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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all.

New to fab after I followed someone’s suggestion (glad I did though mind) and after a couple of weeks of browsing I’ve noticed that few conversations get going due to lack of feedback which most people find untrustworthy (cue the shit chat jokes).

What would you suggest as a good way to get feedback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unsure what you mean by lack of feedback.

Feedback from what?

Are you meaning replies to your messages?

P

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Do you mean verifications?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant verifications sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did yes sorry

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When you say "feedback" do you mean verifications? If so, while they're useful, they're also not a magic key to meets either. People will look at your profile and messages as much as they will look at verifications, and make a decision on those - so it might not be a lack of veris that is your problem.

Either way getting a veri can be done via webcam, so you could always try the chat rooms here to get a webcam veri - otherwise try looking for group socials or clubs near you to get along to, which are a good way to get verified.

To come back to the first point though, make sure your profile is as appealing as possible and helps you stand out from the crowd, shows a little personality etc. Likewise with any messages you send.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant verifications sorry "

Ahhh, now I get it.

There's no hard and fast way of finding your feet here.

Some people place a lot of weight in verifications, in so much that they prove to a certain degree you are the person in your pics.

You could get verified by cam, that will get you the green tick.

There is far more to "success" on here than merely being verified though, so manage your expectations.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Organise a social or if that doesn't work go on cam and see of someone will verify you that way. I have to say though veris aren't a golden ticket! People do meet people who aren't verified, you've just got to find the ladies that are looking for a guy like you.

You should be ok being tall and able to accommodate, and from what I can see you have a great body.

Be patient, these things don't happen over night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick at it but don't take it too seriously and don't take some rejection to heart, not everyone is nice but then you don't want to be shagging ppl who aren't nice really do you, so they're doing your work for you in sorting out the good'uns.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cams and clubs are a great way of getting those first few verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just stick at it but don't take it too seriously and don't take some rejection to heart, not everyone is nice but then you don't want to be shagging ppl who aren't nice really do you, so they're doing your work for you in sorting out the good'uns..... "

Oh......

.....ummmm, the FU thing, I doubt that's gonna help tbh....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"

To come back to the first point though, make sure your profile is as appealing as possible and helps you stand out from the crowd, shows a little personality etc. Likewise with any messages you send.

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What he said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To get a verification you can ask to attend a group social or go into the cam rooms.

I have met a few unverified men, and my verification seemed to help them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No you’re right. Thanks for the advice you’ve given. Much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooft. Come visit me, I'll verify you

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