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I'm 62 would you women make love to a older man who keeps in shape, only asking

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Lots of older men out threr take a lot of pride in how they look example ex services, and some are better than most young men experience wise I think my body is not to bad what do you think, thanks for your time reading this XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older men but its nothing to do with if they keep in shape or not ,i just find them better lovers and i get in better with them than younger men

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Take all kinds of women, they all have there own preferences not jusy yours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You appear to have lost a year, OP

Have a look down the side of the sofa, or in your glasses case

Thats where i usually find things

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take all kinds of women, they all have there own preferences not jusy yours! "

Yep. And I gave my opinion/preference. I love an older man, just not too old

Lots of people will fuck and meet someone your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grow up! "

If you click reply+quote we’ll know who you’re replying to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad. "
lol that's harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take all kinds of women, they all have there own preferences not jusy yours! "
and you asked people to comment they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad.

lol that's harsh"

How is that harsh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though "
to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My partner is 61 so it's a resounding yes from me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

In most circumstances the age doesn't make a massive amount of difference.

Although I tend to be attracted to under 45year okds, I do know some men over 60 who are extremely sexy. But there's a lot more in it than just a number.

Don't define yourself by your age, surely you have lots of other attributes

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad. lol that's harsh"

Not from someone aged 22. It's just fact.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am"

Trust me, you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad. lol that's harsh

Not from someone aged 22. It's just fact."
beat me to it

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad. lol that's harsh

Not from someone aged 22. It's just fact."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can only speak for myself. In my case yes. I can and I do.

But this does not invalidate the answers of anyone else. If someone only wants to sleep with someone who's precisely 6 foot tall with red hair at no more or less than 30 years and 6 months old... That's their right.

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Yep that's harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will "
nooooooooo

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had a fb who was early 60’s he was great with lots of stamina

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I prefer younger men than myself

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yep that's harsh "

Not when you consider she is only 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh "

It’s not harsh, it’s fact. I’m 22, I don’t think I really need to justify the fact I don’t want to sleep with someone older than my grandad

I’m sorry if you wanted this thread to be filled with women who do want to fuck you/someone your age. But you asked who would...I wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're only as old as you feel....

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo"

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yep that's harsh "

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'll make love to a 62 year old man, that will be B when he turns 62 (providing life follows that path of course)

I may fuck a 62 year old, right place right time kinda thing.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it "
your causing passing strangers to stare at the belly laughing idiot in the car an old lady even just came to the window then she was in 70s easy with a blue rinse

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The OP is clearly in decent shape for a man of his age, but the reality is that the body of someone in their sixties (or fifties, like me) will never be as attractive, to most people, as the body of a younger man.

Hence as you get older you will get fewer people willing to have sex with you and there's nothing one can do about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

It’s not harsh, it’s fact. I’m 22, I don’t think I really need to justify the fact I don’t want to sleep with someone older than my grandad

I’m sorry if you wanted this thread to be filled with women who do want to fuck you/someone your age. But you asked who would...I wouldn’t. "

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

OP, I'm sure you can get yourself a whippy ice-cream and a nice cup of tea in Eastbourne...

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me". "

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I have age restrictions for a reason, it's nothing to do with physicality though. I just don't think I'd have anything in common with much older people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it "

No sarcasm here but you don't look sixty something!

I think it's best to just like what you like and see who visually tickles your fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally you're too old for me. It's not so much about your body but at more than double my age I doubt we'd have much in common and our approaches may be quite different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't make love to anybody! But I prefer fucking much younger men, bugger all to do with how good there body is but how much I like their face and attitude

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

The body is one thing but, the mind gets me horny every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it

No sarcasm here but you don't look sixty something!

I think it's best to just like what you like and see who visually tickles your fancy "
yeah playa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP is clearly in decent shape for a man of his age, but the reality is that the body of someone in their sixties (or fifties, like me) will never be as attractive, to most people, as the body of a younger man.

Hence as you get older you will get fewer people willing to have sex with you and there's nothing one can do about it "

Really, I get messages of younger women quite a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm looking I prefer older men, although up to 14 years older than me is my cut off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't make love to anybody! But I prefer fucking much younger men, bugger all to do with how good there body is but how much I like their face and attitude "

Oohh god! *their.... Sorry, just spotted that n couldn't leave it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it your causing passing strangers to stare at the belly laughing idiot in the car an old lady even just came to the window then she was in 70s easy with a blue rinse "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it

No sarcasm here but you don't look sixty something!

