FabSwingers.com forum: Honesty

By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I have thee up most respect for women please believe me if I didn’t I wouldn’t be saying/asking this first lol x

With first meet a casual meet no probs

yeah I get all that side of things and if there’s a connection between you both etc etc x

So why Is it so wrong/pc wrong

If we just put it straight out there and said I/we you is in need of a really good SHAGGING forget about the formalities let’s just crack on xx

Why is that wrong xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who says it's wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women are happy with that, some are not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are keen for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling it SHAGGING may put some women off.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

It’s not that it’s wrong,

I just prefer to know anyone I’m gonna play with before hand, makes me enjoy the sex more.

I’ve got straight to it a couple of times and been lucky, but I’d rather not go to a meet with the expectation of play and then not play cause I’ve not liked what I’ve seen etc! People leave Disappointed and frustrated.

Plus I’m amazed at the amount of people I’ve met over the last 3+ years that don’t look anything like their photos and ended a social with a thanks but no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get em shagged

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

So say if a blokes profile write up

basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc

Would that be accepted? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So say if a blokes profile write up

basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc

Would that be accepted? X "

You can put whatever you like on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So say if a blokes profile write up

basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc

Would that be accepted? X "

It might it might not people have the right to meet or decline to meet who they like no matter what you put on your profile.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I agree entirely ?? but

Sex is sex it’s more important than a Tesco club card and points lol xx

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Ok GIGGY GIGGY then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree entirely ?? but

Sex is sex it’s more important than a Tesco club card and points lol xx "

Eh?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"It’s not that it’s wrong,

I just prefer to know anyone I’m gonna play with before hand, makes me enjoy the sex more.

Plus I’m amazed at the amount of people I’ve met over the last 3+ years that don’t look anything like their photos and ended a social with a thanks but no thanks! "

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"

I don’t think it’s ‘PC fun police twats’ I think it’s people who would rather know beforehand they are meeting the person in the photos, they have a connection, and they meet in a public place for safety.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's fine for you to message someone saying you're just looking to shag ASAP. It's also fine for them to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx

The attitude would put me off. No doubt anyone saying they'd changed their mind would be called names.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Very true

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I’m not meaning just messaging someone for a shag I’m not like that

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"

Everyone’s different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So say if a blokes profile write up

basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc

Would that be accepted? X "

He should have whatever he wants on his profile. Some people won't like it but so what? If all he wants is a fuck, just say so. It will attract people who want the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's fine for you to message someone saying you're just looking to shag ASAP. It's also fine for them to say no. "

This

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

See I’m extremely open when it comes to

2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing

It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"
im direct too but girls like being seduced in most cases in my experience not just told i wanna shag speadem like some sex doll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.

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ooooo i can see right up your nose nice tits btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I’m extremely open when it comes to

2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing

It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "

I tend to decide for myself what's right and wrong...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.

ooooo i can see right up your nose nice tits btw

Stop looking at my nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See I’m extremely open when it comes to

2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing

It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "

No it’s the fact I’d rather know I’m safe and not fucking someone I’m not attracted to

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

I’m holding back on what I really put just to be politically correct

And that’s wrong etc Isn’t it ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m holding back on what I really put just to be politically correct

And that’s wrong etc Isn’t it ???? "

You put what you wanna put on your profile buddy.

Also - if you click reply+quote we’ll know who you’re replying to

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By *ndyfrost1977 OP Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Lol I haven’t got to your nose yet xx

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"See I’m extremely open when it comes to

2 concenting adults on the same wave length wanting the same thing

It’s society that makes you think it’s wrong x "

Which is exactly why some want a social first, to find out if you are on the same wavelength.

If everyone was honest in their profiles and messages it might not be so necessary but when so many write what they think the other wants to hear it's a bit difficult to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're free to say what you want and to to state this in your profile. Don't be surprised however if the feedback and interest you receive is less than positive.

ooooo i can see right up your nose nice tits btw

Stop looking at my nose

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muhahahaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So say if a blokes profile write up

basically said in a nutshell I’m on here for a good/ time and to be fucked ridiculous Etc etc

Would that be accepted? X "

I'd be more attracted to that than the full info on their life. Some of us are here for sex only. Real NSA x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Mine has never said anything different.

I probably say it in terms more socially acceptable to me but that's what I was always after and that's what I got.

N.S.A....... No romance. No meals. No strings. No hang ups. No pretence. No clingy people.

Have genitals-will travel.

But not just with anyone obvs.

Definitely not with someone who offers a'shag'( even though that's what it is )

and ONLY with people I am attracted to. Which was often decided before I agreed to meet and then cemented after ONE drink or coffee. The clincher moments.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

P.S. I always meet with the intention of sex. That's what I use this site for. (used)

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I agree entirely ?? but

Sex is sex it’s more important than a Tesco club card and points lol xx "

Hmmmmmmm, these days just give me the club card pls..... and a fuck load of points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I crave raw , animalistic, passionate and satisfying sex. Great sex. Not just any sex.

Unfortunately that is hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I crave raw , animalistic, passionate and satisfying sex. Great sex. Not just any sex.

Unfortunately that is hard to find "

it really is x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx"

oooops...... I'm all in favour of P.C. it's what stops racism , sexism and homophobia.

The misinterpretation of it is what leads to problems and also the demonising of anyone who holds a certain viewpoint.... say like calling them fun police or twats etc......

If you can't get laid look closer to home... ffs.

' I can't get shagged cos people won't let me is what you are actually saying.' .

( I do know that i'm actually pissing in the wind here )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want I guess?

But I once met a couple for an initial social. The Male immediately started suggesting I go upstairs and sort his wife out. I'd barely sat down.

He also came across as arrogant and crass with a slightly bigoted attitude.

I'd have regretted anything happening if I found out during or after, that, that was who they were about?

Sure theres physical attraction but smiles, laughter and connection keep that initial thing going.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The up tight PC fun police twats lol x

Which is why a lot of us nowadays hold back which is bollocks I’m much prefer straight to the point say how it’s is scenario xx

oooops...... I'm all in favour of P.C. it's what stops racism , sexism and homophobia.

The misinterpretation of it is what leads to problems and also the demonising of anyone who holds a certain viewpoint.... say like calling them fun police or twats etc......

If you can't get laid look closer to home... ffs.

' I can't get shagged cos people won't let me is what you are actually saying.' .

( I do know that i'm actually pissing in the wind here ) "

I agree, what that sentence says is "I can't say what I want to say because it's disrespectful and rude and people actually complain about that stuff now"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That kind of opening message wouldn't work for me, when I'm meeting.

I don't like being told what I need.

I'm awkward like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you keep blaming the PC Police? I don't see them cracking down on people who like to insta-fuck.

They usually have other battles that they fight. Ones where people are being dick to others. Exclusion based on ignorance, questionable preferences and political stuff.

How quick you want to jump into bed with others probably wouldn't even pop up on their radar.

Think you may have your terminology a bit wrong. Though I can see why you fall foul of them if you call them "Twats" For not having the same moral compass as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not wrong.. it's just whether the wording attracts or doesn't..

if you've had conversation with someone and say that then you're directing it at them.

If you use it genetically it gives a different message.

Only you can attract the kind of person you're after so it works or it doesn't.

Like everything it's not everyone's cup of tea.

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I would say most aren’t happy with it. I tried respectful, flirty, cheeky and rude. Until you have a verification or two it’s pointless.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Respectful, Flirty and Cheeky are 3 women on here.

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