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Feeling Like A Fraud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel so down at the moment. I feel like a fraud and don't deserve the friends I have.

I even hid my profile as that's how bad I feel right now

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Feeling down is normal from time to time. Are you able to see the good things that happen sometimes? Sometimes we need to give our brains a reminder that shit happens but it doesn’t always happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like I'm inadequate and I feel like I haven't done enough to gain the friends I've made and that's why I feel like a fraud.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

There seems to be a lot of it about

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

You can’t judge what others think, we’re all really bad at it. That way of thinking isn’t going to help.

Can you put your mind on something else instead?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear that.

The Campaign Against Living Miserably

CALM is specifically aimed at men who are feeling depressed and down.

Have a look. Maybe give them a call. Also Samaritans are 24/7 if you need to vent.

Hug of support to you.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"I feel like I'm inadequate and I feel like I haven't done enough to gain the friends I've made and that's why I feel like a fraud."

People in general don’t realise the impact they have on others lives. Stop giving yourself a hard time (easy for me to say) chin up and let friends be your friends, if they didn’t want to be there they wouldn’t be xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind yourself that this shitty feeling won't last.

Distract yourself with something else for a while, watch a movie, escape down the youtube rabbit hole, read a book...

It will pass, hope you feel better soon OP

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Don't let things get to you I used to now I live in the moment life is to short to worry about things like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your ok OP but just remember it’s ok not not feel OK. Try talking reaching out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I second contacting Calm....great service xxx Hugs to you xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I feel so down at the moment. I feel like a fraud and don't deserve the friends I have.

I even hid my profile as that's how bad I feel right now "
Are you OK Op everyone deserves friends etc some one yo talk to lean on XXX

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I feel so down at the moment. I feel like a fraud and don't deserve the friends I have.

I even hid my profile as that's how bad I feel right now Are you OK Op everyone deserves friends etc some one yo talk to lean on XXX "
to x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hope you're ok OP. Everyone feels down at some point or other. Do you have friends you can talk to? See your doctor if you feel really bad, like you can't see a way forward. Sending virtual hugs x

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Big hugs. Hope it gets better for you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better."

Glad to hear x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better.

Glad to hear x"

Yeah. I had a rest a couple of hours before hand which helped clear my head as well.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere


"I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better.

Glad to hear x

Yeah. I had a rest a couple of hours before hand which helped clear my head as well."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better.

Glad to hear x

Yeah. I had a rest a couple of hours before hand which helped clear my head as well.

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Depression can be a pain in the ass. I think it made me doubt myself but after that chat, it made me feel glad I have friends who look out for me

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I just want to say thank you for all the hugs and helpful support.

I managed to have a chat with a friend earlier and it helped me feel a bit better."

We dont gain friendships..we kinda earn them . That works both ways. Sometimes it's very hard to actually accept the tiny little fact that... well....people like you and they want to be your friends and they when they do call and text it's not out a sense of obligation but becuse they really do just wanna see what your up too. Talk more to your friends dont be scared to tell them how your feeling, and when they start to maybe talk about your attributes, and laugh and smile as they do so, try not to cringe inside as they mean every word..they wouldn't be around to know any of that stuff if they did t want you in their life too.

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