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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

As every first meet is a no guarantee of anything further I've never felt the need to leg it, I'm far too polite to do that yo a lady, Just dont take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd just be honest to the person without being rude...

We can't all be for everyone but doesn't mean you have to act impolite or nasty

I've actually turned people down for being too nice (I'd not feel it would be fun because the sarcasm ping pong just wasn't there) ...true story haha

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 2 like that sadly

One where the wife said to me no f@@@ing way as they walked through the door, I had to get another couple to help us in a staged rescue.

The second was a sad story really, they had met us previously, we’re keen and we had unfinished business. We met early, drinks etc and shared a taxi to the club. Then the wife of the couple left us for 20 minutes twiddling our thumbs (3 of us) while she was speaking to other people. Kinda killed it right there and we ditched them in disgust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can’t be every ones cup of tea or you’d be a mug

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the title was Wanking out on a meet.

Never known that happen in a pub on a social but you never know.

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Think sometimes on these online platforms, people can create a persona which they aren’t when you actually meet in person. It’s happened to me also several times, but like you guys mention, politeness is always the way forward. You simply cannot force chemistry. But at the same time we all have lives off here so any time set aside for a meet should be respected.

Had one ‘date’ a while back which actually turned out to be an ‘interview’ for a young lady (who turned out to be an escort) to pimp me out and take a 40% cut haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never walked out on a meet but I had someone end one with me when he finally got it that a social wasn't going to get him a blow job.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I’ve never done it, be a grown up and say if not right

However I know someone who picks a location that has three exits

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

I had a man tell me he had left something in his car and never come back.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

Yes, it was a spur of the moment thing after being cancelled on, I was feeling horny and determined not to let all the effort I'd put in go to waste, so arranged to meet a local guy.Didnt ask for a photo, got the address..

Door opens,the guy stinks of BO, and God knows what else, nearer 60 than the 38 he was claiming,then I spied the dog shit on the kitchen floor . Make my excuses about not enough time.Walk away and don't look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can’t be every ones cup of tea or you’d be a mug "

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By *om1962Man
over a year ago

Brighton


"I had a man tell me he had left something in his car and never come back."

That's just rude and uncalled for!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently" this happened to me and I supposedly ran out crying

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Yes, it was a spur of the moment thing after being cancelled on, I was feeling horny and determined not to let all the effort I'd put in go to waste, so arranged to meet a local guy.Didnt ask for a photo, got the address..

Door opens,the guy stinks of BO, and God knows what else, nearer 60 than the 38 he was claiming,then I spied the dog shit on the kitchen floor . Make my excuses about not enough time.Walk away and don't look back

"

You’re lucky you didn’t end up in the cellar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve walked out on a few meets in the past - mainly due to the person not looking like their photos.

I did mess up once though, about 10 years ago - I arranged to meet someone at a café for a drink. When I arrived I saw them and they looked nothing like their photos so I just kept walking and left, they looked like they had gained 5 stone since their pics were taken and that put me off. So I text saying I was unexpectedly busy and then stopped talking to them (bad I know).

Fast forward a few months later and I see them out in a bar, except it actually is the person from the photos! And they look hot as fuck and I just assumed that the other person had stolen their photos.... so then a few minutes later they approached me ask why I stood them up?! Turns out I had wrongly assumed that the larger person in the café was them.

Lesson learned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have. I wasn’t rude but made my excuses and left.

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Yes, it was a spur of the moment thing after being cancelled on, I was feeling horny and determined not to let all the effort I'd put in go to waste, so arranged to meet a local guy.Didnt ask for a photo, got the address..

Door opens,the guy stinks of BO, and God knows what else, nearer 60 than the 38 he was claiming,then I spied the dog shit on the kitchen floor . Make my excuses about not enough time.Walk away and don't look back

You’re lucky you didn’t end up in the cellar"

Yes his user name of Mr Fritzl should maybe have set off a few alarm bells

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve changed my meeting style and so far (touch wood) I haven’t walked out lately.

