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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I’ve been on fab for a matter of weeks, and have been bombarded with overly forward (to the point it’s unattractive) people, and secondly, a lot of people who are really up themselves or super passive aggressive if there’s not a mutual attraction.

Yes I understand I’m young (in terms of age) but at the same time I am mature, I prefer to uphold an actual conversation. But I’m struggling to find others who’s ideas of normality align. (I’m sure this is an issue that impacts all genders/sexualities)

To be honest I just want a good conversation and good sex; Minus the casual racism, ignorance and self-righteousness.

Anybody out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women have been overly forward or men ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You poor thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the joys of the wonderful world that is Fab. Some people are wonderful on here, others are complete bellends and you've got every other personality type in between too. You just have to ignore the ones you don't get along with and give your time to the ones you click with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That last sentence made me chuckle. Good luck with that!

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By *utsidenakedMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Yes I'm out there or here even and yes I fully understand. This place is a cult and for the normal it's all rather alian, so it is what it is and for me I'm not weird enough for most on here

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Maybe tweak the pics if you are getting wrong sort of interest for you? They do suggest you are pretty up for it! Sorry if offends....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women have been overly forward or men ?"

Surprisingly both, which was completely unexpected. I’m straight, however am not ignorant, so will reply to gay/bi men to turn them down politely. But from both genders, it can be quite overwhelming. Don’t get me wrong I’m by no means vanilla or sheltered, but I feel my colour has allowed for casual racism to slide...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe tweak the pics if you are getting wrong sort of interest for you? They do suggest you are pretty up for it! Sorry if offends...."

Fully understand that. It’s not even the being up for things or not. It’s the phrasing around it which is crazy to me. Like when you get “give me that n*** dick”... it’s really offputing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fully understand that. It’s not even the being up for things or not. It’s the phrasing around it which is crazy to me. Like when you get “give me that n*** dick”... it’s really offputing "

Try setting your filters as to who can message you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ah the joys of the wonderful world that is Fab. Some people are wonderful on here, others are complete bellends and you've got every other personality type in between too. You just have to ignore the ones you don't get along with and give your time to the ones you click with"

Cheers for that, I get why people just delete messages. Makes a lot more sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That last sentence made me chuckle. Good luck with that! "

Thanks for the good luck haha, to be fair the responses have injected some hope. Might just be a midlands thing, moving back to London for a bit soon anyway!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only way I've managed to navigate this site it to block all incoming messages. I found the content of 90% of them degrading, assuming and down right disgusting.

May not be an action you favour. But I found the negative attention quite harmful and don't require to be on the receiving end of.

So now I will reach out and send a message to those that pique my interest.

I'm yet to complete my written profile too to help with the process.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"So I’ve been on fab for a matter of weeks, and have been bombarded with overly forward (to the point it’s unattractive) people, and secondly, a lot of people who are really up themselves or super passive aggressive if there’s not a mutual attraction.

Yes I understand I’m young (in terms of age) but at the same time I am mature, I prefer to uphold an actual conversation. But I’m struggling to find others who’s ideas of normality align. (I’m sure this is an issue that impacts all genders/sexualities)

To be honest I just want a good conversation and good sex; Minus the casual racism, ignorance and self-righteousness.

Anybody out there? "

Op your post comes across as passive aggressive to myelf.

I'm sure you did not intend into however this is my personal perception of the post. Maybe your personal interpretation of messages are they are passively aggressive and the sender never had that intent.

I'm sure you will find someone on here to meet your standards.

In the mean time good luck with your search and us in the Midlands are mostly a good group of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report any racism OP...it's not acceptable here or anywhere!

There are some wonderful people on site, give it time, you'll find them and the assholes will make them easier to spot!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only way I've managed to navigate this site it to block all incoming messages. I found the content of 90% of them degrading, assuming and down right disgusting.

May not be an action you favour. But I found the negative attention quite harmful and don't require to be on the receiving end of.

So now I will reach out and send a message to those that pique my interest.

