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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t drink beer

I’m crap at questioning people - hence why I’m single I reckon

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?"

What's your stance on global warming and what are the chances of me taking my underpants off at yours later?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually read a good article about the things you should ask when on a first date, some of it was very direct. Like are you seeing anyone else? And some seemed rude like Why do you think you're single?

But the article pointed out it's not always the answer it's sometimes down to how a person answers the questions that can tell you more about them. It was quite interesting as for the question I don't drink and I'd ask something stupid and obvious because I'm great at putting my foot in my mouth. It's my party trick

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

You have to meet with me to hear my line of questioning...

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I like beer, real ale non of that fizzy lager muck.

Will I fuck on a first date?

Buy me a beer & see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time travel or invisibility...which would you choose and why?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Maybe that's why I'm crap at first dates.

If I ask if you like beer, it probably means I'm going to the bar and want to know if you'd like one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Time travel or invisibility...which would you choose and why?"

Time travel, I'm already invisible to women

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don’t drink beer

I’m crap at questioning people - hence why I’m single I reckon "

Find the blog and get some ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?"

Love it when my date gets the first round in

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?

What's your stance on global warming and what are the chances of me taking my underpants off at yours later? "

You haven't said whether I need to get some beer in.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I actually read a good article about the things you should ask when on a first date, some of it was very direct. Like are you seeing anyone else? And some seemed rude like Why do you think you're single?

But the article pointed out it's not always the answer it's sometimes down to how a person answers the questions that can tell you more about them. It was quite interesting as for the question I don't drink and I'd ask something stupid and obvious because I'm great at putting my foot in my mouth. It's my party trick

"

That just shows you are flexible.

When I was going to a speed dating thing, my brother in law suggested I should ask everyone whether they were looking at my boobs.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"You have to meet with me to hear my line of questioning..."

MSL seems a long way away. Plus, Rolo.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I like beer, real ale non of that fizzy lager muck.

Will I fuck on a first date?

Buy me a beer & see

"

I don't meet your height requirements.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Time travel or invisibility...which would you choose and why?"

That's a bold first question. I like it. If I ever have a date I'm stealing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I actually read a good article about the things you should ask when on a first date, some of it was very direct. Like are you seeing anyone else? And some seemed rude like Why do you think you're single?

But the article pointed out it's not always the answer it's sometimes down to how a person answers the questions that can tell you more about them. It was quite interesting as for the question I don't drink and I'd ask something stupid and obvious because I'm great at putting my foot in my mouth. It's my party trick

That just shows you are flexible.

When I was going to a speed dating thing, my brother in law suggested I should ask everyone whether they were looking at my boobs."

Well I'm 6"3 so does take some doing

Haha to be fair half of them probably were. I'd have loved to have seen some of the reactions.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Maybe that's why I'm crap at first dates.

If I ask if you like beer, it probably means I'm going to the bar and want to know if you'd like one. "

Knowledge is power, my sexy Fab acquaintance. Sixty percent chance of sex.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I actually read a good article about the things you should ask when on a first date, some of it was very direct. Like are you seeing anyone else? And some seemed rude like Why do you think you're single?

But the article pointed out it's not always the answer it's sometimes down to how a person answers the questions that can tell you more about them. It was quite interesting as for the question I don't drink and I'd ask something stupid and obvious because I'm great at putting my foot in my mouth. It's my party trick

That just shows you are flexible.

When I was going to a speed dating thing, my brother in law suggested I should ask everyone whether they were looking at my boobs.

Well I'm 6"3 so does take some doing

Haha to be fair half of them probably were. I'd have loved to have seen some of the reactions."

I'm so short most people just see my cleavage.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows


"I like beer, real ale non of that fizzy lager muck.

Will I fuck on a first date?

Buy me a beer & see

I don't meet your height requirements. "

It only applies to men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dc or marvel

Cats or dogs

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I like beer, real ale non of that fizzy lager muck.

Will I fuck on a first date?

Buy me a beer & see

I don't meet your height requirements.

It only applies to men "

Yay! I'm in with a shot... but I don't drink beer.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Dc or marvel

Cats or dogs "

Tricky.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I do drink beer..... I also sometimes think is there much point in becoming invested if sex is shit. I did that with my ex hubby. Sex was an anti climax and never worked.

As for a question......totally stumped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dc or marvel

Cats or dogs "

DC for TV series marvel for films and dogs for sure. Good questions tho

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I do drink beer..... I also sometimes think is there much point in becoming invested if sex is shit. I did that with my ex hubby. Sex was an anti climax and never worked.

As for a question......totally stumped! "

I was hoping this thread would throw us some interesting ones.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I do drink beer..... I also sometimes think is there much point in becoming invested if sex is shit. I did that with my ex hubby. Sex was an anti climax and never worked.

As for a question......totally stumped!

