FabSwingers.com forum: Too many beefcakes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

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I'm right there with ya . Never been to a gym in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw what a shame!

I like the beefcakes. They can stay.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

There are absolutely not too many beefcakes, wash your mouth out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a squidgy body.

Mine has gone to seed, so I'm the last one who should be turning my nose up at middle age spread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us prefer nutloaf

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"There are absolutely not too many beefcakes, wash your mouth out! "
was thinking the same x

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Aw what a shame!

I like the beefcakes. They can stay.

So do I.

As a previously overweight person who got herself in a fit state in body and mind (plus having three youngish kids and a job) all I can say is that everyone has time to go to the gym or running- which is how I shed most of my excess weight/bodyfat.

And yes, men who let nature run its course don’t get a look in by me.

why would I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like looking at beefcakes but I prefer a squishy belly to press against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's other categories such as spare rib!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem, all beefcake here

Not sorry op

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I like all the bodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

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What about the heads on the bodies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

Not the feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Most are fakes,

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I prefer looking at Cheesecake if I'm honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aw what a shame!

I like the beefcakes. They can stay.

So do I.

And yes, men who let nature run its course don’t get a look in by me.

why would I? "

Not everyone. And some of us aren't able to use gym equipment, or run.

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Never too many in my opinion.

I'm not sure whether this post is meant to be a joke or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

You could always get down the gym? U only get out what u put in? As with so much in life I reckon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every body is welcome here.

Enough people on site prefer guys who aren't gym fit. Don't blame other's appearance for your lack of success on site.

I'm not blaming the guys who aren't into fat women on the slim girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

Not the feet."
Feet can be an issue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a preference to who they are attracted to and what sort of body they like! Just because someone is a “beefcake” doesn’t mean there in the gym 24/7 and You shouldn’t be putting people down because of your own issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Most are fakes, "

You are not wrong there lol

I've met many men who suddenly lose their six packs or chest muscles. Some have very old pics of them but some had obviously nicked a pic or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you really want someone to fuck you simply because they can't find a guy they do find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the gym daily. I wish i was classed as a beefcake

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Would you really want someone to fuck you simply because they can't find a guy they do find attractive? "
If it was Kelly Brook , then yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different and everyone likes different be it, slim, athletic, beefcake, cuddly, dad bod etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish. That’s like me moaning there are too many slim women. Not everyone likes the same thing. I don’t particular go for gym bods myself. A lot of women don’t. Just look at all the dadbod threads.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I like all the bodies

What about the heads on the bodies?"

Most of them but no one ever moans about their heads. They're just concerned about their bodies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you really want someone to fuck you simply because they can't find a guy they do find attractive? If it was Kelly Brook , then yes

Yeah...Chris Hemsworth is my exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

What about the heads on the bodies?

Most of them but no one ever moans about their heads. They're just concerned about their bodies. "

Nobody’s ever moaned about my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame getting overlooked on all the tall women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

What about the heads on the bodies?

Most of them but no one ever moans about their heads. They're just concerned about their bodies.

Nobody’s ever moaned about my head

My head is my saving grace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame getting overlooked on all the tall women.

Ner ner ner ner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I go to the gym daily. I wish i was classed as a beefcake

Cleaning it doesn't count

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By *r.gambinoMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

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looooool is this for real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I blame getting overlooked on all the tall women.

Ner ner ner ner "

Stop looking down at me

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By *aureanShadowMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone has their own flavour so to speak.. only because a man goes to the gym/beefcake whatever means he is automatically going to be more successful on here than you. First point of contact is messages so make it count. Also don’t forget there’s probably 60-100 men to every 1 woman on here (it seems) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the gym. I don't go.

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

I’m an old bloater now

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By *r.gambinoMan
over a year ago

East Midlands

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Never too many in my opinion.

I'm not sure whether this post is meant to be a joke or not!

