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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() What's wrong with a flirt? What's wrong with an age difference? 18 is an adult, if you're both having fun, keep having fun! Might lead somewhere. | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() Walk away. | |||
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" Wrong legally? No. The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually." this. Certainly doest look like one though | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her" But the fact you’re asking shows you’re having doubts. It’s entirely up to you ![]() | |||
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"No laws broke if you both like each other no harm no foul" Are you kidding ??? I swear , I worry more about people on here | |||
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" Wrong legally? No. The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually." ![]() | |||
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"No laws broke if you both like each other no harm no foul Are you kidding ??? I swear , I worry more about people on here " no not at all i fucked 35 40 yr olds when i was 18 why is this any worse u like who u like | |||
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"Though let's be honest, when did flirting automatically lead to sex? People misinterpret friendly engagement sometimes?" That’s also true. Happens all the time ![]() | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() If she works in a shop she might flirt a hundred times a day, just have a bit of decorum and don’t make a tit of yourself reading something that might not be there ![]() | |||
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"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity. " ![]() | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her But the fact you’re asking shows you’re having doubts. It’s entirely up to you ![]() Here's a thought , maybe it's also up to the 18 year old ? Do those disagreeing think her mind and desires are totally irrelevant? Why is a sexual encounter with this man considered so detrimental with regards this young lady's journey through life My instinct tells me , it's not the age difference that defines an encounter it's the specific personalities of the partys involved ? To my mind OP It may or may not be the right thing to do , the answer I think you will find you already know as you're an adult who has all the details | |||
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"At 19 I was married with two children and running my own house. " I was engaged, had my own house, worked full time and was planning our family/our wedding at 18 ![]() | |||
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"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity. " Best advice so far | |||
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"Walk away...head held high " What harm do you think it will cause ? | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() I think you know the answer well you should do why post and ask on here??? | |||
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"As the pigeon detectives once sang... He’s not sure what he should do she’s 17 he’s 22 is that too much of difference. She’s got everything he wants She’s got everything he needs Take her back take her back take her back to her place." The Pigeon Detectives! ![]() | |||
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"Walk away...head held high What harm do you think it will cause ? " That is my gut reaction. I think an age gap is fine but not between 18 and this...call me old fashioned. Although I think the advice about really talking first, getting to know her a little and her him is good advice | |||
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"Walk away...head held high What harm do you think it will cause ? " I do know a number of 18 year old girls where the older man would be at risk of heart break Sometimes a man should walk to protect himself So do I understand a number of posts correctly ? I've read a few to mean 18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here ) That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience? | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have said that in jest a few times but in reality surely you need more than that | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yes. My comment was a bit sarcastic. Want to point that out seeing as some lovely folk have messaged me ![]() | |||
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"As the pigeon detectives once sang... He’s not sure what he should do she’s 17 he’s 22 is that too much of difference. She’s got everything he wants She’s got everything he needs Take her back take her back take her back to her place." But his mates found out, he feels a fool...they saw her on the bus to school... | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away" I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away" What if that's her intention and desire ? | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() You’ll be gutted if she was just humouring you! Just enjoy the banter and leave it at that! | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() my bad ...I'm surprised how emotive this post made me feel. | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away What if that's her intention and desire ?" Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still. | |||
