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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi guys you heard me say before... my brother and his gf and an engagement party...

i said i wasn't going to go as his wife t/b was slagging me off behind my back to a girl i liked.

i wasn't going to go... party stated a 7:00pm... 8:00 i got a call from my dad who said "are you coming, everyone is asking where you are" so i go everyone is there all family member so no wonder they were wondering where i was as i haven't seen some of them in years.

end of the night spoke to my brothers friend who is best man.. he tells me to go away and doesn't want to know about evens over the past years... then threatens to hit is i dont go... some woman starts laughing and tells me to go home... i tell her to fuck off and how would they feel if didn't get and invite when everyone had one months ago.

i go.

i say to me brother and dad hes best man and threttedned to hit me and its a family event and i was told to leave.

put even more strain on it... i was right was better off not going as now me and best man are not currently speaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your brother is your dad?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

And your aim in sharing this is what?... to put people off meeting you?

I am not sure I understand the point you are making here

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Your brother is your dad? "

Must be Cumbrian, happens a lot round here - "Meet my husband and my brother" she says.....and there's just the one guy.......

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall

Jeremy Kyle needs you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At times this site comes across like a holding pen for the jeremy kyle show!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I understood exactly what you were saying.

I also understand the parts that you conveniently left out.

Here goes ......

You sat at home like a brooding child allowing the chip to fester to your shoulder bone because you didn't receive an invite.

It hurt.

Your family contact you and ask you to go.

You neither accept nor decline with grace. Instead you vent your hurt to your dad like an emotional child and say .... 'what family haven't seen them for years'

You speak to the 'best man' to be. Instead of letting things go and deciding to live in the moment and aim for the future you drag up the past and 'probably' say unsavoury things about family and family to be.

The best man - quite rightly - says leave the past where it is. He eventually gets fed up of you and says just go.

A woman tells you to fuck off. Probably not out of nowhere. She too has more than likely heard the stuff you are saying. I'd guess you'd had a couple of drinks.

They tried with you. You blew it.

Maybe a bit of counselling about why you feel so unloved wouldn't go amiss.

Best wishes for the future n I hope all is well at the wedding. If you go - don't drink.

A wedding is to CELEBRATE for the couple. NOT to open old wounds. Which is how you treated their engagement party.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park."

Did that once........best day ever!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park."

Jane. I am breathing in ....and out !!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Jane. I am breathing in ....and out !!"

Care to start a thread on it?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Jane. I am breathing in ....and out !!

Care to start a thread on it?

"

Don't mind if I doooooo

It is cold here today. I had an egg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *otswbabeCouple
over a year ago

north cornwall


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Jane. I am breathing in ....and out !!"

So glad to hear it... Now don't go taking it for granted granny

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Jane. I am breathing in ....and out !!

So glad to hear it... Now don't go taking it for granted granny "

Glad that something's working at my age ;P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

in this instant it wasn't me actually... my bros wife to be is jealous so don't invite me and slags me off then i challenge her friends the beleive her now.

shes won because you cant do nothing but walk away.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"in this instant it wasn't me actually... my bros wife to be is jealous so don't invite me and slags me off then i challenge her friends the beleive her now.

shes won because you cant do nothing but walk away."

You've started to win x

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Can we come to the wedding ?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I could do with some humour this afternoon.... please someone tell me Gloria Gaynor was playing at the end of the evening....

"Go on now go

Walk out the door

Just turn around now

'Cause you're not welcome anymore..... "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I don't wanna see you go

Boy you

Better gooooo nowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww !

Name the Song, Band and Year.

Hurry up ......

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Ozzy ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ozzy ?"

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

family affair..?

was it sly and the whats it bloody well called group..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"family affair..?

was it sly and the whats it bloody well called group.."

No .... listen ... it goes......

Before you see me cryyyyyyyyyyyy

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft "

Go Now - Moody Blues.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues. "

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"family affair..?

was it sly and the whats it bloody well called group..

No .... listen ... it goes......

Before you see me cryyyyyyyyyyyy "

with a nice piano (not electric?) bit in the middle..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize "

which is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus, been ill for a few days and return to find everyones gone stark raving mad, brill, we will definately pay our fiver again.

Could we have the "found a pound" story in full, it'll be profoundly interesting.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize "

...... as covered by Ozzy.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

which is? "

It's a certificate saying YOU omitted to give the year. Better luck next time x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

...... as covered by Ozzy."

