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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Stuff and you never see it again ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thieving bastards

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Because they're either absent minded or inconsiderate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too lazy/selfish to give it back !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thieving bastards "

It’s true...I’ve spent time looking for things, then realised I’ve lent it to someone 7 years ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they're either absent minded or inconsiderate."

There’s that too I guess....evening Chillout.

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By *ornyhornytwoCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

It's not borrowing is it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Too lazy/selfish to give it back !"

Sometimes I think they secretly wanted it in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in such cases both things go together.

The lack of independence causes the need to borrow, and the need for dependance causes the need to keep the item.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorant if I ever borrow anything it goes back soon as I’ve done the job. Borrowing and not returning is Theft really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not borrowing is it. "

It starts off as borrowing, what is it after a long period of time...theirs I suppose.

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By *MBER KENTCouple
over a year ago

folkestone


"Ignorant if I ever borrow anything it goes back soon as I’ve done the job. Borrowing and not returning is Theft really "

Borrowing is not theft as someone give it to you .. just saying

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thieving bastards

It’s true...I’ve spent time looking for things, then realised I’ve lent it to someone 7 years ago "
you must have a good memory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a thing that really aggravates me I would never ask someone for something and not give it back.. Because it would be on my mind all the time.

But in my experience nobody as the decency to give something back. So I never lend anyone anything now.

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By *illing2016Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"It's not borrowing is it.

It starts off as borrowing, what is it after a long period of time...theirs I suppose."

Yes but at what point in time, does the person come to presume that the item is now theirs - 3 months, 6 months, 12 months etc

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Someone borrowed my name at Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they always want what you have

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Lmao...im like the fella in the ad..I write my name on it and take pic of my with it handing it over...then after a week ..I ask for it back...lol....sorted..no stress..

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Ignorant if I ever borrow anything it goes back soon as I’ve done the job. Borrowing and not returning is Theft really

Borrowing is not theft as someone give it to you .. just saying "

More moral theft. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son does this, borrows and doesn't give it back. He's had my pressure washer for over a year now. He wants to borrow my leaf blower but I,'ve told him it's broken. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Cheeky, dya need your strimmer back

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Never a lender or a borrower be.

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By *sh6866Man
over a year ago

halifax

Once heard the saying ' if you lend someone a tenner and never see them again....it was probably worth it'

I dont lend stuff i want back...

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Once heard the saying ' if you lend someone a tenner and never see them again....it was probably worth it'

I dont lend stuff i want back..."

Yep wise words, dont lend anything you can't afford to lose.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

What's even worse is when you ask someone if you can borrow something from them and you realise it was yours to begin with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lent my cousin money a few times and he allways said he would give it back (but he never did) so one night I was in town and I needed cash for the taxi and I asked him for a tenner which he gave me.. The next morning he had the cheek to knock on my door and demand it back lol.

So I thought to myself, you have never given me any money back and I refused to give it back to him.. That was years ago and we still don't talk lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignorant if I ever borrow anything it goes back soon as I’ve done the job. Borrowing and not returning is Theft really

Borrowing is not theft as someone give it to you .. just saying

More moral theft. . "

She didn't 'give' it, she loaned it to them. If she gave it, it would have been a gift.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont lend stuff out anymore, or loan money. It will more often than not come back damage or you will never see it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ignorant if I ever borrow anything it goes back soon as I’ve done the job. Borrowing and not returning is Theft really

Borrowing is not theft as someone give it to you .. just saying "

You didn’t give it to them you lent it big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because you've both forgotten about it, both to blame in that situation. Nothing malicious about it, ive had it happen both ways.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I never "lend" books that I treasure because we all know that lending equals giving where books are concerned.

I lent a bracelet to a colleague to wear to a wedding and it was some months before she gave it back. I couldn't understand why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know that feeling someone once took a loan of my pvc maids dress and then had the nerve to move house.

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By *en-xxxMan
over a year ago

coventry

Them days are long gone for me. Anyone wants to borrow anything they get told to fuckoff. Especially when it comes to my tools

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Them days are long gone for me. Anyone wants to borrow anything they get told to fuckoff. Especially when it comes to my tools "

Can I borrow your tool?

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