Yes, yes I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've lots who are. It's easier to see them as a friend as opposed to a potential shag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do believe they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know. I think if Im friends with a man I want to bonk him really. At some point at least. And probably most points thereafter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *cott73Man
over a year ago

brighton

Of course they can! I had a drink last week with an old friend I've known for years. She's gorgeous, but I've never remotely looked at her in a sexual way before.

She's kind and she makes me laugh, and that's enough for me in any friendship, make or female.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep almost all the women I know are just friends, I can count the ones who really would have sex with me on 1 finger and that might be optimistic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

Yes they can.

But I boned her first.

I’m that good

That's my modus operandi...fuck them first and then be friends

That’s not how we started.

Oh wait,

Dreams... crushed.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

YES

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

One of my best friends is a woman, when we were teenagers we briefly kissed one New Year's Eve. Afterwards we looked at each other and both of us knew, we'd always be friends.

She's very much a tomboy and I prefer girly girls, I love her but certainly no sexual attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but only if one is repulsed at the idea of sex with the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My best friend is male. I definitely don't want to shag him nor him me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bet he wants to bone you really

Usually one side would in my experience.....

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Yes I think so

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Absolutely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I’ve learned the hard way that on here just because a woman wants to be your friend it doesn’t mean they actually fancy you.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes.

But society puts too much expectation on guys to shag around as much as possible and too much stigma on being "friend zoned"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. My best friend is male. I definitely don't want to shag him nor him me. "

Sexual orientation can do that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've got a few female friends where there is nothing sexual between us.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

what about all the bi sexual people we dont automatically want to shag all our friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be friends with women but in the end they just want me for my penis.

It's more if a curse than a gift

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By *r Moriarty OP Man
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I dont know. I think if Im friends with a man I want to bonk him really. At some point at least. And probably most points thereafter. "

Yeah I think that's how I see things too. I probably need to get ugly friends for a change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Untill a couple of years ago I'd have said not,but having met a lovely lady through another site,we chat on line,meet occasionally,have days & evenings out & enjoy each others company. I do fancy her,but she has an older partner in a care home & I think she feels that she'd be cheeting on him if our relationship developed into a sexual one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you diamond for my first wink

I would of messaged you but you're hiding profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have a best guy friend and we’ve always just been friends. He’s like a brother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my best friend is mystique never kissed or nuttin just really really good mates we are each others shrinks and backdoors into the mind of the opposite sex shes helped me off many ledges with hrlp from other lady friends who iv not given the fuck of there life to

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I have a few close female freinds that I love, so yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I have more male friends than female, always have! One of my best friends in the world is a man, there's never been so much as a flirtation, he's my buddy! Also am friends with a couple of my exes and my current partner is my very best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! I have lots of male friends with no sexual chemistry or interest. I'm also very good friends with my ex from when I was 18 and we regularly go out for breakfast together or he calls in for a coffee. Not a a flicker or sexual shenanigans in the 20 years since we were together.

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By *wingin CatMan
over a year ago

London

Of course. One of my best friends is female, but we don't want a relationship to come out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. My best friend is male. I definitely don't want to shag him nor him me.

Sexual orientation can do that though

You're too clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have more male friends then female. No I haven't fucked any male friends. I wouldn't. Women are more prone to being bitchy, back stabbing and love gossip. In general, men aren't like that. I want a peaceful life, so surround myself with more male friends then female.

I'm a qualified construction manager and qualified carpenter. So I remain professional even on days/nights in the pub.

The lads I used to work with, organised a surprise birthday night out for me. They're top guys and I respect them as friends. One even told me first his partner was expecting their first baby. I went to their wedding and visited baby once she was born.

It's very possible to stay friends and keep it purely as friends.

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By *ot-AshMan
over a year ago

London

Yes. I have been friends only with several women for many years so it is possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I have several lady friends, none of whom I feel sexually inclined towards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe"

Hello hot stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Not in my experience. They always want to cross that line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Most my friends are women tbh. Not crossed the line with them.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Yes. It's really easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww, I'll be your friend.

We can share cake recipes and talk about men, over a glass of wine.

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By *hekaiserMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Of course, my best friend is a woman and she’s absolutely awesome - we just don’t fancy each other and never have done"

Snap....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, as long as everyone’s clear about the boundaries from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes , mutual respect and just friendship

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Absolutely they can - I've had many friends who are ladies both in the past and currently - including some on here who the thought of having sex with them doesn't even enter my head, even though I've seen them naked and they're absolutely gorgeous - they're mates plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal experience has been that men are not interested in being "just friends".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,definitely.

