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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

So I’m chatting to a female who likes it rough but has suggested to me that she’d like me to hit her x is that normal or are any other woman turned on by this seems a bit too much to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like rough sex, but that is too much for me

if you don't feel comfortable with it then dont do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being hit when I'm in a rough sex kind of mood! I'd say it's very normal

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

I’m also 2o years older she likes the daddy scenario x

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I'd run a mile, not a chance I'd be doing that! I don't associate violence with sex though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m also 2o years older she likes the daddy scenario x"

I had a feeling she had daddy issues

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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus


"I'd run a mile, not a chance I'd be doing that! I don't associate violence with sex though."

Me neither she seems quite hot though I’m just not sure x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"So I’m chatting to a female who likes it rough but has suggested to me that she’d like me to hit her x is that normal or are any other woman turned on by this seems a bit too much to me x"
What would you do if it went to far don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love rough sex but id never ask a guy to hit me.. slap my arse or tits but not properly hit.. id be careful OP you never know where this could go

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Hit her to what extent,like a slap or a thump?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love rough sex but id never ask a guy to hit me.. slap my arse or tits but not properly hit.. id be careful OP you never know where this could go "
this sit down and talk fully with her as it could go wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for rough sex and role play but would feel uncomfortable hitting. I've been with women into breath control and I'm not so hot on that either. It could all go horribly wrong, as it sometimes does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit as in a smack on the arse or a tap round the chops or a left hook lacy get to sleep kind?

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

Once you're talking about open palm, playful slapping I would think it's pretty normal...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I’m chatting to a female who likes it rough but has suggested to me that she’d like me to hit her x is that normal or are any other woman turned on by this seems a bit too much to me x"

Is it her x husband or just her x boyfriend?

Either way I think you should just buy him a pint and compare notes on this female, make drinks not war x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save the messages incase it goes south

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By *rungeguyMan
over a year ago

leeds

Must be a donkey punch he’s on about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own kinks, people like what they like. I’m definitely not one for kink shaming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad used to give me a clout round the ear regular just sayin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you're talking about open palm, playful slapping I would think it's pretty normal..."

I should clarify that I thought this ^ is what you meant by hitting! Hard slaps, slamming around, a little bruising from being rough. But if it's more like a punch to the face then I can't say I'm into that and it definitely wouldn't be considered a popular thing I'd imagine!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I'd be very wary in this situation, it can go very wrong very fast and you could end up in serious trouble if she changes her mind or decides she didn't like it. I'm not saying she's definitely like that but you don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My dad used to give me a clout round the ear regular just sayin"

Same here. I think that's just what dad's did back in the day before they could be arrested for it lol

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By *ieandteaseMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I'd move on & block her. What sounds fine between 2 people in private sounds very different when you do not have to say anything but it may harm your defence . . . . .

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

be very carefull op she CANNOT give consent to physical injury intended or not and can lead to a trip to court . did know a girl who liked to be punched during sex but only if i wore boxing gloves

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Walk away from that one OP

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I would not be doing rough sex with anyone on a first meet.. certainly not asking someone to hit me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd be very cautious, if you don't have a good relationship with them. It could also open you up to many allegations of abuse.

It's very possible to have heavy and rough sex, whilst also respecting boundaries that you won't cross over. I enjoy this from time to time but as part of a much broader range of interests, including very tender and gentle.

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