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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have some self respect and walk away

There - alright ?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

What's wrong with a flirt? What's wrong with an age difference?

18 is an adult, if you're both having fun, keep having fun!

Might lead somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong legally? No.

The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"
Walk away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna give you some double standards now

At 18, 16 years is a big age gap

At 25, not so much

That said, I entered a relationship at 42 with someone who was 18

It felt right, so I went with it

On reflection, I can see why those looking in saw their arses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Wrong legally? No.

The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually."
this. Certainly doest look like one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s legal

Fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

But the fact you’re asking shows you’re having doubts.

It’s entirely up to you

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

She may be of legal age, but the difference in life experience and outlook would be considerable with that age gap. That situation is a land mine best avoided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No laws broke if you both like each other no harm no foul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No laws broke if you both like each other no harm no foul"

Are you kidding ???

I swear , I worry more about people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Wrong legally? No.

The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No laws broke if you both like each other no harm no foul

Are you kidding ???

I swear , I worry more about people on here "
no not at all i fucked 35 40 yr olds when i was 18 why is this any worse u like who u like

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Though let's be honest, when did flirting automatically lead to sex?

People misinterpret friendly engagement sometimes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Though let's be honest, when did flirting automatically lead to sex?

People misinterpret friendly engagement sometimes?"

That’s also true. Happens all the time

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton

What age is a 34yr old allowed to sleep with? Same for 18yr old.

Isn't it half your age + 7?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a friend who left his wife for a 16 year old when he was 30

We all thought he was mad

They are still together 20 years later

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol

It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

If she works in a shop she might flirt a hundred times a day, just have a bit of decorum and don’t make a tit of yourself reading something that might not be there

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

For me it would also depend on the person not just the age, not all 18 year olds are the same and neither are all 25 year olds. If you're not sure then best to go with your gut and steer clear.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask if she knows what fab means. Then you'll have the answer

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Only you can make that call...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity.

"

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"She’s legal

Fuck her

But the fact you’re asking shows you’re having doubts.

It’s entirely up to you "

Here's a thought , maybe it's also up to the 18 year old ?

Do those disagreeing think her mind and desires are totally irrelevant?

Why is a sexual encounter with this man considered so detrimental with regards this young lady's journey through life

My instinct tells me , it's not the age difference that defines an encounter it's the specific personalities of the partys involved ?

To my mind OP

It may or may not be the right thing to do , the answer I think you will find you already know as you're an adult who has all the details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 19 I was married with two children and running my own house.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

No man ever lay on his death bed thinking "If only i hadn't fucked that 18 year old..."

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Walk away...head held high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 19 I was married with two children and running my own house.

"

I was engaged, had my own house, worked full time and was planning our family/our wedding at 18

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity.

"

Best advice so far

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Walk away...head held high "

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Walk away...head held high "

What harm do you think it will cause ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"
I think you know the answer well you should do why post and ask on here???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the pigeon detectives once sang...

He’s not sure what he should do she’s 17 he’s 22 is that too much of difference.

She’s got everything he wants

She’s got everything he needs

Take her back take her back take her back to her place.

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By *ravellerNickMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I'd say don't go there. My reason is this. The good sex comes with being with someone you connect with. If the age gap is too great you'll have less conection so personally I try to keep within a 10 to 15 year age gap either way. Most of us guys get horney over young, pretty girls but it's not really a good idea.

This is only a guide though and every situation is different.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"As the pigeon detectives once sang...

He’s not sure what he should do she’s 17 he’s 22 is that too much of difference.

She’s got everything he wants

She’s got everything he needs

Take her back take her back take her back to her place."

The Pigeon Detectives!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think she likes you or is she being polite? The answer might be made for you already

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Walk away...head held high

What harm do you think it will cause ?

"

That is my gut reaction. I think an age gap is fine but not between 18 and this...call me old fashioned. Although I think the advice about really talking first, getting to know her a little and her him is good advice

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Walk away...head held high

What harm do you think it will cause ?

"

I do know a number of 18 year old girls where the older man would be at risk of heart break

Sometimes a man should walk to protect himself

So do I understand a number of posts correctly ?

I've read a few to mean

18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here )

That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience?