I think it's best to just like what you like and see who visually tickles your fancy "

Thanks. Neither does the op. 60 doesn't look like people think it does if you see what I mean

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"62? Or 63 as your status says OP?

As with anything when it comes to attraction, there will be some that find you attractive and some that don't, it's not necessarily about age, nor is it about being "better" than others in any way.

There's no doubt that you've a decent body regardless of what your age is though to be honest im considering giving up counting now once i hit 60 i wont care how old i am

Trust me, you will nooooooooo

Being in your 60s is great you get free prescriptions and money off a perm on a Tuesday as long as the apprentice does it "

And a railcard for a third off fares. Also reduced ski lift passes in most resorts.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?" "

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling. "

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy? "
no as the forum would just be loads if folks agreeing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy? "

But that wasn't her reaction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction! "

At no point did I say eww or that he reminded me of my grandad. I said no, as he’s older than my grandad. That’s not a line I want to cross. And that’s totally fine.

And how boring would the forums be if everyone just replied to agree?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction! "

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated. "

Sorry. Next time I’ll be sure just not to involve myself with any posts regarding preferences in case I offend anyone.

Bowing out now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy? "

She didnt say that, though

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction! "

But how it came across

Of course it is fine if that is how she wants to come across

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"You're only as old as you feel...."

No your not. Your as old as your birth certificate says you are.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Shit, it should have said you're. And I'm a proper grammar fucking nazi

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

At no point did I say eww or that he reminded me of my grandad. I said no, as he’s older than my grandad. That’s not a line I want to cross. And that’s totally fine.

And how boring would the forums be if everyone just replied to agree? "

It's absolutely fine of course, but here you have a bloke who clearly doesn't think of himself as in the grandad category and you're reminding him that he is.

As I say, it's not subtle.

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

All the cock pics are off putting so ide give it miss

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated.

Sorry. Next time I’ll be sure just not to involve myself with any posts regarding preferences in case I offend anyone.

Bowing out now "

Don't bow out you haven't said anything wrong,I would meet someone my mother's age, so fucking what!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated. "
why a need for subtle tho why pussy foot around it he asked she answered no matter how it comes across it was direct and for a good reason that was explained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated.

Sorry. Next time I’ll be sure just not to involve myself with any posts regarding preferences in case I offend anyone.

Bowing out now

Don't bow out you haven't said anything wrong,I would meet someone my mother's age, so fucking what! "

Wouldnt*

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP, if I was younger ( 20 years or so )it wouldn't have mattered how a person looked, I probably wouldn't have played with a much older man, but then I wouldn't have played with a much younger man either, I think for me it is all to do with having kids or a dad in the same sort of age group plus would we have had much in common with them

I am sure there will be people about who do though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

At no point did I say eww or that he reminded me of my grandad. I said no, as he’s older than my grandad. That’s not a line I want to cross. And that’s totally fine.

And how boring would the forums be if everyone just replied to agree?

It's absolutely fine of course, but here you have a bloke who clearly doesn't think of himself as in the grandad category and you're reminding him that he is.

As I say, it's not subtle. "

But what's wrong with that?

Am I supposed to be offended by people who dislike DD+ tits? Or just accept that that's not what they like and move on?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent. "

I don't agree. There's plenty of BBWs on here who get terribly offended if men say they don't find overweight women attractive.

And most of us oldies are quite well aware that there are vanishingly few young women who want to have sex with old men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always preferred older men, after dating both younger and older I personally find that older make far better lovers. It's nothing to do with body image for me but the person as a whole. OP you're very attractive for your age

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

True, but when a bloke asks if women want to have sex with him and someone says "no, you're older than my grandad" it's not exactly subtle.

I think this is an example of double standards. Like I say if an overweight woman was "just asking" if men liked having sex with a woman of her size and someone said "no, you're bigger than Dawn French", he'd be slated. why a need for subtle tho why pussy foot around it he asked she answered no matter how it comes across it was direct and for a good reason that was explained "

I'm perfectly fine with directness, as long as its universally applied and people don't get slated for "body shaming" and so on if they're equally direct in other circumstances.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent.

I don't agree. There's plenty of BBWs on here who get terribly offended if men say they don't find overweight women attractive.

And most of us oldies are quite well aware that there are vanishingly few young women who want to have sex with old men. "

It depends on how it's done, because it does often come with a truckload of fat shaming.

