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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the lady’s on this site get a lot of messages

My point is if they reply to your message it’s obvious they want to see if their is a connection because they see something they like

If they don’t it can be 2 things they don’t like your message or your profile don’t attract them

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Yes.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Or it could get lost in deluge of messages that can be received.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Correct-a-mundo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank You for clearing that up

I now feel the world is a much brighter place

I can get on with life with a skip and a spring in my step

Have yourself a lovely Sunday x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Something like that, usually.

I delete the vast majority of messages that don't meet my specifications (the vast majority of my messages). Attraction etc irrelevant.

If I reply, I want to talk and see if it goes further, because I like the message and otherwise what I see. It's not exactly rocket science.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Just checked

My current reply success ratio (from 'first time / intro' messages sent) sits at 95.6%

Not bad I guess...

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Deluge is jamaican for nuff. I do like an accent.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Or vice versa lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That could be the case but most lady’s tell me the follow up message they get is so disrespectful

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Tell you, your disrespectful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yea 100%

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

That's about your approach then surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok

Some will say they get hundreds of mails

Some may

Truth is , for me , I’ve no current photos on my profile and it’s not stating I want to fuck huge cocks so I get probably 20 a day

I put a photo on of my tits etc I’ll get double etc

Horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not me

Lady’s tell me if they get message and and don’t reply the next message is disrespectful

Am not really on here very often because of time so don’t message a lot of people just come on the form for a chat and laugh

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

This thread is very strange

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This thread is very strange "

Think your getting confuse because am not replying directly to her questions

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Not me

Lady’s tell me if they get message and and don’t reply the next message is disrespectful

Am not really on here very often because of time so don’t message a lot of people just come on the form for a chat and laugh "

Oh got you. Best thing to do, come chat have the crack and see where it's at.

And yes, women can get disrespectful messages. I just don't read them so I dont come across it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not me

Lady’s tell me if they get message and and don’t reply the next message is disrespectful

Am not really on here very often because of time so don’t message a lot of people just come on the form for a chat and laugh

Oh got you. Best thing to do, come chat have the crack and see where it's at.

And yes, women can get disrespectful messages. I just don't read them so I dont come across it."

That’s exactly what I do come on here while having a joint and try to build a conversation some it turn out fun sometimes it turn out interesting

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Not me

Lady’s tell me if they get message and and don’t reply the next message is disrespectful

Am not really on here very often because of time so don’t message a lot of people just come on the form for a chat and laugh

Oh got you. Best thing to do, come chat have the crack and see where it's at.

And yes, women can get disrespectful messages. I just don't read them so I dont come across it.

That’s exactly what I do come on here while having a joint and try to build a conversation some it turn out fun sometimes it turn out interesting "

Shhhh don't mention the J word. Anyway good luck happy fabbing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the lady’s on this site get a lot of messages

My point is if they reply to your message it’s obvious they want to see if their is a connection because they see something they like

If they don’t it can be 2 things they don’t like your message or your profile don’t attract them

"

I will sometimes reply to a message because it is a nice and well thought out message. I have no interest in meeting that person. I just belive a message like that sometimes deserves a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it think there's not point mailing a women if I like her. Women get so many messages per day they will often get deleted on mass. I'd rather just stay on the forums and see where it takes me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think the lady’s on this site get a lot of messages

My point is if they reply to your message it’s obvious they want to see if their is a connection because they see something they like

If they don’t it can be 2 things they don’t like your message or your profile don’t attract them

I will sometimes reply to a message because it is a nice and well thought out message. I have no interest in meeting that person. I just belive a message like that sometimes deserves a reply "

Well that’s very thoughtful of you I respect that still

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Just checked

My current reply success ratio (from 'first time / intro' messages sent) sits at 95.6%

Not bad I guess..."

Probably because you don’t just say hi

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