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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If a guy message you and you don’t really like him but his message sounds interested would you meet him the same day

Everyone to their own opinion

One love one world one fab let’s have some fun

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No. Why would I meet someone I'm not interested in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Why would I meet someone I'm not interested in?"

Not saying your not interested you might not like his photo or is profile but is message attract you

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Your not attracted to his looks but his message grabs your imagination? I wouldn't meet him the same day. But I may continue the conversation.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"No. Why would I meet someone I'm not interested in?

Not saying your not interested you might not like his photo or is profile but is message attract you "

Oh, in that case maybe for a social but looks and attraction do play a part in wether i want to have sex with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

If I’m not interested I’m not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, most definitely not

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd continue the conversation, although it doesn't sound promising.

I don't meet people on the same day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a guy message you and you don’t really like him but his message sounds interested would you meet him the same day

Everyone to their own opinion

One love one world one fab let’s have some fun "

I don't swing that way, baby. If he had a spare ticket to the cup final I might take him up on the offer though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not attracted to his looks but his message grabs your imagination? I wouldn't meet him the same day. But I may continue the conversation."

That make sense guess you would want to feel comfortable meeting him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. Why would I meet someone I'm not interested in?

Not saying your not interested you might not like his photo or is profile but is message attract you

Oh, in that case maybe for a social but looks and attraction do play a part in wether i want to have sex with someone."

That’s so true because sex without a connection isn’t sex I don’t even know what to call that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.

If I’m not interested I’m not interested."

Guess that’s one way of putting it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Your not attracted to his looks but his message grabs your imagination? I wouldn't meet him the same day. But I may continue the conversation.

That make sense guess you would want to feel comfortable meeting him "

I'm not saying I'd meet him but I may enjoy getting to explore his mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt meet anyone same day and never if i didnt really like him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd continue the conversation, although it doesn't sound promising.

I don't meet people on the same day. "

Am not saying your going to meet for sex maybe in a public place to have a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt meet anyone same day and never if i didnt really like him"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't like him I'd not meet him at all. Let alone on the same day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point. "

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No"

If I didn’t find him attractive I wouldn’t bother replying probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site "

No, it’s because I don’t find him attractive. Nothing to do with the amount of messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your not attracted to his looks but his message grabs your imagination? I wouldn't meet him the same day. But I may continue the conversation.

That make sense guess you would want to feel comfortable meeting him

I'm not saying I'd meet him but I may enjoy getting to explore his mind. "

Nothing wrong with having a good conversation some it’s even better over a drink

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd continue the conversation, although it doesn't sound promising.

I don't meet people on the same day.

Am not saying your going to meet for sex maybe in a public place to have a drink "

I don't meet people on the same day. I didn't say fuck. I said meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site

No, it’s because I don’t find him attractive. Nothing to do with the amount of messages "

Am just because you don’t find him attractive you not going to look at is message because you have Option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like him or not - i wouldn't meet on the same day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No

If I didn’t find him attractive I wouldn’t bother replying probably "

Guess you won’t even read his message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site

No, it’s because I don’t find him attractive. Nothing to do with the amount of messages

Am just because you don’t find him attractive you not going to look at is message because you have Option"

I’d read his message. I wouldn’t reply. And yes, it’s because I don’t find him attractive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd continue the conversation, although it doesn't sound promising.

I don't meet people on the same day.

Am not saying your going to meet for sex maybe in a public place to have a drink

I don't meet people on the same day. I didn't say fuck. I said meet. "

That’s understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I wouldn't meet someone I'm not attracted to.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I can become attracted to someone because of their words, which is why I might have a conversation. But I have both a life and a process I follow. If I don't become attracted, the conversation will end. If I meet, it'll be a no touching no funny business social only at least a week from the first message. If I have it in mind that I might meet and someone pressures me, I block them.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site "

I don't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can become attracted to someone because of their words, which is why I might have a conversation. But I have both a life and a process I follow. If I don't become attracted, the conversation will end. If I meet, it'll be a no touching no funny business social only at least a week from the first message. If I have it in mind that I might meet and someone pressures me, I block them. "

I like that your straightforward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site

I don't "

Really do you get more

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"His message wouldn't attract me no matter how well it was written, if it's not accompanied by pics I find appealing then I won't engage with him as there's no point.

Guess your right about that because lady’s get like 50 messages a day on this site

I don't

Really do you get more "

Nope

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Wow one message must be one hell of a fucking message and the Same day fuck you are good ...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not the same day no. If his message was interesting we would meet him on the understanding that it would be purely socially. It's good to make friends but I'm not going to get sexual with someone I don't find attractive.

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