But speaking for myself, the fact that someone might not find me attractive because I'm a size 16 (who at a healthy weight should probably be a size 12) isn't offensive per se.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bingley


"Not someone as old as you, no. You’re older than my grandad. lol that's harsh"

Wouldnt say harsh just an honest opinion

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent.

I don't agree. There's plenty of BBWs on here who get terribly offended if men say they don't find overweight women attractive.

And most of us oldies are quite well aware that there are vanishingly few young women who want to have sex with old men.

It depends on how it's done, because it does often come with a truckload of fat shaming.

But speaking for myself, the fact that someone might not find me attractive because I'm a size 16 (who at a healthy weight should probably be a size 12) isn't offensive per se. "

Would you consider, in answer to the question from a BBW "would you have sex with me" "no, you're bigger than Dawn French" to be "fat shaming"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

But how it came across

Of course it is fine if that is how she wants to come across "

There are plenty of people that say they don't want to play with younger people and say it's because they are the same age or younger than their children... Should they be offended too? Stating a fact is only offensive if that is the way you want to take it....and (to another poster) if someone told me they didn't want to fuck me because I was bigger than their preference, why should I be offended, it's a fact, not an insult... If insulting comments are made is a different matter, in this instance, there were none

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent.

I don't agree. There's plenty of BBWs on here who get terribly offended if men say they don't find overweight women attractive.

And most of us oldies are quite well aware that there are vanishingly few young women who want to have sex with old men.

It depends on how it's done, because it does often come with a truckload of fat shaming.

But speaking for myself, the fact that someone might not find me attractive because I'm a size 16 (who at a healthy weight should probably be a size 12) isn't offensive per se.

Would you consider, in answer to the question from a BBW "would you have sex with me" "no, you're bigger than Dawn French" to be "fat shaming"? "

Yes, although not too terrible.

But "You're bigger than Dawn French" is not quite the same as (extrapolating slightly) "You're two generations away from me and I'm not comfortable with that".

Basically the preference stated here is "the age gap is too much". Not "omg I bet you're wrinkly and can't keep it up let alone repeat, stop dreaming gramps" (I say this in general terms, not aimed at anyone specifically). Which is the tone I object to in fat shaming.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And ffs I regularly fuck older than 62!

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy? "
On these type of forum posts, I think silence is always the best policy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to agree I have nothing in common with people under 25 .I wouldn't feel the need to say I have kids older than you.As that's a dig at them being immature .

I might find some young people immature .However why slate them for it and call it out as we've all been there.Young and dumb and full of cum.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I think age and weight carry different baggage. And realistically, most BBW know that not everyone is attracted to their body types. While the 55+ crowd I come across on Fab can actively bemoan the fact that they don't get attention from people younger than their (hypothetical) children.

"You're older than my grandparents" and "I don't find people over size X attractive" are probably broadly equivalent.

I don't agree. There's plenty of BBWs on here who get terribly offended if men say they don't find overweight women attractive.

And most of us oldies are quite well aware that there are vanishingly few young women who want to have sex with old men.

It depends on how it's done, because it does often come with a truckload of fat shaming.

But speaking for myself, the fact that someone might not find me attractive because I'm a size 16 (who at a healthy weight should probably be a size 12) isn't offensive per se.

Would you consider, in answer to the question from a BBW "would you have sex with me" "no, you're bigger than Dawn French" to be "fat shaming"?

Yes, although not too terrible.

But "You're bigger than Dawn French" is not quite the same as (extrapolating slightly) "You're two generations away from me and I'm not comfortable with that".

Basically the preference stated here is "the age gap is too much". Not "omg I bet you're wrinkly and can't keep it up let alone repeat, stop dreaming gramps" (I say this in general terms, not aimed at anyone specifically). Which is the tone I object to in fat shaming. "

I can't agree I'm afraid. One is emphasising to someone they fall within an age category the writer finds unattractive, whilst the other is emphasising that someone falls into a weight category the writer finds unattractive.

And I don't think your inference necessarily follows. Certainly I got the "eww wrinkly" inference rather than the "uncomfortable" inference. And it is indeed a common way for a young woman to reject advances from an older man by calling him "grandad" which is certainly meant to remind him he's old and unattractive.

On a global level, I am all for realism. Most women will prefer a man under 50 to one over 50 whilst most men will prefer a slim woman to an overweight woman. I've no objection to anyone stating those facts. I just don't like double standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was 21 years older than me. Far from body perfect and I adored him. I tend to date older guys (40+).