I'm yet to complete my written profile too to help with the process. "

Make sense, but on the other hand, unlike yourself, most conversations of mine arise from incoming as opposed to outgoing. So I could end up not talking to anyone... but it’s really interesting this website, some amazing people and some twats. Pretty much society summed up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I’ve been on fab for a matter of weeks, and have been bombarded with overly forward (to the point it’s unattractive) people, and secondly, a lot of people who are really up themselves or super passive aggressive if there’s not a mutual attraction.

Yes I understand I’m young (in terms of age) but at the same time I am mature, I prefer to uphold an actual conversation. But I’m struggling to find others who’s ideas of normality align. (I’m sure this is an issue that impacts all genders/sexualities)

To be honest I just want a good conversation and good sex; Minus the casual racism, ignorance and self-righteousness.

Anybody out there?

Op your post comes across as passive aggressive to myelf.

I'm sure you did not intend into however this is my personal perception of the post. Maybe your personal interpretation of messages are they are passively aggressive and the sender never had that intent.

I'm sure you will find someone on here to meet your standards.

In the mean time good luck with your search and us in the Midlands are mostly a good group of people. "

To be fair I agree what I said was contradictory and I do love the midlands! Sorry to offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X"

She's spelt are wrong

P

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I find Malcolm a strange choice of pseudonym...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as someone new..

Do you think bareback sex pictures will help your case?

not saying the bareback sex pictures are something that put people off, but many will ask questions of consent etc.

If you are having problems, why not explore the scene, there are many clubs and socials.

This is not ideally a sex site..I hear many people get more sex on tinder..i still think they talk utter fucking shite.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find Malcolm a strange choice of pseudonym..."

This is potentially the best thing I’ve seen! I’ve not even considered the implications of this. Haha you have a keen eye!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"as someone new..

Do you think bareback sex pictures will help your case?

not saying the bareback sex pictures are something that put people off, but many will ask questions of consent etc.

If you are having problems, why not explore the scene, there are many clubs and socials.

This is not ideally a sex site..I hear many people get more sex on tinder..i still think they talk utter fucking shite."

I’ve so much to learn! I will take this on board

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X"

my left ball is bigger than my right..you LIE!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X

She's spelt are wrong

P"

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"So I’ve been on fab for a matter of weeks, and have been bombarded with overly forward (to the point it’s unattractive) people, and secondly, a lot of people who are really up themselves or super passive aggressive if there’s not a mutual attraction.

Yes I understand I’m young (in terms of age) but at the same time I am mature, I prefer to uphold an actual conversation. But I’m struggling to find others who’s ideas of normality align. (I’m sure this is an issue that impacts all genders/sexualities)

To be honest I just want a good conversation and good sex; Minus the casual racism, ignorance and self-righteousness.

Anybody out there?

Op your post comes across as passive aggressive to myelf.

I'm sure you did not intend into however this is my personal perception of the post. Maybe your personal interpretation of messages are they are passively aggressive and the sender never had that intent.

I'm sure you will find someone on here to meet your standards.

In the mean time good luck with your search and us in the Midlands are mostly a good group of people.

To be fair I agree what I said was contradictory and I do love the midlands! Sorry to offend "

No offence taken.

Red

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone calls you a n#### report them. There is a black lad at the school I work at who constantly used the word. Said it was ok because he is black. I told him a) to not use it in front of me as I find it offensive and b) to go Google the word and learn it's history - then come back and tell me it's an ok word. He did and he apologised.

As for people being rude - just do what the others have suggested and alter your settings. Anybody rude who messages you - well I just delete and block them. Life is too short to waste time on idiots.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

OP Maybe less pics of you in action, and don’t comment on how proud you are about your ‘well endowed’ cock may yield a better return ‘young’ man.

Read past forums and you’ll get the gist of how to improve your strike rate.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I will say this for you OP, your profile reads well and you strike me as being articulate and a rough idea of what you want and how to handle your online presence. That in itself puts you above a fair chunk of profiles.