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By *adtaffladMan
over a year ago

Rhyl


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow thanks for the replies. Seems there's a massive difference of opinion here. I'll have to go with it and see what happens. I think I know her intentions though.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"She’s legal

Fuck her "

I have said that in jest a few times but in reality surely you need more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shop somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’s legal

Fuck her

I have said that in jest a few times but in reality surely you need more than that"

Yes. My comment was a bit sarcastic.

Want to point that out seeing as some lovely folk have messaged me

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By *kmale201633Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"As the pigeon detectives once sang...

He’s not sure what he should do she’s 17 he’s 22 is that too much of difference.

She’s got everything he wants

She’s got everything he needs

Take her back take her back take her back to her place."

But his mates found out, he feels a fool...they saw her on the bus to school...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away"
I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away"

What if that's her intention and desire ?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

You’ll be gutted if she was just humouring you!

Just enjoy the banter and leave it at that!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Take the mask off ...see if she still likes you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"She’s legal

Fuck her

I have said that in jest a few times but in reality surely you need more than that

Yes. My comment was a bit sarcastic.

Want to point that out seeing as some lovely folk have messaged me "

my bad ...I'm surprised how emotive this post made me feel.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Take the mask off ...see if she still likes you"
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rule of thumb, half your age plus 7

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By *rs Naughty PillowsWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

You’ve already doubted it yourself by asking on here, so you’ve answered your own question.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away

What if that's her intention and desire ?"

Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well I'd like to say go for it,however I'm not. My daughter will be 18 on her next birthday and if someone of your age were to start leering at her I wouldn't be able to keep my mouth shut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At 19 I was married with two children and running my own house.

I was engaged, had my own house, worked full time and was planning our family/our wedding at 18 "

Some people think young adults are dim wits with no sense of responsibility.

At 25 I had 3 children, a husband, a dog and a severely disabled sister to care for, and no help from the husband who did nothing except go to work.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Buy just reduced to clear .. she'll see you're a skinflint and go off you

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away

What if that's her intention and desire ?

Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still."

I've read a few to mean

18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here )

That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

Been on both sides at 19 I was dating a 35yr old

Then when I was 34 I started seeing a 22 Yr old and I got more stick for that then when I was dating older but that fizzled out after few months still with the younger guy now I don't think age is an issue as long as you stay within the law which you are

I'd say go for it if you feel that she isn't just flirting as that's what she does speaking

Speaking from customer service side I used to do that alot as well

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away

What if that's her intention and desire ?

Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still.

I've read a few to mean

18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here )

That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience?"

I'd say it not unjustifiable to suggest many 18 year old girls can run rings around the average not so confident 35 year old men?

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By *ivek68Man
over a year ago

york

Find out who her dad is lol . He might not like the idea . Good luck on the outcome

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

If it made her happy then yes.

Yes I would be fine with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"
all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

Depends on the guy I suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

will her dad be along for the ride? doesn’t it take away from her being an independent person if everyone associates her with ‘she’s someone’s daughter’ ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"
that depends on what he was like and believe me I have morals and respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

will her dad be along for the ride? doesn’t it take away from her being an independent person if everyone associates her with ‘she’s someone’s daughter’ ? "

and it would depend. If he was a good guy then sure. If he made her happy, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggest you leave her. But do PM me her details!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad."

Ha ha indeed if a girls sex life was dictated by her parents approval I'm sure that really works well ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think "

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

that depends on what he was like and believe me I have morals and respect "

I agree it does depend on the man very much. My 17 year old daughter recently went away with her dad,they were sat in a pub one evening and her dad goes to the toilet. Whilst he's there some creepy older guy probably around your age,her word's not mine threw her on a scrap of paper his number,she didn't know what to do so dropped it on the floor.

Men can be so predatory to young girl's.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Do you really not know what to do????

It sounds like yr cock is giving you one message and yr brain is giving a different message.

When the cock goes hard the brain goes soft!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad."

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho"

What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed."
do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If you have to ask on an open forum, then it would appear you are having doubts. Go with your gut instinct, it's normally right. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course "

Such a cynic

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho

What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please."

If my sons bring home a woman that age you can bet i’ll have something to say on the matter to all concerned! And it won’t be pleasant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty certain Hugh Hefner didn't have any problems with it... he was like 70 banging 18's because he was owner of playboy and loaded with cash

There's a friend from school I know she's engaged with a 49 year old about a 22 year gap.

