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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? " I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations " I have had some great 'expectations' but not all panned out so I get that. The disappointing ones I chalk down to experience. All memorable in their own way though. | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. " How so has it gone downhill? | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations I have had some great 'expectations' but not all panned out so I get that. The disappointing ones I chalk down to experience. All memorable in their own way though. " I meant more.. I got to meet you, but I've also bumped into some real assholes as well. | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise " It does help if you are able to cast your net wide. Still we have to remain true to who we are x | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise " Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations " Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!) | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise It does help if you are able to cast your net wide. Still we have to remain true to who we are x" of course you do | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill?" well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate "expect nothing  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations I have had some great 'expectations' but not all panned out so I get that. The disappointing ones I chalk down to experience. All memorable in their own way though. I meant more.. I got to meet you, but I've also bumped into some real assholes as well." Aww thank you that means a lot x I'm am really happy that we got to know each other a little x | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate "Confidence comes from within . | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill? well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. " I really do appreciate that it is not easy for genuine guys. | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate expect nothing "Yeah I think that's the best way to go about it. I came into the forums early on and I think that's the best thing I did to hear advice and I now know how difficult it is for both men and women on here. | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well. | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill? well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. I really do appreciate that it is not easy for genuine guys." No, it's not, but to coin a phrase, it is what it is. I don't throw my toys out of the pram, I just go about my business as I've always done. I've met some incredible people on here, some who have gone on to be what I consider to be life long friends, friends who get to know my inner workings and life, and for that, I'm thankful | |||
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The positives far out weigh the negatives.
I think because I’m older than most, the drama llama side that plagues many passes me completely by. I’m not the most popular fish in the sea by far but you know what that suits my needs just fine. | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)"Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some. It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case. | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case."meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse. | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill? well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. I really do appreciate that it is not easy for genuine guys. No, it's not, but to coin a phrase, it is what it is. I don't throw my toys out of the pram, I just go about my business as I've always done. I've met some incredible people on here, some who have gone on to be what I consider to be life long friends, friends who get to know my inner workings and life, and for that, I'm thankful "I like that a lot
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate
Confidence comes from within ."It doesn’t matter how much self confidence you have if you don’t tick the boxes | |||
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"Probably a little worse than expected. I never expected it to be a breeze, but I expected some sporadic luck. Besides myself, I blame society for making women feel like sluts for enjoying sex. Probably means there are now 20 odd men to each woman/couple. We therefore have to stand out, which is difficult when everyone has different tastes x" Hopefully there is someone for everyone | |||
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"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well." Oh yes I can sympathize with that, it takes a lot of effort to find those diamonds doesn't it, I can imagine it's even harder for single men too. You have a very nice bum though, so there is that | |||
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"It’s been a whirlwind and a blast, I’ve met some wonderful people
The positives far out weigh the negatives.
I think because I’m older than most, the drama llama side that plagues many passes me completely by. I’m not the most popular fish in the sea by far but you know what that suits my needs just fine."Sadly I have never met you  | |||
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"It's exceeded my expectations. I came here initially to meet a few likeminded people and what I've got is far more special than that. I have a beautiful child from my ex who i met on here and is still my close friend and a new loving partner who treats me wonderfully. I'm very lucky "That is so great...I'm happy for you xx | |||
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"Probably a little worse than expected. I never expected it to be a breeze, but I expected some sporadic luck. Besides myself, I blame society for making women feel like sluts for enjoying sex. Probably means there are now 20 odd men to each woman/couple. We therefore have to stand out, which is difficult when everyone has different tastes x Hopefully there is someone for everyone " Hopefully so, the search will continue lol x | |||
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"It's exceeded my expectations. I came here initially to meet a few likeminded people and what I've got is far more special than that. I have a beautiful child from my ex who i met on here and is still my close friend and a new loving partner who treats me wonderfully. I'm very lucky
That is so great...I'm happy for you xx"Thank you lovely xx | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate
Confidence comes from within .