On here I prefer to fuck guys around my own age. I'm a lot more shallow on here and tend to initially judge people on their appearance. I get to fuck hot guys who probably wouldn't look twice at my clothed pics on a dating site.

Away from fab, I'd certainly choose older guys

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Interpretation is a funny thing!

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Interpretation is a funny thing! "

Maybe I'm more sensitive as I'm in the grandad category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll have to agree I have nothing in common with people under 25 .I wouldn't feel the need to say I have kids older than you.As that's a dig at them being immature .

I might find some young people immature .However why slate them for it and call it out as we've all been there.Young and dumb and full of cum.

"

I’ve had men on and off the forums say they wouldn’t meet/fuck me because I’m younger than their kids. I’ve never once thought it was them having a dig at me, calling me immature or slagging me off. It’s all down to preference and what feels right for each individual person.

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall

I look for people nearer my age,not because I find them better than anyone else in some way or other... I just have more in common with people of my own age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to look for my age or younger. But not too young. Having said that I wouldn’t chuck Dash out of bed

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy?

But that wasn't her reaction!

But how it came across

Of course it is fine if that is how she wants to come across

There are plenty of people that say they don't want to play with younger people and say it's because they are the same age or younger than their children... Should they be offended too?

"

Is this to me or the previous quoted posts? If to me, my post didn't mention being offended, my post said if that's how she wants to come across it is fine , which in turn means she can post how she wants to

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"I tend to look for my age or younger. But not too young. Having said that I wouldn’t chuck Dash out of bed "

Well I've got no chance then

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford

Not for me. You're the same age as my dad, just very creepy to me. But I prefer younger guys up to about 40, don't get me wrong there are some older guys that definitely turn my head. Robert Downey Jr for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for me. You're the same age as my dad, just very creepy to me. But I prefer younger guys up to about 40, don't get me wrong there are some older guys that definitely turn my head. Robert Downey Jr for one. "

Don’t say that!!!!

But I’d fuck Robert Downey Jr too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interpretation is a funny thing!

Maybe I'm more sensitive as I'm in the grandad category "

You’re younger than my grandad

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Interpretation is a funny thing!

Maybe I'm more sensitive as I'm in the grandad category "

And likewise with the weight.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My grandfathers would be in their late 80s if they were still alive. Just sayin'.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Not for me. You're the same age as my dad, just very creepy to me. But I prefer younger guys up to about 40, don't get me wrong there are some older guys that definitely turn my head. Robert Downey Jr for one.

Don’t say that!!!!

But I’d fuck Robert Downey Jr too "

But not Robert Downey Sr ?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Interpretation is a funny thing!

Maybe I'm more sensitive as I'm in the grandad category

You’re younger than my grandad "

Does that mean you'll have sex with me

And just to emphasise I am not an actual grandad, just an age when I could be

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"My grandfathers would be in their late 80s if they were still alive. Just sayin'. "

Mine would be 100+!

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Not for me. You're the same age as my dad, just very creepy to me. But I prefer younger guys up to about 40, don't get me wrong there are some older guys that definitely turn my head. Robert Downey Jr for one.

Don’t say that!!!!

But I’d fuck Robert Downey Jr too "
. Haha I appoologise to the world for having a preference

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes the OP is in good shape for 62/63, clearly no doubt about that. Would I want sex with him? No, as I'm looking for someone around my own age. I wouldn't want too much younger than myself either. I'm sure there are people that prefer much older gays much younger as well though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes the OP is in good shape for 62/63, clearly no doubt about that. Would I want sex with him? No, as I'm looking for someone around my own age. I wouldn't want too much younger than myself either. I'm sure there are people that prefer much older gays much younger as well though.. "

I like the older gays

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yes the OP is in good shape for 62/63, clearly no doubt about that. Would I want sex with him? No, as I'm looking for someone around my own age. I wouldn't want too much younger than myself either. I'm sure there are people that prefer much older gays much younger as well though..

I like the older gays "

Oh Jesus, I meant Guys.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"Yes the OP is in good shape for 62/63, clearly no doubt about that. Would I want sex with him? No, as I'm looking for someone around my own age. I wouldn't want too much younger than myself either. I'm sure there are people that prefer much older gays much younger as well though.. "

Indeed.. I've been going down the gym now for some 12 years, but there's no doubt that however hard you work your body will more saggy and wrinkly at 52 than at 40. Hence you will be less physically attractive to most women.