Back in the day I tended to meet for socials first so quick cup of coffee / glass of vino and outta there like a rat up a drain pipe before things became even more awkward.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a few times when the photographs never matched the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah just a social,looked nothing liked his pics & made me feel really uncomfortable. Said I needed the loo,went into the toilets for a couple of minutes then headed for the exit

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yeah just a social,looked nothing liked his pics & made me feel really uncomfortable. Said I needed the loo,went into the toilets for a couple of minutes then headed for the exit "
that catfish vibe is really a thing . Dont know why people bother... you’re obviously going to see them and realise their photos have gone past sell by date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah just a social,looked nothing liked his pics & made me feel really uncomfortable. Said I needed the loo,went into the toilets for a couple of minutes then headed for the exit that catfish vibe is really a thing . Dont know why people bother... you’re obviously going to see them and realise their photos have gone past sell by date lol"

He's still using the same pics now lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several times, several reasons.

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Yeah just a social,looked nothing liked his pics & made me feel really uncomfortable. Said I needed the loo,went into the toilets for a couple of minutes then headed for the exit that catfish vibe is really a thing . Dont know why people bother... you’re obviously going to see them and realise their photos have gone past sell by date lol

He's still using the same pics now lol xx "

Wow... just no helping some people is there lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, a girl earlier this year (she's left fab now but there is at least one person who thinks it's them - I guess Chinese whispers don't carry well on fab , but hey ho).

I wasn't really over my ex but agreed to a date with this girl anyway. We met for a drink with possibilities and she was a fucking GIANTESS!!! I already knew she was tall but she turned out to be at least as tall as me but not in the elegant sexy way I'd hoped for, also short hair rather than the long in her pics, fair bit older than the pics too, she had a massive mouth like she could swallow me whole and she was all over me from the get go, way too familiar and trying to kiss me and touch my pants in the bar with absolutelt zero encouragement. So after a drink and a chat I said it's not happening for me and called an end to it and she cried, then left, then she called twenty minutes later to ask if I wanted her to come back and give me a blow job... True story....!

(declined the BJ obv.....!)

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Have t had to do it as yet, but if they looked nothing like their pics, or I find they've lied to me about marital status then yes I would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve walked out on a few meets in the past - mainly due to the person not looking like their photos.

I did mess up once though, about 10 years ago - I arranged to meet someone at a café for a drink. When I arrived I saw them and they looked nothing like their photos so I just kept walking and left, they looked like they had gained 5 stone since their pics were taken and that put me off. So I text saying I was unexpectedly busy and then stopped talking to them (bad I know).

Fast forward a few months later and I see them out in a bar, except it actually is the person from the photos! And they look hot as fuck and I just assumed that the other person had stolen their photos.... so then a few minutes later they approached me ask why I stood them up?! Turns out I had wrongly assumed that the larger person in the café was them.

Lesson learned."

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned up for a social and she looked about 10 years older. Didn't look like any of her pictures despite them saying they were recent. I was polite and saw the social through to the end.

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"I turned up for a social and she looked about 10 years older. Didn't look like any of her pictures despite them saying they were recent. I was polite and saw the social through to the end. "

Salute.... took one for the team there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No meet stories from me because I've never had one.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

Yes.. very shortly after meeting, i made my excuses and left..

I did feel guilty a day or two later, i guess that the few weeks between first sharing pictures and actually meeting must have been really tough for her and had aged her at least 15 years..

Its gotta be one tough paper round she has..

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

What's a meet ?? lucky to even get a reply

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales "

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I’ve changed my meeting style and so far (touch wood) I haven’t walked out lately."

So why don't we meet and once you have touched wood, hopefully you won't walk out.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I’ve never walked out on a social - but had plenty that haven’t resulted in a meet for sex! Sometimes they don’t match their pictures - but often it’s simply that the chemistry isn’t quite there on my part!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all "

Jesus! Seriously? If you reported her, surely someone would get thrown off the site for something like that?

Those poor kids!

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By *hilandHollyCouple
over a year ago

Newark

Not walked out but it gets me when people turn 5 stone heavier than the pics!!!! Wtf

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!


"Not walked out but it gets me when people turn 5 stone heavier than the pics!!!! Wtf "

I told you, I'm just big boned

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all

Jesus! Seriously? If you reported her, surely someone would get thrown off the site for something like that?

