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"I very much take people as I find them. I take any gossip on here with a big pinch of salt and most of it passes over my head anyway. I'm fairly private about my choices and relationships on here but wouldn't let other people's opinions influence me" Are you a hive mind now? | |||
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"Depends on who says it. I'll listen to friends, and share bits where appropriate. But stuff coming from strangers doesn't do anything for me. " | |||
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"Depends on who says it. I'll listen to friends, and share bits where appropriate. But stuff coming from strangers doesn't do anything for me. " I have a few close friends who I listen to and trust about things. As far as gossip goes? I try not to get involved with it - you're only hearing one particular viewpoint which will be clouded by their own personal views. And fuck some of it can be so spiteful and shitty. I prefer to meet people and make my own decision. Sometimes I don't need to meet them to do so. | |||
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"I have absolutely no interest in the opinion of anyone from the forum. I'm perfectly capable of forming my own opinions about people. " | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can " It's like politics with some people.. trying to form sides on something nobody else gives a shit about.. | |||
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"Everyone is in the same nonjudgmental place then " Nah. People make judgements. I do. They are more often than not shared by *my* experiences than others though. | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can It's like politics with some people.. trying to form sides on something nobody else gives a shit about.. " I was then someone that they and their group would make digs at. Was fun | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can It's like politics with some people.. trying to form sides on something nobody else gives a shit about.. I was then someone that they and their group would make digs at. Was fun " Bet it was like yesterday's chip paper.. they move on pretty fast.. | |||
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"I can be honest and say I never ever hear any gossip, I am not in with 'The In' crowd, despite being here for 10+ years!) " Mostly the same. I think i scare most of the forum | |||
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"I can be honest and say I never ever hear any gossip, I am not in with 'The In' crowd, despite being here for 10+ years!) Mostly the same. I think i scare most of the forum " Possibly.. My friends on here are the sensible voices of reason.. got nobody to gossip with! | |||
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"I very much take people as I find them. I take any gossip on here with a big pinch of salt and most of it passes over my head anyway. I'm fairly private about my choices and relationships on here but wouldn't let other people's opinions influence me Are you a hive mind now? " I've got hive heating if that counts | |||
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"How much do you listen to other people's opinions on here? It's weird because it's such a mix of people who know each other in real life and people who have never actually met.. half of the time it's impossible to work out what's true or someone's opinion. So when you meet someone do you take them as you find them and work out your own opinion or are you swayed by what others think? How good are you at keeping your head up when people are passing judgement on your choices and relationships?" I take every human being at face value. I've been given information about people here that was inaccurate. So I trust my gut and go with it. We all have opinions but the only opinions that matter to me are the opinions of people that are important to me. I'll certainly hear people out but I trust my instincts | |||
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"Everyone is in the same nonjudgmental place then " Or lying to themselves! | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. " lol,,wow,,you like people slightly judgemental n very presumptuous me thinks | |||
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"Everyone is in the same nonjudgmental place then Or lying to themselves!" A lot of ppl believe their own lies in here for sure..... | |||
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"I know and love you all... check your inboxes " If only I was honoured enough to receive a message from you | |||
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"I know and love you all... check your inboxes " I have no clue about you but you have my love until you lose it... | |||
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"I can be honest and say I never ever hear any gossip, I am not in with 'The In' crowd, despite being here for 10+ years!) Mostly the same. I think i scare most of the forum " Probably same here, as I never join in on the flirty please love me threads or post for the sake of posting, but hey ho, sometimes it is good to be under the radar | |||
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"I can be honest and say I never ever hear any gossip, I am not in with 'The In' crowd, despite being here for 10+ years!) Mostly the same. I think i scare most of the forum " Nah. You? You're like fluffy candy floss recently. | |||
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"I can be honest and say I never ever hear any gossip, I am not in with 'The In' crowd, despite being here for 10+ years!) Mostly the same. I think i scare most of the forum Nah. You? You're like fluffy candy floss recently." I know right??? I'm mellowing in my old age. Fuck it!!! | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can It's like politics with some people.. trying to form sides on something nobody else gives a shit about.. " Lol the shit is really not given is it..... | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. lol,,wow,,you like people slightly judgemental n very presumptuous me thinks " Slightly judgemental? I’d go with very judgemental! | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can It's like politics with some people.. trying to form sides on something nobody else gives a shit about.. Lol the shit is really not given is it..... " Too complicated.. I'd need a spreadsheet to keep up with any gossip on here! Unless I've met someone it's lost on me!! | |||