Really ? Honestly ? Definitely ?

Im going to you tube it. Don't you be lying to me

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

which is?

It's a certificate saying YOU omitted to give the year. Better luck next time x "

thought it was a copy of 'deliverance'...

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

*cringes*

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

which is?

It's a certificate saying YOU omitted to give the year. Better luck next time x "

1967 ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"*cringes*"

what...

its a good film..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wtf ???

I could've sworn this was a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

which is?

It's a certificate saying YOU omitted to give the year. Better luck next time x

1967 ?"

1964/65 I would say, their first UK hit, before Justin Hayward came along in a couple of years.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Wtf ???

I could've sworn this was a swinging site. "

What makes you think that ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p"

I gave advice already. 2p

When's your next morality class ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S.

I am not a member of any sisterhood.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Ozzy ?

No you bloody daft pair.....

Pffffft

Go Now - Moody Blues.

Yeah Baz....... you get the prize

which is?

It's a certificate saying YOU omitted to give the year. Better luck next time x

1967 ?

1964/65 I would say, their first UK hit, before Justin Hayward came along in a couple of years. "

It was 64.

Apparently Ozzie did cover it on an album in 2005.

Apparently Simply Red did too .....

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p"

maybe the brotherhood have pm'd him?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p

maybe the brotherhood have pm'd him?

"

Would it be one single message signed by all or a message from each of them? It's important cos it'll clog the server up.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p

maybe the brotherhood have pm'd him?

Would it be one single message signed by all or a message from each of them? It's important cos it'll clog the server up."

will ask the head brother and get back ..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p"

2p or not 2p, that is the question.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"

2p or not 2p, that is the question."

Quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys you heard me say before... my brother and his gf and an engagement party...

i said i wasn't going to go as his wife t/b was slagging me off behind my back to a girl i liked.

i wasn't going to go... party stated a 7:00pm... 8:00 i got a call from my dad who said "are you coming, everyone is asking where you are" so i go everyone is there all family member so no wonder they were wondering where i was as i haven't seen some of them in years.

end of the night spoke to my brothers friend who is best man.. he tells me to go away and doesn't want to know about evens over the past years... then threatens to hit is i dont go... some woman starts laughing and tells me to go home... i tell her to fuck off and how would they feel if didn't get and invite when everyone had one months ago.

i go.

i say to me brother and dad hes best man and threttedned to hit me and its a family event and i was told to leave.

put even more strain on it... i was right was better off not going as now me and best man are not currently speaking."

I am at a loss why you felt the need to post this in a public forum. you would be far better talking to a friend about it who is likely to be far less judgemental. you obviously need some help with this situation but there are far better places than here.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"I am at a loss why you felt the need to post this in a public forum. you would be far better talking to a friend about it who is likely to be far less judgemental. you obviously need some help with this situation but there are far better places than here."

Disagree, airing ones thoughts online can be very elucidating.

..... and there's a possibility that we're all getting invited to the wedding.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I am at a loss why you felt the need to post this in a public forum. you would be far better talking to a friend about it who is likely to be far less judgemental. you obviously need some help with this situation but there are far better places than here.

Disagree, airing ones thoughts online can be very elucidating.

..... and there's a possibility that we're all getting invited to the wedding."

Agree.....operative word being public....

Now then ......if you two get an invite to the wedding and I don't !!!

How is that gonna make me feel ??

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

the problem with pissing and moaning on an internet forum is that the contributers only get one side of the story, and there are always self incriminating ommisions.

as has been said, talk it over with a friend that knows both sides of the story. that way you get a fair opinion of advice and not just a forum full of people calling you a childish idiot and to swallow the past and enjoy your brothers day.

personally, it sounds like you are bitter at not being chosen to be best man.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"..... and there's a possibility that we're all getting invited to the wedding.

Agree.....operative word being public....

Now then ......if you two get an invite to the wedding and I don't !!!

How is that gonna make me feel ??"

No, no, we've "all" got a chance here.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

Then we can be unhelpful in real life.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"..... and there's a possibility that we're all getting invited to the wedding.

Agree.....operative word being public....

Now then ......if you two get an invite to the wedding and I don't !!!

How is that gonna make me feel ??

No, no, we've "all" got a chance here."

What if we have a past tho ?

What if

What

Whu

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

When we make the film I want to be the woman who laughs n goes... Fuck off.