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"At 19 I was married with two children and running my own house. I was engaged, had my own house, worked full time and was planning our family/our wedding at 18 ![]() Some people think young adults are dim wits with no sense of responsibility. At 25 I had 3 children, a husband, a dog and a severely disabled sister to care for, and no help from the husband who did nothing except go to work. | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away What if that's her intention and desire ? Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still." I've read a few to mean 18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here ) That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience? | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() Been on both sides at 19 I was dating a 35yr old Then when I was 34 I started seeing a 22 Yr old and I got more stick for that then when I was dating older but that fizzled out after few months still with the younger guy now I don't think age is an issue as long as you stay within the law which you are I'd say go for it if you feel that she isn't just flirting as that's what she does speaking Speaking from customer service side I used to do that alot as well | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away What if that's her intention and desire ? Well maybe sometimes we just have to be the adult in a situation. 18 is legal and there are lots of young people with their heads screwed on but still. I've read a few to mean 18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here ) That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience?" I'd say it not unjustifiable to suggest many 18 year old girls can run rings around the average not so confident 35 year old men? | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " If it made her happy then yes. Yes I would be fine with it. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " Depends on the guy I suppose | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " will her dad be along for the ride? doesn’t it take away from her being an independent person if everyone associates her with ‘she’s someone’s daughter’ ? | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " that depends on what he was like and believe me I have morals and respect ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. will her dad be along for the ride? doesn’t it take away from her being an independent person if everyone associates her with ‘she’s someone’s daughter’ ? " and it would depend. If he was a good guy then sure. If he made her happy, yes. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad." Ha ha indeed if a girls sex life was dictated by her parents approval I'm sure that really works well ? | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() She could just be trying to get sales up in the shop of course ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. that depends on what he was like and believe me I have morals and respect ![]() I agree it does depend on the man very much. My 17 year old daughter recently went away with her dad,they were sat in a pub one evening and her dad goes to the toilet. Whilst he's there some creepy older guy probably around your age,her word's not mine threw her on a scrap of paper his number,she didn't know what to do so dropped it on the floor. Men can be so predatory to young girl's. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad." No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho" What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please. | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed." do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() Such a cynic ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please." If my sons bring home a woman that age you can bet i’ll have something to say on the matter to all concerned! And it won’t be pleasant! | |||
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"I'm pretty certain Hugh Hefner didn't have any problems with it... he was like 70 banging 18's because he was owner of playboy and loaded with cash ![]() The majority of 18-30 year olds?! The majority?! ![]() | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() When I was a youngster I worked in a bar and had to wear a uniform...the button on the blouse popped open right at my cleavage, my boss knew it had and never said anything because the sales went up for the night...naughty man he was Before anyone says thats disgusting , it was a different era then AND I laughed when he told me so it wasn't a problem. I also used to flirt a bit and got lots of tips ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I’d love to give you a tip ![]() | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I am sure you would, is it to go forth and multiple by any chance? ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " Good point well made! | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It’s the kind of tip that has a shaft and balls attached to it ![]() | |||
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"The next time you shop there OP, make a purchase of a top shop magazine (does 'Razzle' still exist?) and a publication aimed at the teenage girl market - something such as 'Shout' (will probably have Justin Bieber on the front cover). When you place both down on the counter, gauge her response and see which one she gravitates to the most? If she looks lovingly at the Shout magazine front cover, and notably starts humming 'like baby, baby, baby', go home and have a wank over Razzle's centrefold! " She’s too young for Bieber. It was girls a year or two older than me who were obsessed with him | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() No. It's not wrong BUT you tread carefully, at 18 she's hardly emotionally matured. You could find yourself revisiting your teen years. Make no promises. Keep it brief.... | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ah that's the kind I like ![]() | |||
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"What age is a 34yr old allowed to sleep with? Same for 18yr old. Isn't it half your age + 7?! " Only if you are riding a unicorn. | |||
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"If your intentions to hit and run...then definitely walk away I dont have any intentions but I have a really hot girl hitting on me who is 16 years younger. I'm gonna have to go to another shop I think ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() We show more on here than we would, to get attention. It works ![]() | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() Op, seeing as your profile says you are looking for women 18 to 60 , it seems you personally have no hang up about this 18 yo's age. Seems you are anxious about what others would think of you ? Personally I wouldn't see an 18yo at 34 due to my own personal rationale, but equally I don't think your thinking here should be based on other peoples opinion. | |||