I think this has to be a joke looool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beef in a cake eeeerrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work ridiculous shifts so I do get a lot of rest days and I do go to the gym every morning. I am far from a beefcake, I am more a 40+ who enjoys working out.

As for being fake - you could say that about the majority of photos that use clever lighting and angles, filters etc.

If you are happy to let nature take it’s course then good on you, just don’t complain when others make an effort with their bodies.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

The only thing that makes it hard for a person is the person themselves.

Blaming or pointing the finger at someone else for their dedication is rather distasteful OP.

The simple fact is that some people like a gym fit body, some don't, sometimes (shocking I know) people like lots of different body shapes at the same time. What many people don't like is people whinging about how others preferences are ruling them out if it doesn't include them.

The simple answer is to find those that you do fit with, not focusing on those that you don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing that makes it hard for a person is the person themselves.

Blaming or pointing the finger at someone else for their dedication is rather distasteful OP.

The simple answer is to find those that you do fit with, not focusing on those that you don't. "

You and I need to stop agreeing on things today!!

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Everyone has their own flavour so to speak.. only because a man goes to the gym/beefcake whatever means he is automatically going to be more successful on here than you. First point of contact is messages so make it count. Also don’t forget there’s probably 60-100 men to every 1 woman on here (it seems) lol"

The balance is more like 10-1 (yes there was a survey!)

I will also say that before I lost the weight and got fit I had more meets than I did after, anecdotal evidence, sure, but food for thought.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The only thing that makes it hard for a person is the person themselves.

Blaming or pointing the finger at someone else for their dedication is rather distasteful OP.

The simple answer is to find those that you do fit with, not focusing on those that you don't.

You and I need to stop agreeing on things today!!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

I know plenty of guys ranging from 30 to 70 years old who get meets very regularly and I don't think they even know what the gym is. Big thing is instead of complaining about what others have that they don't , they put their best foot forward, they put some effort in and attract attention for all the right reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may seem cruel so I will put it here rather than message you privately, if your going to be pissed off with me it might as well be in public.

1. Your profile has too many words for the culture you live in.

2. Your first photo is in too much contrast to your suited ones. Who are you?

3. The suited photo without the tie is good, the one with the tie is stylish but the way your holding the tie in the second is slightly scary for a site like this.

4. You have already denigrated your body with humour in your profile. That is a no no.

5.Leave a little to the imagination when telling people about how humourous you are.

6. If you like kinky so much people need to feel safe before they partake.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Aw what a shame!

I like the beefcakes. They can stay.

So do I.

And yes, men who let nature run its course don’t get a look in by me.

why would I?

Not everyone. And some of us aren't able to use gym equipment, or run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing that makes it hard for a person is the person themselves.

Blaming or pointing the finger at someone else for their dedication is rather distasteful OP.

The simple answer is to find those that you do fit with, not focusing on those that you don't. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Is a ‘beefcake’ the same as a burger ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never too many in my opinion.

I'm not sure whether this post is meant to be a joke or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Is a ‘beefcake’ the same as a burger ?

Oh In that case. Line up the beefcakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Are you sure that they don’t?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Is a ‘beefcake’ the same as a burger ?

Burger...please with cheese

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Not at all ...it takes all sorts to make the world go round.

I appreciate and respect the work anyone puts in.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Variety is the spice of life.

I enjoy beefcakes (who aren't arrogant about it).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Welcome to the jungle.

My philosophy for being attractive to the opposite sex is eat healthy, maintain a healthy weight, keep fit, and be well groomed. All within my control. I have found this has held true throughout my life and when I have at times let any of them slip it has had a detrimental effect with the opposite effect. Here is no different to real life. You don't have to be a beefcake but there is a lot of competition on here so making the best of yourself is required.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tbh life isn't fair. It also has too many tall size 8 women with amazing metabolism and impossibly large tits.

I do the best I can with my inferior model rather than trying to oust the tall and skinny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are they all called "Brutus the Barber"?