I've been practising backwards pointing with my thumb .... in a fuck off fashion...

Do you think I should say ..... Beat it ! if it goes out before the watershed ?

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

The soundtrack for this wedding movie doesn't seem to be to much of a problem.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

"

OK serious advice for the OP… *cough cough clears throat*….

Stop playing tit for tat over idle gossip, because if you keep up your current behaviour it won’t be gossip it will be fact.

Of course the friends of this woman aren’t going to listen to you... did you really expect them to? You do understand the concept of friends don’t you?

It got to the end of the night and you trying to make people pick sides, not just any old people, your brother's best man, before any incident happened. Have you ever thought you were being told to leave as it was in your best interest to shut the fuck up at that point?

You had the evening to enjoy with family. You had the chance to prove your critics wrong… instead you chose to prove them right to a wider audience.

People at the party wouldn't be aware of who is meant to have said what to who.... and the vast mjority won't care.

They will however be aware you behaved like a dick.

There's only one way to turn the tables on someone slagging you off.... that is to prove they are wrong. Running around like a mardy child won't win you supporters.

Alternatively, you could blame the world and lose them all.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Sorry if I am leaping on some established piss take, but I can't help but feel that if OP was a woman, the sisterhood would be rallying around.

I have been lucky enough never to fall out with my family, but my cousins did not speak for about 5 years following my Uncles death.

It was realy uncomfortable through that period and fortunately my old man was able to get them both out for a few pints and knock their heads together and it's all sorted

This bloke is obviously trying to get genuine advice on what to do here and we seem to just be taking the piss......

2p"

Actually there was a similar post here a few months ago by a woman and, if I recall correctly, the replies were similar. Maybe not as harsh, as she didn't come across as quite so clueless, but pretty much all wanting to know why someone would air their dirty laundry on a public swinger site forum.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"When we make the film I want to be the woman who laughs n goes... Fuck off.

I've been practising backwards pointing with my thumb .... in a fuck off fashion...

Do you think I should say ..... Beat it ! if it goes out before the watershed ?"

That's too Jacko.... try "Do one"

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"When we make the film I want to be the woman who laughs n goes... Fuck off.

I've been practising backwards pointing with my thumb .... in a fuck off fashion...

Do you think I should say ..... Beat it ! if it goes out before the watershed ?

That's too Jacko.... try "Do one""

Oow oow ooww... how about "sling your 'ook" in a Pat Butcher voice.

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


" pretty much all wanting to know why someone would air their dirty laundry on a public swinger site forum. "

Mental note: put a disclaimer "say you were in this situation" before posting anything along these lines.

How can it be "dirty laundry" when no one knows anyone involved ?

( yet )

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !

"Slap my bitch up" - Prodigy

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By *ucky_LadsCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Kidderminster+ surrounding areas.


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Did that once........best day ever! "

found a fiver on saturday so put on lotto,checked on sunday and i had won over 200 quid!.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


" pretty much all wanting to know why someone would air their dirty laundry on a public swinger site forum.

Mental note: put a disclaimer "say you were in this situation" before posting anything along these lines.

How can it be "dirty laundry" when no one knows anyone involved ?

( yet )"

If you air your dirty laundry in public, you reveal aspects of your private life that should really remain private, by telling a secret, arguing in public, etc. Doesn't have to be anybody we know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys you heard me say before... my brother and his gf and an engagement party...

i said i wasn't going to go as his wife t/b was slagging me off behind my back to a girl i liked.

i wasn't going to go... party stated a 7:00pm... 8:00 i got a call from my dad who said "are you coming, everyone is asking where you are" so i go everyone is there all family member so no wonder they were wondering where i was as i haven't seen some of them in years.

end of the night spoke to my brothers friend who is best man.. he tells me to go away and doesn't want to know about evens over the past years... then threatens to hit is i dont go... some woman starts laughing and tells me to go home... i tell her to fuck off and how would they feel if didn't get and invite when everyone had one months ago.

i go.

i say to me brother and dad hes best man and threttedned to hit me and its a family event and i was told to leave.

put even more strain on it... i was right was better off not going as now me and best man are not currently speaking."

