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"Of other womens judgemental attitudes. Prove me wrong " No. You prove yourself right. | |||
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"Just tell em to get there rat out " I dont feel the need to prove myself to anyone. Self love comes from acceptance of what we can't change and working on those we are unhappy with and screw negativity form anybody else. | |||
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"My body issues are to do with myself and how I look at myself. Not other women" I think that's probably the case for most of us | |||
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"Of other womens judgemental attitudes. Prove me wrong No. You prove yourself right." | |||
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"Just tell em to get there rat out I dont feel the need to prove myself to anyone. Self love comes from acceptance of what we can't change and working on those we are unhappy with and screw negativity form anybody else." Yes absolutely... Acceptance That's the key (Nice photos too) | |||
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"Just tell em to get there rat out I dont feel the need to prove myself to anyone. Self love comes from acceptance of what we can't change and working on those we are unhappy with and screw negativity form anybody else.i knoooooow im being silly for once iv been serious all day " Apologies I didn't realise I'd tagged you in x | |||
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"Just tell em to get there rat out I dont feel the need to prove myself to anyone. Self love comes from acceptance of what we can't change and working on those we are unhappy with and screw negativity form anybody else.i knoooooow im being silly for once iv been serious all day Apologies I didn't realise I'd tagged you in x" no need to apologise im far too giddy | |||
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"Nah.. I'm in competition with nobody but myself. Far from perfect but happy with my lot. " i compete with everyone it was drilled into me since i was 6 | |||
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"Nah.. I'm in competition with nobody but myself. Far from perfect but happy with my lot. i compete with everyone it was drilled into me since i was 6 " I rebelled.. realised there was no prize but happiness.. and that cannot be achieved by the usual routes. | |||
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"Nah.. I'm in competition with nobody but myself. Far from perfect but happy with my lot. i compete with everyone it was drilled into me since i was 6 " Is it not tiring ? | |||
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"Nah.. I'm in competition with nobody but myself. Far from perfect but happy with my lot. i compete with everyone it was drilled into me since i was 6 Is it not tiring ?" yep but habbit | |||
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"Of other womens judgemental attitudes. Prove me wrong No. You prove yourself right." Its pretty obvious when you look at the fashion, cosmetic surgery and cosmetics industrys. | |||
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"Aot of my body issues don't come from other women but from myself but also how I was made to feel by someone else and not ever been made to feel sexy or wanted... That over time can really fuck with your self esteem and confidence... And is a hard one to overcome... But I am trying too x" I meant say hi and welcome earlier x People can fuck with our heads. And it can take time to rebuild our confidence. But imagine how empowering it will be when you've done it x | |||
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"I dont have body issues. I'm happy in my own skin but that's only come with age. " There is something to that for me too | |||
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"I dont have body issues. I'm happy in my own skin but that's only come with age. " You certainly don’t... you look freakin’ amazing lady! | |||
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"I dont have body issues. I'm happy in my own skin but that's only come with age. " I'd be happy in your skin. Purely in a buffalo bill kind of way | |||
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"My body issues are to do with myself and how I look at myself. Not other women" or whatever issues, by whoever (men or women). | |||
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"I don't suffer from body issues these days, I'm comfortable in my own skin but it took a long time to get there. In my teens and twenties I had terrible body confidence and low esteem - mostly brought on by being on the receiving end of some pretty vile abuse out in public because I've always been overweight. Over the years I had all manner of insults shouted at me, food thrown at me and was spat on several times. The people who did this were complete strangers and they were almost always male! My body issues definitely didn't come from other women." Wow that's a bit heavy. I cant imagine what gives people the right to think that they can do that. Fucking cretins. | |||
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"I don't suffer from body issues these days, I'm comfortable in my own skin but it took a long time to get there. In my teens and twenties I had terrible body confidence and low esteem - mostly brought on by being on the receiving end of some pretty vile abuse out in public because I've always been overweight. Over the years I had all manner of insults shouted at me, food thrown at me and was spat on several times. The people who did this were complete strangers and they were almost always male! My body issues definitely didn't come from other women." Jeez that is horrendous, how can we behave like that? Beggars belief | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like." Not sure I agree. | |||
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"Nah.. I'm in competition with nobody but myself. Far from perfect but happy with my lot. i compete with everyone it was drilled into me since i was 6 Is it not tiring ?yep but habbit" This being in sales as a career keeps it that way for me each and every day | |||
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"The best way for men to connect with women is to use empathy, even when they have absolutely no idea on the subject. Prove me wrong. " Sooo true | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like." This | |||
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"Too many people in the world to worry about body issues as someone will always find someone else attractive or not. Just because the person next to you isn’t in to what you look like the person next to them probably thinks you rock it. I am in to a very specific look with a lady but that doesn’t mean I am not in to someone who looks completely diff body wise. Beauty comes from the face mainly and then travels down the body if people can’t see this move on to the next that does. For me all women as awesome some more than other is where I am with it. " Worrying or being aware of one's body is one thing but having it thrown in your face like some people of had is another which I'd imagine is pretty tough to take on board. It is good to though to appreciate the human form in a positive way. | |||
