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Why save messages you don't reply to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

They may be working their way through a long list, intend to return later or to block delete later.

In any case, the answer is... because they do.

Ignore and don't let it bother you. If you get a response start from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we can!

What's the problem?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?"

I cleared a lot out today that have been there for weeks. Pure laziness on my part!

And sometimes I might think I’ll reply later and then totally forget because real life gets in the way!

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

To mess with your head.

(joking)

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

why is it a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look good until the next one who’s better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes do a bulk delete at the end of the week. Maybe they do that.

Delete your sent box so you don’t worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?"

If they don’t reply assume they aren’t interested and move on. If it is part of ongoing communication I assume better things to do than listen to my waffle. If it happens continually I stop bothering them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Darn, I had this fantasy they liked to mull over my pics... now I realise they're just lazy!

La-di-dah!

I have a head ache!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just delete any messages you send and forget about them. If you get a reply then great, if not, move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Darn, I had this fantasy they liked to mull over my pics... now I realise they're just lazy!

La-di-dah!

I have a head ache!"

They might be wondering how your jumper is so short in the body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i dont know why it is bothering you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lazy that's why. I delete nothing and read very little. My profile my way of doing things... oh and I chuckle to myself that it annoys/ confuses some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bulk delete now and then, just habit not to delete individually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work away from home. We both access our account and will keep messages until we’re both at home to discuss them.

People run their profiles the way that works best for them OP.

Miss V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my laptop I can tick multiple messages and delete them all, while still keeping the ones I want.

On my phone I can only delete 1 at once and it takes ages to refresh the screen so I don't bother sorting my inbox out.

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

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Probably because after trawling through and saving the ones they want, they then built delete the crap they dont want (it happens to me too, I'm not suggesting you send crap messages!)

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

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"Probably because after trawling through and saving the ones they want, they then built delete the crap they dont want (it happens to me too, I'm not suggesting you send crap messages!) "

OMFG... *Bulk delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl are pure evil !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to believe I’m popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they're cross you poked them in the eye when they checked out your profile.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?"

Why not?

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?"

For security. I keep ALL my messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?

For security. I keep ALL my messages."

You make me secured

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I save the ones with the pretty pictures

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't delete from anyone who meets up to 99 years of age, so I've got definite shags in a few years time

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I have a lot of messages so if I’m not feeling like reading answering they could be there for weeks. Someone might get surprise return message after few weeks of sitting in my inbox Just to be dare I have few friend messages on facebook or what’sapp i answered for few days and that’s just how we roll.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I don't delete read messages, why should I?

It's also helps me if they resend the same message week after week and I just have a list of them.

The faq says that a no reply is no thank you, and that is also in my profile, so I feel no need to have to take action in some way on every message received.

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By *unningFoxWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have a lot of messages so if I’m not feeling like reading/ answering they could be there for weeks. Someone might get surprise return message after few weeks of sitting in my inbox Just to be fare I have few friend messages on facebook or what’sapp i haven’t answered for few days and that’s just how we roll. "

Sorry Autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't delete from anyone who meets up to 99 years of age, so I've got definite shags in a few years time"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I thought I was an overthinker.....

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I don't delete from anyone who meets up to 99 years of age, so I've got definite shags in a few years time

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I message, they read the message don't reply but keep the message there! Why?"

The same reason everyone keeps the old pizza menu so we know to throw the next one out.

If you message them again I'll bet they will block you.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Just to fuck with you

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