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"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you " What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' ..... | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The problem isn't necessarily the age difference but the 'dont shit on your own doorstep'aspect. The consequences, following the inevitable of avoidance awkwardnes etc are rarely thought through." ![]() | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() yes. some of these responses are quite worrying | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() It’s almost as if 18 year olds aren’t able to make their own decisions in life | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape " Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() Of course they can make their own decisions,it's their life to live as they wish. Well that's if they are actually living as adults completely and not expecting their parents to cloth,feed and run around after them! | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. " To be brutal but fair we cannot predict a younger persons health either tragedy can happen at any age Happiness and respect would be my desired outcome for as long as it so may be x | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. " my partner is 76 hes just started to slow down a bit now. 22 years between us and i wouldnt change it for the world. My sons partner lost the father of her son when she was 20 and he was the same age. (killed in a motorbike crash) you cant help who you fall in love with | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. Content? No. Mind you she had plenty her own age we were less than content with. There's an ocean of life experience between 18 and 34 but that doesn't mean it's bad. No but I would just like my daughter to experience 'firsts' with someone her own age. I'm not talking about sex,but getting married,setting up house,starting a family,travelling etc Chances are with someone in their 30's they'll have children,ex wife's etc which can bring problems. Then when she's 60 and still wanting to do thing's,he may be more a couch potato in his late 70's. My ex mum-in-law had to put her husband in a home because she couldn't cope putting him in the bath,there was a 15 year age gap there and it showed. do I really look like a couch potato? You can bet your life when I'm 60 I'll still be in shape Did I say you did,I'm talking about a man in his 70's and we don't know what our health will be like at that stage or whether we'll be infact be alive. my partner is 76 hes just started to slow down a bit now. 22 years between us and i wouldnt change it for the world. My sons partner lost the father of her son when she was 20 and he was the same age. (killed in a motorbike crash) you cant help who you fall in love with" Very true. Whoever my daughter settles in life with (preferably someone near her own age so they grow into old age together)he treats her with respect and love. That's all we can ask. | |||
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" Wrong legally? No. The fact you're asking, should be enough. She's a kid virtually." You should lobby Parliament to raise the Age of Consent if you believe that. | |||
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"Walk away...head held high What harm do you think it will cause ? I do know a number of 18 year old girls where the older man would be at risk of heart break Sometimes a man should walk to protect himself So do I understand a number of posts correctly ? I've read a few to mean 18 year old girls should not , not ever , under any circumstances, engage sexually with older men (insert arbitrary age gap here ) That's a bit harsh and controlled with regards an adults freedom to explore and experience? " ![]() | |||
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"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' ..... " It's search terms on porn sites. | |||
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"I'm pretty certain Hugh Hefner didn't have any problems with it... he was like 70 banging 18's because he was owner of playboy and loaded with cash ![]() Banging,nice term of phrase. | |||
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"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's. I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men." That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. all mine are boys so not a clue i doubt id be happy here seeing anyone tho What about your 18 year old sons seeing a 34 year old woman? No silly remarks please. If my sons bring home a woman that age you can bet i’ll have something to say on the matter to all concerned! And it won’t be pleasant! " It's good to see a comment from a mum with son's. | |||
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"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's. I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men. That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him ![]() My daughter gets so much attention from men when she's out in everyday circumstances she's 17 and still at school! If certain men shows more respect it wouldn't piss me off quite so much. They just come across as creepy perverted sleaze bags. | |||
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"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's. I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men. That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him ![]() She smiled, of course she's up for it. All women are up for it. The men just have to ask. That's how the world works. | |||
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"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's. I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men. That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him ![]() Did he say that she just smiled at him? | |||
