FabSwingers.com forum: spanking on interest list

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

on peoples profiles it often has spanking on their interest list but not many seem to be keen when it comes indulging ,is its just on to look good on the profiles or do you fabbers enjoy it?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

How does it look good on profiles? Not sure what you mean. I think some people do just tick everything whether they're particularly into it or not.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

It may be that they are selective about who does their spanking, and you do not meet their criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don’t want random folk spanking them?

I took away all my interests (except safe sex) because men assumed that because I had an interest there, I wanted to do it with any fucker that messaged me. No. I will do it with someone I meet and trust, if I feel like it.

Interests are just that; interests.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some people tick what they would like to try, not just what they already enjoy

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

The interest list isn't a shopping list where everything is on offer to everyone. Just because someone says they enjoy a particular act doesn't mean that they want to do it with you.

There are things I really enjoy but not with just any old random person, there has to be a certain level of connection and trust there.

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By *rbean69Man
over a year ago

Stroud

"on peoples profiles it often has spanking on their interest list but not many seem to be keen when it comes indulging ,is its just on to look good on the profiles or do you fabbers enjoy it?"

I suspect this is more of a male interest. I haven't tried it yet, but it appeals to me (as long as I do the spanking). I have never found a woman who is interested in being spanked.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It may be that they are selective about who does their spanking, and you do not meet their criteria."

This.

Spanking is on mine, but "mmm I'd love to spank you, you naughty girl" or similar from a relative stranger will have me running for the hills.

Interests are things I might do with someone. Not things I'll do with you.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

" I have never found a woman who is interested in being spanked. "

You should stand in a club dungeon and you will see lots !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Guys seem to see interest lists like a shopping list. I used to have phone sex on mine, because with the right person (someone I know) at the right time, that can be hot.

Taking it off has significantly reduced the number of messages demanding I talk dirty so they can wank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking ?

Not for me - it reminds me of school in the 40s

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’m dating on POF, every woman that I’ve met and dated has either enjoyed or expressed interest in spanking. There’s a huge amount of intimate trust involved. Been a lot of fun.

Mind you, my safeword ‘harder’ probably needs changing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Spanking ?

Not for me - it reminds me of school in the 40s

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stop it you wasnt in school in the 40s , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spanking ?

Not for me - it reminds me of school in the 40s

stop it you wasnt in school in the 40s , lol"

No , I wasn’t

However , spanking in my humble opinion , is just strange for adults to partake in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a thrashing and we had it listed as an interest however I am only interested in Fuzz reddening my arse! On the rare occasion if I'm completely comfortable would we allow a stranger to join in! When we redo our profile it won't be listed as an interest but written in the biog so people are aware that I don't bend over for anyone!

Peach x

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I love a thrashing and we had it listed as an interest however I am only interested in Fuzz reddening my arse! On the rare occasion if I'm completely comfortable would we allow a stranger to join in! When we redo our profile it won't be listed as an interest but written in the biog so people are aware that I don't bend over for anyone!

Peach x"

Awwwww

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I also love guys who tell me that my profile is wrong. Yes, Mr Stranger, you know my mind better than me. (it's only been men so far)

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are things listed on my profile interests that I wouldn't dream of doing with someone I didn't know and trust OP.

Add to that that some of them may not actually be something I want to do *to* people but something I enjoy having done to me, and it makes the list exactly what it says: "Interests" - not must haves, but something to discuss and potentially agree to do if it feels right with the person concerned.

I'm sure you have similar things on your list, or things which may be subjective as to their meaning and are not automatically a tick list for you

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