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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?"
my confidence is crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Impatience probably. I want everything now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?"

My face is nobody's type

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am a closed, I don't open up much and can appear stand off ish.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I overthink everything. It’s quite exhausting you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My memory is like a colander

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im 0 to 100 when im disappointed luckily it goes but im very sulky

I think thats my biggest flaw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attention to detail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically, my skin.

Otherwise, I'm very hyper sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I overthink everything. It’s quite exhausting you know "
i do that too its like an addiction to stress

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I can be very temperamental.

During such times i like to be left alone so i don’t say something i won’t regret.

I’m also exceedingly stubborn.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I trust too much

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By *orny_Couple22Couple
over a year ago

Worthing

Im very self critical and always put myself down rather than lifting myself up when others put me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel attractive and low confidence and self esteem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ruin anything that’s going well to avoid rejection or disappoint (proper nuts)

Physically - mummy tummy

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am really unconfident about myself as a person and my physical looks. I also come across as negative, apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I overthink everything. It’s quite exhausting you know "
This for me too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My memory is like a colander

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mentally - an overactive mind,only escape from it is sleep or reading.

Physically, tempted to say my mum tum,but realistically my arthritis is going to be a much more serious issue than a bit of flab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a pessimist ... drives me crazy always seeing the negative

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

My weight fuelled by my inability to eat well and my comfort eating ways and lack of motivation to excercise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence in private and work life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got shit organisational skills which leads to lots of stress.

Physically I think my legs are a bit crap but I don't feel overly self-conscious about it.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm an erratic, live for the moment kind of person who very rarely worries about stuff or the future which irritates some people who say I am irresponsible. I guess they see it as a flaw. I don't. Fuck them!

I guess my tummy is a little flabby but fuck it! It's my tummy. Is a flabby tummy really a flaw? I'm not tall enough but is being short a flaw.

So, I guess my flaw is I don't believe I have any flaws unless you count swearing as a flaw?

What is a flaw anyway? Do we really have flaws? We are who we are and for the most part we can't change that. I can only strive to lead the best life I can with the attributes I was born with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an erratic, live for the moment kind of person who very rarely worries about stuff or the future which irritates some people who say I am irresponsible. I guess they see it as a flaw. I don't. Fuck them!

I guess my tummy is a little flabby but fuck it! It's my tummy. Is a flabby tummy really a flaw? I'm not tall enough but is being short a flaw.

So, I guess my flaw is I don't believe I have any flaws unless you count swearing as a flaw?

What is a flaw anyway? Do we really have flaws? We are who we are and for the most part we can't change that. I can only strive to lead the best life I can with the attributes I was born with.

"

This is the best answer

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Mine is a fine edged sword, as what I could call my biggest flaw is also one of my greatest assets.

My ADHD brain.

It never stops, it overthinks, it needs routine & order, it makes me constantly fidget, it forgets everyday stuff.

But

It solves problems at lightening speed, I can react while others stand like statues, it's doesn't panic in a crisis it excels, I have a photographic memory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is a fine edged sword, as what I could call my biggest flaw is also one of my greatest assets.

My ADHD brain.

It never stops, it overthinks, it needs routine & order, it makes me constantly fidget, it forgets everyday stuff.

But

It solves problems at lightening speed, I can react while others stand like statues, it's doesn't panic in a crisis it excels, I have a photographic memory. "

I view my aspergers brain in a very similar way. A blessing or a curse, depending on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being too trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could sit and list my flaws

Being overly self critical should therefore top any list

I know I'm not all good

However, I am more good than I am bad and as long as that balance remains, I'm OK

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I fall in love to quickly and lay my cards openly on the table. Go sue me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fall in love to quickly and lay my cards openly on the table. Go sue me "

Sure. How much have you got ? then I can state the right amount when I sue ya, save all the legal wrangling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My memory is like a colander "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cynicism.

I look at everything and everybody and ask why they say or do things.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Definitely over thinking everything x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 14/05/19 09:08:55]"

Decisiveness?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My general quietness is probably viewed as a flaw. I'm just naturally quiet and not an active conversationalist. It can probably make new people I met feel a tad uneasy.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

Not giving flying sh.. About others opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not giving flying sh.. About others opinions "
inability to say a swear

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have no flaws except mayhap modesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no flaws except mayhap modesty. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wildly self destructive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brain dysfunction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Menrally, I'd be here all day, physically most of me works okay and i'm long passed caring about any imperfections

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very self critical, and have low self esteem. Physically I would say mostly my flabby tummy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?

My face is nobody's type "

Snap

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?"

I have a low level of confidence and will often doubt what I know, even if I know I am right

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Someone told me the other day that I'm hard to read...

Thought that was interesting. Dont know if I'd consider it a flaw tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very insecure about how others think of me, not physically that doesn’t bother me but me as a person

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

I'm an over thinker

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

To nice for my own good

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Have you told us yours yet op?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?"
yep about 6th one down

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Too picky so don’t have as much sex as most but not sure if I’d be happier changing that flaw?!

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

confidence a bit and decision making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too kind

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down "

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait. "

I'm a serial scroller

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?"