Why on earth did you post this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well a think its a wee shame

For everyone who read it I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys you heard me say before... my brother and his gf and an engagement party...

i said i wasn't going to go as his wife t/b was slagging me off behind my back to a girl i liked.

i wasn't going to go... party stated a 7:00pm... 8:00 i got a call from my dad who said "are you coming, everyone is asking where you are" so i go everyone is there all family member so no wonder they were wondering where i was as i haven't seen some of them in years.

end of the night spoke to my brothers friend who is best man.. he tells me to go away and doesn't want to know about evens over the past years... then threatens to hit is i dont go... some woman starts laughing and tells me to go home... i tell her to fuck off and how would they feel if didn't get and invite when everyone had one months ago.

i go.

i say to me brother and dad hes best man and threttedned to hit me and its a family event and i was told to leave.

put even more strain on it... i was right was better off not going as now me and best man are not currently speaking.

I am at a loss why you felt the need to post this in a public forum. you would be far better talking to a friend about it who is likely to be far less judgemental. you obviously need some help with this situation but there are far better places than here."

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester

Was the buffet any good ?

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By *landPeggyCouple
over a year ago

Holland !


"If you air your dirty laundry in public, you reveal aspects of your private life that should really remain private, by telling a secret, arguing in public, etc. Doesn't have to be anybody we know."

Surely if one is posting as an anonymous type person ...... it could be anyone's laundry, thus one is not revealing any aspects of one's private life.

Sorry if I'm being a bit thick headed on this one, but if random single male posted a thread " Just caught my grandson rodgering the neighbours dog " would that also be considered to be " airing one's dirty laundry " ?

More of a "Dear Judy" advice column, or whoever.

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By *rs and mr sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

Boldon


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Did that once........best day ever!

found a fiver on saturday so put on lotto,checked on sunday and i had won over 200 quid!. "

Tell me exactly where and when you found it and I'll tell you if it was mine so I can collect me winnings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your brother is your dad? "

(to theme from the adams family)

your sister is your mother

your father is your brother

we all love one another

our mixed up family

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If you air your dirty laundry in public, you reveal aspects of your private life that should really remain private, by telling a secret, arguing in public, etc. Doesn't have to be anybody we know.

Surely if one is posting as an anonymous type person ...... it could be anyone's laundry, thus one is not revealing any aspects of one's private life.

Sorry if I'm being a bit thick headed on this one, but if random single male posted a thread " Just caught my grandson rodgering the neighbours dog " would that also be considered to be " airing one's dirty laundry " ?

More of a "Dear Judy" advice column, or whoever."

I see what you mean, but the OP just seems to be a 'look at my family' post more than a 'what shall I do about my family' post.

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

For a crappy thread it still attracted 73 hits !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your brother is your dad?

(to theme from the adams family)

your sister is your mother

your father is your brother

we all love one another

our mixed up family"

I thought it was Norfolk family

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"For a crappy thread it still attracted 73 hits !!!!!! "

A bit like the OP's face if he tries to fuck things up at the wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a crappy thread it still attracted 73 hits !!!!!!

A bit like the OP's face if he tries to fuck things up at the wedding."

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"For a crappy thread it still attracted 73 hits !!!!!!

A bit like the OP's face if he tries to fuck things up at the wedding."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am at a loss why you felt the need to post this in a public forum. you would be far better talking to a friend about it who is likely to be far less judgemental. you obviously need some help with this situation but there are far better places than here.

Disagree, airing ones thoughts online can be very elucidating.

..... and there's a possibility that we're all getting invited to the wedding."

Shall I buy a hat then?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"I understood exactly what you were saying.

I also understand the parts that you conveniently left out.

Here goes ......

You sat at home like a brooding child allowing the chip to fester to your shoulder bone because you didn't receive an invite.

It hurt.

Your family contact you and ask you to go.

You neither accept nor decline with grace. Instead you vent your hurt to your dad like an emotional child and say .... 'what family haven't seen them for years'

You speak to the 'best man' to be. Instead of letting things go and deciding to live in the moment and aim for the future you drag up the past and 'probably' say unsavoury things about family and family to be.

The best man - quite rightly - says leave the past where it is. He eventually gets fed up of you and says just go.

A woman tells you to fuck off. Probably not out of nowhere. She too has more than likely heard the stuff you are saying. I'd guess you'd had a couple of drinks.

They tried with you. You blew it.

Maybe a bit of counselling about why you feel so unloved wouldn't go amiss.

Best wishes for the future n I hope all is well at the wedding. If you go - don't drink.

