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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever wonder how you would have honestly fared in another time and place?

Different rules, regimes, climate, culture, opportunities..?

As you are now, how would you have to adapt your moral compass, personality, sexuality, lifestyle? Are you strong enough to maintain it, possibly even flourish?

1. As a middle class citizen of say Saudi Arabia.

2. A career criminal.

3. As a career member of an Armed Force or Emergency Services.

4. Family member of a hunter/gatherer tribe.

5. Colonisation of the America's.

Think about those examples. How do you honestly feel you'd fare? How would you have to adapt to survive, assuming language wasn't a barrier. Yet, age, gender, sexuality and caste may matter more, or less than you think.

No points or anything, just brain drain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's kind of hard to apply yourself to that mindset and give a realistic answer?

Theres loads of Walter's out there who talk all warlike and think they'd make good soldiers, but to imagine living in another society with different values?

I travel a fair bit and I know I'd struggle living in other countries with very conservative outlooks...just not me.

As for hunter gatherer...sounds awesome I love the wilds...but let's face it, when you're piss wet through and all your traps are empty the novelty wears off!

I kind of like where I am...I'm coping.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I think it's kind of hard to apply yourself to that mindset and give a realistic answer?

Theres loads of Walter's out there who talk all warlike and think they'd make good soldiers, but to imagine living in another society with different values?

I travel a fair bit and I know I'd struggle living in other countries with very conservative outlooks...just not me.

As for hunter gatherer...sounds awesome I love the wilds...but let's face it, when you're piss wet through and all your traps are empty the novelty wears off!

I kind of like where I am...I'm coping. "

I like your answer. I chose potentially more difficult situations on purpose though. I'm curious to know if you could endure. Not what you'd prefer. You sound like someone who could, possibly flourish. Maybe not in the more Conservative Countries like you say, I'd struggle with that myself. Maybe the others though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t think i’m mentally tough enough. I’m too soft, and I like to do my own thing in an airy fairy way.

I’d probably crumble.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind the silly or funny answers.. the more blatant trumpet blowing and delusional answers the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P"

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'd make a shit career criminal, I may as well be Norman Stanley Fletcher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t think i’m mentally tough enough. I’m too soft, and I like to do my own thing in an airy fairy way.

I’d probably crumble."

I know more than a few airy fairy soldiers in the Army

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd make a shit career criminal, I may as well be Norman Stanley Fletcher "

So you'd spend a lot of time behind bars then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I’d be a smooth criminal Ghengis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition. "

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

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By *illing2016Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Having done the Army / Emergency Services thing, I guess I would like to try the colonisation of America scenario.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I’d be a smooth criminal Ghengis "

You stand out a bit Cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P"

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Having done the Army / Emergency Services thing, I guess I would like to try the colonisation of America scenario."

That's the one I think I'd be more successful in, if I survived it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I'd make a shit career criminal, I may as well be Norman Stanley Fletcher

So you'd spend a lot of time behind bars then?"

Not 'arf, I'd sooner have gone and colonised an island or two in the Pacific, they could be called the Winger Islands now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly "

Fuck em, I'll throw fart bombs at the cunts.

A fair fight would be my first choice of course, alas life ain't fair so curveballs are to be expected (as shite as they are) as long as they don't finish me off I'll learn from each curveball as to how to defend myself against the next one, and take that motherfucker down.

Oh, and if I was the stay in hut wifey waiting for my hunter to return..... I worry a lot anyway, so again, fuck all new there.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I’d be a smooth criminal Ghengis

You stand out a bit Cheeky "

l

Ok, I’ll be an under cover one then instead...

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

1. As a middle class citizen of say Saudi Arabia - Don't know what this really means; I try to be a good member of society and happy to stay within the law but following my sexual desires could lead to me breaking a rule or two.

2. A career criminal- There's no such thing a vitim-less crime so no, couldn't do this.

3. As a career member of an Armed Force or Emergency Services - 26 years in the Army; not a Andy McNab type but a fit, loyal, disciplined soldier.

4. Family member of a hunter/gatherer tribe - having been in the Army, I could easily do this; I'm a good team member and would hard for the survial of the tribe.

