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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..

If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

No. NSA implies no relationship so therefore it's not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im shit at poker but i got fast hands

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By *ydnNancyCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Depends

If you’re not lying about it and have been open that it’s non exclusive then it shouldn’t matter

Cheating is about deceit so that’s how I’d look at it

Nancy

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..

If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"

Isn’t that the point of nsa! There is no commitment.... if you disclose to either or other surely you just create the very thing most of us try to avoid - Jealousy! ....

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No, they would be having sex with other people too. It's a friend with benefits, not commitments.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..

If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"

Absolutely not, if you or they think it is it's not a nsa fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. We aren't in a relationship and haven't made a commitment, so I'm not cheating on anyone.

Both my long term partners know I see other men though.

If a man asks for exclusivity I tell him I only do that in a committed relationship.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

It's not cheating. It's why it's nsa.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

In my single days I was usually seeing 2 or 3 guys at a time. There was no relationship, so no cheating.

Katie.

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair"

Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?

Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty?

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair

Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?

Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty?"

I just want it clear up front. And, surprisingly for a swingers site, a lot of guys don’t like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..

If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"

No strings attached means not needing to inform someone of anything you don't care to share, to me. If i was meeting someone NSA, i would in fact assume they were meeting someone else as i had no right to expect monogamy. Thats why it's NSA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone knows what cheating is. It's not ambiguous as a concept.

It's been happening since the year dot, and the most non assuming of people have done it.

However! I never understand the people who create threads about it shouting out loud their positions and woes, then feel hard done by.

Very few people are actively hounded on this site if they are cheating; but just going quietly about ones business is surely the wiser option?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t class it as cheating, however I make it clear to any guy I meet that I will be meeting other guys. It’s only fair

Why do you feel the need to if it's nsa?

Do you ever get any bad reactions to your honesty?

I just want it clear up front. And, surprisingly for a swingers site, a lot of guys don’t like that

"

That's what I thought is probably the reality of such situations, despite all the nsa blah.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.

It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.

It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away."

Once again, the reality..

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"No. NSA implies no relationship so therefore it's not cheating. "

This. Stating it’s NSA means you’ve no strings - the key is whether it’s been clearly stated and understood between you and the other person and dynamically revisited if it feels it’s changing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Another thread make me think. Doesn't happen too often..

If you have two or more nsa friends with benefits, but you don't tell each about the others, are you cheating?"

NSA no strings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes you are because you're not being totally honest are you. If you have to lie or hide it then you have to ask yourself why.

It's just an open and honest conversation to have with someone. Give another the option to be part of it or not. I'd be very pissed off because it's not what I seek from someone and I'd just walk away."

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