I deal with that trauma by having my partner have sex with hot young men, which she rather enjoys. Lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me".

But turning that on his head and playing devil's advocate somewhat, would you consider it harsh if someone responded to question from an overweight person as to whether people would have sex with them with "no, I don't find fat people attractive?"

It'd depend on specifics. But here, someone not wanting to sleep with someone older than their grandfather is so incredibly normal and the fact he's pushing back on it is troubling.

What if an overweight woman started a thread with" would you have sex with a BBW" and someone said they wouldn't have sex with fat people, wouldn't the general attitude be that one should not really get involved in the thread if the person posting is of no interest to you?

On this occasion, I think there was harshness. If a young woman's completely normal reaction to sex with old people is "eww no, you remind me of my grandad" wouldn't silence be the best policy? "

I'll do a thread.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Make love to? No.

I would possibly have sex with someone of that age if I found them attractive and we got on well - I wouldn't rule them out because of age automatically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love older men but its nothing to do with if they keep in shape or not ,i just find them better lovers and i get in better with them than younger men"
*waves hello* xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My partner is 61 so it's a resounding yes from me"
Same age as me! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to look for my age or younger. But not too young. Having said that I wouldn’t chuck Dash out of bed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're only as old as you feel...."

In that case, I'm 80

I don't meet men my age or older, as I'm here for the sex, and younger men appeal to me more, when it comes to a just sex relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to look for my age or younger. But not too young. Having said that I wouldn’t chuck Dash out of bed

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You don't act like a miserable old man though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I'll make love to a 62 year old man, that will be B when he turns 62 (providing life follows that path of course)

I may fuck a 62 year old, right place right time kinda thing.

P"
you've given me hope! Lovely feet btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always preferred older men, after dating both younger and older I personally find that older make far better lovers. It's nothing to do with body image for me but the person as a whole. OP you're very attractive for your age "
xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I would prefer a man in good shape of a similar age - I can admire young men's bodies, but be less attracted to them, because I want more than mere physicality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me". "

Absolutely agree ... it’s nit just any port in a storm

Respect

Or maybe I’m old too and old fashion or just Irish ?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to look for my age or younger. But not too young. Having said that I wouldn’t chuck Dash out of bed

You don't act like a miserable old man though."

I actually am a miserable grumpy bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would prefer a man in good shape of a similar age - I can admire young men's bodies, but be less attracted to them, because I want more than mere physicality. "

Also agree and respect

But you are exaggerating your age on your profile Me thinks haha

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Yep that's harsh

The thing I really hate though, that makes me want to never meet someone and warn all my friends, is "what you want is wrong or mean and is not allowed, you have to want to have sex with me". "

Yup, biggest turn off ever is the ego.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

It's all to do with personal preference and supply and demand. There are few women older than about 35 I find attractive, and I like teens and early 20s best. This is not really "choice" - one can't help who one is attracted to. But I fully accept that few of these younger women will want to have sex with me. I don't take offence or feel entitled. I don't think HMQL's comments were offensive.

In 2016, I enjoyed various sexual activities with several under 30s, including a girl of about 19 who was having her first dogging experience. Since 2016, I have only had one such encounter. All of these women were at dogging sites, accompanied by other men, sometimes older, sometimes their own age. For some reason, dogging seems to be cyclical in this way. I have never met anyone through Fab, nor would I expect to, given my narrow tastes.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes in clubs you don't necessarily know your partners' ages, you just get on well and match. You seem attractive - I think above average for guys of the same age. You will appeal to loads of people op, so just search for people who match you, including their preferred ages, so that your efforts are focused with greater chance of success here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people didnt let us know our ages beforehand could they guess? And if they had met you somewhere else where our vital details aren't written down and they liked you would they suddenly run off if you told your age.

Its easy to box people up into categories but we can limit ourselves to people we may really get on with perhaps.

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By *rthur156 OP   Man
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Well sorry to have caused an argument I only posted to see the reaction, and I was a bit surprised at the outcome, anyway to everybody on this site be lucky and have a great weekend, stay safe XXXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of older men out threr take a lot of pride in how they look example ex services, and some are better than most young men experience wise I think my body is not to bad what do you think, thanks for your time reading this XXX"

Well you're younger than my husband so would feel a bit like a...toyboy. Yeah, why not

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well sorry to have caused an argument I only posted to see the reaction, and I was a bit surprised at the outcome, anyway to everybody on this site be lucky and have a great weekend, stay safe XXXXX"

You got some nice compliments.

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