5. Colonisation of the America's - I could go into a new un-chartered territory and colonize it as I know how to survive and flourish. But, having the bennit of history and knowing what this really means in terms of stealing the land of the native inhabitants, destroying their way of life, forcing a religion upon them and making them outcasts in their own country, I couldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd make a shit career criminal, I may as well be Norman Stanley Fletcher

So you'd spend a lot of time behind bars then?

Not 'arf, I'd sooner have gone and colonised an island or two in the Pacific, they could be called the Winger Islands now

"

I'll let you choose that then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always thought I would be happier on a farm, in simpler times.

20th centuries' living doesn't suit me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 and 2 are difficult

1 may entail too much silence

2 cruelty

3 Paramedic, fine

4 Appealing

5 I would be outspoken seeking the best for everyone including the tribes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly

Fuck em, I'll throw fart bombs at the cunts.

A fair fight would be my first choice of course, alas life ain't fair so curveballs are to be expected (as shite as they are) as long as they don't finish me off I'll learn from each curveball as to how to defend myself against the next one, and take that motherfucker down.

Oh, and if I was the stay in hut wifey waiting for my hunter to return..... I worry a lot anyway, so again, fuck all new there.

P"

Stay at home wifeys in a tribe tend to do more work than the men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly

Fuck em, I'll throw fart bombs at the cunts.

A fair fight would be my first choice of course, alas life ain't fair so curveballs are to be expected (as shite as they are) as long as they don't finish me off I'll learn from each curveball as to how to defend myself against the next one, and take that motherfucker down.

Oh, and if I was the stay in hut wifey waiting for my hunter to return..... I worry a lot anyway, so again, fuck all new there.

P

Stay at home wifeys in a tribe tend to do more work than the men."

Good job I'm a fucking workhorse then eh?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1. As a middle class citizen of say Saudi Arabia - Don't know what this really means; I try to be a good member of society and happy to stay within the law but following my sexual desires could lead to me breaking a rule or two.

2. A career criminal- There's no such thing a vitim-less crime so no, couldn't do this.

3. As a career member of an Armed Force or Emergency Services - 26 years in the Army; not a Andy McNab type but a fit, loyal, disciplined soldier.

4. Family member of a hunter/gatherer tribe - having been in the Army, I could easily do this; I'm a good team member and would hard for the survial of the tribe.

5. Colonisation of the America's - I could go into a new un-chartered territory and colonize it as I know how to survive and flourish. But, having the bennit of history and knowing what this really means in terms of stealing the land of the native inhabitants, destroying their way of life, forcing a religion upon them and making them outcasts in their own country, I couldn't do it."

Thorough answer, I like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have always thought I would be happier on a farm, in simpler times.

20th centuries' living doesn't suit me."

I think I would. Till my body started to fail me. Then times may get hard. Hopefully my kids would support me in my frailty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 and 2 are difficult

1 may entail too much silence

2 cruelty

3 Paramedic, fine

4 Appealing

5 I would be outspoken seeking the best for everyone including the tribes"

I think I'd be outspoken too, but that'd probably land us in trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always thought I would be happier on a farm, in simpler times.

20th centuries' living doesn't suit me.

I think I would. Till my body started to fail me. Then times may get hard. Hopefully my kids would support me in my frailty "

I’m perfectly happy in the present for this exact reason!

I reckon I’d of ended up dead or at least severely ill if it wasn’t for modern medicine and science.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly

Fuck em, I'll throw fart bombs at the cunts.

A fair fight would be my first choice of course, alas life ain't fair so curveballs are to be expected (as shite as they are) as long as they don't finish me off I'll learn from each curveball as to how to defend myself against the next one, and take that motherfucker down.

Oh, and if I was the stay in hut wifey waiting for my hunter to return..... I worry a lot anyway, so again, fuck all new there.

P

Stay at home wifeys in a tribe tend to do more work than the men.

Good job I'm a fucking workhorse then eh?! "

You'd end up being the Matriarch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of those examples I can say I'd probably fare best as a family member/hunter gatherer.

I have no idea why but that one seemed the least intimidating

P

Least intimidating? Probably the hardest of all. Dependant on your location, resources, competition.