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

That's simple not true. It's not about the time exercising you only get the fit/tone athelic look combined with a great eating plan also.

I think its 70% food, 30% exercise.

That's your choice to let natural take its course but dont then have a dig at the beef cakes.

Waves to the beefcakes

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Are they all called "Brutus the Barber"?

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

Don’t eat beef

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By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

"Nothing wrong with a squidgy body.

Mine has gone to seed, so I'm the last one who should be turning my nose up at middle age spread."
I'm sure it hasn't

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By *aureanShadowMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"The balance is more like 10-1 (yes there was a survey!)

I will also say that before I lost the weight and got fit I had more meets than I did after, anecdotal evidence, sure, but food for thought. "

Oh... maybe my perception radar is a little bit out

but interesting you say that. Think this calls for a randomised study of some sort. I for one don’t mind donating my body for such research

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Nature ran it's course, did a lap of honour (albeit on a mobility scooter), attended the medal ceremony and got put out to grass where I'm concerned OP - yet I still get a "look in".

Contrary to common belief (amongst men looking for something to blame) it's not all about gym fit bodies and six packs you know

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Nature ran it's course, did a lap of honour (albeit on a mobility scooter), attended the medal ceremony and got put out to grass where I'm concerned OP - yet I still get a "look in".

Contrary to common belief (amongst men looking for something to blame) it's not all about gym fit bodies and six packs you know

You always bring a smile to my face

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Very true.....personality comes into it more than a bit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nature ran it's course, did a lap of honour (albeit on a mobility scooter), attended the medal ceremony and got put out to grass where I'm concerned OP - yet I still get a "look in".

Contrary to common belief (amongst men looking for something to blame) it's not all about gym fit bodies and six packs you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're built for hunting mammoths man!

The natural course is to be for and work out especially considering we don't hunt mammoth anymore!

I think fair Fu to the people gymming it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Oh look another feel sorry for me post because gym guys are stealing women from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I feel there isn’t enough of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't go the gym, but with hair like this, I don't need to.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Maybe a more positive outlook and attitude could help improve your chances. Negativity won’t have the girls rushing to contact you.

Think and be positive with an aura of confidence I’m sure will be a more attractive and long term trait than just having a 6 pack.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe a more positive outlook and attitude could help improve your chances. Negativity won’t have the girls rushing to contact you.

Think and be positive with an aura of confidence I’m sure will be a more attractive and long term trait than just having a 6 pack."

The gym can help mental health.

I'll see myself out

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Maybe a more positive outlook and attitude could help improve your chances. Negativity won’t have the girls rushing to contact you.

Think and be positive with an aura of confidence I’m sure will be a more attractive and long term trait than just having a 6 pack.

The gym can help mental health.

I'll see myself out

You’ve forgot your coat

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Maybe a more positive outlook and attitude could help improve your chances. Negativity won’t have the girls rushing to contact you.

Think and be positive with an aura of confidence I’m sure will be a more attractive and long term trait than just having a 6 pack.

The gym can help mental health.

I'll see myself out

You’ve forgot your coat

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about gym bodies or beef cakes or muscle Mary's.Personality trumps a 6 pack and shit loads of money trumps personality .

However if they have all 3 you've no hope..,

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Don't worry about gym bodies or beef cakes or muscle Mary's.Personality trumps a 6 pack and shit loads of money trumps personality .

However if they have all 3 you've no hope..,

Yeah, personality trumps for me (offering money is instant block).

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake!"
Mmmm beef stew and dumplings. That's your fault I now want stew

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By *inxybWoman
over a year ago

Durham

"I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake! Mmmm beef stew and dumplings. That's your fault I now want stew

Oooh! Dumplings...nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's simple not true. It's not about the time exercising you only get the fit/tone athelic look combined with a great eating plan also.

I think its 70% food, 30% exercise.