I have a new friend who also happens to be on here. We're not gonna shag, it's not like that.

We spend some time together and he's such a lovely guy. I kind of wish I felt that way about him.

I also get along extremely well with a male work colleague. We have such a laugh at work.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Absolutely. I have many male friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have a few close female friends that I've never wanted to have sex with. It's a very different dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes,definitely.

I have a new friend who also happens to be on here. We're not gonna shag, it's not like that.

We spend some time together and he's such a lovely guy. I kind of wish I felt that way about him.

I also get along extremely well with a male work colleague. We have such a laugh at work."

Does he wish you felt that way about him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes,definitely.

I have a new friend who also happens to be on here. We're not gonna shag, it's not like that.

We spend some time together and he's such a lovely guy. I kind of wish I felt that way about him.

I also get along extremely well with a male work colleague. We have such a laugh at work.

Does he wish you felt that way about him?"

Possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes,definitely.

I have a new friend who also happens to be on here. We're not gonna shag, it's not like that.

We spend some time together and he's such a lovely guy. I kind of wish I felt that way about him.

I also get along extremely well with a male work colleague. We have such a laugh at work.

Does he wish you felt that way about him?

Possibly

I think that is often the dilemma that some men find themselves in. Well I know it’s a dilemma I struggle with. On here it’s frequently not clear. I think clarity helps but the conversation isn’t easy. I work on the premise now that women aren’t interested in me sexually, unless they make it clear.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To give two very clear and specific examples that we can all relate to - I count both Princess Peach (one half of Exquisite Deviance for those that don't know) and Miss Red as close and personal friends, the type of friends I can turn to with anything, and they me, the fact that that friendship is "virtual" makes not the slightest bit of difference, I consider them as close friends as any of my real life ones, in fact they probably know more about me than some of my real life ones, particularly when it comes to sexuality - I can honestly say the thought of getting naked with either of them doesn't even enter my head - they're my friends, and I don't think of them in that way in the slightest - the fact I have seen both of them exposed and naked in their pics doesn't make the blindest bit of difference either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes,definitely.

I have a new friend who also happens to be on here. We're not gonna shag, it's not like that.

We spend some time together and he's such a lovely guy. I kind of wish I felt that way about him.

I also get along extremely well with a male work colleague. We have such a laugh at work.

Does he wish you felt that way about him?

Possibly

He is such a lovely person that I know he wouldn't push his luck. A real gentleman which is one of the reasons I wish I felt differently

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

For sure they can. One of my best friends I’ve known for over 30 yrs. I go stay with him in London for weeks at a time. He takes me out to dinner, the theatre, galleries, gigs, we do all mates stuff together and that’s it then back home to see his missus.

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By *3xyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

swingers town

This is a difficult one. As friends are someone you have things in common with. And life partners are someone you enjoy doing it with. So put them together and friends could be more then friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To give two very clear and specific examples that we can all relate to - I count both Princess Peach (one half of Exquisite Deviance for those that don't know) and Miss Red as close and personal friends, the type of friends I can turn to with anything, and they me, the fact that that friendship is "virtual" makes not the slightest bit of difference, I consider them as close friends as any of my real life ones, in fact they probably know more about me than some of my real life ones, particularly when it comes to sexuality - I can honestly say the thought of getting naked with either of them doesn't even enter my head - they're my friends, and I don't think of them in that way in the slightest - the fact I have seen both of them exposed and naked in their pics doesn't make the blindest bit of difference either."

Here here!

I'm gonna give you a kiss when we finally meet but it won't be a slippery tongue one, it will be a big smackeroo on the cheek while I'm giving you a big ole hug and I totally confirm what you say is true.

Friendships can take many forms, and with many different kinds of people. I'm blessed to have wonderful friends in my life, including you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here here!

Friendships can take many forms, and with many different kinds of people. I'm blessed to have wonderful friends in my life, including you.

