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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a beautiful man if they missed out on the best most mind blowing sex of there lives not my issue its like the starving africans analogy kind of

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol "

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?"
its ok to be blunt to anyone just do it back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know the preference thing, but speaks more about them.

Not my type? That's fine, who am I to judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?its ok to be blunt to anyone just do it back"

I would except for being blocked.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

"

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The urgh bit is a bit harsh but most woman block due to the hassle they get when they say no thanks. Either by blokes trying to pursuade them otherwise or by some abusive reply.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?"

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first. "

My thoughts too...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself. "

Like I replied because I thought they were interested in theoretical physics too? Get real.

I replied for sex not thinking with my dick.

I laugh at these straw man type of responses primarily from women .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

My thoughts too..."

You thought? A first for everything..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first. "

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself.

Like I replied because I thought they were interested in theoretical physics too? Get real.

I replied for sex not thinking with my dick.

I laugh at these straw man type of responses primarily from women ."

So you fuck people you think are a bit 'errrmmmm' then get pissed off when those same errrmmm people don't want to fuck you and block you.

Then you get mad because you can't retaliate directly so start a thread about it.

Replying for sex with people you think are errrmmm is the definition of thinking with your dick.

Don't get mad because I worked it out lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first. "

Maybe they felt the same about you.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?"

A fragile ego perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

Maybe they felt the same about you. "

Well they should have been clearer in what they were looking for .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?"

Perhaps not Einstein.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself.

Like I replied because I thought they were interested in theoretical physics too? Get real.

I replied for sex not thinking with my dick.

I laugh at these straw man type of responses primarily from women .

So you fuck people you think are a bit 'errrmmmm' then get pissed off when those same errrmmm people don't want to fuck you and block you.

Then you get mad because you can't retaliate directly so start a thread about it.

Replying for sex with people you think are errrmmm is the definition of thinking with your dick.

Don't get mad because I worked it out lol "

Worked out? Bottom of the class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

"

It says more about them than you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

It says more about them than you. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

Maybe they felt the same about you.

Well they should have been clearer in what they were looking for . "

Maybe the idea of you (profile) was what they were looking for - the reality (face pic) wasn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

Maybe they felt the same about you.

Well they should have been clearer in what they were looking for .

Maybe the idea of you (profile) was what they were looking for - the reality (face pic) wasn’t."

Why didn’t they just block then? Rather than insult him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

Maybe they felt the same about you.

Well they should have been clearer in what they were looking for .

Maybe the idea of you (profile) was what they were looking for - the reality (face pic) wasn’t.

Why didn’t they just block then? Rather than insult him first "

I agree, there’s no need to be rude about it..

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein."

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Crocs

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

"
so why did you message if you thought they weren't all that ... but because they thought you weren't all that your complaining???

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

With socks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

so why did you message if you thought they weren't all that ... but because they thought you weren't all that your complaining??? "

Hardly a complaint. A discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself. "

Don't think that he didn't like their picture. Seems to me that the decision came after the block.

OP's post should have been without the comment about their picture and looks.

This way is just seems as a cryout..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein.

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else. "

If you sent a message to someone and got a rude reply how would you feel? Be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein.

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else.

If you sent a message to someone and got a rude reply how would you feel? Be honest "

I do get rude replies, I get abusive replies, I get insulted, I get a whole range of replies.

People can be shitty. Counter block them.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself.

Like I replied because I thought they were interested in theoretical physics too? Get real.

I replied for sex not thinking with my dick.

I laugh at these straw man type of responses primarily from women .

So you fuck people you think are a bit 'errrmmmm' then get pissed off when those same errrmmm people don't want to fuck you and block you.

Then you get mad because you can't retaliate directly so start a thread about it.

Replying for sex with people you think are errrmmm is the definition of thinking with your dick.

Don't get mad because I worked it out lol

Worked out? Bottom of the class. "

I think not. Your childish snipes at people commenting on here show your true colours.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

so why did you message if you thought they weren't all that ... but because they thought you weren't all that your complaining??? "

He's butt hurt.....big time

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"The urgh bit is a bit harsh but most woman block due to the hassle they get when they say no thanks. Either by blokes trying to pursuade them otherwise or by some abusive reply. "

So true. ‘Why am I not your type’ or all of a sudden they reply with ‘your fat and ugly’ even though they’ve just sent a message saying what they’d like to do.

Oh how easily egos are hurt on here. We have to grow a thick skin and get on with it. Some women do receive hundreds of messages so the block button is quicker.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I get that all the time. Getting use to it now lol

Seems to be ok to be blunt to us single men?

You could have been blunt, but you chose to think with your dick even though you didn't really like their pics. Have more respect for yourself.

Like I replied because I thought they were interested in theoretical physics too? Get real.

I replied for sex not thinking with my dick.

I laugh at these straw man type of responses primarily from women ."

Woop there it is...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

Rude? Realistic.

Wonder what? You were rude about them....they just got in with the block first.

Maybe they felt the same about you.

Well they should have been clearer in what they were looking for . "

Why? Perhaps they don't know what they are looking for but they know they're not looking for you.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein.

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else.

If you sent a message to someone and got a rude reply how would you feel? Be honest "
I get rude and abusive messages all the time. Especially from men who seem to think that I should have been grateful for the attention in the first place x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

so why did you message if you thought they weren't all that ... but because they thought you weren't all that your complaining???

He's butt hurt.....big time "

Impervious to catty nonsense.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein.

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else.

If you sent a message to someone and got a rude reply how would you feel? Be honest "

It would make me feel shitty. I just wouldn't start a thread about it and then get angry with people who I disagree with.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

"

It is early and I am only on my first cuppa so I am probably reading this wrong, but do you mean you thought their pics were all past their best or yours?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"You politely mail with your best face pics because you think why not, local, you're bi too. You look at their pictures but think 'ermmm', though you are all past your best. They then reply 'urgh no thanks' and block you.

You have to wonder sometimes .

so why did you message if you thought they weren't all that ... but because they thought you weren't all that your complaining???

Hardly a complaint. A discussion."
yes but from your original message it comes across as you felt you were lowering your standards for them.... the ughh comment from them was a bit harsh but it can actually be a sigh rather than a yuck.. could have been the 300th guy who had not read the message.

But a simple " thanks not for me" should have been the reply x or no reply rather than adding anything else

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

* profile not message. Teach me to post when tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also....I don't get why it's embarrassing to be blocked?

A fragile ego perhaps?

Perhaps not Einstein.

Yeah well, it comes from the experience of having mine shattered years ago. For a start, don't make a thread unless you are willing to accept that other people might not share the same opinion as you. Also don't get angry with them for when they say that which you disagree with. You decided to put this in a public forum nobody else.

If you sent a message to someone and got a rude reply how would you feel? Be honest

It would make me feel shitty. I just wouldn't start a thread about it and then get angry with people who I disagree with. "

We all react in different ways,

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

OK I think I found the answer

To the OP, if you got that answer back that is nasty and if this thread was started by a woman there would be calls to chop the mans balls off and stick them on a skewer and then to report the mail.

Report the profile please instead of starting threads about it

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