That's your choice to let natural take its course but dont then have a dig at the beef cakes."

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By *tew008Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

"I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake! Mmmm beef stew and dumplings. That's your fault I now want stew

Now now

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake! Mmmm beef stew and dumplings. That's your fault I now want stew

Oooh! Dumplings...nice!"
Think I'm dusting off the slow cooker later , thanks

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I’m partial to a bit of beef...and I just love cake! Mmmm beef stew and dumplings. That's your fault I now want stew

Now now"
Haha

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"This may seem cruel so I will put it here rather than message you privately, if your going to be pissed off with me it might as well be in public.

1. Your profile has too many words for the culture you live in.

2. Your first photo is in too much contrast to your suited ones. Who are you?

3. The suited photo without the tie is good, the one with the tie is stylish but the way your holding the tie in the second is slightly scary for a site like this.

4. You have already denigrated your body with humour in your profile. That is a no no.

5.Leave a little to the imagination when telling people about how humourous you are.

6. If you like kinky so much people need to feel safe before they partake."

1. The OP didn't ask for profile advice.

2. You're really not his target market so your opinion is rather by the by.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There is plenty of choice but also everyone likes something different - we have preferences.

Getting a wonderful physique isn't necessarily something that needs guys to spend enormous lengths of time exercising either.

Just focus your efforts on having the health and exercise types that suit you and finding others who appreciate how you are. Lots of people don't like or prefer gym bulked/toned guys - seek those out.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Why let nature run her course, that makes little sense to my mind

And to build muscle 45 mins 4 times a week , not sure

A , 180 mins out of a week is "too much " time

B, it's a negative to find or make that time to enhance the way one feels and performs

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Basically, all this says is.

I'm a middle aged man who can't be arsed to put in any effort to change himself, so will blame those who do for his lack of success on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suck it up buttercup

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By *andyladMan
over a year ago

Hereorthere

I'm more of a dadbod type and happy that way. They choose to gym that's completely up to them. But I do prefer to keep fit not ripped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

It's about being happy with what you are and what you've got, surely?

There may be too many "beefcakes" by your reckoning, but to have a moan about it is a bit much.

"These guys who work hard to look the best they can make it hard for people like me who do little or nothing. It's not fair..."

It's life, I'm afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats a gym?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

Does he sing when he gets to the top of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

Does he sing when he gets to the top of them?"

He yodels

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Let them be. I get to oogle them

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Well this was a HUGE disappointment, I thought they were making cakes out of beef now. Would have loved a Smokey BBQ flavoured one.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

He was a champion though once upon a time within the bodybuilding circuit.

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

I have also come to the conclusion that there are lots of people on here with to much time on their hands. Who are posting absolute rubbish in the forums all day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

He was a champion though once upon a time within the bodybuilding circuit.

Many years ago yes. Long before i met him

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

makes up for them not having a personality!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some of us prefer nutloaf"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"makes up for them not having a personality!!!!

I mean, that's not necessarily true either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beef cakes...pmsl

The only thing they love is themselves...oh and a mirror

DADBOD RULES!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every wanking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

If they're at the gym all the time they'll have no energy for shagging.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... I lift. I have a variety of interests and can turn my hand to many subjects, have an active social life, do community voluntary work, etc.

While narcissistic beefcakes certainly do exist, like, can we not put anyone who lifts weights in the same boat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love beef and cake

The more the merrier

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By *aureanShadowMan
over a year ago

Leeds

"I love beef and cake

The more the merrier "
thanks... made me hungry now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Basically, all this says is.

I'm a middle aged man who can't be arsed to put in any effort to change himself, so will blame those who do for his lack of success on here? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beef cakes...pmsl

The only thing they love is themselves...oh and a mirror

DADBOD RULES!!"

Nothing wrong with loving yourself.

Maybe if more people did, they’d be happier.