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"I had someone on here who used to try and sway my opinions on other people a lot. If they had an issue with someone, they tried to get me involved. And I know they would do the same with other people. When I wouldn’t cave and was an individual who was more than capable of forming her own opinions, they dropped me very quickly I’ve had others message me asking ‘oh why are you speaking to so and so’ Mehhhhhhh. Cause I can " Honestly didn't think that sort of playground crap would be happening on here, guess you really can't get away from it at all can you | |||
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"How much do you listen to other people's opinions on here? It's weird because it's such a mix of people who know each other in real life and people who have never actually met.. half of the time it's impossible to work out what's true or someone's opinion. So when you meet someone do you take them as you find them and work out your own opinion or are you swayed by what others think? How good are you at keeping your head up when people are passing judgement on your choices and relationships?" I've always pretty much made my own mind up about people and ignored gossip. It can make you unpopular in certain situations and with certain people. When I was much younger I would sometimes question myself if people passed judgement on my choices and relationships but I went ahead anyway although it wasn't always in my own best interests. Gossip is natural, malicious gossip is damaging though | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. " I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. " This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! | |||
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"How much do you listen to other people's opinions on here? It's weird because it's such a mix of people who know each other in real life and people who have never actually met.. half of the time it's impossible to work out what's true or someone's opinion. So when you meet someone do you take them as you find them and work out your own opinion or are you swayed by what others think? How good are you at keeping your head up when people are passing judgement on your choices and relationships?" I think try as you might, sometimes it's very difficult not to hear gossip. It's a lot easier to not believe it. People can say what they like about people. No one forces me to take it as gospel. | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! " You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. " You’re so perceptive, you’ve seen right through me | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials." Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. " I’ve never been met | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. I’ve never been met " You're so open you're clearly real! | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. " I've not met anyone from the forums but I'm not a catfish | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. I’ve never been met " Nor have I | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. " If you do veri trails you can see some are obv fake veri's, even for some regs.... Its a scary world.... (wait, is that gossip or opinion....? ) | |||
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"Don't need to listen to gossip........the forum's tell all like a crystal ball......ooooooo " thats probably the truest thing. If you want to know whose shagging who or whose fallen out youve only got to read the forums | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. I’ve never been met You're so open you're clearly real! " I’d give myself a more exciting back story if I was fake, I’m so boring | |||
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"I wouldn’t listen to, or trust, anyone on the forums really. A lot of people here seem to spend hours carefully crafting their online persona to hide some seemingly really shitty real life personalities. I go to way too many group socials to hide anything. This would actually make a fun thread... which forumites have never been met by anyone?!?! You should do a thread... Currently I’d say based on regular forum posters a lot of people appear to have met at socials. Bet there are still some prolific catfishers on here!! I'm going to.. I’ve never been met You're so open you're clearly real! I’d give myself a more exciting back story if I was fake, I’m so boring " Me too.. I only talk about gin and stretchy pants.. I'm crap.. but now I'm wondering who is really an amazing catfish!!!! | |||
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"Don't need to listen to gossip........the forum's tell all like a crystal ball......ooooooo thats probably the truest thing. If you want to know whose shagging who or whose fallen out youve only got to read the forums " It's like watching the *news at ten*......and in other news.....what's his name got piles.... | |||
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"Don't need to listen to gossip........the forum's tell all like a crystal ball......ooooooo thats probably the truest thing. If you want to know whose shagging who or whose fallen out youve only got to read the forums It's like watching the *news at ten*......and in other news.....what's his name got piles.... " | |||
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"Im not fussed about people gossiping about me. If they wanted to know the facts they would message me and ask" Where's the fun in actually getting the truth about something? The gossip is far more juicy! | |||
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"Don't need to listen to gossip........the forum's tell all like a crystal ball......ooooooo thats probably the truest thing. If you want to know whose shagging who or whose fallen out youve only got to read the forums " | |||
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