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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could afford to be spontaneous

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By *illing2016Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

In general I tend to plan things, except when it comes what I am going to eat that day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan?? "

a nice finish to your BH weekend! VIP too! Hope you have a fantastic time and enjoy your evening Snow

D.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Have fun!

Sometimes I can be. Other times I plan, plan, plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be spontaneous with a friend. Otherwise I plan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like spontaneous trips to the pub with friends, anything else I like to plan. Enjoy OP

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think it depends what it is - if we're talking meets from here then circumstances mean they have to be planned in advance, if we're talking doing something last minute with family then four hour trips all over the country have been known to happen with no planning at all in the past.

Enjoy the game - can you have a word with Aguero and Pereira and ask them to ensure they both get me plenty of Fantasy League points tonight?!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Have a great time OP.

I prefer to plan.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve got to plan, but would love to be more spontaneous.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!


"Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan?? "

Lucky you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually very organised and try to plan ahead but at the same time I love spontaneous ideas and always enjoyed whatever happened afterwards.. So bit if both really.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most of a plan is best because I have to be prepared for most and ever inevitability. But in saying that being spontaneous is exciting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both preferably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just give me a little time to think of a reply

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I have to plan, but would love to be spontaneous more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to plan, but would love to be spontaneous more "

So what you doing July 23rd 2021

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"I have to plan, but would love to be spontaneous more

So what you doing July 23rd 2021"

Lol well that’s normally second week of school holidays so the lad will be away so I would be free

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Come on Leicester (fox emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be either.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Always spontaneous for us

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I prefer to plan but can be spontaneous.

Hubby prefers not to plan and just go with the flow.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I generally plan, having something to look forward to is a positive thing. Sometimes though, the best experiences are those which just spring up out of nowhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abit of both... a night out spontaneous wins everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I can be spontaneous unless I have something else planned. I’m more likely to stick with my plan especially if it involves others. I’ve turned down a few opportunities because of commitments to others.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I once dated a girl who died because of spontaneous human combustion...

She was pretty hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once dated a girl who died because of spontaneous human combustion...

She was pretty hot"

Badoom tsh!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I can be but tend to save it for the weekends when I know I have the time.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I love making plans it’s exciting. But the opportunity for spontaneity can be equally if not more thrilling if it’s the right opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan?? "

Assuming you're a Man City fan, that worked out ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spontaneity is great if you don't have to sort kids out...or change work etc!!.... So for us most things have to be well planned!! Shame really....there should be more spontaneity in this world!!

PT x

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I love spontaneity, but now I've got a kid and cats my spontaneity takes a bit more planning

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Was in 2 minds weather to work in scotland just bookd the tickets and went 2 days later.

Now im back up there working again as promised I would return for them.

Had many a spontaneous journey and think nothing of it, Even my children have caught it from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either or but something spontaneous or spur of the moment 90% of the time is much more erotic and satisfying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fail to plan

Plan to fail

When it comes to play meets however, spontaneity is key x

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I think a bit of both is nice... Spontaneous is exciting but you cant beat planning something either... Whether its a meet or a holiday!!

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan??

Assuming you're a Man City fan, that worked out ok!"

We were neither, just lucky to be offered the tickets, so took them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep spontaneous here! Decided to give our jobs up and move 50 miles all with in a month from deciding we wanted to work together and getting a job, moved our whole life at the drop of a hat, best thing we’ve both ever done!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got offered last minute vip tickets to see Man City play so I booked a hotel, packed a bag and here we are... .all within two hours...

Are you spontaneous... Or do you prefer to plan?? "

I am a little of both, being a switch runs through me like a stick of rock

LJ

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"Yep spontaneous here! Decided to give our jobs up and move 50 miles all with in a month from deciding we wanted to work together and getting a job, moved our whole life at the drop of a hat, best thing we’ve both ever done!! "

Sometimes those decisions are the best ones... Well done you for doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, I prefer to plan but have also been known to just go for it.

That said I turned down that date with Sandra Bullock. I mean, who calls two days before and expects you to drop everything

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Often times the spontaneous and unexpected works out far better than something planned in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get all flustered when spontaneous & feel like everything is a rush.

I much prefer to plan!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Have a great time at the footie.

I have been known to be spontaneous but also like to plan. Got to go with the flow when opportunity presents ts itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personality is spontaneous but these days I’m not free to drop everything and just go out.

It’s nice to have things to look forward too, equally though some of my best nights out have been last minute ones.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm a planner.

Working several jobs, my kids, taking son to therapy & physio sessions.

I have to be organised.

My boys go to their grandad alternate weekends.

I've got stuff planned for those weekends apart from 3, for the rest of the year.

But occasionaly I get some surprise freetime, and I love to just go do something random, spontaneous, spur of the moment. It's just rare I get the chance

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By *nowwhitexxx1 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hull


"I'm a planner.

Working several jobs, my kids, taking son to therapy & physio sessions.

I have to be organised.

My boys go to their grandad alternate weekends.

I've got stuff planned for those weekends apart from 3, for the rest of the year.

But occasionaly I get some surprise freetime, and I love to just go do something random, spontaneous, spur of the moment. It's just rare I get the chance "

I think in those circumstances I would totally agree, but like you say when the free time pops up its nice to have that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it's not about preferring to plan. My circumstances mean that i can only plan. Though if i had the ability to do so, i love being spontaneous

Holly

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