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 As revolving door members, it's nice to be back! Hope to stay this time...Forgot quite how many lovely, genuine people there are on here. Still has it's many frustrations but hey that's life isn't it...question for couples looking to meet other couples , do you find that you and your partner have the same taste in people ot does one of you tend to compromise your tastes to suit the other? It's pretty hard to get a 4 way chemistry isn't it. Is it also normal to get a tinge of jealousy but to actually feel it's a bit of a turn on at the same time? Lol....maybe one day, we will get the hang of this lol until then, it's fun learning  | |||
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"Hi OP We both have our single profiles as it's so hard to get four way attraction.Neither of us would want to meet if there wasn't attraction for us both,I'm a picky bugger so rarely find someone I fancy as much as Jack likes the lady. So we just use this profile for forum and socials . If we were after a meet ,its easier going to a club it seems as you can see them both and gave the attraction and connection. We both have permission to play separately too. Miss" Ah thankyou for your reply...Yes I have a single profile too..just for the long shot of meeting another lady lol never gunna happen ....socials are such a good idea because however long you chat for, I guess you never know if the chemistry will be there in person. K (fem) x | |||
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"Oh and currently we are too scared for clubs but one day we may venture to one...of he pushes me through the door "I can understand that,I felt that way on our first visit The people couldn't have made us more welcome and there was no pressure to do anything or get undressed. It can appear v daunting though | |||
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"Oh and currently we are too scared for clubs but one day we may venture to one...of he pushes me through the door
I can understand that,I felt that way on our first visit
The people couldn't have made us more welcome and there was no pressure to do anything or get undressed.
It can appear v daunting though"Ah thankyou yes so many people say how great and welcoming they are....one day we shall take the leap....he's up for it, it's just me that feels I'd be like a deer in the headlights lol x  | |||
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"I find on here I'm waaaay more picky. That can be down to variables outside though that affect my mood. If I'm tired I may well dismiss those who I'd not normally, or if I'm not in a positive mood I may read the profile with a negative tone, as that's how I'm feeling rather than how it was written. Clubs for me are totally different. I'm there to enjoy myself so in a good mood and I find that impacts massively on my perception of people. I only have what's in front of me to go on, with no outside influences. We do still have our singles profiles but I rarely log onto mine, as for me I'm not interested in meeting alone. I'd much rather give B my attention. Our time together is very limited due to work as he can work away for weeks and sometimes even months at a time, and I kinda feel like I'd be cheating on him if I gave my time to someone else (even if that means missing a call - yes, that probably sounds mad) and I know I have his blessing to meet alone if I wanted to. However, I would meet alone if it was with someone he/we knew and trusted as hopefully there would be total transparency and I wouldn't be worried about things getting twisted, whoever I met would be understanding that if he called, I'm answering! I went to a party a few weeks ago and it felt like he was there with me as he vid called and he spoke to my friends (a few of which he's met before) Again, total transparency. I've nothing to hide and I do have trust issues when it comes to other people, so I'd rather he was with me than risk someone being cunty and making shit up to cause trouble! I've seen it happen with other couples and it's not a position I want to put either of us in. So, for me, clubs are where we get our groove on for the main part. That's not to say there aren't people on here who are the kind of people we're looking for, as there are many, but I do find things far more straightforward and less worrisome in clubs. P" | |||
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"I find on here I'm waaaay more picky. That can be down to variables outside though that affect my mood. If I'm tired I may well dismiss those who I'd not normally, or if I'm not in a positive mood I may read the profile with a negative tone, as that's how I'm feeling rather than how it was written. Clubs for me are totally different. I'm there to enjoy myself so in a good mood and I find that impacts massively on my perception of people. I only have what's in front of me to go on, with no outside influences. We do still have our singles profiles but I rarely log onto mine, as for me I'm not interested in meeting alone. I'd much rather give B my attention. Our time together is very limited due to work as he can work away for weeks and sometimes even months at a time, and I kinda feel like I'd be cheating on him if I gave my time to someone else (even if that means missing a call - yes, that probably sounds mad) and I know I have his blessing to meet alone if I wanted to. However, I would meet alone if it was with someone he/we knew and trusted as hopefully there would be total transparency and I wouldn't be worried about things getting twisted, whoever I met would be understanding that if he called, I'm answering! I went to a party a few weeks ago and it felt like he was there with me as he vid called and he spoke to my friends (a few of which he's met before) Again, total transparency. I've nothing to hide and I do have trust issues when it comes to other people, so I'd rather he was with me than risk someone being cunty and making shit up to cause trouble! I've seen it happen with other couples and it's not a position I want to put either of us in. So, for me, clubs are where we get our groove on for the main part. That's not to say there aren't people on here who are the kind of people we're looking for, as there are many, but I do find things far more straightforward and less worrisome in clubs. P" Oh i know what you mean, I can get put off just by their user name lol (says me when we have 666 as part of ours lol).... I reply do think clubs sound like the way to go... Just building up the nerve isn't it....and always complete transparency...otherwise you risk losing your whole real life relationship don't u x | |||
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"We tend to like the same ppl yes " That's really good...I think I'm alot more personality driven than D but we don't so too bad i guess lol x | |||
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