FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learnt since using Fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That im the best fuck on planet earth

Some women like the word cunt

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm really vanilla compared to some one here and way to outrageous for some on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys aren’t worth bothering with unless you’ve met them before at a club.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site - never had a 3sum till two and a bit years ago! Only had a few since, but looking forward to more!

Did you get into swinging through fab - yep I was in a sexless marriage, someone recommended Fab, Met now current husband and never looked back!

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this - nope not that I’m aware of! lol

Main thing I’ve learnt is not everyone is who they say they are, take everyone with a pinch of salt as there seems to be a lot of hidden agendas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling."

I believe that the penis renders guys unable to read

penisxia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How ridiculously time wasting it can be much of the time OP!

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I believe that the penis renders guys unable to read

penisxia"

Poor penis... blamed for all the ills of the world ... not just penises can I say

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I believe that the penis renders guys unable to read

penisxia

Poor penis... blamed for all the ills of the world ... not just penises can I say

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"I'm really vanilla compared to some one here and way to outrageous for some on here!"

Yep same here

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ditto the education comment although honestly it's everyone.

Some people are amazingly awful, others are amazing.

My sexual knowledge, experience and confidence has just exploded.

It's OK to look after yourself and "be a bitch".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt about new things you can do to get yourself off, but not wanted to try any I hadn't thought of, or found out before finding Fab.

No I got into swinging on an International Swinging Site that was giving monthly trial memberships for free. Once I twigged it was legitimate. I was a bit hooked and made lots of new email accounts

That was in 2002. Still never had a swinging partner.

Not since using Fab. I was fully kinked up before I got here, Fab just helped some of it become a possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

I've had countless experienced over the years and more threesomes than I can count, every fantasy fulfilled to the point I'm back at the begining again and private 1:1 play in a club with the right guy that has mutual chemistry seems like what I'm into these days. That will change I'm sure but for now I want passion, kisses and lots of touching.

Did you get into swinging through fab? Trim introduced me to swinging 2 weeks after we met. I was a complete and utter vanilla before that. Hadn't even dated or had one night stands before I met him.

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Nope, sensual, 1:1 loose myself sex is always preferred over a hard fuck for me. I've also realised over time that I do not enjoy insanely large cocks. I almost want to bring a measuring tape with me to clubs for a pre inspection particularly as I prefer black gentlemen. Hmmmm now there's an idea lolololol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab? Trim introduced me to swinging 2 weeks after we met. I was a complete and utter vanilla before that. Hadn't even dated or had one night stands before I met him.

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Oh and I've also learned that guys can't read or are too lazy to bother. So I've cut my profile text to the bare basics and blocked all from messaging me as it's just very pointless.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've started learning Spanish since joining fab

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

People are very fickle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling."

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How ridiculously time wasting it can be much of the time OP! "

Oh, yes this too, but it's soo addictive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How ridiculously time wasting it can be much of the time OP!

Oh, yes this too, but it's soo addictive! "

Yes. I wonder where 2 years of my spare time has gone...

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words. "

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

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By *ambornemanMan
over a year ago

In your town now

There is a hell of a lot of time wasters

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I've started learning Spanish since joining fab

Una sacapuntas is all I remember from school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How judgemental some people om here are

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Alot of men have no balls. All talk and no action.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

That I am a wanton exhibitionist when it suits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't remember exactly how I found fab - was something to do with a conversation with someone but I'm fucked if I remember who. Urban dictionary is regularly looked into as there's some mighty weird terms used in these forums and every time I use the UD I wish I hadn't

Sexually - I joined about 11/12 years ago. Initially it was all about meeting whenever I wanted some fun, never about anything else. Then child came along and I had zero confidence (ex left as I'd "let myself go". Decided that every girl deserves some fun every now and then and a lot of men actually like lasses with meat on their bones (we don't break in a wind) so put up a few meets. Most of which don't own out - making those that do all the more fun!!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I learned an awful lot actually. Definitely an appreciation for not Googling stuff that sounds harmless but I don’t know the meaning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab? Trim introduced me to swinging 2 weeks after we met. I was a complete and utter vanilla before that. Hadn't even dated or had one night stands before I met him.

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Aha interesting it's not all the size or a black gentleman then.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling."