I love a beefcake.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

There are tastes and preferences here for everyone. Play to your strengths. If a chiseled body isn't one of them, make up for that with personality, charm and charisma. It goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many females don’t like muscly guys. I have a mixed reaction, some don’t like it some do. It’s not the looks as such, it’s the personality that matters. Personally I think good manners, good hygiene, personality goes a long way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My other half doesn't do that to get a muscular and toned body. He climbs mountains. Far sexier than a man lifting weights in a gym

He was a champion though once upon a time within the bodybuilding circuit.

That was a long time ago and Holly wouldn’t of fancied me when i was a bodybuilder!!

She much prefers my athletic look and to be honest so do i.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every wanking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

If they're at the gym all the time they'll have no energy for shagging.

No, plenty of energy for that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love beef and cake

The more the merrier "

Not together

I'll bring the beef you bring the cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beef cakes...pmsl

The only thing they love is themselves...oh and a mirror

DADBOD RULES!!

Nothing wrong with loving yourself.

Maybe if more people did, they’d be happier.

I love a beefcake.

But there is loving yourself and there's loving yourself like a beefcake...

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Yes

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every wanking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

If they're at the gym all the time they'll have no energy for shagging.

No, plenty of energy for that too.

It helps my stamina enormously. Except the day after leg day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive "

You know what's really attractive? Accepting that people like what they like.

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive "

Nope, I’m not sitting on his personality

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By *irl1234xxxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive

You know what's really attractive? Accepting that people like what they like. "

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

Aw op I'm with you I never go to the gym I'm far to busy living my life for that dad bod here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive

Nope, I’m not sitting on his personality

FPMSL!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive

Nope, I’m not sitting on his personality

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beef cakes...pmsl

The only thing they love is themselves...oh and a mirror

DADBOD RULES!!

Nothing wrong with loving yourself.

Maybe if more people did, they’d be happier.

I love a beefcake.

But there is loving yourself and there's loving yourself like a beefcake..."

Nah.

That’s just tosh drummed up by jealous people who aren’t beefcakes in my opinion.

People aren’t not defined by their hobbies, but who they are as a person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where are they? Let me at 'em!!

Don't worry OP. I've something for you too....

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Never been to the gym and have no intentions to either. I am what I am. Take it or leave it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every wanking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

If they're at the gym all the time they'll have no energy for shagging.

No, plenty of energy for that too.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Poor you ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer pork but gimme a cake anyday!

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

There will be a number of factors which gets men meet or not you can not just be down on guy's who hit the gym some of the guy's how get the most meet are just normal guy who do not have chips on their shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh I love a beefcake, needs a big dick though too. Am I wanting too much?

Wouldnt a personality be more attractive

Nope, I’m not sitting on his personality

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Aw op I'm with you I never go to the gym I'm far to busy living my life for that dad bod here

I'm living my life too , do you have a point ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not complaining, nothing sexier than a gym trained body on men and women

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

Not all women like that look...I'm not keen, but negativity is far less attractive.

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"Aw op I'm with you I never go to the gym I'm far to busy living my life for that dad bod here

I'm living my life too , do you have a point ?"

My point is I don't waist my time going to the gym every day to try and look good would rather spend that time with my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Aw op I'm with you I never go to the gym I'm far to busy living my life for that dad bod here

I'm living my life too , do you have a point ?

My point is I don't waist my time going to the gym every day to try and look good would rather spend that time with my kids "

Some people are able to do both quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into beef cakes!!

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Fish cake for me thanku.....

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"I’ve come to the conclusion that not only are there too many men on here but a lot who have more time on their hands as they send every waking moment at the gym judging by their pics.

This means guys like me who let nature run it’s course with their body don’t get a look in.

It is like looking at a menu you go for what you fancy , but doesn't always live up to expectations ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I loved working out, but now I haven't got the time for all that.

People think it's an excuse when I say I haven't got the time to pump myself up.

