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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I usually forget to check who’s winked at me and fail to really see the point of them. If you want someone’s attention, surely a message is a better way to approach someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s true I don’t respond to winks pointless really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't check winks regularly but I have responded to some.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I very rarely check my winks, if I see someone I like the look of, usually from the forums, I'll message them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree with all of the above x

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

Then again judging by previous forum posts, most people don't respond to messages either, so it's a lose lose situation. I check winks & messages and resond to both but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get a wink from a female I respond quicker than a Tesla in ludicrous mode. Often Faster than Elon Musk's space X rocket.

The wink is the single guy's signal to respond with some effort it's very handy.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I forget to check winks and usually bulk delete! Hubby looks and messages some couples if I haven’t already deleted before he looks! It used to say on our profile about messages get better responses than winks, but taken that out as no one seems to read profiles anyway!

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Men winking at women or couples is useless as they receive so many most don't bother to check.

Women and couples winking single men however, is far more effective and able to make the person notice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I get a wink from a female I respond quicker than a Tesla in ludicrous mode. Often Faster than Elon Musk's space X rocket.

The wink is the single guy's signal to respond with some effort it's very handy. "

Haha xx duly noted x

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

They are more for women to wink men, than men to wink women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always prefer winks to messages ... always check out the profiles and wink back if I want to chat! Saves so much effort compared to trawling through inane after inane message!

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By *urious1973Man
over a year ago

angus

i give out loads but hardly get one back xx

gutted really x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i give out loads but hardly get one back xx

gutted really x"

I just sent you one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m partial to a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a bad way to kick things off??

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By *olexMan
over a year ago

Hull

I send loads but probably get one or two back a month.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I like winks and will send a message if I receive one and feel I could connect with that person

And

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By *uckOfTheBayMan
over a year ago

Mold

It's the inverse between men and women, us guys appreciate a wink, sometimes we need them as much as we need hitting other the head with a club and being dragged back to the cave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not receive inboxes or winks.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds


"Men winking at women or couples is useless as they receive so many most don't bother to check.

Women and couples winking single men however, is far more effective and able to make the person notice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problem is on here most of the time women do receive alot of messages off men so it's too much to go through them as well so slot of messages do get deleted so sometimes a message is as useless as a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use winks as a quick way of saying 'hey there' to single guys - if that's what we're looking for on that occasion.

We use them in a similar way for other couples.

We seem to get responses most of the time. I think we'd do it differently if we were approaching a single lady, but we've never contacted a single lady!

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I get a wink from a female I respond quicker than a Tesla in ludicrous mode. Often Faster than Elon Musk's space X rocket.

The wink is the single guy's signal to respond with some effort it's very handy. "

Made me laugh lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always prefer winks to messages ... always check out the profiles and wink back if I want to chat! Saves so much effort compared to trawling through inane after inane message! "

This is what I do. I like to wink people I like if they like me they wink back. Then I will message them. I don't always like to message people to get no reply.

So a quick will won't waste much time.. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i give out loads but hardly get one back xx

gutted really x

I just sent you one x"

I tryed to send one for you hun.. Xx

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I really only wink friends when we're sodding about lol but I think I have accidentally winked some people in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've winked to a couple of women on here but only because they're profile had literally bare bones in it and gave me nothing really to ask about or say, but hot pics

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