How true is that.!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game"

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I believe that the penis renders guys unable to read

penisxia"

Please don't put all in one basket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That for some people being a single guy makes me the devil not that I mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't learned a lot about sex tbh, I've learned a shit load about ppl and human behaviour, it's fascinating

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I haven't really learned anything through fab.... Was already on the scene before I joined.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that "

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Alot of men have no balls. All talk and no action. "

I could relate that to lots of woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Before using this site I was allways against the thought of a girlfriend who sleeps with other men.. But since using this I am liking the idea of it.

Do this make me a wanna be cukhold?

Lol I don't know.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get. "

Let me ask what other chat up line you would like! Like not expect if you would. Be so nice chat up line that won't be stereotype or, I seen it before. Surprise me please

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get.

Let me ask what other chat up line you would like! Like not expect if you would. Be so nice chat up line that won't be stereotype or, I seen it before. Surprise me please "

I don't want a chat up line. Ugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get. "

Atleast you get messages though. I get all excited when I get one lol even if it is to say I am not their type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are very fickle

Xx"

I'm thinll !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get.

Let me ask what other chat up line you would like! Like not expect if you would. Be so nice chat up line that won't be stereotype or, I seen it before. Surprise me please

I don't want a chat up line. Ugh. "

I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention "

Depends on the woman. The answer for me involves reading my profile and engaging with it. (I did write it mostly for that purpose!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not learned anything new sexually. Sadly just that most men lie like it's breathing and most will do their best to fuck you bare. I suppose I've learned the type of men to avoid!

Also the sexual habits of straight women. I had no idea what they did before! Sweeping generalisation yes.

That most people don't process their emotions or deeply explore sex in its fullsone way and like a comfortable life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention

Depends on the woman. The answer for me involves reading my profile and engaging with it. (I did write it mostly for that purpose!) "

Yes sure but in a way I can understand why so many men don't read all of the profiles, because like me I have read long novel profiles and took it all in and then written a long message back, only for them to ignore it.

The time it takes me to do that, I could of sent around 20 or more hello how you doing? Messages and probably had a message back

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get.

Let me ask what other chat up line you would like! Like not expect if you would. Be so nice chat up line that won't be stereotype or, I seen it before. Surprise me please

I don't want a chat up line. Ugh. "

Let's try

Hello just had a look at ur pictures and I think you are lovely girl, like your pic in flower dress, I would be exited if you would like some chat, but before that I would like to say few words about myself so we are square, and don't feel obliged to respond if you don't find me interesting, I'm tall slim and tattooed that's pretty much summarise me, mind you if you interested please ask some more questions

And now tell me what's wrong with that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not learned anything new sexually. Sadly just that most men lie like it's breathing and most will do their best to fuck you bare. I suppose I've learned the type of men to avoid!

Also the sexual habits of straight women. I had no idea what they did before! Sweeping generalisation yes.

That most people don't process their emotions or deeply explore sex in its fullsone way and like a comfortable life."

What sexual habits of straight women?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I can read but it's my spelling and grammar which is terrible

I admire how good the forum users are with words.

Those are the least of my issues.. the inability to read the first few lines of my profile is a whole different ball game

How are you? haha I imagine most messages are like that

How are you

You're sexy

I bet you won't answer this message

Fancy a piece of this (cock shot)

Paragraph of bio followed by fancy a chat

Long detailed creepy fantasy

... Is probably 90% or more of what I get.

Let me ask what other chat up line you would like! Like not expect if you would. Be so nice chat up line that won't be stereotype or, I seen it before. Surprise me please

I don't want a chat up line. Ugh.

Let's try

And now tell me what's wrong with that? "

Doesn't interest me, I'm afraid. And I prefer engagement with my text.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention

Depends on the woman. The answer for me involves reading my profile and engaging with it. (I did write it mostly for that purpose!)

The time it takes me to do that, I could of sent around 20 or more hello how you doing? Messages and probably had a message back "

Maybe. For me, hi how are you is an instant delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I learned an awful lot actually. Definitely an appreciation for not Googling stuff that sounds harmless but I don’t know the meaning. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That lots of men can’t read or be bothered to read

Most men have no tone to lower to and if a lady even opens her legs in their direction they will dive right in (not all men!)

