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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Are the ones that say, ‘if I was you I’d’ in the same category?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have them I guess.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are the ones that say, ‘if I was you I’d’ in the same category?

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Yes! They give advice then do the opposite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life? "

To be fair, I'd probably do just about anything you told me to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with double standards are the worst

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

To be fair, I'd probably do just about anything you told me to do "

You might regret that

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Are the ones that say, ‘if I was you I’d’ in the same category?

Yes! They give advice then do the opposite! "

We know the same people or both attract them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

To be fair, I'd probably do just about anything you told me to do

You might regret that "

Make me regret it then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People with double standards are the worst "

Yeah. They have a sudden change of principles with different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life? "

Because most of us if not all, know what we should do and find it harder to follow through. Does that make what they say wrong, invalid and not to listen too?

What do you mean by judging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are the ones that say, ‘if I was you I’d’ in the same category?

Yes! They give advice then do the opposite!

We know the same people or both attract them! "

I pity you if we do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

Because most of us if not all, know what we should do and find it harder to follow through. Does that make what they say wrong, invalid and not to listen too?

What do you mean by judging?"

They put you down or make out you're a bad person.

Like if I told one of my friends I was on here she would be disgusted and think I was slutty yet she regularly meets men on dating sites and has sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

Because most of us if not all, know what we should do and find it harder to follow through. Does that make what they say wrong, invalid and not to listen too?

What do you mean by judging?

They put you down or make out you're a bad person.

Like if I told one of my friends I was on here she would be disgusted and think I was slutty yet she regularly meets men on dating sites and has sex with them. "

Maybe because she has a perception that swingers just fuck anyone with little regard to the individuals. Maybe she thinks fucking 4 or 10 different people in an evening degrading, maybe she sees that as degrading for both people. Maybe she doesn't understand that you are just as careful in selection.

There a lot of posts recently about people just taking offense, mainly because they just don't understand, rather than being offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats my fave thing i say to the kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not as I do.

How annoying are those people? The ones who judge others for things they themselves do.

Please tell me it's not just me who has them in their life?

Because most of us if not all, know what we should do and find it harder to follow through. Does that make what they say wrong, invalid and not to listen too?

What do you mean by judging?

They put you down or make out you're a bad person.

Like if I told one of my friends I was on here she would be disgusted and think I was slutty yet she regularly meets men on dating sites and has sex with them.

Maybe because she has a perception that swingers just fuck anyone with little regard to the individuals. Maybe she thinks fucking 4 or 10 different people in an evening degrading, maybe she sees that as degrading for both people. Maybe she doesn't understand that you are just as careful in selection.

There a lot of posts recently about people just taking offense, mainly because they just don't understand, rather than being offensive."

Yeah that maybe wasn't the best example. I guess I mean more the people who have double standards.

They actively encourage and are fully involved in something with you but then they talk about how bad you are for doing it when they're with other people.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm one of those people when it comes to relationship advice... I tell people how they should give it a chance. Yet first thing I would do if I got a hint of feelings is walk away lol

I give great advice apparently.. I just don't take my own advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thats my fave thing i say to the kids "

Ha! That's acceptable. As is the excuse "because I'm an adult" if they question it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm one of those people when it comes to relationship advice... I tell people how they should give it a chance. Yet first thing I would do if I got a hint of feelings is walk away lol

I give great advice apparently.. I just don't take my own advice."

I think we're all guilty of that

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've no interest in people who aren't authentic or who (try to) deceive. Nor in others who believe that they are superior, expecting to impose their will on to you as complete hypocrites. Plenty of them around and glad to ignore them.

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