I've always had to fight for everything, I suppose it's become my normal

P

Everyone fights, not everyone fights fairly

Fuck em, I'll throw fart bombs at the cunts.

A fair fight would be my first choice of course, alas life ain't fair so curveballs are to be expected (as shite as they are) as long as they don't finish me off I'll learn from each curveball as to how to defend myself against the next one, and take that motherfucker down.

Oh, and if I was the stay in hut wifey waiting for my hunter to return..... I worry a lot anyway, so again, fuck all new there.

P

Stay at home wifeys in a tribe tend to do more work than the men.

Good job I'm a fucking workhorse then eh?!

You'd end up being the Matriarch "

Only coz I'll probably outlive all the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have always thought I would be happier on a farm, in simpler times.

20th centuries' living doesn't suit me.

I think I would. Till my body started to fail me. Then times may get hard. Hopefully my kids would support me in my frailty

I’m perfectly happy in the present for this exact reason!

I reckon I’d of ended up dead or at least severely ill if it wasn’t for modern medicine and science. "

True, but it was done and humanity carried on regardless. Many people still battle on without the benefit of modern, or WW2 era medicine. Many still can't afford it.

I imagine most of us would prefer the 'Now' And the relative comfort "Here" brings. That wasn't my question though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!! "

Do you think you could hide your witchyness well enough to survive the times long enough to have a bit of a life? It'd be hard on your own. May even single you out as being witchey. I'd avoid Colonizing the America's as well if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!!

Do you think you could hide your witchyness well enough to survive the times long enough to have a bit of a life? It'd be hard on your own. May even single you out as being witchey. I'd avoid Colonizing the America's as well if I were you. "

Since every woman who had a sassy tongue, a knowledge of herbs or a penchant for healing was declared a witch, nope...I wouldn't last a hot minute!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!!

Do you think you could hide your witchyness well enough to survive the times long enough to have a bit of a life? It'd be hard on your own. May even single you out as being witchey. I'd avoid Colonizing the America's as well if I were you.

Since every woman who had a sassy tongue, a knowledge of herbs or a penchant for healing was declared a witch, nope...I wouldn't last a hot minute!! "

Move to the Tribe then! You'd be held in high esteem. A position of Honour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!!

Do you think you could hide your witchyness well enough to survive the times long enough to have a bit of a life? It'd be hard on your own. May even single you out as being witchey. I'd avoid Colonizing the America's as well if I were you.

Since every woman who had a sassy tongue, a knowledge of herbs or a penchant for healing was declared a witch, nope...I wouldn't last a hot minute!!

Move to the Tribe then! You'd be held in high esteem. A position of Honour."

Possibly it's Leader?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm kind of happy where I am right now, I'd like to live in simpler times, out in the woods, catching my own food but at least now they don't burn witches anymore, so every cloud and all that!!

Do you think you could hide your witchyness well enough to survive the times long enough to have a bit of a life? It'd be hard on your own. May even single you out as being witchey. I'd avoid Colonizing the America's as well if I were you.

Since every woman who had a sassy tongue, a knowledge of herbs or a penchant for healing was declared a witch, nope...I wouldn't last a hot minute!!

Move to the Tribe then! You'd be held in high esteem. A position of Honour.

Possibly it's Leader?"

As long as I can dance naked around a bonfire without being tied to said bonfire, sign me up!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1 and 2 are difficult

1 may entail too much silence

2 cruelty

3 Paramedic, fine

4 Appealing

5 I would be outspoken seeking the best for everyone including the tribes

I think I'd be outspoken too, but that'd probably land us in trouble."

That's the danger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a geek about the 'Native American' their way of life and their world view I'd hope I'd have the bottle to stand against my own in their defence.... x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a geek about the 'Native American' their way of life and their world view I'd hope I'd have the bottle to stand against my own in their defence.... x"

Unfortunately you'd be treated in much the same way. I'm sure there were people who stood up to it. You very rarely hear their tales though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm descended from the pendle witches - I wouldn't have lasted long before being introduced to the ducking stool

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm descended from the pendle witches - I wouldn't have lasted long before being introduced to the ducking stool "

It's a horrible thought.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I know enough about history to know that I wouldn't flourish in any other time or culture "as I am now". I could adapt to many but in any historical time I would probably be dead by now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know enough about history to know that I wouldn't flourish in any other time or culture "as I am now". I could adapt to many but in any historical time I would probably be dead by now "

Dead because it happened so long ago or dead before you got to the age you are now?