That I’m quite vanilla

I don’t own much sexy wear

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"That lots of men can’t read or be bothered to read

Most men have no tone to lower to and if a lady even opens her legs in their direction they will dive right in (not all men!)

That I’m quite vanilla

I don’t own much sexy wear

You’re vanilla but with sprinkles

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Actually i have learned something.... How utterly woefully poor most men are at actually talking with women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've not learned anything new sexually. Sadly just that most men lie like it's breathing and most will do their best to fuck you bare. I suppose I've learned the type of men to avoid!

Also the sexual habits of straight women. I had no idea what they did before! Sweeping generalisation yes.

That most people don't process their emotions or deeply explore sex in its fullsone way and like a comfortable life."

Sexual habits of straight women?

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

" I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention

Depends on the woman. The answer for me involves reading my profile and engaging with it. (I did write it mostly for that purpose!)

The time it takes me to do that, I could of sent around 20 or more hello how you doing? Messages and probably had a message back

Maybe. For me, hi how are you is an instant delete. "

That's just get to show unless you interested looking at pic, the guy can swet his pants writhing some shit, and you still won't be interested, standing on top on this site 3 man to 1 woman at the end of the day it's you who choose not him, and let's face it 90% ofan wold go for it if you choose them,

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

" I think what he means is what kind of messages get women's attention

Depends on the woman. The answer for me involves reading my profile and engaging with it. (I did write it mostly for that purpose!)

The time it takes me to do that, I could of sent around 20 or more hello how you doing? Messages and probably had a message back

Maybe. For me, hi how are you is an instant delete.

Him being interested isn't enough for me. I get to choose, that's the way it goes. I gather I'm not unusually harsh in my stance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I'm a cunt, and nobody wants to meet me

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

That's what I'm saying you as a woman choose, not the man, even if you make him think it's his choice, IT IS NOT, YOU HAVE THE FORBIDEN FRUIT BETWEEN LEGS at that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's life Mickey ... but not as we know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there are women who make a big thing about not meeting married men, but will happily contact your partner, when after chatting to you, they have his details on his single account, and arrange to meet him. If there’s a ring involved they balk, but have no issue ignoring the feelings of a woman if there’s no ring.

Yet these same women demand that people respect their feelings. Erm... I’ve realised respect only matters for some people, there are a number who forget it should go both ways when they want a fuck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That there are women who make a big thing about not meeting married men, but will happily contact your partner, when after chatting to you, they have his details on his single account, and arrange to meet him. If there’s a ring involved they balk, but have no issue ignoring the feelings of a woman if there’s no ring.

Should say that he meets who he wants, that’s not the issue, but women who behave that way is a bit annoying. They will happily ignore another woman if they want the man. It’s double standards. They want respect yet show none towards other women xx

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

What bothers me is assumption that all man are here for fuck and nothing else, therefore treat them like that, omg some of you woman are so full of yourself,

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

No new kinks learnt. I brought mine with me!!!

Did you get into swinging through fab?

I can't even remember how I found fab! I think it was thra lady I found somewhere else?? I've introduced a few girls to here though as despite any problems I still think its the best site I've come across. If you'll pardon the pun???

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this? Not really, as I said before, I bought mine with me... I have found how common my particular ones are though. Ohh, and patience. Lots of patience!!

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's life Mickey ... but not as we know it "

Yes life not as I know it indeed.

Since being here I have realised that swinging clubs and socials are more common than I would of ever imagined.

I feel like I'm in a little freemason society or something lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt a few new moves, not going to try them though.

Windmill and Simba

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

That I’m more naive than I should be.

And that I really enjoyed that thing I tried and I will try that again

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Never expect people to turn up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's life Mickey ... but not as we know it

Yes life not as I know it indeed.

Since being here I have realised that swinging clubs and socials are more common than I would of ever imagined.

I feel like I'm in a little freemason society or something lol. "

There's plenty that will tweek your nipples that's for sure

... and there's a few men in maids outfits

You could be on to something here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never expect people to turn up haha "

This!! Haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The erotic possibilities of the arsehole

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I’m more naive than I should be.

And that I really enjoyed that thing I tried and I will try that again

I'm so intrigued now.. What was that thing?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"That I’m more naive than I should be.

And that I really enjoyed that thing I tried and I will try that again

I'm so intrigued now.. What was that thing?