A wedding is to CELEBRATE for the couple. NOT to open old wounds. Which is how you treated their engagement party. "

Ok, guess it was just me that didnt get even 10% of what he was saying!!!!

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park."

Did that once........best day ever!

ionce found a wage packet with £250 in it i was so pissed off !!!! you should have see how much tax i paid lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Punctured bicycle on a hillside desolate.

Will nature make a man of me yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a crappy thread it still attracted 73 hits !!!!!!

A bit like the OP's face if he tries to fuck things up at the wedding."

I shouldn't laugh ................. but I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your brother is your dad?

(to theme from the adams family)

your sister is your mother

your father is your brother

we all love one another

our mixed up family

I thought it was Norfolk family "

didnt wanna upset our norfolk members

gimme 6

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

mm raspberry trifle with whipped cream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your brother is your dad?

(to theme from the adams family)

your sister is your mother

your father is your brother

we all love one another

our mixed up family

I thought it was Norfolk family

didnt wanna upset our norfolk members

gimme 6 "

The biggest arguement in Norfolk is "Just because we're divorced, it doesn't mean you're not my sister no more!!"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

oh my god god op ! exactly how old are you ? the thing that speaks volumes to me is the fact your own brother was getting engaged and you were sulking and not going to go ! it doesnt matter if you dont like his gf (its his choice of life partner not yours) .its dosesnt matter if she has said things to her friends about you (unless what she said was actually the truth ! ).the ONE and ONLY thing thats importent is you were there for your brother and you blew it ! im 500 miles away from my faily and i would walk over hot coals to ensure i was there for their special occasion ! all you have done is whitter on about how YOU dont like the gf ,how YOU had been slagged off ,how YOU didnt wanna go ,how YOU had been been threatened by the best man ect .guess what ..its NOT all ABOUT YOU LOL !!!

have you any any point given one tiny thought to how the hell your poor brother feels ??? one of the land mark days in his life and your stropping about like tantrum throwing toddler !

grow a pair and start acting like an adult !

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By *araidWoman
over a year ago

the west (ish)

oohhh nothing like a good fight to mske a wedding memorable.

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I blame Facebook.....people living their whole lives out on the internet.

Tommorrow....how he went shopping and found a pound coin in Tescos car park.

Did that once........best day ever! "

Totally off topic, but back in the day I was working in Manchester and one of the local numpties wanted me to help him with his new master plan.

'Yeaahhhh, you know these new trolleys at the Asda, you have to have a pound coin, and then you get a pound back afterwards...'

'yeah....'

'Well, like, if you can get a van we can nick a whole load at once when the shop's shut and they're stored outside, and get the pound coins out....'

Some people are beyond help....

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By *waymanMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"oohhh nothing like a good fight to mske a wedding memorable."

Bridesmaid wrestling videos are quite rare but very good fun...

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

after Granny and Polo cracking me up - i got a bit bored...

Did anyone get an invite to the wedding or not???

And what WAS the first dance???

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"im 500 miles away from my faily and I would walk over got coals"

But would you then walk 500 more ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im 500 miles away from my faily and I would walk over got coals

But would you then walk 500 more ? "

lmao.dadadada

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Is this fallout anything to do with this Nuclear family the government keep harping on about.

Meet in Windscale anyone?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

Is this fallout anything to do with this Nuclear family the government keep harping on about.

Meet in Windscale anyone?"

You organising meets up my way Mushy? - catch you for a pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi guys you heard me say before... my brother and his gf and an engagement party...

i said i wasn't going to go as his wife t/b was slagging me off behind my back to a girl i liked.

i wasn't going to go... party stated a 7:00pm... 8:00 i got a call from my dad who said "are you coming, everyone is asking where you are" so i go everyone is there all family member so no wonder they were wondering where i was as i haven't seen some of them in years.

end of the night spoke to my brothers friend who is best man.. he tells me to go away and doesn't want to know about evens over the past years... then threatens to hit is i dont go... some woman starts laughing and tells me to go home... i tell her to fuck off and how would they feel if didn't get and invite when everyone had one months ago.

i go.

i say to me brother and dad hes best man and threttedned to hit me and its a family event and i was told to leave.

put even more strain on it... i was right was better off not going as now me and best man are not currently speaking."

Its a shame when things like this occur. Probably not the best place to open your heart but i hope all works out well for you and bridges get fixed.

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