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By *orfun8181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford

How many verifications are too many?

Thoughts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ten to the power of a trillion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No such thing imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many verifications are too many?

Thoughts..."

Too many?

Can you elaborate pls?

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By *orfun8181 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"How many verifications are too many?

Thoughts...

Too many?

Can you elaborate pls?"

just interested if people are put off by lots of veri's or it's not much of an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many verifications are too many?

Thoughts...

Too many?

Can you elaborate pls?

just interested if people are put off by lots of veri's or it's not much of an issue. "

This question always makes me laugh

Tell me OP, how do you know for sure how many sexual partners a person has had?

Im fascinated by your logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have loads - that I don't show, only about 2% of my veris are from sex the rest are socials.

I have friends with hundreds, they have been here years and go to regular socials and again very few are sex veris

Yes there are some people that have loads and they are all sex but amount of veris doesn't bother me in the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends from person to person. Some people will have lots of verifications from Cam. It doesn't put me off if they have lots of them, I would look more at the kind of meets they have been doing and make my decision xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a website for swingers...you know, people who have sex with multiple partners...are people really judging each other based on how many people they've met/fucked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter really.. mine are all socials anyway

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't mind lots of veris so I don't think there is such a thing as too many - people use the site in different ways and if that's what works for them, more power to them. Sometimes the content suggests we're incompatible but the amount of veris doesn't reflect that.

I'm an undercover shagger anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a swingers site, people should not be judged by how many veris they have. As not all of them have to be from sexual meets, some people love the social side. But even if someone had loads of veris from sexual meets, it should not bother anyone.

The only veris that would bother me are the bareback ones, but again it is a swingers site (some say sex site), so people are allowed to use it the way they wish to use it. And it's up to each individual to choose who to meet or not to meet, not on the base of the veris only.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"How many verifications are too many?

Thoughts..."

When the counter resets to 0.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Depends on individual opinion and how judgemental a person might be.

I used to display my veris, both social and otherwise as I believed it would give interested ladies an idea of how I would be like in a social and intimate setting. Unfortunately, it's a double edged sword as it can generate issues of jealousy, spitefulness, vindictiveness and disdain among people. Takes the fun out of being here and for those reasons I no longer display any.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Depends on individual opinion and how judgemental a person might be.

I used to display my veris, both social and otherwise as I believed it would give interested ladies an idea of how I would be like in a social and intimate setting. Unfortunately, it's a double edged sword as it can generate issues of jealousy, spitefulness, vindictiveness and disdain among people. Takes the fun out of being here and for those reasons I no longer display any."

I very much agree... although keep my veris up. So people might get a sense of me, and to out some of the crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not bothered by how many veris someone has, we have quite a few, it's more the content of them that's likely to put us off. If people are too graphic for example, I'd prefer somethings left for the imagination xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bothers me not one jot. I don’t display mine I’d like to say it’s for much the same reasons as Chillout, but it is mainly because they simply confirm I’m a shit shag and rarely get to meet anyone.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"It bothers me not one jot. I don’t display mine I’d like to say it’s for much the same reasons as Chillout, but it is mainly because they simply confirm I’m a shit shag and rarely get to meet anyone."

You and I should swap stories over a pint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a nosey bugger I like to read

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It certainly not the first thing I look at when I view a profile. Verifications are meant to be there to prove the person is genuine. They can become a bit like trip advisor reviews or collectors items.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the verification thing weird. Where else in life do you get to see someone's previous conquests laid out for all to see?

On that note the number doesn't make one bit of difference. You could say 100 is too many but then you might meet wee Mary with 1 veri not knowing she had been shagging thousands before you on another site.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I used to read veris intently to get a gauge on the person but i've dispensed with that as well. Sufficient back and forth chatting gives me all the information I need to know to form an accurate opinion of the person.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The sexual stuff isn't what I'm looking for. I try to read between the lines to see if this might be a nice, respectful person. I find it useful. And found it incredibly useful as a nervous newbie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many are too few though ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the veris for me. If there's 10 all saying "fucked her bareback in the back of a van" then I won't go there. If however there's 200 all saying "talked to her at the social, lovely girl" then I'd probably still be interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many are too few though ? "

5

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland

Nearly all my veries are from socials or foreplay and I don't really think the numbers. But the contents looked into more but no one shows negative ones, which I kinda find crazy since not everyone's gonna be compatible

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By *ibblingnewtWoman
over a year ago

by the sea

I always respect the ones that show summery on profile

Anyone that hides I’d be wary of tbh

I do think it’s kinda ironic when people say I don’t want to have sex with the whole of fab but they have rapid meets or put meets up

Also don’t trust the verifications

Some might be on here for years so will naturally have a lot

Someone 2 weeks and a few

Loads ask to not be verified, men hide bi sex meets often as it will put of some women

Basically my best advice is to get to know who you meet if you worry about such things and find out more about what they are doing here ie a social meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter really.. mine are all socials anyway "

I'll do you a sex one....

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Depends what they ate for I guess. Some have lots because of clubs, parties and socials, but then people don't get past the number and judge (wrongly) before they have bothered to read them.

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By *ing_Wookie_RodeoMan
over a year ago

stockport wasteland


"I used to read veris intently to get a gauge on the person but i've dispensed with that as well. Sufficient back and forth chatting gives me all the information I need to know to form an accurate opinion of the person."
that's it my friend form your own opinion the very best way of meeting someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find the verification thing weird. Where else in life do you get to see someone's previous conquests laid out for all to see?

On that note the number doesn't make one bit of difference. You could say 100 is too many but then you might meet wee Mary with 1 veri not knowing she had been shagging thousands before you on another site. "

Precisely this

Its bizarre. Its more bizarre that everyone seems to think they are so important.

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over a year ago

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