In fact, I'm so confident there's no ulterior motive there I'd be happy to drop my drawers, get my poontang out and ask GM to check for stray pubes and hand him the tweezers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

Absolutely, my best friends are male, I’ve got close Male friends. Never crossed my mind about jumping in bed with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely x most of my friends including my bestie are men xx

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By *endrix30Man
over a year ago

dudley

Yes definitely, my closest friend is a woman who i met when we were teenagers, we have now been best friends for 41 years. We are like brother and sister and i would trust her with my life and have always been there for each other so yes men and women can be friends without being boyfriend and girlfriend or married or just having sex. In my experience friendships can be closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, both hubby and myself have many friends of the opposite sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup no problem, i ve had gfs that have hung out with me, chatted about sex to with no thought as to going there together because it was friendship only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've a lot of female friends, three of my closest friends are women. I've had intimate encounters with some, dated a couple and yes some I'd like to jump their bones. But they're all friends.

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Yes I think so as long as the guy is fugly then I can easily be just friends with him

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Not if there is any physical attraction from either side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to fancy my female friends (they are quite awesome) but might not admit it. So I’d say no

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Men and women can be however, if they are reasonably suited as someone mentioned above the friendship will be one sided.

I notice it is the women saying their best mate is a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they can. I've a few and have no desires towards them other than good friends.

I've a few good friends I've boned too. Best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%.. One of my best mates is female, been friends half our lifes. She's a good looking girl but I'm not attracted to her because I see her like a little sister. We make a good wingman for each other on a night out. We are actually contemplating breaking our swingers club virginity together, we won't be playing together.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I actually really enjoy male Company but sadly I don't have many close male friends.

Can men and women just be friends I think so yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My personal experience has been that men are not interested in being "just friends"."

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"They can, but there's always a risk of fuckerage at any given time if they're reasonably well suited....

Haha so biologically speaking they’ll always fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course they can, I have friends that are men that I don’t want to have sex with

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Definitely I can be just friends with them, and I am bi, and I can also be just friends with women. It's not all about me sexual intimacy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see why you can’t. Just have to keep your feelings on check and make sure you’re both on the same page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been best friends with a girl for 20 years, thing is I'm now starting to get feelings for her, do I say something to her? I think she feels the same but what if I'm wrong? Don't want to ruin our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read in FHM in 1997 that women and men, ladies first, can be friends, but only on Tuesdays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read in FHM in 1997 that women and men, ladies first, can be friends, but only on Tuesdays."

Any advice on the above?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I've got a male mate, we've been friends for years. We've been on holiday together loads, all the usual stuff you'd do with a mate, works for me.

Hes a good looking lad, but I don't think of him that way. And I wouldn't want to jeopardise the friendship. You can get a shag anywhere, a good friend is much harder to find.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decision made. Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read in FHM in 1997 that women and men, ladies first, can be friends, but only on Tuesdays.

Any advice on the above?"

Ask her how she feels about the idea of the two of you fucking like foxes. If she doesn't like the idea and asks why do you ask. Say, it was just a joke. I hope the two of you fuck like foxes. Or if by above you meant my post. There's probably copies of FHM from 1997 on eBay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Decision made. Thanks x"

You could have at least read my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It came through after I posted mine haha. Thinking about it I Vue the friendship too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It came through after I posted mine haha. Thinking about it I Vue the friendship too much"

*Nods*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate is female and has been for years and nothing has ever happened between us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had many platonic male friends and always room for more

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

"I've been best friends with a girl for 20 years, thing is I'm now starting to get feelings for her, do I say something to her? I think she feels the same but what if I'm wrong? Don't want to ruin our friendship"

You could start off the conversation in a way that you are saying if neither of find the perfect partner you could agree to get together when you are 50, or something like that, it starts out as a joke conversation but you never know she might say why wait till we're 50?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m friends with a few lesbians so I kno for sure it’s just friends so yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m friends with a few lesbians so I kno for sure it’s just friends so yes "

You sure you don't have money ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot of female friends. Some have been casual partners at times, others haven't and never will be.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I have way more female friends than I do Male.

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By *upremexMan
over a year ago

liverpool. huyton. near yewtree

My best friend for over 30 years is a women. I trust her with my life.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Yes. But, at one point they will have considered bedding the other (or at least one of them will have).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they can I have a few local fab frie d's who are just friends .

King of the friendzone me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I actually get on better with male friends sometimes.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Most of my friends are women I'm not romantically or sexually involved with. It's perfectly possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really good friends with a girl in work. She's funny, intelligent, funny, down to earth, and she's smoking hot. I fancy the pants off her but she'll only be my friend, I know it without asking and it doesn't bother me as much as it should because I wouldn't want to be without out her, if you get me lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Yes. But, at one point they will have considered bedding the other (or at least one of them will have)."

I agree it does always start that way but as the friendship grows that becames more important than just a quick fuck.