I imagine all our life expectancies would drop rapidly the further back we go. I'm just wondering if you think you could weather it as well as they did. Or were humans a tougher animal back then?

I think you'd be a survivor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do actually my dream growing up was to be a soldier but once i had kids it seemed unimportant to follow my dreams

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do actually my dream growing up was to be a soldier but once i had kids it seemed unimportant to follow my dreams"

Being a dad is much better than being a soldier Being a dad is harder though

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I know enough about history to know that I wouldn't flourish in any other time or culture "as I am now". I could adapt to many but in any historical time I would probably be dead by now

Dead because it happened so long ago or dead before you got to the age you are now?

I imagine all our life expectancies would drop rapidly the further back we go. I'm just wondering if you think you could weather it as well as they did. Or were humans a tougher animal back then?

I think you'd be a survivor. "

Dead because of the age I am, especially in a prehistoric or early history hunter gatherer environment. I simply wouldn't be able to develop the skills required to be useful in a short amount of time and probably wouldn't be able to keep up since as a woman my job would probably be collecting berries and nuts over a fairly wide area. I doubt I've got the stamina required.

I know nothing of their morality or attitudes to sex but I doubt I'd be an instant fit .

Of your examples though that's the only one I'd choose to live.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm assuming that I wouldn't be particularly successful - mostly because I have been socialised very comfortably to the western cultures I've lived in. It's about the era, social rules and acceptability of someone living as I do, with a high degree of freedom and autonomy.

The hardships and deprivations of pioneers could be somewhat adjusted to, especially when I was younger and would now if it was that or die. Other repressive regimes I would not be particularly successful or healthy. I'd probably be a struggling resistance fighter - oppressed and unhappy to toe the line. Viewed with suspicion, I think I'd find it difficult to create a good cover for myself now.

Born into those other hard climates, I would be one of the masses who only know that world, fitting in fairly well in comparison. I can naturally endure a lot but like my freedom to be a minority that isn't as welcome elsewhere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

An interesting thread though. I once posed a similar question in an archaeology class, wondering how I or the other students would have fitted in to bronze age society in Britain. The teacher who wasn't my greatest fan just said "oh you'd just sit around looking attractive" . I thought it would have made for a useful and informative discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm assuming that I wouldn't be particularly successful - mostly because I have been socialised very comfortably to the western cultures I've lived in. It's about the era, social rules and acceptability of someone living as I do, with a high degree of freedom and autonomy.

The hardships and deprivations of pioneers could be somewhat adjusted to, especially when I was younger and would now if it was that or die. Other repressive regimes I would not be particularly successful or healthy. I'd probably be a struggling resistance fighter - oppressed and unhappy to toe the line. Viewed with suspicion, I think I'd find it difficult to create a good cover for myself now.

Born into those other hard climates, I would be one of the masses who only know that world, fitting in fairly well in comparison. I can naturally endure a lot but like my freedom to be a minority that isn't as welcome elsewhere.

"

I think I could see myself becoming angry enough to resist as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"An interesting thread though. I once posed a similar question in an archaeology class, wondering how I or the other students would have fitted in to bronze age society in Britain. The teacher who wasn't my greatest fan just said "oh you'd just sit around looking attractive" . I thought it would have made for a useful and informative discussion."

That's a bit of a wierd thing for a teacher to say, given you were the one who raised the question.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"An interesting thread though. I once posed a similar question in an archaeology class, wondering how I or the other students would have fitted in to bronze age society in Britain. The teacher who wasn't my greatest fan just said "oh you'd just sit around looking attractive" . I thought it would have made for a useful and informative discussion.

That's a bit of a wierd thing for a teacher to say, given you were the one who raised the question. "

Yeah, she was a bit odd and I think she had an impression of me that wasn't flattering .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do actually my dream growing up was to be a soldier but once i had kids it seemed unimportant to follow my dreams

Being a dad is much better than being a soldier Being a dad is harder though "

Il never know

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