It doesn’t matter how much self confidence you have if you don’t tick the boxes "This is true Doc..but it certainly helps x | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate
Confidence comes from within .
It doesn’t matter how much self confidence you have if you don’t tick the boxes
This is true Doc..but it certainly helps x"Sure self confidence can be eroded the more often the boxes don’t get ticked though | |||
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"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well. Oh yes I can sympathize with that, it takes a lot of effort to find those diamonds doesn't it, I can imagine it's even harder for single men too. You have a very nice bum though, so there is that "Thankyou  So do you
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"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well. Oh yes I can sympathize with that, it takes a lot of effort to find those diamonds doesn't it, I can imagine it's even harder for single men too. You have a very nice bum though, so there is that
Thankyou So do you
Most guys are their own worst enemy though. "Yep I’m great at shooting myself in the foot | |||
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"It's not been anywhere near my expectations. I thought within a shortlist period of time I would meet my partner in crime. Together we would hit this world we call fab. What a joke. I've met some right bastards wheres theres no limit to the shit they tell you or do. So I dont really bother anymore meeting anyone unless they live near me. The faith in fab has gone so if you find it...let me know. "It would be so bloody great to that partner in crime...hopefully they are just around the corner. And the bastards they can go to hell x | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill? well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. I really do appreciate that it is not easy for genuine guys. No, it's not, but to coin a phrase, it is what it is. I don't throw my toys out of the pram, I just go about my business as I've always done. I've met some incredible people on here, some who have gone on to be what I consider to be life long friends, friends who get to know my inner workings and life, and for that, I'm thankful
I like that a lot
You cannot beat a friend who truly knows and accepts you for you. "It's just who I am, and who she is, I guess. We've always been both incredibly open with eachother, sharing out life experiences, from the mundane to the exciting. She's always the first to know what's going on in my life and vice versa. Not because we "owe" it to eachother, just because we made a fantastic connection. | |||
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"It's not been anywhere near my expectations. I thought within a shortlist period of time I would meet my partner in crime. Together we would hit this world we call fab. What a joke. I've met some right bastards wheres theres no limit to the shit they tell you or do. So I dont really bother anymore meeting anyone unless they live near me. The faith in fab has gone so if you find it...let me know. "Awww lovely. You deserve the best | |||
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"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well. Oh yes I can sympathize with that, it takes a lot of effort to find those diamonds doesn't it, I can imagine it's even harder for single men too. You have a very nice bum though, so there is that
Thankyou So do you
Most guys are their own worst enemy though.
Yep I’m great at shooting myself in the foot "Me too  Oh what's that? You like me? You do realise I'm a skint procrastinator right | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse."My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth "I can lick my own tonsils  | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate
Confidence comes from within .
It doesn’t matter how much self confidence you have if you don’t tick the boxes
This is true Doc..but it certainly helps x
Sure self confidence can be eroded the more often the boxes don’t get ticked though "I can understand that but you just have to remind yourself of that small pool. | |||
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"There are diamonds in the rough. I just didn't realise how big or rough the rough was. Took me a while to realise what I wanted as well. Oh yes I can sympathize with that, it takes a lot of effort to find those diamonds doesn't it, I can imagine it's even harder for single men too. You have a very nice bum though, so there is that
Thankyou So do you
Most guys are their own worst enemy though.
Yep I’m great at shooting myself in the foot
Me too Oh what's that? You like me? You do realise I'm a skint procrastinator right "I’m neither skint nor do I put things off. However I lack a few of your credentials that would definitely improve my success  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils "I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I came (pardon the pun) here from another swinging site, and from chatrooms in general, so I already knew the score, and how to "talk" to people, so it's been much of a muchness. The being said, it's definitely gone downhill of late. How so has it gone downhill? well the numbers swing hasn't helped. It's incredibly difficult to strike up a conversation of any nature. I fully understand that women's inboxes are inundated, and I'm not bitching about it. Plus the obvious fakes etc, just makes it hard work. I really do appreciate that it is not easy for genuine guys. No, it's not, but to coin a phrase, it is what it is. I don't throw my toys out of the pram, I just go about my business as I've always done. I've met some incredible people on here, some who have gone on to be what I consider to be life long friends, friends who get to know my inner workings and life, and for that, I'm thankful
I like that a lot
You cannot beat a friend who truly knows and accepts you for you.
