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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

For a community claiming to be liberated and thinking outside the box there is lots of prejudice. How come if men can't accommodate you lot assume he's a cheater and you don't if that's a woman. Would be nice to ask first, otherwise all single fathers or carers don't have a chance! Its looking like you all don't mind cheating woman but treat cheating man like something evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly I have,a son who has downs syndrome, and the oh he is married shit gets my goat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll get used to it on here after a while. All lot of judgemental 'non-judgemental' types on here. If they're willing to assume the negative then I'd say it's a good filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ...

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Double standards are normal.

People are people.

Cant change them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a man you have to justify why you don't accommodate, as a woman you don't. Double standards are part and parcel of sites like these. It will take drastic measures to get things to change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... "
every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Double standards are normal.

People are people.

Cant change them.

"

Tell me about it! They wouldn't take my last people back even though I still had the receipt and packaging

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By *astyEric OP   Man
over a year ago

Hull

Therefore all single man should set it as, can accommodate, and explain later. Is that the solusion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool."

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 400 men to 1 woman. Its a womans world. Lol. No matter how good a profile or how polite your approach. Clubs are your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels "

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Therefore all single man should set it as, can accommodate, and explain later. Is that the solusion? "
do that, see if there's a connection then explain. Just because someone's put they can accommodate doesn't mean that they're obliged to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Therefore all single man should set it as, can accommodate, and explain later. Is that the solusion? do that, see if there's a connection then explain. Just because someone's put they can accommodate doesn't mean that they're obliged to do so. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK "
Whoa! I wasn't having a go at Blackpool itself. I've been and it was alright. The B&B was a bit dodgy hence the above. Now Jaywick.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK Whoa! I wasn't having a go at Blackpool itself. I've been and it was alright. The B&B was a bit dodgy hence the above. Now Jaywick......."

Guys! Laughing harder now! No, I have never been ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels "
social, connection, Doris's .1 star B&B where the sheets are stained before you even start. Sounds perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK Whoa! I wasn't having a go at Blackpool itself. I've been and it was alright. The B&B was a bit dodgy hence the above. Now Jaywick.......

Guys! Laughing harder now! No, I have never been ... "
I have, but again only as a kid to the market they had there. I mainly remember playing Track and Field in the arcade they had there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels social, connection, Doris's .1 star B&B where the sheets are stained before you even start. Sounds perfect. "

Oh dear

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"How come if men can't accommodate you lot assume he's a cheater and you don't if that's a woman. "

Who says we don't if it's a woman?

The fact that a man can't accommodate doesn't mean he is 100% married but 99% of men that are married can't accommodate so discounting them means you get rid of a very high percentage of the cheaters. It's not like there is a shortage of men is it?

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"For a community claiming to be liberated and thinking outside the box there is lots of prejudice. How come if men can't accommodate you lot assume he's a cheater and you don't if that's a woman. Would be nice to ask first, otherwise all single fathers or carers don't have a chance! Its looking like you all don't mind cheating woman but treat cheating man like something evil

"

Sometimes we assume that they just still live with their mum!

Unfortunately after chatting to loads of different men and women over the years on Fab, I’ve found that the women that can’t accommodate have actually been honest on their profile, but the men haven’t been, they’ve portrayed them self as single and you only find out down the road, oh sorry I can only meet during the day while the wife is at work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning about women won't get you a meet OP.

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Moaning about women won't get you a meet OP.

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Hahaha

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"For a community claiming to be liberated and thinking outside the box there is lots of prejudice. How come if men can't accommodate you lot assume he's a cheater and you don't if that's a woman. Would be nice to ask first, otherwise all single fathers or carers don't have a chance! Its looking like you all don't mind cheating woman but treat cheating man like something evil

"
I always ask why someone can't. Rather than assume x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moaning about women won't get you a meet OP.

"
No moaning about men there that I can see. Just the fact that us lot are a bunch of assumers.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"Its looking like you all don't mind cheating woman but treat cheating man like something evil

"

This one again.

You're quite correct, we* don't. Live with it. We want a quiet life and don't want some deranged bunny-boiler on the phone or knocking at the door at 4am. In our* experience men and women deal with a cheating partner in completely different ways. A man will blame his cheating partner, a woman will blame whoever he cheated with.

* For the hard of thinking we/our refers to US personally not everyone on the forum.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK "

Getting shat on by seagulls really reinforces that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet people who can't accommodate simply because they expect me to! Double standards me thinks ... every single one of them? They might be able to offer a night in the Savoy. Or more likely some dodgy b&b in Blackpool.

Lol made me laugh @ Blackpool! I'm not really looking for hook ups though ... that would be different and I love meeting friends in hotels

You'd only laugh about Blackpool if you've never been

You'd have nightmares if you have

It really is the arsehole of the UK

Getting shat on by seagulls really reinforces that "

A daily occurrence here especially on the washing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a community claiming to be liberated and thinking outside the box there is lots of prejudice. How come if men can't accommodate you lot assume he's a cheater and you don't if that's a woman. Would be nice to ask first, otherwise all single fathers or carers don't have a chance! Its looking like you all don't mind cheating woman but treat cheating man like something evil

"
that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a man you have to justify why you don't accommodate, as a woman you don't. Double standards are part and parcel of sites like these. It will take drastic measures to get things to change."

It won't ever change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP, can you accom or not?

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