And majority of girls 18-30 look for daddy's / sugar daddies these days around 50+ years old.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

At 18 i was living with a guy 15 years older than me. 18 is an adult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm pretty certain Hugh Hefner didn't have any problems with it... he was like 70 banging 18's because he was owner of playboy and loaded with cash

There's a friend from school I know she's engaged with a 49 year old about a 22 year gap.

And majority of girls 18-30 look for daddy's / sugar daddies these days around 50+ years old."

The majority of 18-30 year olds?! The majority?!

And yeah, and Hugh Hefner was an absolute creep. The OP is not (as far as I’m aware). So it’s unfair to compare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're feeling unsure it's probably bets to stay away. If it's for the sake of a quickie then it probably isn't worth it. If there was a connection I would say go for it and see what happens, she is legal after all.

I moved out of home at 15 and had a very good head on my shoulders when I was 18. I knew what I wanted and was a lot more mature than people would give an 18 year old credit for. It depends on what she is like as a person. Only you will know.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

"

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips "

I’d love to give you a tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it. All I can say is, when I was 18 I was going with people your age and older. And i loved it.

So if she’s up for it, and the feeling is mutual then it’s ok. She’s an adult.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips

I’d love to give you a tip "

I am sure you would, is it to go forth and multiple by any chance?

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By *019ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

Good point well made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may just be being friendly. Ask her out and see what happens.

If it goes pear-shaped there will probably be a Lidl you can shop at nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips

I’d love to give you a tip

I am sure you would, is it to go forth and multiple by any chance? "

It’s the kind of tip that has a shaft and balls attached to it

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

The next time you shop there OP, make a purchase of a top shop magazine (does 'Razzle' still exist?) and a publication aimed at the teenage girl market - something such as 'Shout' (will probably have Justin Bieber on the front cover).

When you place both down on the counter, gauge her response and see which one she gravitates to the most?

If she looks lovingly at the Shout magazine front cover, and notably starts humming 'like baby, baby, baby', go home and have a wank over Razzle's centrefold!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The next time you shop there OP, make a purchase of a top shop magazine (does 'Razzle' still exist?) and a publication aimed at the teenage girl market - something such as 'Shout' (will probably have Justin Bieber on the front cover).

When you place both down on the counter, gauge her response and see which one she gravitates to the most?

If she looks lovingly at the Shout magazine front cover, and notably starts humming 'like baby, baby, baby', go home and have a wank over Razzle's centrefold! "

She’s too young for Bieber. It was girls a year or two older than me who were obsessed with him

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

No. It's not wrong BUT you tread carefully, at 18 she's hardly emotionally matured. You could find yourself revisiting your teen years. Make no promises. Keep it brief....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips

I’d love to give you a tip

I am sure you would, is it to go forth and multiple by any chance?

It’s the kind of tip that has a shaft and balls attached to it "

Ah that's the kind I like

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

The problem isn't necessarily the age difference but the 'dont shit on your own doorstep'aspect.

The consequences, following the inevitable of avoidance awkwardnes etc are rarely thought through.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We had a policy of welcoming boyfriends and girlfriends no matter what we thought of them and keeping our thoughts to our selves. Our kids have dated all different ages and types of person some we've been happier about than others but we've kept our darn mouth shut except in one extreme circumstance.

In relation to the op though when I was 18 I would have flirted with an older guy but it would never have entered my head to take it further.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"What age is a 34yr old allowed to sleep with? Same for 18yr old.

Isn't it half your age + 7?! "

Only if you are riding a unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think

She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course

Such a cynic

When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was

Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips "

We show more on here than we would, to get attention. It works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

Op, seeing as your profile says you are looking for women 18 to 60 , it seems you personally have no hang up about this 18 yo's age. Seems you are anxious about what others would think of you ?

Personally I wouldn't see an 18yo at 34 due to my own personal rationale, but equally I don't think your thinking here should be based on other peoples opinion.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you "

What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' .....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well "

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"The problem isn't necessarily the age difference but the 'dont shit on your own doorstep'aspect.

The consequences, following the inevitable of avoidance awkwardnes etc are rarely thought through."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well "
yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying"

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're playing between the legal goalposts you're fine. For a relationship the age difference may be a problem. But the fact we're discussing this on fab where most if us dont want that I can't see a problem. Do you worry with other women you might not get on apart from in bed? She's an adult and not a kid.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape "

Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life "

Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them!