It's just who I am, and who she is, I guess. We've always been both incredibly open with eachother, sharing out life experiences, from the mundane to the exciting. She's always the first to know what's going on in my life and vice versa. Not because we "owe" it to eachother, just because we made a fantastic connection. "I truly get that | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls "If he could do that, he wouldn't be here. | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls "I'd quite like to see that too | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here. "Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be "Really? Does he have pics? | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics? "No. I watched him on cam though | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though "Now that I'd like to see | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though "I'd have to either have several vertebrae removed or cut my knob off to achieve that. That's where I'm going wrong  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
I'd have to either have several vertebrae removed or cut my knob off to achieve that. That's where I'm going wrong
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see "I watched with morbid fascination  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
I'd have to either have several vertebrae removed or cut my knob off to achieve that. That's where I'm going wrong " | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? When I joined my expectation was to see a site full of one dimensional people looking for sex. I hoped I might hook up with one or two local women I found physically attractive to have shallow sex with. My expectations and opinions were totally changed and greatly raised by seeing only a tiny persentage of potentially one dimensional, indiscriminating, shallow, nymphomaniacs that I ignorantly expected. So my expectations were raised and far higher were realised by talking, meeting and playing with some of the most fascinating women I've ever met. I improved my chances of meeting interesting women by sharing more of who I really am than I had ever planned. It's been a great eye opener to me not to pre judge people or communities like Fab. I've had the most exhilarating sex of my life from here but more impressive and thrilling are the women ( most of whom I only meet as platonic friends ) I've met who have impressed and inspired me by their dept and unique views and values, which in turn has inspired so much positive change in my life...and thankfully given me the kick up the ass I needed not to judge people I haven't gotten to know yet. Probably TMI, but you did ask OP "Wow yes I did ask. And thank you for your answer. I have met some really great people too and I have experienced the kind of things I could never have imagined. I'm so glad that I have | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination "If you could do it to yourself would you | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? When I joined my expectation was to see a site full of one dimensional people looking for sex. I hoped I might hook up with one or two local women I found physically attractive to have shallow sex with. My expectations and opinions were totally changed and greatly raised by seeing only a tiny persentage of potentially one dimensional, indiscriminating, shallow, nymphomaniacs that I ignorantly expected. So my expectations were raised and far higher were realised by talking, meeting and playing with some of the most fascinating women I've ever met. I improved my chances of meeting interesting women by sharing more of who I really am than I had ever planned. It's been a great eye opener to me not to pre judge people or communities like Fab. I've had the most exhilarating sex of my life from here but more impressive and thrilling are the women ( most of whom I only meet as platonic friends ) I've met who have impressed and inspired me by their dept and unique views and values, which in turn has inspired so much positive change in my life...and thankfully given me the kick up the ass I needed not to judge people I haven't gotten to know yet. Probably TMI, but you did ask OP "That's actually very lovely. I'm glad you've had such a positive and enlightening fab experience | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination
If you could do it to yourself would you "Yes! | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination
If you could do it to yourself would you "The bigger question is do you swallow your own or not | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination
If you could do it to yourself would you
The bigger question is do you swallow your own or not "Hell yes  | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination
If you could do it to yourself would you
Yes! "Me too | |||
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"better and worse than my expectations Nice in depth answer .
To be honest I didn't really know how to expect, although I've definitely met some men who were a lot hotter than I expected I would. I hadn't expected the messages i received to make such an impact over whether I wanted to meet someone and how hard it would be to find someone I was really keen to meet.
It's also unexpectedly improved my self confidence, I know a lot of women think the men on here say anything to get their willy wet, but I've received some really lovely, genuine compliments from men we've met and enjoyed seeing their reaction when we first met.