I couldn’t possibly say

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I don't think I've learnt much sexually, though I have discovered a few things about myself..

I know I have no interest in being a Dom.

Despite best efforts of others, I am resolutely straight. Not fab straight or bendy. (This was confirmatory but I had never been put in a position where it could have happened or been asked)

Some people actually like me.. I am far more confident than I ever gave myself credit for, even in company that is in a different ballpark to me.

There really is no 'out of my league' if I can connect with someone.

It doesn't matter to me if I don't cum, as long as my partner is having toe curling, knee buckling, speech losing climaxes. That's what I get off on.

My bullshit filter is working just fine..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's life Mickey ... but not as we know it

Yes life not as I know it indeed.

Since being here I have realised that swinging clubs and socials are more common than I would of ever imagined.

I feel like I'm in a little freemason society or something lol.

There's plenty that will tweek your nipples that's for sure

... and there's a few men in maids outfits

You could be on to something here

Lol I will be avoiding those maids then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been an eye-opener that’s for sure, I’ve learn countless things over the years, mainly from reading the forums.

The other thing I’ve learnt is to take everything that’s said to me on here with a huge pinch of salt...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That I’m more naive than I should be.

And that I really enjoyed that thing I tried and I will try that again

I'm so intrigued now.. What was that thing?

I couldn’t possibly say

But this is killing me

you can't say that in my forum, without spilling the beans lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That most sexual perversions exist and continue because they are bloody good fun!

Tbh I was pretty far down the road to being a true kinkster before Fab, but hasn't it just helped me along the way?

Oh and it's also introduced me to the lovely P which will doubtless accelerate this process for the pair of us even more....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've learned lots of useless terms that I can't use in everyday conversations outside fab.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've learned lots of useless terms that I can't use in everyday conversations outside fab.

Mrs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned I'm partial to the odd TV, which I would never have imagined before fab.

I've learned a few other things too, for example that I rather enjoy B pissing inside my chuff whilst I'm riding his cock.

Far more to learn and I can't wait.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I don't need that much sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I am learning that I am not good with conversation.

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By *astyEricMan
over a year ago

Hull

I learn that even ppl who claiming are liberated are still judgemental as fu..k

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m more attractive than I thought

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I've learned that I have lead a very sheltered life sexually ...discovered that I'm way too boring for most on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned nothing ..

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

That I’m hideous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gained a lot more confidence in my sexuality and also learned not to be so trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that a lot of gay and supposedly straight guys from my area want to shag me

but no women do

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I didn’t know so many women squirt

I didn’t know so many women love anal

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

That I’m not as strange as I thought I was

And

Fucking cunt sounds so much sexier than it used to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That once some people see you’re a sub they assume you’ll be one for them too. Even though I make it clear I’m only submissive to my partner. I’m a switch, I’m only his sub as a natural progression of our relationship.

Lost count of the amount of people who want to “own” me, like that’s all I am, a kink, a toy for them to play with. Gets boring after a while.

Viv xx

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Firstly ,that very few men are entirely straight when they get the urge

Secondly,that far too many people post stuff online which is grammatically piss-poor at best,totally incoherent at it's worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That I’m more attractive than I thought "

Would definitely concur with that xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cum tributes and that size matters more to women than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not every hole is a goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt on Fab that I'm not good enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How valuable time is .. and how easy is to get a decent reply or attention in real life lol

also once the ratio is disturbed , how it shifts the control/power to one side which in daily life would be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’m not as fucked up as I thought lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are people wherever you find them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fab is like liquorice allsorts

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

That MMF and MFM are two different things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve learnt that it’s the same now as it was back in 2007/8 when I first joined

I’m just too special to ever leave for good

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Either I'm attractive, or a lot of Fab needs to go to Specsavers

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

Apparently MMF is where the Male is bi. But MFM is where both men are straight. (Think I got that right!)

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

Apparently MMF is where the Male is bi. But MFM is where both men are straight. (Think I got that right!) "

That's a distinction some, but not all, make. I use them interchangeably tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People are people wherever you find them..."

I'm not (quote from Life of Brian) .

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Have you learned about new sexual experiences which you never thought about or considered before using this site?

Did you get into swinging through fab?

