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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean, some of the questions I see guys ask on here at times kinda stuns me into submission

Questions I might expect a pubescent to ask being asked, in public, by guys in their late 20's and older

I hate to sound all men hatey cos I'm not, but does a flash of tit and minge take us back to our teens when we knew fuck all?

Does a casual bit of nipple lead us to ask questions that make us look so sexually naive?

Or is it just that The Forums afford us the opportunity we'd love to have, to talk about sex and sexuality openly, but just don't do in real life?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I would like to think that the forums afford us the opportunity to ask those questions that maybe we can't ask anywhere else and hopefully without fear of judgement and ridicule.

Age itself is not an indicator of experience

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Age itself is not an indicator of experience "

How true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is "

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% agree... i wonder what goes on in some peoples heads with the pre pube-scent questions/replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet "

I think the nature of the site is such that it attracts all elements of the human development spectrum and because sex is a basic human need we see more earlier developmental stage logic than we might in other places.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think it's what you typed up there - it affords you the chance to be open and curious and ask all those questions you've wanted to ask. I love asking questions like that but I've learned that people perhaps don't want you to. On here you can find out little anecdotes and read about others experiences.

There's one particular thread recently and I wish I could ask questions about it to people but I don't want to be more peculiar than I am so I don't.

More power to those who have the confidence/carefree attitude to ask those questions I think.

(You're cynical Op, I'm all yay people! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean sniggering when someone says 'bum'?

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

Unfortunately all of their blood swings to drain from their big brain to their little one

If they took the time to read back what they've written, then maybe there'd be a tad more thought put into what they might have to say

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold


"Unfortunately all of their blood SEEMS to drain from their big brain to their little one

If they took the time to read back what they've written, then maybe there'd be a tad more thought put into what they might have to say "

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"You mean sniggering when someone says 'bum'? "

I’m not going to lie, I do snigger at words and still gasp at others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

* OP rushes to green arrow to check he hasn't started any similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet "

Personally I think it’s a bit cringe. However, maybe it’s just another way to connect with others on a regular basis. Is it any different from the many variants of snog, kiss, avoid? I find that cringy and adolescent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet

Personally I think it’s a bit cringe. However, maybe it’s just another way to connect with others on a regular basis. Is it any different from the many variants of snog, kiss, avoid? I find that cringy and adolescent."

I don't go there

Every fker avoided me when I did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place definately brings out the beavis and butthead humour.. and I often wonder wtf is going on.. but on those days I just avoid. Nature of the beast really.. and if that's their burning question in life I hope they get their answers..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No totally the opposite im evolving each day and im not the same man i was 18 months ago similar but not the same

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet "

I think they are a way in to getting to chat to someone as the threads normally get answers

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Whilst I agree with Babs that there is no such thing as a stupid question - there are some that get asked here that and you wonder if the poster missed the most basic biology/sex education lessons at school.

I do sometimes think however that the person asking is doing so for effect and to garner attention in a Beavis & Butthead kind of way.

I think it all ties back into your question yesterday Bussy and how some people view this more as a porn site than anything else and lose all sense of reason and normality as a result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go with the rule would i say it to there face in the pub or would i ask strangers face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean, kind of like using the word minge to describe a vagina, lol. That was a word I used to associate with teenagers, until I joined Fab xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whilst I agree with Babs that there is no such thing as a stupid question - there are some that get asked here that and you wonder if the poster missed the most basic biology/sex education lessons at school.

I do sometimes think however that the person asking is doing so for effect and to garner attention in a Beavis & Butthead kind of way.

I think it all ties back into your question yesterday Bussy and how some people view this more as a porn site than anything else and lose all sense of reason and normality as a result."
are you that boy whacking off in my tool shed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's what you typed up there - it affords you the chance to be open and curious and ask all those questions you've wanted to ask. I love asking questions like that but I've learned that people perhaps don't want you to. On here you can find out little anecdotes and read about others experiences.

There's one particular thread recently and I wish I could ask questions about it to people but I don't want to be more peculiar than I am so I don't.

More power to those who have the confidence/carefree attitude to ask those questions I think.

(You're cynical Op, I'm all yay people! )"

PM me any questions you daren't ask and I'll ask them. Same for anyone reading this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex ed is crap. Many people don't talk openly about sex, even with partners. They probably seriously don't know more than they did as a teenager.

Also they may just be asking questions to wank over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just boredom, desperation and mischief making..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet

I think they are a way in to getting to chat to someone as the threads normally get answers"

I think Rugby has nailed this actually.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Well I educated myself off of the BBC website agony aunt, as the BBC site was the only website we could access at school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I educated myself off of the BBC website agony aunt, as the BBC site was the only website we could access at school. "

BBC website could mean all sorts of things on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t they say there’s no such thing as a daft question?

If you’re thinking it you can almost guarantee someone else is

Not 'daft' just .... aaah it's hard to put it into words

The questions that pose 'the most','the best', 'the worst', 'the longest', 'the oldest', 'the biggest' etc

I associate this sort of question with teenagers not adults.

I know it's not only guys that ask them, but it is invariably

It might just be me. Today.

I might have woken with my cynical head on

Too early to decide yet

Personally I think it’s a bit cringe. However, maybe it’s just another way to connect with others on a regular basis. Is it any different from the many variants of snog, kiss, avoid? I find that cringy and adolescent."

Same here, there must be 3-4 or even more of those threads started every day.

We just ignore those now.

But that said each to their own it’s a free world and a free forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean sniggering when someone says 'bum'?

I’m not going to lie, I do snigger at words and still gasp at others "

Which ones make you gasp, if you dare answer that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Came on that thread to see some tits and get hard

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