Those poor kids! "

Yes, seriously(unfortunately)

I didn't think to report her tbh I just assumed they'd say it was made up as it's just my word and anyone could make things up if they fell out with someone I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not walked out but I have made excuses and left. I've also asked someone to leave.

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all "

wow. How does that even enter her head as being okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we left early as the guy in the couple we met was a proper bell end! Talk about him being rude is an understatement.

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside

We've walked away from a meet when the guy was so pissed he was spilling his drink down his shirt.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I walked out on a meet almost as soon as I was settling in, in their Lounge, when the couple said "play would commence" once I paid £100 so they could tax their car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ended on the spot but was very awkward as no attraction for me as he didn't look like his pic, the 2 guys wanted to go ahead tho but for me i just couldn't x

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all "

Horrible just horrible....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Deceit and undue emotional pressure being applied. The person was considerably different and unsuitable. Upon a polite decline of further involvement, he cried and suggested it would be no harm to continue.

He forgot to include any regard for my physical comfort, nausea, wellbeing and self-respect in his assessment.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all "

I'd a similar experience, though luckily, I discovered the truth at the social meet first.

The lady wished to include her daughter in the meet scenario, but as she described it, "it's time she had some Sex Education, but in the safety with her Mum present!"

The daughter was 14 yrs old, but she was out in the car waiting.

I stopped that meet very quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

Was a social meet.

They guy asked me to meet several times before I agreed.

In pub trying to have a conversation going while literly every 5 mins his phone would go..was his work..1st time fine 2nd time ok..3rd time I was mid convo he put his fingers up and shushed me! Lol

Finally got off the phone I stood up and said ok..this isn't working and he had the cheek to ask when we could meet again!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I’ve changed my meeting style and so far (touch wood) I haven’t walked out lately.

So why don't we meet and once you have touched wood, hopefully you won't walk out. "

I wasn't aware people want to touch me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"So curiously... has anyone ever met up with somebody and for whatever reason, be it catfish, rudeness and/or hygiene etc not gone through with and ended the meet on the spot? . Extra points for humorous tales

Woman brought her kids to a meet in a hotel with attached restaurant and ball park/playroom.

She Wanted to leave them in the play area alone while we went to my room, I said no and she started to get stroppy.

Then she wanted to bring them to the room (in her words they'll watch the tv or play) while he have some fun.

I said no and she went bat shit crazy in the restaurant calling me a fake, liar and words I'd not heard before.

Quite an interesting evening all in all

I'd a similar experience, though luckily, I discovered the truth at the social meet first.

The lady wished to include her daughter in the meet scenario, but as she described it, "it's time she had some Sex Education, but in the safety with her Mum present!"

The daughter was 14 yrs old, but she was out in the car waiting.

I stopped that meet very quickly"

Jesus, I hope you contacted police or social services.

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By *rchid0103Woman
over a year ago

Southport

I always meet socially first and I’m glad I do , I find men tend to shrink on the way must be the rain ? I’m not that tall but when they say they are 5ft 7/8 or above and are smaller than me it makes me think what else they are lying about. One social I only recognised him by the car he was driving as I asked what to look for , turns out he was using his sons pictures , when I asked did he actually thought I’d fall for that ? His reply was “ well I’ve got a big cock “

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

They always shrink... its funny isnt it?

My last social went tits up because I asked for said social, turned up to the pub with the rottweiler... mentioned on the profile... he was waaay short and freaked out at the dog.

Sorry mate... you apparently read the profile... not my bad

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By *aureanShadow OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"They always shrink... its funny isnt it?

My last social went tits up because I asked for said social, turned up to the pub with the rottweiler... mentioned on the profile... he was waaay short and freaked out at the dog.

Sorry mate... you apparently read the profile... not my bad "
haha I’d drop a log if there was a Rottweiler at a social

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I always meet socially first and I’m glad I do , I find men tend to shrink on the way must be the rain ? I’m not that tall but when they say they are 5ft 7/8 or above and are smaller than me it makes me think what else they are lying about. One social I only recognised him by the car he was driving as I asked what to look for , turns out he was using his sons pictures , when I asked did he actually thought I’d fall for that ? His reply was “ well I’ve got a big cock “ "

Maybe they mean 5ft and 7/8ths of an inch

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