FabSwingers.com forum: Money !

By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Why do people think it is alright to offer you money to do sexual things with you.

It makes my blood boil, this might be a sexual site, but no one has the right to make someone feel like a prostitute !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them. It's not the end of the world is it.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Why do people think it is alright to offer you money to do sexual things with you.

It makes my blood boil, this might be a sexual site, but no one has the right to make someone feel like a prostitute ! "

Possibly because some people on here will do it. I see a fair few statuses referring to things of that nature.

Not saying that it's right, but it does go on.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"if you don't ask you don't get"

Report, block, forget about it.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Why do people think it is alright to offer you money to do sexual things with you.

It makes my blood boil, this might be a sexual site, but no one has the right to make someone feel like a prostitute !

Possibly because some people on here will do it. I see a fair few statuses referring to things of that nature.

Not saying that it's right, but it does go on. "

Really ?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ok with it until they start to haggle..

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

They think that's all they have to offer?

It is sad really and very disrespectful as I think it can stop the enjoyment of being on here

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

""if you don't ask you don't get"

Report, block, forget about it. "

It’s an instant block, never thought of reporting. It rages me but I do quickly forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Why do people think it is alright to offer you money to do sexual things with you.

It makes my blood boil, this might be a sexual site, but no one has the right to make someone feel like a prostitute !

Possibly because some people on here will do it. I see a fair few statuses referring to things of that nature.

Not saying that it's right, but it does go on.

Really ?!? "

Yeah. They need xyz #justsaying (everything from a site supporter pass to a car)

When I renewed my site support I had a sarcastic status about being an adult with my own money #justsaying

Some of the main perpetrators blocked me for it

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Why do people think it is alright to offer you money to do sexual things with you.

It makes my blood boil, this might be a sexual site, but no one has the right to make someone feel like a prostitute !

Possibly because some people on here will do it. I see a fair few statuses referring to things of that nature.

Not saying that it's right, but it does go on.

Really ?!?

Yeah. They need xyz #justsaying (everything from a site supporter pass to a car)

When I renewed my site support I had a sarcastic status about being an adult with my own money #justsaying

Some of the main perpetrators blocked me for it

Hit the nail on the head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me particularly, I just find it a tragedy, and a bit pathetic for the person making the offer that they're THAT desperate for a fuck/whatever.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Doesn't bother me particularly, I just find it a tragedy, and a bit pathetic for the person making the offer that they're THAT desperate for a fuck/whatever. "

I love the ones where, I deleted a boring message and they come back with, you just missed out on a monster cock and a five star holiday in (exotic location).

Boring message just gets dismissed. If you think you're dangling a carrot there you're going to be surprised when a mod gets to you.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?"

It isn't about being "better", it's about choice.

If I was a sex worker and wanted to be offered cash I'd be on a different site.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?"

Fair point! However I don’t fuck random strangers..... I’ve always talked to them for a couple of weeks at least prior to any meet, from everyday chat to more. I can’t do cold sex, need a connection, meeting of minds, laughter.

In my past I’ve done a meet once last minute without the connection and yes it made me feel like a prostitute, hence why I’ll never do it again

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?"

Depends if you look at it in such base terms as "fucking random strangers for free" - I certainly don't when I meet people, they're neither random nor strangers by that point, and I don't look at it as a transactional thing either.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the principle of prostitution when it is done from a non-coerced perspective (on either side) and is properly managed etc - it however has no place here and as others have said should be reported whether it be someone asking for money or inducements for sex, or someone offering it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be outraged when I first joined but now it’s such an often occurrence I just bloke and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People chance their arm hoping we're one of the women on here who will fuck for money.

I think some men get off on offering it, but wouldn't actually go through with it.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Doesn't bother me particularly, I just find it a tragedy, and a bit pathetic for the person making the offer that they're THAT desperate for a fuck/whatever. "

It is sad yes, when you see the pics of these people I do wonder why they start a conversation offering money, they have more about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?

In my past I’ve done a meet once last minute without the connection and yes it made me feel like a prostitute, hence why I’ll never do it again "

That's why I'd see the message you were sent as a positive, not a negative. They've offered money and you immediately know they're not your type. No time wasted chatting. -I'm happy when they're up front like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?"

Nope but I bet it's way more fun at least you get to choose.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I look at it as, I do what I do to share fun times with nice people. I'm not "giving something away", because it's not a commodity.

When I'm offered money, it reduces my body to an object to be bought, which I don't consent to. I also feel that it shifts the power dynamic away from me being able to do what I feel comfortable with, to this person getting value for money. Makes me feel less safe.

I have no objection in principle to prostitution, but I want no part in it, and it doesn't belong here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh I don't waste energy getting angry about stuff on fab. What's the point? Seriously. Fab is a happier place when you accept that most of what comes into your inbox won't be a match and is easy to ignore. Pretty sure it's against site rules to offer/ accept money so best to just report and block and save your energy for something that matters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been made to feel like that on here and not offered a penny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look at it as, I do what I do to share fun times with nice people. I'm not "giving something away", because it's not a commodity.

I have no objection in principle to prostitution, but I want no part in it, and it doesn't belong here. "

well

Said

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

For some people it's a turn on to offer money apparently, though I'm not quite sure why they don't just use prostitutes. They're easily deleted though.

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By *pursChick aka Shortie OP Woman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Is fucking random strangers for free, better than being a prostitute?

In my past I’ve done a meet once last minute without the connection and yes it made me feel like a prostitute, hence why I’ll never do it again

Haha to true and one less message to read

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Report please

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