So I guess fab has surpassed my expectations by a long way, although it does take quite a lot of effort to get there (considerably more if you're a single male!)
Well that's good to hear and I know for sure there are some genuine guys here. I have been lucky to have known some.
It really is a different beast on here for men. I dont know if I'd shine through in that case.
meh.. it's not that hard as a single guy.. you just have to take your head out your arse.
My heads so far up my arse I can only see when I open my mouth
I can lick my own tonsils
I'd be more impressed if you could lick your balls
If he could do that, he wouldn't be here.
Given that there's a guy who can suck his own dick still on here, he still would be
Really? Does he have pics?
No. I watched him on cam though
Now that I'd like to see
I watched with morbid fascination
If you could do it to yourself would you
Yes!
Me too "I wouldn't but you're welcome to if you want | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? " I expected that I would be very niche, I would only have very short term interest in the site and be very unsuccessful in finding the right sex partners | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I expected that I would be very niche, I would only have very short term interest in the site and be very unsuccessful in finding the right sex partners " And now... do you still feel that way? | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I expected that I would be very niche, I would only have very short term interest in the site and be very unsuccessful in finding the right sex partners And now... do you still feel that way?" I learned that I can be wrong about things from time to time. Moreover I never really expect anything, I'm just too used to making my own destiny than to think something else would fulfill it | |||
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"I didn't know what to expect and was very successful from the beginning, having different meets for consecutive weeks. I went to organised socials and had some fabulous experiences in clubs. It was a whirlwind that only abated a bit when work took me to the Channel Islands. Took me 18 months for the ugly side of fab to make itself known and that has made be somewhat cynical and a bit more reserved. All in all, it has been a great experience and i've gotten out of it exactly what I intended." I suppose everything has it's ugly sides. At least you have had some great times and look back fondly at them and you have gotten out what you expected to. I think that unfortunately that's more than can be said for a lot of people. | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I expected that I would be very niche, I would only have very short term interest in the site and be very unsuccessful in finding the right sex partners And now... do you still feel that way? I learned that I can be wrong about things from time to time. Moreover I never really expect anything, I'm just too used to making my own destiny than to think something else would fulfill it "It's good to learn about ourselves. I dont beleive other people make us fulfilled, I beleive that comes from within. | |||
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"What were they when you joined the wonderful world of Fab? Did you think youd be knee deep in pussy or cock? Have your expectations been met...or have they been lowered? What did you do to improve your chances? Or was you up and running from the get-go? I expected that I would be very niche, I would only have very short term interest in the site and be very unsuccessful in finding the right sex partners And now... do you still feel that way? I learned that I can be wrong about things from time to time. Moreover I never really expect anything, I'm just too used to making my own destiny than to think something else would fulfill it
It's good to learn about ourselves. I dont beleive other people make us fulfilled, I beleive that comes from within. "Yes definitely. However. There's a large proportion of people who think they're going to get fulfilment from just being a 'good citizen' as such. | |||
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"I hoped I would meet women or couples and have sex with with them but with it happening only twice in 9 years out can imagine I was quickly disavowed of such an assumption. Being married and bisexual means the pond I fish on is very small and gets smaller than I might think it is when they realise Only been here a little while but you're not filling me with confidence mate
Confidence comes from within .
It doesn’t matter how much self confidence you have if you don’t tick the boxes
This is true Doc..but it certainly helps x
Sure self confidence can be eroded the more often the boxes don’t get ticked though
I can understand that but you just have to remind yourself of that small pool.