Your age may count against you and the fact that you've been on site for such a short time won't garner many meets but give it time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone calls you a n#### report them. There is a black lad at the school I work at who constantly used the word. Said it was ok because he is black. I told him a) to not use it in front of me as I find it offensive and b) to go Google the word and learn it's history - then come back and tell me it's an ok word. He did and he apologised.

As for people being rude - just do what the others have suggested and alter your settings. Anybody rude who messages you - well I just delete and block them. Life is too short to waste time on idiots. "

I have NEVER used the n word, I'm mixed black...I dont care what others think to me its like someone saying calling another a poof, in some way it makes it ok.

Ive been in uk since i was 6mths old, I used to go round to the 'darkies' when i was young(i dont think my family thought it through really).

While i could bleat on about pc/race as an issue, I grew up in one of the worst estates in glasgow in the 80's, people were warm and I have my childhood friends, they know me as me...

People just have to know if they have been misguided and that IS what a lot of far right groups do, misguide people with fake facts .

anyway back to the sex...whatttthefuck..am black? no sex with u? i hate u...thats it am leaving fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure you'll find someone you click with if you keep looking. As they say, it would be a very boring world if we were all the same!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I will say this for you OP, your profile reads well and you strike me as being articulate and a rough idea of what you want and how to handle your online presence. That in itself puts you above a fair chunk of profiles.

Your age may count against you and the fact that you've been on site for such a short time won't garner many meets but give it time.

"

Good articulation alone never made anyone an all rounded person.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

I am puzzled as to why so many people are contacting you when most men don't get many messages. Especially as it tends to be the younger men who complain that women find them too young.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

I can't see anything strange about your profile, or have you just changed something on it?

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm not on this planet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

"

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I didn't post to demonstrate my use of vocabulary.

I am not frustrated about anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me. "

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And i'm certainly not offended.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked."

Hold on there .... buffoon... ?? strong language indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked.

Hold on there .... buffoon... ?? strong language indeed. "

note i said 'sound like'

careful granny I know you SOUND like an old biddy, but get with the programme and fix yer VHS porn tapes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kids today throw racism like its a frisby

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked.

Hold on there .... buffoon... ?? strong language indeed. "

I like you

Might even send a wink

(I won't)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Part of survival on fab is to learn to ignore 95% of what lands in your inbox. Dont bother trying to work out anybodies motivations for anything they do on here, people come here, and most internet places, to be not normal, and do or say things that society deems they cannot in real life (rightly or wrongly) Ignore,block, delete and accept that the conversations that you are looking for are going to be few and far between

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked.

Hold on there .... buffoon... ?? strong language indeed.

note i said 'sound like'

careful granny I know you SOUND like an old biddy, but get with the programme and fix yer VHS porn tapes"

I'm still on reel to reel ...... 8mm.

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

The site has all sorts. Eventually you begin to suss out the right people.

As for the "forward messages" especially from people who want to convince you to try things, meet now, or offering you things you are ot interested in, the block button is very useful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me. "

Your views are echoed by quite a few men on here. Why people don't believe that women have attitude above their attractiveness I don't know. It's blatantly obvious that the hundreds of messages and flattery has gone to some women's heads. All I have to say on it is ignore them; make yourself as attractive to the women you want to attract and pretend the rest doesn't exist.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I feel really sorry for you. However, you will wake up from your dream soon and everything will be alright again lol.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X"

Speak for yourself lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

you just sound like an impatient bafoon, forums will never answer if you a great hot fuck etc, most of us really dont care..but when you spit the big boy dummy out for any reason, yup..you will get hijacked.

Hold on there .... buffoon... ?? strong language indeed.

note i said 'sound like'

careful granny I know you SOUND like an old biddy, but get with the programme and fix yer VHS porn tapes

I'm still on reel to reel ...... 8mm."

as a photographer I dunno what 8mm is in inches..lets just say its eight...but it's a wide angle baby...stretch yer eyes n gash

8cm oops maybe..i dont fucking know ffs..am hypothesizing

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

I'm afraid this is real life OP

You won't believe it & you won't thank me for for saying it but when circumstances of your life mean that you've lost touch with your educated friends/colleagues & you're living amongst the general population...this is really all there is...

