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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Sams survey,

When on a fab meet is it important that

A, the other person you meet gets more pleasure than you

B, 50/50

C, who cares about them it's all about my pleasure

D, I want to cum but I'll try a little bit to help them

E, another answer

Keep it lighthearted and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E. I get pleasure, they get pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"E. I get pleasure, they get pain "

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"What's a meet lol x"

Lol that comes under any other answers

I know where you're coming from !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

E. I try to give them as much pleasure as possible, but usually I get a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"E. I get pleasure, they get pain

"

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By *layfullsam OP   Man
over a year ago

Solihull


"E. I get pleasure, they get pain "

Ooo errrr mrs !

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I'm more about giving than getting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"E. I get pleasure, they get pain "

It's a fine, fine line...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A I’m a giver

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Everyone has a great time - me from getting laid, her from seeing my pathetic attempts

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

B for me. We're both there for our own pleasure as well as each others. If we both/all part ways with smiles on our faces and feeling completely satisfied then job done x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mainly i get off on her orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be B surely?... 50/50!...

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

E - there’s never any agenda

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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B. But sometimes it's a lot easier for me to orgasm than the other. I do feel a bit bad about it sometimes, like I need to do extra work or be really appreciative about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get turned on turning them on so win win

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"B. But sometimes it's a lot easier for me to orgasm than the other. I do feel a bit bad about it sometimes, like I need to do extra work or be really appreciative about it. "

Better than the way I put it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me all depends on the dynamic of the meet. Some meets I want to take control and use and be selfish while roughly using my meet. Then the next meet we can do what she likes from treating me like crap to a sensual fuck. Always agreed obviously as only meet people with the same tastes, but not really into 50/50 vanilla sensual stuff. Kinkier and depraved the better!

We all different thank goodness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E - important to communicate so each partner gets the best out of it.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I wouldn't be here if I wasn't a giver!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

A - but that sounds a little clichèd

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would prefer B but I often end up with A. A can be fun on occasion with a regular partner but it's not so fun when it's every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to give them more pleasure. It's just in my nature. Tried just recieving once, didn't last long and wasn't that enjoyable.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"B. But sometimes it's a lot easier for me to orgasm than the other. I do feel a bit bad about it sometimes, like I need to do extra work or be really appreciative about it. "

To be honest, sending that “Thanks for the orgasm” card was plenty

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"B. But sometimes it's a lot easier for me to orgasm than the other. I do feel a bit bad about it sometimes, like I need to do extra work or be really appreciative about it.

To be honest, sending that “Thanks for the orgasm” card was plenty "

Sent it to the wrong person, sorry about that.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"B. But sometimes it's a lot easier for me to orgasm than the other. I do feel a bit bad about it sometimes, like I need to do extra work or be really appreciative about it.

To be honest, sending that “Thanks for the orgasm” card was plenty

Sent it to the wrong person, sorry about that. "

Did someone else get a “Was that the best you can do?” card?

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By *reenEyesScotlandWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Always try for B but I orgasm easily and a lot so I often feel that gives me an advantage. I do really focus though on making sure the other person/people also get equal treatment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sams survey,

When on a fab meet is it important that

A, the other person you meet gets more pleasure than you

B, 50/50

C, who cares about them it's all about my pleasure

D, I want to cum but I'll try a little bit to help them

E, another answer

F, All of the above "

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