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"My gripe is the words some of you are using,at the end of the day she's an 18 year old teenager whatever her sexual activity is,fucking her rotten,banging etc is flipping awful and shows no respect for girl's. I could understand if you were teenager's yourself,but you're not you're grown men. That's pretty much just what I was going to post, also a lot of posts assuming that if the op wants to have sex with her, she's fair game. We don't even know if the girl is actually interested in him, never mind wants to have sex with him ![]() I meant it as a general comment, not at the OP. | |||
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"I would rather an 18 year old daughter of mine be with a 35 year old who treated her well and adored her, than with a an 18 year old who treated her as a sex toy. " Common sense. I seem to remember reading an article years ago which stated that a high proportion of teenage girls (a quarter? a third?) had been abused by a boyfriend. I doubt that many of these were much older than the girl. | |||
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"It's a tricky one. She knows that you're much older than her and today's 18 year olds have matured much quicker and maybe she's not as innocent as we might think she is. Best thing to do is listen to what your inner voice is telling you What do you mean by 'matured' and 'innocent' ..... " Look the words up in a dictionary | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() So if they pay their way they can make their own decisions? | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() They can make their own decisions anyway. Obviously whilst they're still under my roof there's still boundaries,do you not agree? Like don't leave the place in a shit state,expect me to run around after you etc | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() To be honest, when I was 18 year old I made bad decisions that I probably wouldn't have made even 7 years later so as much as you are right, 18 year olds are old enough to make their own decisions , sometimes age does bring a bit more wisdom. Having said that, we all learn by our mistakes, if parents allow you to of course | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() Right ok, I thought you were talking about making decisions like boyfriends. Boundaries while living under your roof like you describe is a given for me ![]() | |||
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"I would rather an 18 year old daughter of mine be with a 35 year old who treated her well and adored her, than with a an 18 year old who treated her as a sex toy. " ![]() | |||
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"Hmmm just reading some posts, children are adults at 18, you might still be able to guide them or give advice , but telling them what to do with their life may not go down very well ![]() ![]() Good God no she can make those mistakes all by herself! She's had a couple of bad one's already,thankfully her present boyfriend seems pretty alright. One of them was scared of me for some reason bless him,I don't think that's such a bad thing. | |||
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"Surprised by some of the 'moral' highground people are taking here. When I was 18 I was seeing a 33yr old. At 22 I had a fwb in his 40s I knew exactly what I was doing and I knew the age of men I was attracted to tell me about it i used to love banging 30odd yr old gals" | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() Some women lie about there age (as do men) so she might not even be 18 !! Ask for a minimum of 23 proof of age bits of documentation and paperwork ![]() | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() ![]() I thought the same. ![]() | |||
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"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it? Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend ![]() madness i tell yas | |||
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"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it? Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend ![]() Yes how dare you!!!!!!! | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. " No | |||
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"Girls at work flirt all the time, It's all part of the job. Doesn't mean it will go further. " I’ve never seen ‘must flirt with customers’ on a job description! ![]() | |||
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"Ask her out for dinner. Talk to her. Get and idea of her maturity. " ![]() | |||
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"Girls at work flirt all the time, It's all part of the job. Doesn't mean it will go further. I’ve never seen ‘must flirt with customers’ on a job description! ![]() Lol yeah being friendly with customers | |||
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"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it? Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend ![]() Speak of the devil ![]() ![]() | |||
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"There is a well known forum user a fair bit younger than me on here. I most definitely would and it sounds like she would too.. That makes me a wrong un does it? Forum seems a little off kilter this weekend ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Quick question to you guy's. Would you be content with your 18 year old daughter seeing a 34 year old man? Simple yes or no. No " What's the reasoning behind that? | |||
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"She’s legal Fuck her" Just because you can do something, doesn't mean you should! | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() if your having doubts in your mind and questioning if it's right then prob best to walk away ultimately up to you but I'd say if in doubt keep your cock out lol | |||
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"I've been flirting with a girl from the local shop and it's getting a bit interesting. Then she tells me shes 18. I honestly thought she was in her 20s 25 maybe. Well she is insanely hot and sexy but I'm 16 years older than her. Really don't know what to do. ![]() Life's too short. If you like each other ask her out. #JustDoIt ![]() | |||
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