FabSwingers.com forum: thinking of having breast implants

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking for honest opinions from both sexes here...

I used to be a lovely 34dd/e until i started losing weight about 12 months ago.

I've gone from a full curvy size 14 down to a 10/12 and unfortunately have lost some of my 'shape' up top too - now a 32d.

Now, the benefits are good - I can now wearing tighter fitting dresses or tops without worrying about looking i'm for sale but...a push-up bra is great but get down to the sexy nightwear or nakedness and I really do miss my fuller breasts.

My hubby says he's more than happy for me to have implants if I want them but, honestly I just want some good old fashioned HONEST advice and opinions on them.

I've heard they are a lot more natural looking and feeling these days and actually, don't cost silly amounts now either.

But, what do you think?

Have you got them? Has your wife/gf?

Would you recommend them?

I'm only looking to go back to my original size so up 2 cup sizes maximum really.

I'd just love to fill out a dress more without being fatter! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just do your home work i know women who have had them and they look like they have footballs on their chest

But then i know some women who have very good one that look natural

you just have to look about

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

honestly is it worth the pain,get a gel bra

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

from a mans perspective, i would say stay natural

i see you're listed as bisexual, surely you have thousands to chose from as it is?

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

from a mans perspective, i would say stay natural

ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

mushroom - thousands to choose from?? has nothing to do with me getting laid!!! it's that I loved having fuller breasts for 'ME'...didn't say anything about other people's desires. I'm just curious to know what people think of implants and any advice for the 'woman'.

Laceytop - same thing, a gell bra is only good while it's on. But, with halterneck dresses bras aren't always easy to wear. I also mentioned how I just loved having a fuller chest - and that I meant while naked. Bras are ok and sure do a lot but, I just liked a fuller chest.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Personally, never liked the look of surgically enhanced boobs, a good bra can work wonders and by the time you've got it off, straddle the poor fecker and he/she can't get away.....Seriously though, I prefer natural, but good luck with whatever you decide on...xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think really seriously if I were you, clothes are difficult to fit especially dresses if you are different sized above and below.

I'm naturally 36dd or e size 14 up top but only a size 10-12 down below and it is difficult getting dresses to fit, a size 14-16 to fit my top and it hangs off my hips and arse like a sack, I get a 10-12 and it fits perfectly down below but squashes my boobs up to my chin or just doesn't fasten at all.

I find a lot of the time I have to wear separates and adjust dresses to fit or wear a-lines and stretch fabrics.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Seen ( and felt ) some great results.

Just make sure you afford to get both done at once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on why your having them done, if it gives you more confidance then i cant see the harm, its all about how we feel about our own body not wether other will shag us with saggy/small boobs or not

I would have mine done if i had the money, but i dont so i have to make do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi Laine,

I feel your pain. Well, sort of. I had 'similar' trouble before - was a 34dd/e up top and a 12 below which meant I was a 12/14 up top but, depends on the outfit - one dress had to be a 16 without looking obscene! Also, why I prefer halternecks so they can be adjusted more easily.

I actually when shopping the other week and took some spare socks to see what it might be like if I had an extra 2 cup sizes. Surprisingly I found it fairly easy to find good fitting clothes.

Maybe I've got larger hips? But, a 32e didn't seem to be too large or at least not large enough to cause too much trouble when finding a good range of casual - smart/formal clothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you look amazing how are are now to be honest and natural boobs are so much beter than fake ones, be happy about how beautiful you look and congrats on the weightloss, whatever you decide i just hope you are happy x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"just do your home work i know women who have had them and they look like they have footballs on their chest

But then i know some women who have very good one that look natural

you just have to look about"

agreed...i have met some women in clubs and it has totally put me off playing with them...they were porn star size and looked and felt unnatural, i recently met a woman who is sex on legs and was shocked to discover she has implants.

Get ones that fit your natural body shape and they can look very good.

i understand what u feel, getting smaller, when i lost quite a bit of weight i felt like one of my biggest assetts was going.The important question is why do u feel you need bigger breasts.

Get used to your body as it is now, then think about this, part of it is just accepting change.

If you are sure you want them, then go for it, but keep in in proportion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest advice as a guy is don't have it done.

They just don't look natural and some of the boob jobs I have seen just look totally out of place. Strange football shapes, nipples with big scars.

It's your call though obviously.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well since ive lost weight my boobs have sagged, IF i was going to have anthing done it would be a lift and not an implant, but im not planning on having anything done i just thankful you can get decent underwear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you look amazing how are are now to be honest and natural boobs are so much beter than fake ones, be happy about how beautiful you look and congrats on the weightloss, whatever you decide i just hope you are happy x "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if your profile pics are as they are now, leave well alone, they (and you) look perfect to us, also we are not fans of tupperware tits

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

"Well since ive lost weight my boobs have sagged, IF i was going to have anthing done it would be a lift and not an implant, but im not planning on having anything done i just thankful you can get decent underwear lol"

+1 decent underwear is the way to go, i looked into an uplift and when i saw what it invovled went no way. Yes my sag but that is age and happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before deciding then really do some deep thinking about the reason why you want them. You are not totally flat chested, so why do you want bigger.

Its easy for me to say cos I love my boobs whilst swinging and they get me a tremendous amount of attention in clubs. I am glad I'm not smaller.

But in everyday life I struggle with clothes. Bigger boobs are hard to disguise and they do look rude. I find it hard in my work uniform especially. I don't like being ogled when not in exhibitionist/swinging mode. And depending on the type of work you do, some men don't react to a woman with big boobs as seriously in the workplace as they do a man.

