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Shag or a social first?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With you? A social as I don't wanna shag shag. Or any man, just to be clear on that!

On a separate note, my last meet was practically forced into a social beforehand. Bloody woman

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Social first, helloooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more "

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight "

Nooo way. How did you work that one out

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight "

I like socials with the possibility of more. I've never been a shag first sort - even if with someone I've met before I prefer some sort of social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight

Nooo way. How did you work that one out "

I am Sherlock Holmes for the 21st century!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight

Nooo way. How did you work that one out

I am Sherlock Holmes for the 21st century!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first for safety reasons mainly then if they work out fine they have turned into more on the odd occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skull fuck in kfc on a table

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more

That’s why you’re called Shag Tonight and not Social Tonight

Nooo way. How did you work that one out

I am Sherlock Holmes for the 21st century!

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That is right and it is the reason I am called shagtonight, shagsocial is a good name too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first I like a chat and to see if there is a spark

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Social, always.

If someone's not prepared or willing to give me 30minutes of their time.

Then I'm certainly not willing to give them my entire body.

Couple of occasions a social has gone on to be more than just a drink, but with both. I'd spent a long time previously chatting.

That spark on first meeting doesn't happen very often for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a social x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal at the drive thru window

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Social first, no exceptions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social, always.

If someone's not prepared or willing to give me 30minutes of their time.

Then I'm certainly not willing to give them my entire body.

Couple of occasions a social has gone on to be more than just a drink, but with both. I'd spent a long time previously chatting.

That spark on first meeting doesn't happen very often for me "

This xx

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I prefer a social first but a shag wouldn't be bad either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

69 on bus 69?

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

A sneaky finger in a bar during a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social first for us! We need to see if there is a spark or chemistry between all of us and with couples that can be a bit trickier!

PT x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always social first, but it’s been known for a casual drink to become a lot more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good social...sometimes the sparks fly instantly and you end up getting it on quickly....but that’s because you can ‘feel it’.

Can’t beat a couple of drinks and laughs to see if this is a person you fancy and would like to have a fun time with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal at the drive thru window"

Finger licking bucket lover ain't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either works for me. If someone wants to buy me a cup of tea before getting my clothes off, who am I to say no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal at the drive thru window

Finger licking bucket lover ain't we? "
no prefer maccies

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Anal at the drive thru window

Finger licking bucket lover ain't we? no prefer maccies"

I think they stick a cock in your bun there

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Social first unless I happen to connect with someone new at a club.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Got to be social first with the options of more if it's going well

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Always a social first. A few have gone straight to more because of instant chemistry x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal at the drive thru window

Finger licking bucket lover ain't we? no prefer maccies"

Do I detect a whiff of bullshit in the air?....'Skull fuck in kfc on a table'....I hope you use napkins.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I don't meet that often now.. But when I have sometimes it's been drinks out and depending on the person have been open to possibilities especially when you have that gut feeling from chatting that your going to get on and have that spark and chemistry. But it's a fine line, safety and everything else.

I'm a big believer in just going with the flow trusting my gut instincts and doing what feels right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes me a while to warm up to someone sexually. I don’t think I’ve ever met anyone that I just wanted to jump straight away. I need a bit of mind stimulation to get there. Always a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good plans everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer a social first if possible

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Social first. May not be an attraction

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Socials are great, love the flirting and the build up. Not that I'd turn down a shag you understand ')

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By *iss behaving2019Woman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Always a social meet before even considering the second step!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *D04Couple
over a year ago

Leigh

We use to cut straight to Mrs greeting our meets at the door naked and getting straight to it.

But the heats just not the same as when theres been a social first lots of teasing and then a second meet straight to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social always.. even with X who drove an 8 hour round trip in one day. For me the build up and connection is way more important than a shag. Makes the following journey more exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social always, although we aren’t adverse to playing straight away if there’s a spark

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd meet you for a social shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social first as attraction and chemistry are both key

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

A couple of drinks and a few laughs first, then down to business.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I play it both ways but either way I like time to ease into it. A drink, a flirt and just feel the vibe. If it feels right I'm up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer socials with the possibility of more. But subsequent meets I’d be happy for the social aspect to be integrated into the horizontal activities

I’ve never got to a second sexual meet so the latter is still wishful thinking

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Socials first... unless it’s someone who REALLY grabs my attention

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Social and hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer socials with the possibility of more. But subsequent meets I’d be happy for the social aspect to be integrated into the horizontal activities

I’ve never got to a second sexual meet so the latter is still wishful thinking "

Unless it’s local and then socials are just fine. If I am travelling I like there to be the possibility of making a day of it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer? I like both, but if I had to choose a shag first, a social is fun too as you get to know the other person more "

Am I the only one that does socials after??!

Sex is sex but a social I have to genuinely like the person as a human might be just me!

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Fuck

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I always have a social first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if u get to mutual messaging guys u have a rough idea of there being a spark , chemistry to meet or not ,yes it is hard so best to meet in public !but not all of us have but luckily they have been genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes everyone's here for one thing so genuine people it's easy and straight forward social for friends or on going fun lol

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Social! Their pics might be ok but no guarantee of them looking same in person or even gettin on with them even if that is to bump uglies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back scuttle in a park bush

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Socials are great, if we’re both laughing a lot then nakedness is going to be lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always a social, sometimes two, if they can make me laugh then we’re in business

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I've done both, it depends on the person. They're both equally exciting and enjoyable in their own way.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Shag then social usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a social first to make sure we like them

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Social first.

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Social

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Social, a nice meal or drink and if he / she / they don't run to the hills after seeing me in the flesh, I pounce

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like both, it all depends on the situation and people.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

social need that chemistry and spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social always.. even with X who drove an 8 hour round trip in one day. For me the build up and connection is way more important than a shag. Makes the following journey more exciting. "

Blow jobs don't count....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of variables here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Social there’s got to be a connection

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By *merald Eyes XWoman
over a year ago

Can you find me….

Social first

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Social and more

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