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when people don’t understand that you can’t meet because you have kids

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This topic really annoys me because you will be talking for ages then they want a meet and you esplane you have children and they are so rude anybody else had this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have kids i have many sexes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a single parent and I can’t get time for it because i have my child all the time other than when they go up to there grans and when that happens nobody wants to meet

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

You can't meet at all, or you just can't meet when they want you to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When they want me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time management and logistics of meeting when you have young kids isn’t easy.

Do you know dates in advance when you’re free? If you do you can add them to your profile text so people are aware.

No need for anyone to be rude. Block ‘em...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never thought about that and ano that’s what I do to be honest

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Never had this problem to be fair. All of the women I met/tried to arrange a meet with had been perfectly understanding I'm a single parent with young kids. Many of them in the same boat as me so double hard to arrange something. Sometimes it was just not possible to arrange something but they've all been fine with it.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I’m a single parent and I can’t get time for it because i have my child all the time other than when they go up to there grans and when that happens nobody wants to meet "

OP having a well written profile can help with this. Most single ladies and couples do actually read profiles so if you put on there that you have a child/children so meets need to be arranged at a mutually convenient date and time it will make a difference.

I can't just drop everything for a meet either because I'm a full time carer for my mum. Despite the fact some men don't read profiles and just look at the pictures, putting it on my profile has reduced the amount of "meet now" messages I get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you and what dose op mean on this and sorry to hear that your careing for your mum I hope she’s okay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got blocked after having to cancel a meet cos my youngest was sick ... erm sorry mate I'm not leaving a sick kid for the sake of a f7ck

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford


"This topic really annoys me because you will be talking for ages then they want a meet and you esplane you have children and they are so rude anybody else had this problem "

It's not just kids for is. It's parents and work too! Makes me think that these people don't understand life real life or have no concept of responsibility. It's hard!

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By *arex2Couple
over a year ago

Bradford


"Thank you and what dose op mean on this and sorry to hear that your careing for your mum I hope she’s okay x"

Original poster...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Werid some of these folk

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