So whilst yes in the swinging world and whilst being naked and for erotic photographs and basically anything sex related, bigger boobs rock and the bigger they are the more attention they get - fake boobs may aim to be natural looking but they dont feel natural and they are never equal to natural big boobs - fake anything is never as good as the real thing is it.

But we don't spend all our lives being sexual, unless we work in the sex industry and big boobs aren't such fun then, clothes difficult to find and for me, my biggest drawback is being perceived in a different way because my boobs always draw attention to my femininity.

And unlike wearing a good shape enhancing bra that can be taken off when you don't want to enhance your sexuality, when you've got boobs your stuck with them 24/7.

And of course shop around and think about the health risks that are involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look great in all your photo's especially your recent thinner, new you ones.

Both of us think you should stay as you are, there are loads of women out there who would love to be the size nature has made you. Apart from the pain and health risks involved in implants how would massive boobs look with your now slimmer torso?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You look great in all your photo's especially your recent thinner, new you ones.

Wot they said..;-);-)

If you have to think about it...

Dont do it.

If its a confidence thing... Its not 2kg of plastic that will sort it...

Personally I have never seen or felt a good pair... After much research...;-)

And with respect, what do you do if your body changes shape again...

Ps: If you ever need a hand holding your natural assets up... Call me...

Good luck...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your photos only show the old you - we need to see the new you before offering firm advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also remember, fake boobs WILL need re-doing in 15 to 20 years, or at the least taking out.

They may also start to look silly if you change weight again.

Personally, prefer natural, whatever shape or size.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can decide if it's right for you, but breast augmentation can and does work wonders for a woman's self-confidence and wellbeing. There are 8,000 ops each year in the UK, so you wouldn't be alone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

If YOU decide to go ahead good luck to you - although i don't think it's new boobs you need it seems to be a dose of self confidence to stop you being a mal content.

You lost weight when you weren't fat - that's your choice - you worked for it you did it. Well done.

Your'e boobs went down with the rest of you - as they would.

Now you want to change your boobs back.

I honestly feel it will be something else after that.

Look at your last verification ' sexy hot body' ......

There is nothing wrong with you.

It's all too shallow for me to care about to be truthful. Though I do worry about peoples emotions and feelings of self worth.

And if im wrong and you are truly madly deeply in love with yourself. Learn to love your tits too.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I echo what Dirty2 say.

If you believe that you have lost a little of who you were before the weight lose then it may be a confidence thing. Only you can make up you mind if it will bring you back to who you were.

I know a few women with implants and they do swear by them. And remember investigate and research. You do get what you pay for.

Lost of luck in you what ever you choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yip i agree ..... its about confidence , are you happy with your body ?? can understand missing them but from a mans perspective prefer the natural look . good luck .

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Morning all

I'm glad this question / dilemma was posted. I too have been thinking along these lines, though I have some way to go with my weight loss yet.

I have lost 3 stone since October and hope to loose another 3/4 this year. I started my weight loss at 38H and I am now 36G ish.

I know they are not small by any stretch but I dont want them to get any smaller. If they did I'd consider implants and I have really grown over the years to love my large boobs and I dont want loads of skin left where once I had bouncy boobs

Will continue to read this posting with interest. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

natural everytime for us,,of course if it makes you miserable then go for it,doesnt sound that way though.great looking profile and pics and no need to change anything xxxxx

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

any surgury carries with it risks. you wouldnt have your spleen removed for no reason, or heart transpant if you dont NEED it, so why would you have implants when, at 32d, you already have some good sized breasts.

when you feel hard done by, by nature, please think of the women who have had mastectomies or were born with very small breasts but arent in the position to get the implants they want.

not to mention the whole furore around bad implants at the moment. at least with your 'less full breats' as they are they will NEVER cause you any bad health problems.

and, on a bloke side of things, 32d is a great size. the average is 36c so you already have larger than a lot. just enjoy them. i sincerely hope you see yoursself as beautiful as you husband, and others, clearly do

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By *carletnsparksMan
over a year ago

halifax

For me hun its natural all the way, good or bad job i just prefer the real thing. Plus wasnt there a big big scare recently about implants leaking? as most have said think long and hard before you go ahead with surgery and do your homework on the surgeon and company you decide to use. good luck in your decision

sparks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

34D is big enough, natural is always best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooooooooooo!!! dont do it!! real and natural all the way . . . . i'm yet to see or play with any 'fake' boobs that look/feel real!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nooooooooooooo!!! dont do it!! real and natural all the way . . . . i'm yet to see or play with any 'fake' boobs that look/feel real! "

How would you have known?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IF you are going to have implants, go for saline implants, they look and feel much more real because they move and squish like real boobs ( after all the swelling and settling in has passed) plus they are safer

however i would say stick with the ones you have unless they make you really unhappy, i want mine reshaped and uplifted because as nice as it is having big boobs if they point down it makes you feel old! but i wont be able to afford it for a very long time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get a pair of 44 GG`s and you can keep me forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i love them as they change shape etc and look natural. Implants to me make then look un-natural which i dnt like. I love breasts to be unique thats what makes them sexy to me. Also they feel so much better without implants in my opinion.

That's my honest opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a pair of 44 GG`s and you can keep me forever

I think she wants to keep the 32 part lol but increase the cup size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get a pair of 44 GG`s and you can keep me forever

I think she wants to keep the 32 part lol but increase the cup size "

the search goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only thing i would say is really consider the pros n cons....remember once u get implants its the not the end....you have to keep getting them done every few years...

also when u r elderly and dont want them anymore it can leave you with a lot of disfigurment !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nooooooooooooo!!! dont do it!! real and natural all the way . . . . i'm yet to see or play with any 'fake' boobs that look/feel real!

How would you have known?

just do, its like a sixth sense

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