FabSwingers.com forum: Abusive messages

By *icetouch83 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

I just had another one today I have been getting a lot lately starting to get to me a bit and I don't no whether to stay anyone else having this problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever had 2

They went unlos soon after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem for me, simply block that person and give zero fucks to their opinion.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Report block by whom what they saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get abusive messages when I politely decline offers on fab. Welcome to the club, OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember they're the ones with the problem not you. If anyone deserves to be here it's you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get abusive messages when I politely decline offers on fab. Welcome to the club, OP

I’ve had a few random ones over the past few days too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get abusive messages when I politely decline offers on fab. Welcome to the club, OP

I’ve had a few random ones over the past few days too

I get them every day. Story of my fab life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Report them before blocking. They don't know you the abuse is no more than an expression of their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What sort of abuse and from whom?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire

Must be somet in the water I've had a few too,... Just laugh it off n ignore its them that have the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block them and move on.

I havent recieved any abusive messages so far, but I have felt like sending a couple to annoying men who don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight.

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By *icetouch83 OP Man
over a year ago

swansea

Not allowed to name and shame people il get banned for it

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I just had another one today I have been getting a lot lately starting to get to me a bit and I don't no whether to stay anyone else having this problem. "

Are these just sent randomly or specifically to you or in response to a mail you’ve sent?

Either way there’s no excuse for abuse, so block the mo-fo, it’s not like you’s want to meet them after that anyway.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just block them and move on.

I havent recieved any abusive messages so far, but I have felt like sending a couple to annoying men who don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight. "

Don't though. You have got your mail filters set haven't you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

My 2 personal favourites this week

I'm an "average hole" and "a gaping slut"

Aaaah the sweet sound of rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just block them and move on.

I havent recieved any abusive messages so far, but I have felt like sending a couple to annoying men who don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight.

Don't though. You have got your mail filters set haven't you

No I havent been through that yet

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just block them and move on.

I havent recieved any abusive messages so far, but I have felt like sending a couple to annoying men who don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight.

Don't though. You have got your mail filters set haven't you

No I havent been through that yet "

Then do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not allowed to name and shame people il get banned for it "

I don't think anyone wants you to. Just trying to contextualise your thread? Are you getting abuse in response to messages you sent? Or is it random people? What sort of abuse? Trying to understand if theres a reason why you've been singled out?

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"My 2 personal favourites this week

I'm an "average hole" and "a gaping slut"

Aaaah the sweet sound of rejection "

Nice, 2 more graduates from the Fab charm school no doubt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day! Report, block and delete.

Unless they're paying your bills, pay those bitches no mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a message with face pics to a couple the other day and they replied when I had been out all day so later on the night I replied to them just to get a load of abuse and"THAT WAS 11 HRS AGO DON'T BOTHER,very pushy but goes to show that there is a small amount of egos on here who like the world to revolve around them...and it's usually mostly men so surprising that it was a couple.

I wouldn't worry mate because like a previous post mentioned "there the problem not you.

Good luck dude.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I get the odd nasty one on occasion when i have refused a meet. I just take it as a sign of how upset they are they dont get to have me and relieved as confirmed the reasons I didn't wanna meet. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No problem for me, simply block that person and give zero fucks to their opinion. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A female profile?

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I go through stages of getting them randomly... But so far this month so good x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Sorry you’re having problems op!

I can count the number of abusive messages I’ve had in over 5 years on Fab on one hand!

That said- I don’t send ‘no thank you’ messages - which seems to be where the abuse most people get stems from!

What I do get - though - is a lot of nastiness in the background - an anonymous (to me anyway) group of women messaging people I’ve met or may meet to slag me off and ‘warn’ them against me! Frankly I’d far rather they had the balls to message me with their issues instead - but I know they’re far too spineless and need to act in numbers!

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Just block them and move on.

I havent recieved any abusive messages so far, but I have felt like sending a couple to annoying men who don't seem to know the meaning of the word straight.

Don't though. You have got your mail filters set haven't you

No I havent been through that yet

Then do it.

Wise words.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry you’re having problems op!

I can count the number of abusive messages I’ve had in over 5 years on Fab on one hand!

That said- I don’t send ‘no thank you’ messages - which seems to be where the abuse most people get stems from!

That's what happens with unremarkable painfully average women... Fuck them and continue to have the time of your life. They obviously are not doing if they have time for such low vibing nastiness

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Sorry this has happened to you, it's clearly upset you as your posting this.

We just give the " thanks but no thanks" then instantly block. That way they don't get the chance to respond, nice or other.

We're here for our fun. We will do so not matter what others think / say. Just move on - it's them not you.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I've never had a message (that I can remember) out of the blue, that was abusive. But unfortunately quite a few after I've turned down a meet. But it truly is water off a ducks back with me, I honestly don't care. They get blocked I get on with my day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had all sorts of vile messages sent since I joined fab. I'm very honest and vocal about people who are rude which makes some think it's okay to send abuse.

There are a lot of ignorant pigs on here. Just be happy in the knowledge you're better than them.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Sorry you’re having problems op!

I can count the number of abusive messages I’ve had in over 5 years on Fab on one hand!

That said- I don’t send ‘no thank you’ messages - which seems to be where the abuse most people get stems from!

That's what happens with unremarkable painfully average women... Fuck them and continue to have the time of your life. They obviously are not doing if they have time for such low vibing nastiness "

Thanks lovely! Tbh it used to bother me so much it made me cry - as loads of guys I got on with really well refused to meet me again because of the hassle they got - but now I just shrug it off!

I enjoy the site and I’ve made great friends - so I’m staying put!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

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. That is a very big issue on here. It amuses me now if I find out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had all sorts of vile messages sent since I joined fab. I'm very honest and vocal about people who are rude which makes some think it's okay to send abuse.

There are a lot of ignorant pigs on here. Just be happy in the knowledge you're better than them.

I say fuck 'em. Not literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been very lucky and only had one abusive message. But I understand that a few would make me question this site. It says more about them than it does you. Report block and move on. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to get abusive messages it would mean someone would have to message me so I can say I don't have that problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had one, but I don't message much tbf. I've had one or two sarcy replies in my day saying read the profile etc because I didn't put purple pineapple popsicle in the subject line, but they just tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just had another one today I have been getting a lot lately starting to get to me a bit and I don't no whether to stay anyone else having this problem. "

Messages from men/ women/ couples/ tv's?

Can't remember the last time I had an abusive message. I don't see them as that. They're just pissed off at something. Most usually apologise anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If ANYONE is sending you unsolicited abusive messages.

Block and report.

Someone you've met?

Block and report.

Someone you're digitally friends with?

Block and report.

Why wouldn't you? How else will these people learn what is and isn't acceptable behaviour when it comes to treating with you.

If it's solicited, because you've been a Cunt in the Forum, said something stupid, been a bit bossy, a bit rude, a bit arrogant.

Then it's to be expected right?

Even still, you can block.. It's what the button is there for.

I block people for looking at me funny.. Say something I find a bit nasty? Blocked. Bit of a twat? Blocked. Ugly preferences? Blocked. Occasionally I'll give a Royal Reprieve and let them all out of prison. If only to have fun blocking them again.

Block and then forget. If they chase you in the Forum after you've reported and blocked. Guess who will be getting a might hit with the Mod Hammer? ("ManBreaker" I hear it's called) Not you, if you keep cool, calm and collected.

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