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"My expectations were set pretty low anyway, after all, being absolutely realistic I'm approaching my mid-50s, have never been overly self-confident, don't think I'm all that to look at, and was already aware of the number imbalance. Reality is those expectations have been more than surpassed and I consider myself very lucky to have met and got to know some lovely people, and made what I consider to be very good friends - sure I'm still grounded enough to keep those expectations set low, but have learned that doesn't mean they're non-existent either. Have also learned that the number imbalance only really applies if you adopt the wrong attitude and approach to the site, have unrealistic expectations set and don't put effort into the right areas (such as profile and pics) - for those that do "get" it, the imbalance all but disappears." I’m glad that works for you | |||
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"My expectations were set pretty low anyway, after all, being absolutely realistic I'm approaching my mid-50s, have never been overly self-confident, don't think I'm all that to look at, and was already aware of the number imbalance. Reality is those expectations have been more than surpassed and I consider myself very lucky to have met and got to know some lovely people, and made what I consider to be very good friends - sure I'm still grounded enough to keep those expectations set low, but have learned that doesn't mean they're non-existent either. Have also learned that the number imbalance only really applies if you adopt the wrong attitude and approach to the site, have unrealistic expectations set and don't put effort into the right areas (such as profile and pics) - for those that do "get" it, the imbalance all but disappears." I think that is spot on. | |||
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"I didn't know what to expect and was very successful from the beginning, having different meets for consecutive weeks. I went to organised socials and had some fabulous experiences in clubs. It was a whirlwind that only abated a bit when work took me to the Channel Islands. Took me 18 months for the ugly side of fab to make itself known and that has made be somewhat cynical and a bit more reserved. All in all, it has been a great experience and i've gotten out of it exactly what I intended. I suppose everything has it's ugly sides. At least you have had some great times and look back fondly at them and you have gotten out what you expected to. I think that unfortunately that's more than can be said for a lot of people. " I've spent a small fortune travelling back and forth between the mainland and where I currently live with no regrets. As far as i'm concerned, fabulous memories don't have a pricetag. | |||
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"My expectations? Hmmm, to get my fanjo filled when I had the urge and to hopefully enhance the sex lives of others along the way. Did I do that? yep, but I also got a whole lot more than I bargained for, expected and in some cases wanted. I've unearthed a whole side to me that I knew was there but wasn't comfortable with due to not being in the right environment or even sure of how to show. I have made the most wonderful friends, some I now even consider family. I've stumbled upon someone I had the fortune to bond with in the most exceptional way, and in turn gained a partner, lover, best friend, confidant and a whole lot more all in one. That was the last thing I expected. There have been bad times too but they aren't worth my breath, server space typing, nor space in my head. I've found the freedom to be me. P" I.love that...I have found the freedom to be me | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same." I hope that things improve x | |||
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"When I joined fab, I was at a very low eb in my life and all I wanted was a bit of social chat and conversation. I had no expectations nor hopes. 6 years later, I'm a very different person; I discovered that I'm sexually desirable, I've made friends, I fell in love twice and I've discovered things about myself personally and sexually that I'd never dreamed. Fab has been and is a transformative experience in my life, or rather its facilitated me meeting those that have been. " Some of this is what I hoped to get out of it. I never think of the love word, that's the ultimate bonus prize. | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same. I hope that things improve x" Thank you. X But it's not a bad thing. | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same. I hope that things improve x Thank you. X But it's not a bad thing. "Good. I'm glad to hear that x | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same. I hope that things improve x" I've had a great time. My expectations were met, and exceeded. Aim low and you won't be disappointed. | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same. I hope that things improve x I've had a great time. My expectations were met, and exceeded. Aim low and you won't be disappointed. " My expectations couldn’t get any lower now | |||
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"I had low expectations and they were met. Same. I hope that things improve x I've had a great time. My expectations were met, and exceeded. Aim low and you won't be disappointed. " | |||
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"When I joined fab, I was at a very low eb in my life and all I wanted was a bit of social chat and conversation. I had no expectations nor hopes. 6 years later, I'm a very different person; I discovered that I'm sexually desirable, I've made friends, I fell in love twice and I've discovered things about myself personally and sexually that I'd never dreamed. Fab has been and is a transformative experience in my life, or rather its facilitated me meeting those that have been. Some of this is what I hoped to get out of it. I never think of the love word, that's the ultimate bonus prize." I never expected it either time. Looking at things I guess I'm just very very lucky | |||
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