But how can I when I work early until late, 6 days a week. The last thing on my mind after physically hard work is going to a gym.

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By *cgkcCouple
over a year ago

Hitchin

"The gym can help mental health."

That's why I started. At pushing 19 stone with a new number at the front of my waistline, near constant back pain and thoroughly miserable, I eventually found the motivation to join a gym.

7 or 8 years on, I'm happy to maintain where I'm at. I'm 50 with youngish, active kids. I need energy and I'm modelling the benefits of diet and exercise to my kids. I want to give myself every chance to be around to see them for as long as possible.

Yes, there's a little vanity involved and I get a kick out of being in pretty good shape, but, hell, I put the work in those first few years.

P xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are absolutely not too many beefcakes, wash your mouth out! "

BEEFCAKE! A CAKE OF BEEF!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like all the bodies

What about the heads on the bodies?

Most of them but no one ever moans about their heads. They're just concerned about their bodies.

Nobody’s ever moaned about my head

My head is my saving grace."

what , giving it ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I decided to change my lifestyle , last week I did an iron man triathlon , yep i did it in 6 hrs 47 mins

I watched iron man 1, iron man 2,

iron man 3 ,

boy i was knackered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was younger I loved working out, but now I haven't got the time for all that.

People think it's an excuse when I say I haven't got the time to pump myself up.

But how can I when I work early until late, 6 days a week. The last thing on my mind after physically hard work is going to a gym. "

Would you have time to meet someone off here for fun? If so, then you do have time for the gym, it’s just not a priority for you, and that’s fine.

Nobody is obliged to go to the gym, I didn’t until last year when I was at my heaviest. But there’s always time to make time for something you consider a priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was younger I loved working out, but now I haven't got the time for all that.

People think it's an excuse when I say I haven't got the time to pump myself up.

But how can I when I work early until late, 6 days a week. The last thing on my mind after physically hard work is going to a gym.

Would you have time to meet someone off here for fun? If so, then you do have time for the gym, it’s just not a priority for you, and that’s fine.

Nobody is obliged to go to the gym, I didn’t until last year when I was at my heaviest. But there’s always time to make time for something you consider a priority. "

Meeting someone for one off fun is not the same as doing a regular gym routine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick scan of the 'most fabbed' men can skew opinion in this respect.

There are plenty of 'beefcakes' in there, that's obvious, but it isn't representative of male swingers in general.

There are more 'average' guys swing than there are 'hunks' and the average guys do well too.

People, of both sexes, swoon over the more attractive blokes, but I don't think it is realistic at all to say they are swamping all the fun.

The site is what you make of it.

Putting others out front and saying 'you are the reason I find it hard' is an utter nonsense and shows a willingness to shed responsibility and ownership for how the site works for you.

I have had 'success' here and I am distinctly average both in looks and personality.

Those 'hot' guys haven't gotten in the way of my fun and I don't see why they should get in the way of yours.

Besides, if they disappeared overnight, who is to say that your experience would improve.

What you're effectively saying is if the pretty guys weren't around, the women here might have to 'make do' with a few of the not so pretty guys

If there's one thing I understand about swinging, it is that it is not about 'making do'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my dad bod you wouldn't believe the amount of calories I burn lifting my sausage sandwich and coffee to my mouth yeah I appreciate the sandwich and coffee it the calories back on but its well balanced lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive always been small, 5'9 but 9.2stone.

I started hitting the gym 2.5 years ago and totally changed how i look,im 12.5st i have confidence to wear a short sleeved t shirts & take my top off on holiday. Large tshirts are fitted on me now which id have never thought possible I go after work 6 times a week, my other half goes every morning and evening.

Its very much part of our lives... not the be all and end all but very much part of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was younger I loved working out, but now I haven't got the time for all that.

People think it's an excuse when I say I haven't got the time to pump myself up.

But how can I when I work early until late, 6 days a week. The last thing on my mind after physically hard work is going to a gym.