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes. But, at one point they will have considered bedding the other (or at least one of them will have).

I agree it does always start that way but as the friendship grows that becames more important than just a quick fuck."

Absolutely.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Yes of course ,,, well ,, apart from when it’s a full moon

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Not in my experience but then women very rarely seem to want to be my friend anyway so it's not been a problem as such.

faf ladies?"

I have men that are just friends. admittedly I’ve probably shagged them at one point then put them in the friends category after! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in my experience but then women very rarely seem to want to be my friend anyway so it's not been a problem as such.

faf ladies?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes men and women can be friends. Albeit it does depend on circumstances and expectations. Talk about these and one of two things will happen, they don't agree and you both part ways, two, you know where you both stand and start of something special.

End of the day, it's no different men with women then two guy or two ladies. Just knowing where you stand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup one of my closest male friends I actually met on here about 5 years ago and we have never fucked and don't intend to. I have many more male friends than females

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and if one thinks otherwise,they are an animal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually get on better with male friends sometimes. "

Kioraaaa..I'll be your friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but only if one is repulsed at the idea of sex with the other "

exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely yes. My best mate is a man. We are just best friends. Not even shared a kiss

Holly

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By *nglishCharmMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Many close female friends, some will shower and get changed naturally in my presence, no problem they are true friends.. of course some I find attractive and yes have thought of sex, yet the risk of spoiling our friendship not worth it

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By *entish79Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

It depends... it must be possible, but I suspect if both are single, and spend time hanging out together then more often than not one or both will secretly fancy the other. Probably mostly the guy.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Sure, I have many female friends at work and in the family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had loads of great female friends, that remained as friends long after guy friends. I think that as long as there’s no attraction or, if you’d grown up together it’s doable. I also had a fwb for 6 years, we started as friends and it evolved.

So, I guess, yes, yes they can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most definitely yes. My best mate is a man. We are just best friends. Not even shared a kiss

Holly"

BUT you said it was ok to lick yer fanny ffs!

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I am great friends with a woman I work with. She’s someone I know I can for for a pint with or go watch a film and there’s no expectation from either of us for it to be more than friends. Other people assume things are happening but hand on heart nothing like that has remotely ever happened. It’s nice to get a woman’s perspective on things.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

99% of my friends are men so I can easily say yes we can.

I’ve only ever slept with one of them sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought my man friend was just my friend. Few beers later and he admitted he still wants to fuck me. We've barely spoken for nearly 2 years, with a couple of major fallouts in that time. Weird.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor

Would anyone care to volunteer and I will answer this question in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most definitely yes. My best mate is a man. We are just best friends. Not even shared a kiss

Holly

BUT you said it was ok to lick yer fanny ffs!"

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By *musedforlifeMan
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Best friends with a lass since school, would never try my luck with her. She means too much too me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most definitely yes. My best mate is a man. We are just best friends. Not even shared a kiss

Holly

BUT you said it was ok to lick yer fanny ffs!

I like a happy face, it means AYE! woohOOOOoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought my man friend was just my friend. Few beers later and he admitted he still wants to fuck me. We've barely spoken for nearly 2 years, with a couple of major fallouts in that time. Weird."

am happy to be ur pal...if it counts I'll finger ya and never count it as sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes im best friends with a girl i dont wanna fuck she dont wanna fuck me either and best friends with another i want to fuck all the time

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Absolutely. I've lots of male friends I don't want to pounce on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they can just be friends I have guy friends who are just friends.

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By *r Moriarty OP Man
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Yes but only if one is repulsed at the idea of sex with the other

exactly this"

You would never be a friend of mine then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t agree with a lot of these comments. I’m still really good friends with 3 people I’ve had sex with even though it won’t happen again.

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah I think they can, I’d love a good female friend. x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I don’t agree with a lot of these comments. I’m still really good friends with 3 people I’ve had sex with even though it won’t happen again. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is a man

I’ve never had sex and never will with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best pal is a guy, a gorgeous one at that, but I wouldn't go anywhere near him sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, absolutely.

In general I much prefer the company of women to men and I've had many female friends in my life who I've seen as sisters, often we've been comfortable enough to get changed in front of each other without a second thought.

I feel a little sad for people who can't be around the opposite sex without wanting to fuck them.

Tea

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By *inn_the_humanMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Surely it's pretty much like anything else in life - some can, some can't.

Same with being friends with people you've been intimate with - I'd have thought it's entirely down to the individuals involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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