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By *hickennchips OP   Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else? "

Precisely this... I don’t go for looks, I need that mental connection and with that comes attraction

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck "

and you lasted four nights

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck

and you lasted four nights "

Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Looks aren’t high on my list as long as she can make me laugh I’d give them all a chance why is your friend asking again

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck

and you lasted four nights "

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck

and you lasted four nights

Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later "

Lol well she can’t have been that boring then

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have a little leeway when looks/brawn work but if the personality is wrong, there's no interest. Very strong chains and a gag, can retain someone like Conan the barbarian, with plenty of attractive brawn in place, ready for service though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck "

She only stayed for 2

It just felt like 4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed no spark no interest

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've only met one boring person during our time as swingers. It was a guy from another site who didn't stop talking, it was probably nerves.

In general the way a person looks isn't indicative of how interesting they are but if they're hot enough they won't be doing much talking anyway

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else? "

Duh

"Drags knuckles out of forum "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us."
this is true

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us."

Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

You know that some people have both?

While others of us are left with neither

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You know that some people have both?

While others of us are left with neither "

We are (nearly) all interesting and good looking to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us.

Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round. "

This is why I like a good chat with someone, about anything other than sex, before we meet.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"You know that some people have both?

While others of us are left with neither "

Sorry dude

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us.

Exactly. I know that some things I really enjoy talking about bore the socks off others. I remember a social meet we had with a really nice couple where it was obvious they were bored although they politely tried to conceal it and we tried to turn things round.

This is why I like a good chat with someone, about anything other than sex, before we meet."

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They cant help it they were born that way

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"I put it down to incompatibility.

They may be thinking the same about us."

I agree. I met someone a while ago, on paper we should have been great together; same interests, similar life outlook, same humour but there just wasn't the spark there.

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By *rincessPussycatTV/TS
over a year ago

a world of her own

Looks. Meh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If boring people was a international sport I’d be a world champion

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By *hickennchips OP   Woman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"If boring people was a international sport I’d be a world champion "

I don’t believe you...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else? "

Same! Why is it so difficult?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"You know that some people have both?

While others of us are left with neither "

Incorrect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. I had a lady come and stop at mine, I thought she was only gonna stay for a couple of nights, but it turned into 4, some of the messages that we exchanged beforehand were less than exhilarating, but to cut a long story short, she was as boring as fuck

and you lasted four nights

Yeah, but even better than that, I agreed to spend 2 more nights with her at a room that she had booked at Chams for her birthday a few months later "

Has she read this yet?

Mrs

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

lol wouldn't entertain a meet with a gym bunny!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else?

Duh

"Drags knuckles out of forum " "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol wouldn't entertain a meet with a gym bunny!!!"
just wondering why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If boring people was a international sport I’d be a world champion

I don’t believe you..."

That was why it took 5 days to respond. I’d sent you all to sleep with my last post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got brawn and brains

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I hate this when they look great, then you chat but can’t connect mentally due to lack of brain stimulation! Without that spark Its hopeless. Anyone else?

Same! Why is it so difficult? "

I third this

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