I was hoping this thread would throw us some interesting ones.

"

Suppose if i embraced my inner geek I'd ask if you'd rather have the ability to travel in a nanosecond or replicate food in an instant?

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Dc or marvel

Cats or dogs "

Marvel

Dogs

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Maybe that's why I'm crap at first dates.

If I ask if you like beer, it probably means I'm going to the bar and want to know if you'd like one.

Knowledge is power, my sexy Fab acquaintance. Sixty percent chance of sex."

Is there empirical evidence to back it up or is it just pseudo psychology?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I suppose a good question for a first date might be "how do you reconcile Zizek's position on intersectionality with the association of identity politics with the left?"

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Maybe that's why I'm crap at first dates.

If I ask if you like beer, it probably means I'm going to the bar and want to know if you'd like one.

Knowledge is power, my sexy Fab acquaintance. Sixty percent chance of sex.

Is there empirical evidence to back it up or is it just pseudo psychology?"

Find the blog. It's based on using their rather enormous data set and looking at it in a different way.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I suppose a good question for a first date might be "how do you reconcile Zizek's position on intersectionality with the association of identity politics with the left?""

If you start talking about *that* "debate" I'd probably walk out.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I suppose a good question for a first date might be "how do you reconcile Zizek's position on intersectionality with the association of identity politics with the left?"

If you start talking about *that* "debate" I'd probably walk out. "

Not a fan of auld Slavoj then?

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Do you like profiteroles?

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?"

Don't drink beer, rarely drink at all.

Question I would ask on a first date would be something around having a bucket list so we can compare notes.

It's a good ice breaker and also helps identify areas of interest and whether there's a future there.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I suppose a good question for a first date might be "how do you reconcile Zizek's position on intersectionality with the association of identity politics with the left?"

If you start talking about *that* "debate" I'd probably walk out.

Not a fan of auld Slavoj then?"

It's more the combination of the two of them that would make me want to run.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you like profiteroles?"

This is a VERY good question.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?

Don't drink beer, rarely drink at all.

Question I would ask on a first date would be something around having a bucket list so we can compare notes.

It's a good ice breaker and also helps identify areas of interest and whether there's a future there."

That's a high pressure question, but an interesting conversation.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?

Don't drink beer, rarely drink at all.

Question I would ask on a first date would be something around having a bucket list so we can compare notes.

It's a good ice breaker and also helps identify areas of interest and whether there's a future there.

That's a high pressure question, but an interesting conversation.

"

Ironically, that's the sort of question where I'd think that I definitely wasn't going to have another date with that person and I should start thinking of excuses to leave....

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Is this the real life?

Is this just fantasy?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you do anal

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Long story short... during the course of my work I came across am OKC*pid blog where they analysed all their data to identify the best questions to ask on a first date.

The blog's author hooked me with a killer sentence and I thought I'd share some of it with you:

"The basic currency of the internet is human ignorance, and, frankly, our database holds a strong cash position!

... This is the shallow stuff to ask when you want to know something deep:...

If you want to know...

Will my date have sex on the first date? ASK: Do you like the taste of beer?

No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they've just met."

Do you drink beer?

What's your best first date question?

Don't drink beer, rarely drink at all.

Question I would ask on a first date would be something around having a bucket list so we can compare notes.

It's a good ice breaker and also helps identify areas of interest and whether there's a future there.

That's a high pressure question, but an interesting conversation.

"

It makes for an interesting convo and it's asked in a very laid back way understanding that some don't or won't share on a first date.

Makes for stimulating conversation if you are with a kindred spirit

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you do anal"

And your name answers the first question.

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over a year ago


"Do you do anal

And your name answers the first question. "

What was the question

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland


"Do you like profiteroles?

This is a VERY good question.

"

It will prove essential

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you do anal

And your name answers the first question.

What was the question "

Do you drink beer?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you like profiteroles?

This is a VERY good question.

It will prove essential "

I like the idea of essential profiteroles, but I'd prefer the top of the range ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I could do first dates without asking rude questions now since being here. Whatever do you talk about if not about your perversions

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I dont think I could do first dates without asking rude questions now since being here. Whatever do you talk about if not about your perversions "

You ask if they drink beer, and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think I could do first dates without asking rude questions now since being here. Whatever do you talk about if not about your perversions

You ask if they drink beer, and take it from there. "

if they dont, we're allowed to run away. Got it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember what I asked on my first date back in February.

It definitely wasn't about beer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our second date I asked what kind of music he likes.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I can't remember what I asked on my first date back in February.

It definitely wasn't about beer."

Did you just ask them if they have sex on a first date?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"On our second date I asked what kind of music he likes."

You're dating... I hope it's going well.

I haven't been on a date in about 10 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like beer, real ale non of that fizzy lager muck.

Will I fuck on a first date?

Buy me a beer & see

"

One Hobgoblin on its way...x

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