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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You never know, you might get lucky. As everyone uses Fab the way they want, including people looking for one-offs only.

I much prefer regular, as then sex gets better when you know the other person. But I'm sure some people do fantasise of fucking a total stranger they never going to meet again.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You never know, you might get lucky. As everyone uses Fab the way they want, including people looking for one-offs only.

I much prefer regular, as then sex gets better when you know the other person. But I'm sure some people do fantasise of fucking a total stranger they never going to meet again.

Good luck."

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people assume those that work away and accom in hotels to be cheats #sadfact

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do you not have a home you go back to at weekends ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was looking for someone local.. then I met someone that lives 3 1/2 hours away.. the distance then wasn't relevant.

Open mind OP.. takes time and patience

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I rarely meet anyone

Local to me, in fact I avoid it.

With the exception of 1, all of my friends are at least an hours drive from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site. "

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

Not me happy to travel 300+ miles to meet a gorgeous woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people assume those that work away and accom in hotels to be cheats #sadfact"

Yes i was thinking that too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you not have a home you go back to at weekends ?"

Yes but I have my sister, baby niece and nephew staying here.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P"

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact. "

Yeah

I'm not constantly moaning man and I'm not sure what you mean by "fix" and I don't mean to come across as if I would meet anyone.. I could of met quite a few women from apps if I was like that.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact.

Yeah

I'm not constantly moaning man and I'm not sure what you mean by "fix" and I don't mean to come across as if I would meet anyone.. I could of met quite a few women from apps if I was like that. "

I'm just going from what I've seen if your forum posts so far. You've had quite a lot of very good advice from very experienced folks with decades of fab years and thousands of meets between them, which is more than most get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact.

Yeah

I'm not constantly moaning man and I'm not sure what you mean by "fix" and I don't mean to come across as if I would meet anyone.. I could of met quite a few women from apps if I was like that.

I'm just going from what I've seen if your forum posts so far. You've had quite a lot of very good advice from very experienced folks with decades of fab years and thousands of meets between them, which is more than most get. "

Well you haven't seen many then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be local to them for that week at a time though. People probably mean they dont want to travel 200 miles on the off chance you'll both turn up. Not everyone is after an fwb, not off the forums anyway, plenty of 'use' for a roving male still.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You will be local to them for that week at a time though. People probably mean they dont want to travel 200 miles on the off chance you'll both turn up. Not everyone is after an fwb, not off the forums anyway, plenty of 'use' for a roving male still. "

Nice to know

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact.

Yeah

I'm not constantly moaning man and I'm not sure what you mean by "fix" and I don't mean to come across as if I would meet anyone.. I could of met quite a few women from apps if I was like that.

I'm just going from what I've seen if your forum posts so far. You've had quite a lot of very good advice from very experienced folks with decades of fab years and thousands of meets between them, which is more than most get.

Well you haven't seen many then "

Fair enough, I'm trying to be helpful and you're being dismissive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Since using this site I have noticed many of the ladies profiles are asking for local men and this is a problem for me, because with my work I am never in the same place for longer than a week or two at a time.

Do you all only seek local fwbs? And am I just wasting my time on this site.

Once again you're back to stressing over what you can't offer rather than what you can.

The same advice stands, not everyone is here for the same thing, not everyone wants the same thing. Time and patience, and probably a spot of luck and who knows what/who will turn up for you.

Stop fretting over those you don't match with.

P

I agree.

As Yoda said; "always with you, what you cannot".

I will say that these whilst constant moaning threads are getting you attention and feeding your 'fix', is it the kind of attention that you want OP?

Look for the people that you do want to meet and who's criteria you match, be selective and patient. You're coming across as very negative and 'I'll meet anyone' it's hardly flattering for anyone who you contact.

Yeah

I'm not constantly moaning man and I'm not sure what you mean by "fix" and I don't mean to come across as if I would meet anyone.. I could of met quite a few women from apps if I was like that.

I'm just going from what I've seen if your forum posts so far. You've had quite a lot of very good advice from very experienced folks with decades of fab years and thousands of meets between them, which is more than most get.

Well you haven't seen many then

Fair enough, I'm trying to be helpful and you're being dismissive. "

thanks if that is your intention

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