Have you developed a new fetish or kink since using this?

Whatever it is, Leave your thoughts here..

I've over the years learned that people cant read.. the education system in this country is apparently appalling.

I believe that the penis renders guys unable to read

penisxia"

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

Apparently MMF is where the Male is bi. But MFM is where both men are straight. (Think I got that right!)

That's a distinction some, but not all, make. I use them interchangeably tbh. "

I’ve always used MMF, but after reading some of the threads today (or yesterday) a lot seem to think that’s I’d the men are bi! Oops lol never mind I just thought they were letters. Meaning two men and a women. Didn’t even think about the sequence lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Not to trust ANYONE.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

Apparently MMF is where the Male is bi. But MFM is where both men are straight. (Think I got that right!)

That's a distinction some, but not all, make. I use them interchangeably tbh.

Some think it matters. MFM is probably more clear, but I'm not bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I’m probably far too vanilla for fab

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Three things that stand out:

* sexuality spectrums

* pegging

* how vanilla I actually am

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

Women have ideas above their station and get to fuck 10s when they're only 5s, and woebetide any woman who says she doesn't find a man attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

Women have ideas above their station and get to fuck 10s when they're only 5s, and woebetide any woman who says she doesn't find a man attractive. "

Women are here for men’s needs only. Women who think otherwise should leave

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

Women have ideas above their station and get to fuck 10s when they're only 5s, and woebetide any woman who says she doesn't find a man attractive.

Women are here for men’s needs only. Women who think otherwise should leave

But there need to be more women. And not ugly ones. Stunning ones. With no self respect or self preservation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

Women have ideas above their station and get to fuck 10s when they're only 5s, and woebetide any woman who says she doesn't find a man attractive.

Women are here for men’s needs only. Women who think otherwise should leave

But there need to be more women. And not ugly ones. Stunning ones. With no self respect or self preservation. "

Who will fuck anyone and everyone

But they can’t be a slut or a whore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That MMF and MFM are two different things!

Is it really?

Apparently MMF is where the Male is bi. But MFM is where both men are straight. (Think I got that right!)

That's a distinction some, but not all, make. I use them interchangeably tbh.

Some think it matters. MFM is probably more clear, but I'm not bothered. "

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

That a twat isn't a pregnant fish....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you disagree with someone on the forum or have a different opinion then you’re obviously more than entitled to abuse via pm

And if someone asks ‘am I your type? Why or why not?’ You’re meant to bullshit and lie and say ‘of course you’re my type’

Women have ideas above their station and get to fuck 10s when they're only 5s, and woebetide any woman who says she doesn't find a man attractive.

Women are here for men’s needs only. Women who think otherwise should leave

But there need to be more women. And not ugly ones. Stunning ones. With no self respect or self preservation.

Who will fuck anyone and everyone

But they can’t be a slut or a whore "

Right on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

Knowledge is power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

Knowledge is power

Power is power

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

Knowledge is power

Power is power "

electricity is power

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

Knowledge is power

Power is power

electricity is power"

Power to the people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take it with a pinch of salt and never expect anything

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

That's so not sure

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

Knowledge is power

Power is power "

"Everything except sex is about sex. Sex is about power." Oscar Wilde

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By *aige CoolTV/TS
over a year ago

north west

People dont read !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The number of guys who think pretending to be a gynaecologist is cute or funny. Ffs if your sex is like being in a gynaecologist's office then you're doing it wrong. Eww.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People dont read ! "

Some do. 76 views on my profile today and only 1 message - 75 people read it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that I'm an ugly Bastard

That's so not sure

Aww....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I shouldn't be using it!! Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've learnt that almost every woman is bi

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

"I've learnt that almost every woman is bi"

Really?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've learnt that almost every woman is bi

Really?

You are rare lol

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I learnt a lot about the various kinks, most I have had to Google and then wished I had not.

Oh and compared to many on here we appear to quite tame in our swinging activities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that almost every woman is bi"
we can only hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've learnt that almost every woman is biwe can only hope"

Haha

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

That the people who demand that a potential play partner has to be “ exceptional “ ... are usually the least exceptional people you’ll ever meet .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That the people who demand that a potential play partner has to be “ exceptional “ ... are usually the least exceptional people you’ll ever meet . "

it's a woman's world online.

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