Would you have time to meet someone off here for fun? If so, then you do have time for the gym, it’s just not a priority for you, and that’s fine.

Nobody is obliged to go to the gym, I didn’t until last year when I was at my heaviest. But there’s always time to make time for something you consider a priority.

Meeting someone for one off fun is not the same as doing a regular gym routine. "

Still, if you can meet someone off here “one off” or regular, that’s time you have spare, that’s my point.

You just make what you choose a priority. Again, that’s fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i take my top off on the beach they call the rspca , thinking there's a beached whale

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I really became a gym person after I suffered a very serious injury. It developed from trying to minimise the life long disability it could have brought. It's also done wonders for my mental health.

Oh, so vain. How awful of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beef cakes...pmsl

The only thing they love is themselves...oh and a mirror

DADBOD RULES!!"

What a crock!

My fella has a cracking gym bod!

And he's every bit as lovely on the inside as he is on the out!

Just cos a guy likes to look and feel good, doesn't mean he's arrogant!

Body shaming guys is just as unacceptable as body shaming women!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly I don't really understand why the proportion isn't higher. Single men who aren't total fitness/roid bunnies would actually fare better seeking casual sex from any other channel. Fab for any guy below a 9 is hard mode.

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frankly I don't really understand why the proportion isn't higher. Single men who aren't total fitness/roid bunnies would actually fare better seeking casual sex from any other channel. Fab for any guy below a 9 is hard mode.

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site. "

So you consider yourself/other half a 9 then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab for any guy below a 9 is hard mode.

That's the biggest load of bollocks ive seen posted for a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site.

So you consider yourself/other half a 9 then?

Well the comment was relating to single guys. So no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab for any guy below a 9 is hard mode.

That's the biggest load of bollocks ive seen posted for a while. "

Isn't it just?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site.

So you consider yourself/other half a 9 then?

Well the comment was relating to single guys. So no"

Ah.

Still, I completely disagree.

MrMonkey’s response to your post mirrors my thoughts.

Besides, one persons “9” is another’s persons “5”.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site.

So you consider yourself/other half a 9 then?

Well the comment was relating to single guys. So no

Ah.

Still, I completely disagree.

MrMonkey’s response to your post mirrors my thoughts.

Besides, one persons “9” is another’s persons “5”. "

It's like you can read my mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't read the whole thread but people should be happy in the body they have and if they aren't work on changing it. I hate this argument that one is bether than the other (and not just because as a runner I have neither a dadbod or big muscles!), they aren't they're just different and some people will like and some people won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot who think they are beef cakes. Not that many proper bodybuilders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry that you’re all jealous of me, I’m a body builder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab makes sense for couples up to a point, and single females, but single males... I salute your courage but you're on the wrong site. "

Why do you think it's the wrong site for single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was younger I loved working out, but now I haven't got the time for all that.

People think it's an excuse when I say I haven't got the time to pump myself up.

But how can I when I work early until late, 6 days a week. The last thing on my mind after physically hard work is going to a gym.

Would you have time to meet someone off here for fun? If so, then you do have time for the gym, it’s just not a priority for you, and that’s fine.

Nobody is obliged to go to the gym, I didn’t until last year when I was at my heaviest. But there’s always time to make time for something you consider a priority.

Meeting someone for one off fun is not the same as doing a regular gym routine.

Still, if you can meet someone off here “one off” or regular, that’s time you have spare, that’s my point.

You just make what you choose a priority. Again, that’s fine. "

A one off meet I could manage. But if I joined a gym then it would have to be for atleast! 3 days a week to see any benefit.. Otherwise its just pain with no gain.

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over a year ago

"Aw op I'm with you I never go to the gym I'm far to busy living my life for that dad bod here

I'm living my life too , do you have a point ?

My point is I don't waist my time going to the gym every day to try and look good would rather spend that time with my kids "

You look good