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By *lucard5 OP   Man
over a year ago

kerry capital

Is it ok

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl

Safe as in?

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I wouldn't risk it

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I wouldn't risk it"

You have though?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Only if you have nothing to lose by being recognised. This is a free to join site which is often in the press. Many people post face pictures with no consequences at all though. You must do what you feel most comfortable doing.

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By *illing2016Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Have a face pic that you can send privately to someone.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though? "

Thanks for the heads up

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up"

Alright sarky arse

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse "

I tried Irony first

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse

I tried Irony first "

Obviously that bombed to....

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Is it ok"

Depends on why the think it's not safe OP......

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse

I tried Irony first

Obviously that bombed to...."

My target audience appreciated it

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By *uzukiNo1Woman
over a year ago

Rhyl


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse

I tried Irony first

Obviously that bombed to....

My target audience appreciated it "

Looking in the mirror were you ..

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By *ink Panther 123Man
over a year ago

Colnbrook


"I wouldn't risk it"

No me neither

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse

I tried Irony first

Obviously that bombed to....

My target audience appreciated it

Looking in the mirror were you .."

Yes!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I wouldn't risk it

No me neither "

You have though?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Is it ok"

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision!

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

the golden rule is never post anything you might regret your family seeing

in other words keep your identity private .

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I wouldn't risk it"

Lmao!!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up"

Yeah, but it's your twin Brother's face isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't risk it"

howling

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I wouldn't risk it

howling "

You're easily amused, wanna see my shadow puppet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its incredibly stupid.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up"

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"I think its incredibly stupid."

If it that bad you should not be here on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision! "

There are some nasty people about ffs!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"There are some nasty people about ffs!"

There certainly are, but not just on here. In all walks of life, you will come across them, it's just a matter of filtering out the rough from the smooth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its incredibly stupid.

If it that bad you should not be here on the site. "

Scruples,,,discretion is the better part of valour.I don't want my face plastered all over a sex site.I'm not alone in this opinion.

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Depends

From my pics stella looks nothing like me as normal

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision!

There are some nasty people about ffs!"

There are! In a way that person did me a favour though! Now I know I won’t get fired for it - and as I said my ‘key’ family know - there’s little any vindictive person can do to fuck with my life! That’s quite liberating!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision!

There are some nasty people about ffs!

There are! In a way that person did me a favour though! Now I know I won’t get fired for it - and as I said my ‘key’ family know - there’s little any vindictive person can do to fuck with my life! That’s quite liberating! "

So long as your brother doesn't ask what site you're on eh still laughing about that

I've had my ugly mug on here for years, never had an issue but don't have anything to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision!

There are some nasty people about ffs!

There are! In a way that person did me a favour though! Now I know I won’t get fired for it - and as I said my ‘key’ family know - there’s little any vindictive person can do to fuck with my life! That’s quite liberating! "

I remember when you had issues a few years ago. I think your family and kids were initially totally against you. How did you turn it around? Sounds like they support you now.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have to be careful work wise but every now and again I feel rebellious and show my face.. I've just hidden the pic again but I was quite dark and no one said they recognised me.. I think you have to do what is right for you OP.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision! "

What do people get from this?

We have face pics in private,wouldn't be comfortable having them public ,but it's entirely your choice OP.

Some people are not v discreet as you can see from Peachys post.

Miss

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"Is it ok

It depends entirely on the individual!

Last Thursday I was called into the office at work! A customer had anonymously sent information to my works - clearly in the hope I’d get fired! The customer didn’t mention which specific website I was on - but gave them the general idea!

It was embarrassing - but work confirmed that - as long as I don’t mention the company I work for or post pics in work attire - which I’d obviously never do - then what I do/post outside company time is nothing to do with them!

As my children and Neice already know I swing - tbh there’s very little anyone can do to hurt me by ‘outing’ me now!

Not everyone is in the same position as me though - which is why it has to be an individual decision!

What do people get from this?

We have face pics in private,wouldn't be comfortable having them public ,but it's entirely your choice OP.

Some people are not v discreet as you can see from Peachys post.

Miss"

I think showing a face pic on here is a very personal choice as it can, of course, have real world ramifications!

I’ve found that the longer I swing, the less ashamed/embarrassed I am about it! If I had a big, important job it would be different - my face would be off public view immediately as I wouldn’t want to risk losing that job - though if I knew the company policy wasn’t to fire swingers I’d be fine to leave it there!

I guess I’m comfortable with it because, if pulled up about it - I can (and have needed to with family etc) explain what my perception of swinging is and how it affects my life for the better- Ie general happiness, loads of friends on here and a great social life I wouldn’t otherwise have!

Having a very public face on here (with hotpics etc) means I get recognised/approached in clubs all over the country - which is great as I love meeting new people and I’ve made good friends by being ‘Peachy spotted!’

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By *icetouch83Man
over a year ago

swansea

I've always got a face pick up and plenty on my profile I don't see the point in hiding it. What you see is what you get if people don't like it jog on

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I never post face pics. Well not often. Perhaps once in a while. Ps. It is my natural hair colour, just grows like that...

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Our faces have been 'public' from not long after we joined. In all that time we've had two polite messages asking if it was us (it was) that they'd seen out and no one has ever approached us in person. It's your profile op so do whatever you feel is best for yourself.

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By *lloverkisserMan
over a year ago

preston

Sadly I have a face for radio ????

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though? "

its not him its his uncle!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't risk it

You have though?

Thanks for the heads up

Alright sarky arse

I tried Irony first "

I got your irony, will raise you deadpan wit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How safe is it to post a face picture anywhere?

People can steal face photos & post them anywhere they please.

It’s up to you to make the decision on whether you want to take the “risk” or not.

I have public face photos & have them as my profile picture sometimes too. I’m not ashamed to be here, and the most important people in my life wouldn’t be surprised to know I’m on a site like this, since I used to work in the webcam industry! I’m also self employed so no boss to run to, when someone wants to tell!

For some, they don’t have it as easy as me.

Some are cheating, some have jobs where it could jeopardise their position if it came to light, others have family who aren’t as open minded, some people simply don’t want their face on a swinging site.

And that’s fine!

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