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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering is it usually the man's idea or the woman's idea to get into the swinging lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you think it’s the man’s idea?

It was a mutual decision for us. I play, he doesn’t.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Both in our case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it was me ( Mrs) who got the ball rolling ,

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Just wondering is it usually the man's idea or the woman's idea to get into the swinging lifestyle. "

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you think it’s the man’s idea?

It was a mutual decision for us. I play, he doesn’t. "

Just asking who's idea was it to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you think it’s the man’s idea?

It was a mutual decision for us. I play, he doesn’t. "

He’s not presuming it is, he’s asking if it’s usually the man or the woman.

I’m betting the definitive answer will be mutual.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

To this day, neither of us knows who suggested it first. All we know is we’re very happy now

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We met on here as singles 7 years ago... so already knew we were both slutty tarts ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd never considered it until Mr N brought the subject up. So you could say it was his idea initially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a mutual decision, but I was the one instigating the discussion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of us. But we met on here. Getting married next year.

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

I suggested it to my husband

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was my idea but once we had our first meet shes never regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her idea i play she only plays occasionally with women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seems like a big first step to suggest it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met here, stopped for a couple of years having just us time and then not sure who mentioned it first, probably me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say who’s idea as it sort of developed. However it was her that pushed it and walked into the club first with me nervously trailing behind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you think it’s the man’s idea?

It was a mutual decision for us. I play, he doesn’t.

He’s not presuming it is, he’s asking if it’s usually the man or the woman.

I’m betting the definitive answer will be mutual."

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple
over a year ago

coventry

It was both or ours that decided. If it not equal I don’t believe it will work. Xx

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"It was both or ours that decided. If it not equal I don’t believe iwill work. Xx"

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By *ooneyloubylouWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

Me!

Had been swinging for years before I met Mr G. Was a deal breaker for me for anything serious....needless to say 8 1/2 years later we're still together...swinging!

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Just wondering is it usually the man's idea or the woman's idea to get into the swinging lifestyle. "

Oh definitely my idea ( the male ) , and that’s because our whole relationship is based on lust rather than love , and lust is the driving force behind swinging isn’t it ?

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By *obacCouple
over a year ago

west coast

Both off us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual for me and my oh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Mrs) my sisters friend works as an escort, talking to hubby about it and got us talking and thinking and here we are lol still not had a meet yet but spices up things just talking and thinking about it xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was chatting with a woman in the pub recently about Amsterdam and she told me she went there with her boyfriend and for his birthday she paid for him to have sex with one of the girls in the windows lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering is it usually the man's idea or the woman's idea to get into the swinging lifestyle.

Oh definitely my idea ( the male ) , and that’s because our whole relationship is based on lust rather than love , and lust is the driving force behind swinging isn’t it ?

Hmm maybe. This site sure got me Lusting sometimes

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

We met on here, so I guess that's cat was out of the bag from the start.

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We were supposed to be just voyeurs, but then got offered the most gorgeous blonde to fuck.... and Mrs wanted me to, so how could I refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We not set up scenes we like

It turns us both on x

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

We met on here!

The regular couples we play with, sure it was the women that instigated it.

We’ve met a few where it was the men, but sure it’s been more the women’s ideas?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and I met here, was a natural progression to meet together after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was mainly my idea (The wife).

But we had both discussed it many times for a period of time and the husband out of the blue signed us up to fab and texted me the user name and password lol. Never looked back x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Her idea. She said she had heard about swingers clubs and wanted to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suggested it, he grudgingly agreed, and now we've been happily swinging for over 2 years.

Sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both of us. But we met on here. Getting married next year. "

Aww

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both of us. But we met on here. Getting married next year.

Aww

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

Mrs was aware that Mr had swung in the past from the day we met. She suggested we maybe try it together.

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