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape

Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. "

To be brutal but fair we cannot predict a younger persons health either tragedy can happen at any age

Happiness and respect would be my desired outcome for as long as it so may be x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape

Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. "
my partner is 76 hes just started to slow down a bit now. 22 years between us and i wouldnt change it for the world. My sons partner lost the father of her son when she was 20 and he was the same age. (killed in a motorbike crash) you cant help who you fall in love with

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with.

There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad.

No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc

Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems.

Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape

Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. my partner is 76 hes just started to slow down a bit now. 22 years between us and i wouldnt change it for the world. My sons partner lost the father of her son when she was 20 and he was the same age. (killed in a motorbike crash) you cant help who you fall in love with"

Very true. Whoever my daughter settles in life with (preferably someone near her own age so they grow into old age together)he treats her with respect and love. That's all we can ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go for it dude.

If the opportunity arises then fuck her rotten.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud


" Wrong legally? No.

The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually."

You should lobby Parliament to raise the Age of Consent if you believe that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe she likes older men?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

also in this day and age how many people of 18 will still be with the same person in 20 or 30 years time

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

If the OP was thinking of marriage or having a child with this girl, then the odds would be heavily in favour of future tragedy. He doesn't seem to be asking either of these questions. I see nothing wrong with a consensual casual or "fun" relationship. But, how dare an 18-year old girl have a mind of her own?

As a thought exercise, reverse the sexes of the 2. Would your objections be the same, or do you have double standards?

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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago

lancaster

At 18 does she see it as long term while u see it as more a fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away...head held high

What harm do you think it will cause ?

I do know a number of 18 year old girls where the older man would be at risk of heart break

Sometimes a man should walk to protect himself

So do I understand a number of posts correctly ?

I've read a few to mean

18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here )

That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you

What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' .....

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It's search terms on porn sites.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I'm pretty certain Hugh Hefner didn't have any problems with it... he was like 70 banging 18's because he was owner of playboy and loaded with cash

There's a friend from school I know she's engaged with a 49 year old about a 22 year gap.

And majority of girls 18-30 look for daddy's / sugar daddies these days around 50+ years old."

Banging,nice term of phrase.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men."

That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho

What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please.

If my sons bring home a woman that age you can bet i’ll have something to say on the matter to all concerned! And it won’t be pleasant!

"

It's good to see a comment from a mum with son's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't. It would make me feel a bit dirty and like a pervy old man if I'm honest.

I've been flirted with by women around that age and had offers, while it's very flattering, just no. Having a 19 year old daughter also factors into my decision.

I've got 23 on my profile as the youngest, I'm not really sure I would go that low to be fair.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men.

That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him "

My daughter gets so much attention from men when she's out in everyday circumstances she's 17 and still at school! If certain men shows more respect it wouldn't piss me off quite so much. They just come across as creepy perverted sleaze bags.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men.

That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him "

She smiled, of course she's up for it. All women are up for it. The men just have to ask. That's how the world works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would rather an 18 year old daughter of mine be with a 35 year old who treated her well and adored her, than with a an 18 year old who treated her as a sex toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men.

That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him

She smiled, of course she's up for it. All women are up for it. The men just have to ask. That's how the world works. "

Did he say that she just smiled at him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's.

I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men.

That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him

She smiled, of course she's up for it. All women are up for it. The men just have to ask. That's how the world works.

Did he say that she just smiled at him?"

I meant it as a general comment, not at the OP.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud


"I would rather an 18 year old daughter of mine be with a 35 year old who treated her well and adored her, than with a an 18 year old who treated her as a sex toy.

"

Common sense. I seem to remember reading an article years ago which stated that a high proportion of teenage girls (a quarter? a third?) had been abused by a boyfriend. I doubt that many of these were much older than the girl.

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By *Cocksucker84Man
over a year ago

newcastle

There's a lot of judgment on this thread. Whether you think it's right or wrong it's legal age. She doesn't need safeguarding. As long as feelings are reciprocated who cares? She might prefer older men.

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By *laymateteeMan
over a year ago

bristol


"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you

What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' .....

"

Look the words up in a dictionary

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life

Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them!"

So if they pay their way they can make their own decisions?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life

Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them!

So if they pay their way they can make their own decisions?"