My addictive personality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait. "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Anxiety, without a doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My inability to filter what comes out of my mouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say my confidence! It's rubbish and I come across as really shy and boring until I come out of my shell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is rubbish, post loads of pics but actually hate the lack of tone to my physique. Working on it though, and could do with bigger boobs! Haha x

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what i need to do.. i just dont do it.. i dont know why.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My inability to filter what comes out of my mouth!"
not a flaw folks know where they stand that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inability to filter what comes out of my mouth!not a flaw folks know where they stand that way"

That depends what is said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My inability to filter what comes out of my mouth!not a flaw folks know where they stand that way"

Maybe but I definitely need to pick my moments and think before I speak.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Overthink over analyse

My Aspergers makes me my own worst enemy. But

I can conflict resolve and plan on the fly.

Physically because I’m a a bit of a lump I’m also clumsy and don’t have the internal confidence to match my frame sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what i need to do.. i just dont do it.. i dont know why."

Story of my life!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait. "

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Erm... Mentally; I distract myself and have an awful habit of not dealing with issues soon enough. Im also prone to overthinking things. I find it very hard to trust people and really don't suffer fools.

Physically; not a lot, I'm in the best shape of my life at the moment. My upper body strength isn't great but that's what you get with running, if I was bothered much, I'd do something about it.

Ultimately though, if I'm unhappy with something, then I work on it, a known flaw can be compensated for, an overused strength can be more of a hindrance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. "
scaredy cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our flaws are not imperfections...they are what makes each and everyone of us unique...flaws should be recognised understood and embraced....for who we are as an individual. If another doesn't accept you because of a 'flaw'...then they deny there own also...which leads to a life of denial

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat

"
flaw identified

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

What some see as flaws can also be strengths.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat

flaw identified "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat

flaw identified

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oooo i found another having to have the last word

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

That I can be a bit of a cunt :- :-

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat

flaw identified

oooo i found another having to have the last word "

I thought we were supposed to be identifying our own

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Christ where do I start ...

I have no time for stupidity

I'm constantly paranoid about my health nowadays

I have no attention span

My brain works too well in some areas and not at all in others

Bits are falling off me

I have too much debt

And I'm turning into an old, miserable git .

Think that's all

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"That I can be a bit of a cunt :- :- "

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think my Aspie brain, like Nell, is both a flaw and a blessing. Ish. I overthink the shit out of things but that can be wonderful for work - less so for relationships. It's not quite a flaw. Just a thing that makes me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you told us yours yet op?yep about 6th one down

If I have a flaw it's skipping over posts but I view that as time saving so it's actually a good trait.

There is absolutely no way I'm donning sackcloth and ashes and publicly declaring my flaws like some kind of Chinese re-education camp. scaredy cat

flaw identified

oooo i found another having to have the last word

I thought we were supposed to be identifying our own "
i am its mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Laziness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've an awful habit of starting stuff and not fini

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've an awful habit of starting stuff and not finishing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The inability to stop chasing thrills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've an awful habit of starting stuff and not finishing "
Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont dwell on flaws. Im an eternal optimist. That can be mine.

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By *carlettVanillaWoman
over a year ago

Gloucesterish

Physically and mentally?? .... Wine!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cock I wish it was bigger

I’m a porn star trapped in an average guy’s body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I overthink everything. It’s quite exhausting you know "

Same here. Over active brain.

Has kept me awake at night far too often.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My cock I wish it was bigger

I’m a porn star trapped in an average guy’s body "
some porn stars have little dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know what i need to do.. i just dont do it.. i dont know why."

Definitely this for me. I'm exactly the same. Even if its stuff that benefits me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my Aspie brain, like Nell, is both a flaw and a blessing. Ish. I overthink the shit out of things but that can be wonderful for work - less so for relationships. It's not quite a flaw. Just a thing that makes me."

Your brain is just wonderful xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically - Stomach

Mentally - insecurity ( its a bitch )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My memory is like a colander

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Commitment issues.

Nothing lasts.

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

I’m too virtuous, too greedy, too lazy, too empathetic

Got loads of good points too

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Physically? My thinning hairline

Mentally? A bit too nonchalant at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically.. my gut..

Mentally.. social anxiety..

work in progress

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Mentally - lack of self-confidence and overthinking, coupled with an inability to act on things I really should, are probably my worst traits.

Physically - my gut

As to whether I'm happy as I am - mostly I am, but like everyone I have my off days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely mentally about my body ??

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

No brain to mouth filter..

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?"

Apparently I’m an ugly fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Whats your biggest flaw physically or mentally?

Apparently I’m an ugly fuck "
not many guys are pretty when fucking dont stress it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello

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By *asterslittlewhoreCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Im very stubborn

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like my knees.

Personality flaw, I try to do to much and spread myself too thin. Getting better at saying no to folk though.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Physically - my baby shelf belly and height

Mentally - depression, but deal with that by helping others, pushes my thoughts back in their box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermm everything physically

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

A lot of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where to start , but I also have alot of good point too, some days the bad outweigh the good and visa vera

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