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"Too many people in the world to worry about body issues as someone will always find someone else attractive or not. Just because the person next to you isn’t in to what you look like the person next to them probably thinks you rock it. I am in to a very specific look with a lady but that doesn’t mean I am not in to someone who looks completely diff body wise. Beauty comes from the face mainly and then travels down the body if people can’t see this move on to the next that does. For me all women as awesome some more than other is where I am with it. Worrying or being aware of one's body is one thing but having it thrown in your face like some people of had is another which I'd imagine is pretty tough to take on board. It is good to though to appreciate the human form in a positive way." Soooo very true, nicely put x | |||
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"Woman & men using the term 'real women' what the fuck is a real woman? Because I am not overweight, not had kids (through choice) a size 6/8 I am deemed not real enough? Fuck right off is my answer to that!" Always thought this! | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like." Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. I think women think we have unrealistic views and expectations but the majority don't. Sure there are exceptions but then again some women have the same false expectations of men and look for 6 pack owning make super model types. I think the beauty industry is to blame by brain washing young women into thinking it's what men want because of the billions they'd lose if women woke up one day and thought you know what I'm happy as I am and men still like me as I am so feck it let's go to the pub rather than another beauty salon. If a woman is naturally a skinny size 8 she shouldn't be slagged off the same as she shouldn't be if she's a curvy 22. People should remember that life's short and if you're mixing with women who are judging you then they're not a good friend and I'd cut them out of your life. | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. " Oh you've gone and done it now | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. Oh you've gone and done it now " Who wrote that? I can't find the post you quoted. | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. Oh you've gone and done it now " Ffs where's my tin helmet | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. I think women think we have unrealistic views and expectations but the majority don't. Sure there are exceptions but then again some women have the same false expectations of men and look for 6 pack owning make super model types. I think the beauty industry is to blame by brain washing young women into thinking it's what men want because of the billions they'd lose if women woke up one day and thought you know what I'm happy as I am and men still like me as I am so feck it let's go to the pub rather than another beauty salon. If a woman is naturally a skinny size 8 she shouldn't be slagged off the same as she shouldn't be if she's a curvy 22. People should remember that life's short and if you're mixing with women who are judging you then they're not a good friend and I'd cut them out of your life. " You have no way of knowing what lots of men prefer. Thet might desire slim women who enhanced their bodies, but can't get them, so they plump for someone else. Look at rich men; how many of them have fat or average wives? How many celebrities ditch their plain wives for younger, slim and attractive women, when they become famous? | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. Oh you've gone and done it now Who wrote that? I can't find the post you quoted. " NSAchick wrote it | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. Oh you've gone and done it now Who wrote that? I can't find the post you quoted. NSAchick wrote it " Too late. I found it. | |||
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"Mostly by men having an unrealistic view on what a real woman looks like. Disagree strongly, a lot of men actually prefer real women with curves, bumps and life's scars rather than skinny Minnie's with false tits and fake orange tans, false eyelashes etc. I think women think we have unrealistic views and expectations but the majority don't. Sure there are exceptions but then again some women have the same false expectations of men and look for 6 pack owning make super model types. I think the beauty industry is to blame by brain washing young women into thinking it's what men want because of the billions they'd lose if women woke up one day and thought you know what I'm happy as I am and men still like me as I am so feck it let's go to the pub rather than another beauty salon. If a woman is naturally a skinny size 8 she shouldn't be slagged off the same as she shouldn't be if she's a curvy 22. People should remember that life's short and if you're mixing with women who are judging you then they're not a good friend and I'd cut them out of your life. You have no way of knowing what lots of men prefer. Thet might desire slim women who enhanced their bodies, but can't get them, so they plump for someone else. Look at rich men; how many of them have fat or average wives? How many celebrities ditch their plain wives for younger, slim and attractive women, when they become famous? " I have no way of knowing what lots of men like ? Errrr apart from the hundreds I work with, play sports with, socialise with. My mate is a millionaire and he's with the girl he met at school, sure he has slim women with enhanced bits come onto him but he's not stupid enough to know the reason why they want him #money. You've asked the question How many celebrities ditch their plain wives for younger, slim and attractive women, when they become famous? To which I'll await your reply, ps I'm expecting at least 100 from you as the minimum or it's insignificant ? Interesting that you're saying younger, slimmer and attractive women as if older, curvier women can't be attractive ? | |||
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"Of other womens judgemental attitudes. Prove me wrong " My body issues where down to me, me not being happy with how I looked & felt. So I changed that. I didn't care then, and I don't care now how others view me, and I certainly don't judge other women in their appearances. Even though one of my jobs is in the health & fitness industry. Everybody has a story. | |||
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