They can make their own decisions anyway. Obviously whilst they're still under my roof there's still boundaries,do you not agree?

Like don't leave the place in a shit state,expect me to run around after you etc

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life "

To be honest, when I was 18 year old I made bad decisions that I probably wouldn't have made even 7 years later so as much as you are right, 18 year olds are old enough to make their own decisions , sometimes age does bring a bit more wisdom.

Having said that, we all learn by our mistakes, if parents allow you to of course

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life

Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them!

So if they pay their way they can make their own decisions?

They can make their own decisions anyway. Obviously whilst they're still under my roof there's still boundaries,do you not agree?

Like don't leave the place in a shit state,expect me to run around after you etc"

Right ok, I thought you were talking about making decisions like boyfriends. Boundaries while living under your roof like you describe is a given for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would rather an 18 year old daughter of mine be with a 35 year old who treated her well and adored her, than with a an 18 year old who treated her as a sex toy.

"

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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago

Fairy Land

Fuck my life. If you can’t make a decision at you’re age op. Or is this one of those “hypothetical” situations?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well

yes. some of these responses are quite worrying

It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life

Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them!

So if they pay their way they can make their own decisions?

They can make their own decisions anyway. Obviously whilst they're still under my roof there's still boundaries,do you not agree?

Like don't leave the place in a shit state,expect me to run around after you etc

Right ok, I thought you were talking about making decisions like boyfriends. Boundaries while living under your roof like you describe is a given for me "

Good God no she can make those mistakes all by herself! She's had a couple of bad one's already,thankfully her present boyfriend seems pretty alright. One of them was scared of me for some reason bless him,I don't think that's such a bad thing.

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over a year ago

Surprised by some of the 'moral' highground people are taking here. When I was 18 I was seeing a 33yr old. At 22 I had a fwb in his 40s

I knew exactly what I was doing and I knew the age of men I was attracted to

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surprised by some of the 'moral' highground people are taking here. When I was 18 I was seeing a 33yr old. At 22 I had a fwb in his 40s

I knew exactly what I was doing and I knew the age of men I was attracted to tell me about it i used to love banging 30odd yr old gals"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

Some women lie about there age (as do men) so she might not even be 18 !!

Ask for a minimum of 23 proof of age bits of documentation and paperwork

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

Some women lie about there age (as do men) so she might not even be 18 !!

Ask for a minimum of 23 proof of age bits of documentation and paperwork "

I thought the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it?

Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it?

Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend "
madness i tell yas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it?

Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend "

Yes how dare you!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

"

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay friends and wait it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls at work flirt all the time, It's all part of the job.

Doesn't mean it will go further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls at work flirt all the time, It's all part of the job.

Doesn't mean it will go further. "

I’ve never seen ‘must flirt with customers’ on a job description!

But no you’re right; people do just flirt a lot of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity.

"

Those who think it's rediculous, put aside your, 'she/he is the age of my own child' thinking. Maybe your child isn't very mature, but that doesn't mean others are immature. There are some 18 yr olds that have had more sexual experience than some 40 yr olds too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Girls at work flirt all the time, It's all part of the job.

Doesn't mean it will go further.

I’ve never seen ‘must flirt with customers’ on a job description!

But no you’re right; people do just flirt a lot of the time. "

Lol yeah being friendly with customers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it?

Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend

Yes how dare you!!!!!!!"

Speak of the devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it?

Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend

Yes how dare you!!!!!!!

Speak of the devil "

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no.

No "

What's the reasoning behind that?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

What the hell have you got in common with an 18 year old. Mentally and emotionally you are in two totally different places.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She’s legal

Fuck her"

Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should!

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By *omvampmMan
over a year ago

gillingham


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"
if your having doubts in your mind and questioning if it's right then prob best to walk away ultimately up to you but I'd say if in doubt keep your cock out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jeez you lot do like to make things black and white don't you? Life isn't one size fits all.

When I was 18 I was seeing a guy of 35. And guess what? It was absolutely fine. I'm absolutely fine. No scars from it whatsoever... other than I had to endure a genesis gig. It only lasted a couple of months because we really didn't have that much in common at the end of the day. But that was my situation. There is no right or wrong answer. Go with your gut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe.

Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do.

"

Life's too short. If you like each other ask her out.

#JustDoIt

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Your asking the question but I think you know what you want to do OP

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