Surround yourself with good people, cherish them & never forget how lucky you are to know them

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I'm afraid this is real life OP

You won't believe it & you won't thank me for for saying it but when circumstances of your life mean that you've lost touch with your educated friends/colleagues & you're living amongst the general population...this is really all there is...

Surround yourself with good people, cherish them & never forget how lucky you are to know them "

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Hi OP, welcome to the mad world of fab and the forums. We aren't all oddballs lol. X"

Oh yes we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello O.P.

Despite your protestations at your age being a barrier I feel you may be too inexperienced in life to shoulder a wide and varying clientele such as exists on fab.

Your status is arrogant but very illuminating though I doubt you'd perceive it that way.

You fail to see that it's your own shortcomings that prevent you from sorting wheat from chaff and what is either wheat or chaff is highly subjective.

Your status bemoans the temperament and vocabulary of others citing sexual frustration as the cause and you declare it entertaining to you.

Are you doing the Jeremy Kyle 'How to look down on others to make myself appear tall' course at uni ?

I fail to see why someone so 'up' their own proverbial and so unaware seeks down to earth people. I certainly wouldn't put you in that category if human beings fitted stereotypical categorisations but of course i've only got this one post and your status to go on.

I wish you the very BEST of meets with people you deem to be 'on your level'..

I appreciate your exercise in demonstrating your vocabulary and articulating your frustration. But honesty, I think you’ve got me completely wrong. Despite how I may come across, social media is a platform in which subjugates and limits the extent to which we can express ourselves in our entirety.

I by no means have a mentality of ‘being better’ than anyone, if anything I’m the complete opposite. I would say more but I would compromise my confidentiality, but in brief my line of work away from uni is with local councils to address institutional barriers in progression and dismantling academic and professional gaps in pay and success. So please don’t let my profile set precedent over my core values.

I’m sorry if I have offended, but my views and opinions are my own, and I am happy to clear up any wrongful inferences in future if you feel the need to message me.

Your views are echoed by quite a few men on here. Why people don't believe that women have attitude above their attractiveness I don't know. It's blatantly obvious that the hundreds of messages and flattery has gone to some women's heads. All I have to say on it is ignore them; make yourself as attractive to the women you want to attract and pretend the rest doesn't exist."

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"So I’ve been on fab for a matter of weeks, and have been bombarded with overly forward (to the point it’s unattractive) people, and secondly, a lot of people who are really up themselves or super passive aggressive if there’s not a mutual attraction.

Yes I understand I’m young (in terms of age) but at the same time I am mature, I prefer to uphold an actual conversation. But I’m struggling to find others who’s ideas of normality align. (I’m sure this is an issue that impacts all genders/sexualities)

To be honest I just want a good conversation and good sex; Minus the casual racism, ignorance and self-righteousness.

Anybody out there? "

You forgot, homophobic,transphobic, xenophobic, chauvinistic,morally reprehensible, perverts, weirdos, the confused, the lonely, the white knights, the over opinionated, narcissistic, sycophants,full time racist's as well as part time, the forum police and everybody else whome I may have missed.

Point being that this is the wrong place to be if you are easily offended, I'm not condoning rudeness or racism however this place isn't for the faint hearted.

The strong prey on the weak and it's survival of the fittest.

My advice

Report

Block

Delete

Change filters and try to keep positive.

Good luck

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not down to Earth, I’m really up myself tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not down to Earth, I’m really up myself tbh "

up uranus?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Plenty. But seeming down to earth and approachable on here is a great way (as a woman) to be eaten alive. If you're seen to take shit you'll be covered in it. I'm defensive, and I'm sure that's seen as up my own arse. I'm picky not just I can be, but because I have to be, and I'm not prepared to just be a convenient penis receptacle.

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